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Since no one seems to read titles before following: this blog is INACTIVE and serves only as an archive. I moved to @mochizoudiscourse

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Dysphoria = Trans

Not having Dysphoria = Cis

Not having Dysphoria ≠ lol I’m transgender now xdxd guis look at how querky I am!!1!1!1

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good morning! what a wonderful day to normalize straight girls having crushes on trans guys and straight guys having crushes on trans girls!

terfs don;t even fuckign look at this post thanks

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Ad on the New York subway. Normalize polyamory

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Y’all ever think about how truscum’s caricatures of trans men are almost exact carbon copies of t*rfs caricatures of trans women except in reverse?

Cause I think about that a LOT.

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any economic system when implemented poorly or by corrupt people will be doomed to fail, but i’d much rather live in a failed economic system thats based on equality and need then live in a failed economic system thats based on greed

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@ ppl who steal truscum’s ugly caricatures of trans ppl and make them actually decent ocs: good! keep doing it i’m proud of u

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Zackray isn’t sweet and pure, it’s a 20 year old man taking advantage of a 13 year old girl. If you like Zackray, you headcanon Zack as a pedophile and child groomer.

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im not going to put a kid on blast but a 14 year old just messaged me very upset that i support “transtrenders” saying ‘its not 2011 anymore’ and that “[transtrenders] are people who come into our community to tell us to die because we’re not the fun and trendy trans people because we feel more deeply because we’re embarrassing and serious“… first of all, you were 6 years old in 2011. 

second, i am not the one who gets to decide someone’s intimate relationship with gender or decide that i feel things “more deeply” than them. i find it so strange and disturbing that other trans people think they get to decide for other people how correct their transgender experience is when they know what it feels like to have their bodies and minds poisoned by other people dictating what they’re allowed to be.

and there is no method to suss out fucking “transtrenders” anyway. why is that a priority at all, when other trans people aren’t the enemy, and the reason we aren’t taken seriously is because people don’t want to take us seriously anyway? that no matter how neatly we fit ourselves into a perfect ‘serious’ box, the people who don’t want to accept us simply won’t? 

i’ll use myself as an example. do i look the part? why? why not? is looking at me enough to decide if i matter?  everyone who knows me knows that my dysphoria has brought me nearly to suicide, my being transgender made me leave home at 17 from a lack of support, i am several years into a medical transition. another fun fact is that at every single stage of my transition i have been harassed, misgendered, and hurt. 

at what point am i a transtrender?

was it one of the first times when i used he/him pronouns when this picture was taken, at 15 years old?

was it when i used he/him pronouns when this was taken, at 17 years old?

how about an actual picture of me from 2011? was this middle-schooler who knew deep down that being a girl was deeply unsettling, uncomfortable, and wrong… a transtrender? look! he doesn’t ~look the part~ at all! 

how about the (i believe early 18) year old me who wore this to the unofficial LGBT prom because he did not feel safe at the official school prom, and had such a great time and felt elated at having somewhere he could be himself?

what about four months on HRT? oh god, he’s wearing shorts! AND FUNNY SOCKS!

oh, only a TRANSTRENDER (1 year on T) would be having this much fun!

a REAL transgender person (1 year on T) would NEVER pose funny in a binder, just because it was fun!

FUCK, would a real trans man wear PIIIIIINK?! would a REAL trans man really decide he just doesn’t want to wear binders ever again at age 20, 3+ years on HRT? 

shiiiit, would a REAL trans man 3+ years on T wear some makeup and a silly outfit to pride?! I THINK NOT! FAKE!

oh, and heaven forbid, a REAL trans man would NEVER wear a woman’s blazer just because it looks good! that’s so incorrect! 

a REAL trans man should only ever be serious, and be forever sad and stagnant about his plight. a REAL trans man would never enjoy life, love himself, learn to care for himself however he may be, have hobbies, or smile genuinely in pictures. MUST be fake.

at every point in my life i was transgender. just because i wasn’t transgender in a way you think is true or correct, doesn’t mean i didn’t get where i am now despite all that stupid bullshit i had thrown at me. i’m me. stick to you. learn to love you, love everything about you, care about you, before you think you get to decide who someone else is for them. 

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Non discourse related OC infodumping: my OC is named Sparky and he's a monster who can do magic like control stardust and basically space void and he's also genderfluid and aro and he also has a limited control over time so in one timeline he fell into hell and became good friends with a demon who he opened a candy shop with

He sounds pretty neat! I love magic-based OCs yet I only have a few ( a pyromancer and the robotic-fire-elemental she made, along with a slime girl and her imp girlfriend).

If I fell into hell, I too would open a candy shop with a demon. I’d name it some really cheesy pun like... “Hellishly Sweet!” or “Devil’s Desserts!”. 

His name makes me think of lightning or fire, so can he do fire or electricity based magic? or just space-time stuff?

Sorry this took my so long! On mobile when you answer asks you can’t read all of it, so I wanted to be able to read all of it when I answered. That meant actually using my chromebook lol

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It may be easier to act the way other people want me to, but it’s better to be myself than to act like someone I’m not. I am feminine, I do like cute and “girly” things. I’m still trans though. you can look like anything and be a trans guy so why not look a way that makes me happy?

This comic may not be super comprehensive just because this is all a bunch of feelings I’ve had lately and it’s hard to put into words well. The main point of this is to kind of combat the idea that feminine trans guys are not real trans guys. Like maybe dressing in a more feminine way but still passing is alright but if you wear dresses then noooooo wayyyy. I’m basically here to say: I love feminine things and I’m still a valid trans person and so are you. Yes, I do want to be seen as a guy but I’m not going to compromise who I am so that people who don’t respect me will begrudgingly call me Parker. This also is a little bit messing with my want to be on T. I still want to be cute but I feel like T will take that away and that’s scary. I know for a fact at some point in my live I will go on T since I honestly can’t see myself living pre T for the rest of my life, but since I’m scared I’ll feel like a different person almost I don’t know when. Anyways, I actually named the comic after tucutes because that’s what most people would assume I am. I don’t really think I’m on either side of the debate here, I just want everyone to get along. I hope you enjoyed this comic, sorry for the style shifting through it it, it took me a while to get the motivation to keep going here and there. The next comic will be going back to the other style unless people like this one better! Thanks for reading, love you all!💜🌸 -Parker

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More anti-Autism Speaks stuff for this April. Free to use.

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hey its almost april and im gonna just say: don’t just not light it up blue. abstaining from that just tells them that they need to try harder to spread it to more people.

participate in RedInstead, which is the most common autistic created, acceptance-based counter to LIUB.

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people who hate truscum always either:

1. don’t know what truscum are

2. don’t know what dysphoria is

3. feel invalidated because we won’t accept shit they made up over actual science

4. hate trans people

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here are some even hotter takes from, again, a highly dysphoric transmasc