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personally i think he should be given a really big hammer nothing wrong will happen i promise

(i very recently started commissions btw !! since this post has been so successful i thought i'd edit it and do a shameless plug dkjfghsdkfgh)

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These are two Aroaceflux flag designs I came up with. The one on the left is based off of these Aroflux and Aceflux flags below (and is personally my favorite of the two).

And the one on the right is based off of these Aroflux and Aceflux flags below.

The meaning of the left flag's stripes: The purple gradient into the light blue represents fluctuation from Asexual to Allosexual,and fluctuation between/among different Asexual identities. The green gradient into the light blue represents fluctuation from Aromantic to Alloromantic,and fluctuation between/among different Aromantic identities. The light blue represents Allosexual and Alloromantic.

The meaning of the right flag's stripes: It essential has the same meaning as the other flag,just with the 3rd stripe (from the top) representing Allosexual and the 3rd stripe (from the bottom) representing Alloromantic.

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Reblog if it’s ok for your mutuals to tag you in posts they think you’ll like even if you don’t talk often.

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happy pan week y’all!!!!

i hope y’all have a lovely week and spend it celebrating yourselves and each other 💗💛💙

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pan week is a great time to learn about pansexual people’s health and wellbeing, so here are some statistics on the suicidality of pansexual people, from 2017-2022. the findings of these surveys and studies, as well as others, are pretty grim.

for more sources on pansexual statistics: https://pansexualstatistics.carrd.co

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what if every Tumblr user suddenly looses their mouse?

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The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy.

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“Books are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“E-books are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“Audiobooks are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“Video games are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

“Subscriptions to magazines/newspapers are too expensive” -> GET A LIBRARY CARD!!!

For real, get a library card for your local public library and you will have almost unlimited access to all kinds of media for free. Libraries also often have many different kinds of classes you can take, often for free or very cheap. Oh, and don’t forget the computers and internet access you can also use for free.

In conclusion, yet a library card.

SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL PUBLIC LIBRARY!!!

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i've got three (3) hospital appointments this week and while i've got enough saved for the travel i haven't got anything left over for electric or cat food.

i'm having a colonoscopy also so i need to be able to have food that isn't going to cause problems 😖😖😖

KO-FI

PAYPAL

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i find it so comical when people bully me online for my genders and sexualities but then see a photo of me and switch up because they find me attractive

it's also satisfying when i block them afterwards

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This has randomly been on my mind for a while so I’m gonna just say it here, normalize systems not wanting to say who is fronting, normalize systems who all use one name, normalize systems who are almost always blurred/blended and normalize systems who don’t see themselves as distinct individuals. It’s totally okay to be completely independent people and to want to make that known, but that’s become the norm when not every system is comfortable with it.

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i'm gonna stop masking tbh

(as in my mental illnesses btw, i still wear a mask!! covid is still very real and happening)

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As someone with violent and even homicidal ideation, I think the choices people make are far more indicative of their moral character than anything else.

Thoughts mean nothing. Thoughtcrimes don't exist, especially because what we think is out of our control. If you're not running around hurting people or advocating for others hurting people, then you're fine. For the love of fuck stop stigmatizing mental illnesses and and the unsavory symptoms some of them tend to have.

People can't help it whether they have intrusive thoughts or even fantasize about violence. It doesn't mean we're going to do it. I'm not going to apologize for my symptoms nor does someone finding them off-putting give them a license to be ableist/sanist about it.

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You don't need to send that ask.

The temptation is there - hurt them as much as they have hurt you - but why? What good is it actually going to do? It won't change the fact that you were hurt, and it won't change the fact that hurting them won't help you.

Why are you so focused on them? Let them be where they are. You don't need to hurt them; focus on healing yourself instead. Put away the anon hate and move on.

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saying endos dni and then interacting with them goes against your beliefs. you just enjoy being abusive to others. genuinely, seek help.

dude how hard is it to not post in the pro endogenic tags if you dont want endogenic systems to interact. jfc. not an endo btw b4 you get onto me about your dni. hope you don't use pluralkit or simply plural or the term fictive or half the resources in the community btw, they're all pro endo. have the day you deserve.

Well those resources are the only ones that actually work. There’s no actual resources for actual systems because of ableist bullshit so. And we can post in whatever tag that we want as long as it relates to what we are talking about. Endos do it

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But endos do harm people. You are spreading missinformation that is dangerous and damaging. And it's bullshit to claim that "science does not know enough about systems" diagnosed did systems alter changes do show in brainscans for example. You are just trying to twist it because science says endos are not real.

Science does not know enough about systems.

Science knows that osdd and did develop after childhood trauma.

Science does not know if that’s the only reason.

Science doesn’t even know if that truly is the reason for did and osdd.

But ok fine, let’s say science does know it all, the label of endogenic is still a safe place for many systems.

Maybe they don’t know they have trauma (amnesia is a thing).

Maybe they’ve been manipulated into thinking that what they went through wasn’t traumatic.

Maybe they believe (as we used to) that their trauma wasn’t enough to cause a system.

So this is why we will always stand with the endogenics.

Because if we had found that label sooner maybe we would not had had to have the horrific realisation that our entire childhood was neglectful and traumatic, whilst we were still in the situation.

If we had found that label sooner maybe we would still have felt safe in our own home, instead of noticing the truth in every little thing.

If we had found that label sooner, it could have been ours to take comfort in, despite what any science might say now and despite what any science might say in the future.

So therefore i think instead of falsely claiming that endos harm the community when that label is a safe place for many people we should spread the word about endos so that label can be a safe space for many more.

tl;dr Endos do not harm you and are instead the label is a safe space for many systems. the science might say that they don’t exist but science does say that amnesia exist and realising you have trauma can be difficult.

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there's free resources out there that speaks about endogenic systems, stop going to every person you see and starting discourse simply because you choose to be spiteful and ignorant.