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Black Men Aren’t the Problem—We’re Tired of Being the Excuse

Every time I hear someone say, “Black men need to step up,” I feel it in my chest—not because it’s new, but because it’s the same tired line being recycled again and again. It’s always a demand. Never a conversation. Never a question like: “What happened to you?” “How did you make it this far?” “What are you carrying that nobody talks about?” Truth is that a lot of us have stepped up. We’ve…

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Evening Thought

Am I Socially Anxious or Just Bored? I’ve been thinking… Is my social anxiety even real, or do I just get bored easily? I have no issue showing up to events—as long as I have a role. Let me set up chairs, run security, handle the mic, whatever. Give me a purpose and I’m good. But if the invite says, “just come kick it,” the chances of me showing up drop to about zero. When I’m just standing…

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You’re Not the Employee. You’re the Business.

I stopped chasing W2s and started building real power. In this short video, I break down the moment I shifted from being paid as a worker to getting paid as a company. Whether it’s $20K or $200K, the mindset is the same: Write the contract File the paperwork Control your check Watch the video and see how I made the switch. How I Made My Business the Boss – Stop Chasing W2s!

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We Didn’t Come This Far Just to Survive

Why It’s Time to Build Black We’ve endured centuries of systemic oppression—slavery, Jim Crow, redlining, mass incarceration, and the psychological toll of being Black in a country that often profits from our pain. And still, we rise. We’ve survived against all odds, but we didn’t come this far just to keep surviving. Now is the time to build. Not just businesses for profit, but businesses…

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Bad Business Isn’t a Black Problem—It’s a Business Problem

In today’s world, we often hear unfair criticism that bad business or poor customer service is somehow a “Black business” issue. Let’s be clear: bad business is not a Black problem—it’s a business problem. The truth is, poor practices exist across every community—whether white, Black, Asian, Latino, or otherwise. But because we tend to spend most of our time and money within our own communities,…

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How Danielle Jurinsky and Brother Jeff Fard Address Community Issues Together

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Black Legacy, Leadership, and Media Traps

What We Can Learn from LeBron and Stephen A. LeBron James and Stephen A. Smith were caught in a tense sideline exchange. For many, it was good for headlines, a showdown of titans. A “Who’s more Alpha?” moment. But for those of us tuned into the bigger picture of: Economic Empowerment Generational Wealth Building and Emotional Intelligence There was a much deeper conversation worth…

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The Power of Choice

Owning Our Path Forward Sometimes I hesitate to speak on this part of my life—as if it’s not something to be proud of. But the truth is, it is an accomplishment to have made it this far without being scarred by the judicial system. Not because I didn’t have reasons that could’ve led me down that path, but because I made a different choice. Like many of us, I carry the weight of childhood…

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How Eriq Shipp Built Qhaul Junk Removal into a Thriving Business

From Hustling to Hauling Meet the Entrepreneur Turning Trash into Treasure Starting a business takes guts, but growing it into something successful requires vision, determination, and an unshakable work ethic. That’s exactly what Eriq Shipp, owner of Qhaul Junk Removal, has brought to the table. His journey from working construction to becoming his own boss is one that every aspiring…

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My Top 5 Must-Listen Audiobooks for Growth and Hustle

In today’s fast-paced world, knowledge is power, and audiobooks are a great way to absorb valuable insights while on the go. Whether you’re driving, working out, or just relaxing, these books will inspire, educate, and push you to take action. Here are my top five picks for must-listen books on Audible, each packed with wisdom on mindset, financial literacy, and the hustle mentality. 1. Think…

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10 Powerful Money Lessons from Dr. Boyce Watkins

“Money in the Morning” Dr. Boyce Watkins consistently delivers powerful financial insights aimed at empowering individuals, particularly in the Black community, to build wealth and make smarter financial choices. In a recent Money in the Morning segment, he discussed the importance of long-term thinking, wealth-building habits, and avoiding impulsive financial and life decisions. Here are the…

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Breaking the Cycle

How Past Habits That Once Fueled You Can Hinder Your Growth as an Adult In our younger years, we often develop habits—some good, some bad—that seem to serve a purpose in the moment. Many people used recreational drug use, like smoking weed, as a way to tap into creativity, stay motivated, or focus on tasks. At the time, it felt like a tool that helped them think outside the box, stay locked in…

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The Only Security Is in What You Build for Yourself

You can work for somebody, but you need to give yourself options. Because when they decide they don’t need you anymore, the only option they give you is the door. One day, you’re clocking in like normal, thinking everything is good. The next day, they’re handing you a severance package—if you’re lucky—or just walking you out with a weak ‘We appreciate your service.’ Now, you’re standing there,…

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From the Bottom Up

My Journey to Redemption There was a time in my life when I didn’t know who I was. I was 19 years old when I got married, and by 23, I was divorced. I had no real family around—just friends and coworkers who became my support system. I clung to them, and before I knew it, I was mirroring their lives: late nights, partying, weed smoking, and chasing a lifestyle that was never meant for me. One…

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Why Fast Money is a Trap – And How to Escape It

Introduction: The Illusion of Fast Money For many of us, the idea of making “fast money” feels like success. The ability to flip cash quickly, take on a side hustle, or pick up extra work seems like the ultimate financial hack. But here’s the truth. Fast money is a trap that keeps people in survival mode rather than setting them up for real wealth. If you find yourself constantly working for…

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How I Fixed My Credit & Landed a Job in 7 Days

Just because you’re down doesn’t mean you’re out. When life knocked me down, I had two choices: stay there or get back up and make moves. I chose to make moves—and in just one week, I had a job, a car, and better credit. Here’s exactly how I did it. 1. Get Free Credit Counseling The first step was fixing my credit because I knew that good credit opens doors. I found a free credit counselor…

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Small Wins Matter: The Path to Real Wealth

Let’s talk about the grind for a second—not the Instagram-highlight-reel kind of grind, but the “late nights, early mornings, no applause” type of grind. Building anything real takes years. Let me repeat that for the people in the back: YEARS. It doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly doesn’t happen with a “dollar-for-dollar” mentality. You’ve got to build incrementally, stacking small wins…