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Setting Rules for Littles with PDA 📚

(Pathological Demand Avoidance)

Affirmation-style: instead of “Maddie HAS to brush her teeth before bed” try “Maddie is so smart! She always remembers to brush her teeth before bed”

De-center the task: instead of “Danny HAS to finish his homework before watching TV” try “when Danny’s worksheet is done he gets to watch three whole episodes of Bluey!”

Take little bites: instead of “Lou HAS to take out the trash” try “Lou can tie up the trash bag now, and take it to the bin later when they leave for work”

These won’t work for everyone, but they can help break thru the barrier of PDA that makes traditional rules hard for some little ones!

Feel free to add on if there’s something else that helps you!

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I love ❤️ you to the moon 🌙 and stars ⭐️

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Online caregiver who can’t be there with you in person but who does their best to take care of you anyway,

“Make sure you bundle up today kiddo! It’s chilly out there!”

Online caregiver who asks you to send them pictures of your drawings and coloring pages,

“So pretty little one, you did such a good job!”

Online caregiver who sends reassuring messages and check-ins throughout the day,

“Hi baby, did you get all your chores done? I’m so proud of you for trying.”

“Reminder that [cg title] loves you so so much and that you’re worthy of love!”

“Hiya tiny, I know you’ve been having a rough time, can [cg title] help?”

While I am someone who really enjoys in person interaction it’s way more likely that I’ll find another caregiver online than in person so I’ve been daydreaming <3

DNI banner by @/clumsypaws

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Shoutout to autistic folk /(littles /cgs /pets) who

Have selective /situational mutism

Struggle with group works

Eat oddly (ie with a bowl and a spoon no matter the food)

Who stim a lot in public

Who are afraid /unused to stimming in public

Who struggle with sensory input and can't do daily tasks

Who feel like they'll never be loved for who they are

Don't give up it's alright you are not weird you are you and that's enough

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: ・ෆ・┈・┈・ᕱ⑅ᕱ・┈・┈・ෆ・ :

This is a reminder for all the tinies and carers

🌟Take it slow, you are not running out of time. It is alright to be a little late if you need to rest

🌟Drink something and eat a snack : no matter how little you get in that soft body of yours it is important to feed yourself!

🌟It's alright, what you didn't do now, you will try again tomorrow

🌟You are not wrong for being yourself, do what you enjoy, you deserve it darling

🌟Dad and Mom 🌟

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quinny's tips & tricks for sensitive littles !

[cg & no cg inclusive]

for littles with a cg,,,

💧 making your boundaries and needs clear from the start <3 this will help your caregiver understand what you need from them and lets them know that you need extra gentleness !

🐑 finding ways to make vocalizing your feelings less scary (i.e emotion flash cards, drawing sad/happy/scared faces, etc etc)

🫧 find and have your cg read affirmations for people with sensitive hearts (@/hopehealingarts on ig usually has a ton!!)

☁️ ice/cold compress for after tears!!

for littles without a cg,,,

💧 find agere-safe comfort media!! whether it be asmr, a book, a show/movie. anything to help distract your tears away! i personally like vooks on youtube !

🐑 journaling/coloring when you get big feelings can help the emotion feel less big !!

🫧 be patient with yourself <3 it's okay to just cry it out sometimes !

☁️ be gentle with yourself <3 it's totally okay if it takes you longer to do a certain activity or if you need a mental health break !! you are not a burden <3

[dividers by @saradika-graphics]

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hiiii

hiiii !!

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Shoutout to Caregivers that went through unspeakable childhood trauma and heal themselves by taking care of regressors the way they wish they had been taken care of

Ya’ll are loved ❤️

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Regression gear Ideas

(All ideas are intended for regression, not k1nk so please don't s*xualize this)

Non-forced Ideas for regression gear/Items (Agere + Petre) can be used for dreaming too though. (May be added to)

Agere/Agedre:

-Baby bottles/Sippy cups

-Adult diapers/Adult pull-ups

-Onesies/Rompers

-Pacifiers/Teethers

(Please use adult pacifiers or modified baby ones-

regular baby pacifiers are bad for your teeth)

-Rattles/Soft toys

-Soft(Fabric) books/Picture books

-Bath toys

-Building toys/Play food

-Art supplies/Coloring books

-Sensory bins/Interactive books

-Puzzles/Sorting toys

-Toy cars/Trains

-Dolls/Dollhouses

-Blankets/Pillows

-Stuffed animals

Petre/Petdre:

-Fake ears/Fake Tail

-Choker collars/Collars

-Plush toys/Squeaky toys

(Make sure any you buy are non-toxic-

If you’re going to use them)

-Chew toys/Chewelry

-Ball toys/Ropes

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— • Anxious Bunny

What’s wrong, bun? Why are you hiding down there? There is a lot of dust under your bed..come, come, food is almost ready. If you want to get to the park early we’ll have to leave soon..oh? Anxious? Oh, bunny, there is no need to be anxious. Here, sit by me and tell me what’s wrong. No need to be nervous, I’m right here for you my little bunny…Oh dear, well, it’s okay to be anxious even if we don’t know why. Sometimes, we wake up a bundle of nerves! And even if we woke up in a soft, warm bed, our mind can play little tricks and make us think that something is wrong. I know that what I say won’t make it go away immediately, but we can try to soothe these thoughts and make them less loud. Would you like to try that? Yes? Okay, let’s take some deep breaths together…yes, just like that. Feeling any better? Alright, now how about we find a little distraction from these anxious feelings? Come along sweetheart, I made you your favorite. After that, we can go to the park, okay?

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pink palace agere board <3

requested by @nectardew!

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I love loving all parts of my childhood<3 even though I had "girls" toys I was still a little boy-- little boys(or anyone masc presenting) can be princesses too ! /pos /lh

i hate pretending like fem stuff isn’t cool. like yeah i love sharks, superheroes, and legos. but i also like ever after high and lps and disney princesses!!! idc if im a boy they’re still awesome n i love em!!!!!

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Age Regression Journal Prompts

You've just turned into a mythical creature! What creature are you? Where do you live? What do you look like?

You've been tricked by a ghost and now you must go on an adventure to return to your body. What do you do on this adventure? Is there an item that needs to be retrieved? Do you bring anyone with you?

There is a magical faery in the woods asking you for help to retrieve a very important crown. Do you try to help? What does the crown look like?

You have superpowers! What are your powers? Are you a hero, a villain, a vigilante, or a misunderstood mutant?

You have been teleported to your favorite fictional world! Are you yourself or your favorite character? What is the first thing you do? What adventures do you go on? What do you look like/wear? Did you bring one of your friends/stuffies with you? Did they change when you were teleported?

You just opened your own business! Is it a restaurant, cafe, clothing store, or something else? What are your biggest sellers? Who is your biggest customer?

You must host a very important tea party with dragons in order to make an alliance! But you've been told last minute and there are so many things to do!!! You must pick a location, write out invitations, make a small menu, and memorize each dragons name! How on earth will you manage?!

You are a witch with a store for your trade. Do you make potions, cast spells, find artifacts, etc.? What kind of creatures (human or not) do you sell to? What does your store look like? Is it a building or a portable tent? Draw some items you have and if you make potions write up the ingredients.

You have the opportunity to design a robot! What is it's function? What does it look like? Does it have any abilities?

A friendly woodland creature has asked for your help to stop the human community from cutting down an ancient tree! Not only is it home to many creatures, but it also holds the forests magic. But one human wants the trees wood for their mansion and the sap for their breakfast. How will you stop/trick them?

It's raining cats and dogs... LITERALLY!!! Just as they are about to land they begin to float before soaring back up in the sky. You have to help! Sure they don't look too bothered, but if they do this for much longer they might get sick.

Your favorite color(s) no longer exists!? How will you cope? How can you fix it if you can't mix it anymore? Has the whole universe gone mad?!

A carnival has entered the town, but something is...off? You aren't quite sure, but there is only one possible solution. You must investigate! How will you sneak into the main tent and what do you find?

You have wandered into a shop that sells an infinite amount of supplies. But they are nothing you have ever seen before. The shop owner even claims to sell genuine dragon eggs, pixie dust, mermaid tears, griffin feathers and so on. They specify everything is ethically sourced before rambling on about some "adventures" they've been on. What is this, some DND nonsense? How will you handle this?

You have just been given the chance to go into space and find an alien lifeform! The scientists want you to bring one back but none of the aliens you find want to come back with you. Instead they offer you a chance to stay with them and live in their civilization. What do these aliens look like? What planet are they on? Are they from a different solar system? Do you take their offer?

How to Start a Journal - Tiniest Kitty

Agere Explorer Journal Ideas

Things to put in your journal - Nostalgic Littlespace

Digital Journal -Chubby Cinna Bun

Dream playroom prompts - Buttercup Agere

Fiction Caregiver Journal Ideas - Azalea Bee

60 ideas - age regression resources

Journal Prompts -Queer-coded Hero

Agere Journal Ideas - Little Bunny Dawn

What to Doodle - Buttercup Agere

Will update

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Cleaning time !! I have been setting up regression accounts on other sites and trying to find more spaces for me :3. Hopefully, my den will be cute and tiny, and I can show it off, too !

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I love...

I love you regressors who feel excluded from the community

I love you regressors who have "weird" interests

I love you regressors who are scared to interact with the community

I love you regressors who are scared to be open with your regression

I love you regressors who aren't "traditional"

I love you regressors who are traditional

I love you regressors who are middle/teen regressors

I love you regressors who are shy

I love you regressors !

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pink and blue sisters. Sibby Moodboard ☆

[requested moodboard :3]

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THIS /pos

𝐓𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐥𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐦𝐞𝐥𝐭𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐬.. ˚🍼˚.🍓🧸

₊˚⊹ᰔ Your meltdowns do not make you scary.

₊˚⊹ᰔ Your meltdowns do not make you dangerous.

₊˚⊹ᰔ Your meltdowns do not not make you unlovable.

₊˚⊹ᰔ Your meltdowns do not make you gross.

₊˚⊹ᰔ Just because they don’t understand doesn’t make what they’re saying true.

₊˚⊹ᰔ Sometimes meltdowns are necessary to self regulate, and that’s okay.

₊˚⊹ᰔ Meltdowns are not embarrassing or shameful.

₊˚⊹ᰔ You are deserving of support during your meltdowns, not bashing.