unbotherdsoul

[unbotherdsoul]

^^^^^

The old story is no longer serving you

(Inspired by Violet Daze on YouTube)

— People can grow out of phases and every phase they grow out of, they need a new one to go into. This is the same for states/stories. Remember, you are awareness occupying a state, but you are NOT that state, you are just in it. This shows that you can be anything you want bc u can be in any state. You do not have to be loyal to a state (story) if you don’t like it anymore; if it doesn’t fit you anymore. You can change whenever you want. It’s not a process unless you make it one. I’m stressing this point because you are not confined to a state (story) since it’s not who you are and that means you can leave it whenever (you don’t have to be loyal to it) and it is temporary unless you decide it isn’t. You can always go to another state/story. There is nothing to change or to fix because you aren’t those states, you are just in them. The states (stories) you can have are endless, and all that is asked is to go into another and remain loyal, because who wants to go back to the old one? Make it easy for yourself

[unbotherdsoul]

This is a beautiful find.

a complete guide to knowing who you truly are

the only things you need to know

who am I?

that is the big question, and simply put, you will never truly understand who you are, as long as you are occupying this human vessel.

the only way, to even get a little glimpse of your true self, while in this human vessel, is to sit in complete silence. not necessarily meditation, don't get those two confused. meditation is simply just being and you already are being, every second of every day.

sitting in silence simply put, means to observe, be aware. that is your true self, it is indescribable, the closest we can get is "awareness" "consciousness" "pure imagination" etc etc. who you truly are is a limitless formless "entity" but this is where most of you go wrong.

you spend so much time trying to understand your true self with the mind. but the mind is nothing but a "creation". it is your true self, transformed / taking form of a mind. you cannot understand it, you have to experience it.

how do you experience it?

observe. re-realise your true self as god, re-realise that this "world" is nothing more than an illusion, imaginary, a playground, and it is YOU, god taking form of a human vessel, mind and world, you can change anything in an instant, because nothing actually is (NO THING IS) only your true self is. but you get too caught up in trying to be your true self, when the purpose of even morphing yourself into this human vessel and world, was to experience god realised, to have fun, and to keep your limitless self entertained. it gets boring being god.

you only need to know this, experience it if you want, I recommend doing that, go beyond the mind, by realising that there is no mind. nothing of this is done with the mind!! you try with the mind, but that's where you go wrong.

the mind is simply nothing more than a tool, for you to "create" / morph your illusion into something else, what actually "changes" is the awareness, by putting awareness on something else. attachment doesn't exist, thoughts are an illusion, feelings are an illusion, "circumstances" are an illusion, it all is.

[unbotherdsoul]

the ego mind is holding you back

the ego mind, is the human mind. the limited mind.

the ego is an illusion, created by awareness. probably there because of society and all telling us we are limited and can’t change things etc.

but as awareness, we are limitless, like i said the ego mind is an illusion, and you can let go of it, by becoming aware of being awareness.

to kind of make you understand what awareness is, it is that pause in your mind, the stillness where no thoughts exist and no feelings exist, just pure silence. THIS is your true form.

but the ego mind comes up with all these questions.

“what is awareness?, how do i become aware? how do i get my desires?”

all these questions comes from the ego mind.

only the ego needs answers.

awareness just IS.

this is why my answer is always, let go of the ego and just BE

let the ego die. fully embrace being awareness, become aware of the ego being gone.

try to read my post about “manifesting” again without letting your ego mind control you, and it will all start to make sense

[unbotherdsoul]

live and breathe off your own validation and love, train yourself to find everything within.

[unbotherdsoul]

i wanted to be it so bad I natrually became her.

wanted to be the girl who was confident and femmine

wanted to be the girl who loved herself and loved her life

wanted to be the girl who could be in her feminine energy FULLY.

and you start to stop wanting it and just choosing to be it.

[unbotherdsoul]

[unbotherdsoul]

Innerwork, inner reflection, and self accountability is required for growth, it cannot be avoid. If so it will create a bigger void.

[unbotherdsoul]

!!!!!

my formula for success

━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

no bullshit,

straight-to-the-point

manifesting guide

━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

Disclaimer: this post is about my personal experience, beliefs and what works for me. If you don't resonate with what I'm saying it's totally fine, you keep doing you.

━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

living in your head

doesn't mean being delusional, or crazy. imagination is the only reality. as simple as that. the faster you realize it the better things will be.

detachment

I've noticed that being objective of certain aspects of my desires had led me to instant success. but detachment from what? not from the desire itself but from the need of getting it. realizing that i don't desperatly need something somehow makes things easier and faster. lessening the importance of getting certain things makes you free from anxiety and fear, in my personal experience. and why would you be anxious about getting something you already have (see living in your head and daydreaming). go on with your day and stop sulking.

keeping it simple

if it feels like a chore, it won't do it for me. the simpler the better. only affirm or do methods when i want and feel like it. don't force it.

daydreaming

again, I'm a sucker for effortless stuff. for me, daydreaming has always been something natural to do. and if you can see and imagine yourself living your best life then you can have everything.

you do it to yourself

what you see is a reflection of your thoughts. you can't complain and ask why things are "not working" when you are the one who is in control. if you think you can't manifest, you won't. if you think manifesting is hard, it will be. you want to manifest effortlessly and fast, then say you can. you don't like something? change it.

don't question it

don't question how it works or how long it will take. don't question if you can get it or not. doubting is a waste of time. just trust that drive that won't make you give up your dreams.

━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

@bastarrda

[unbotherdsoul]

you are the main character.

Whether you believe it or not this is YOUR reality.

so tell me again, why can’t you become yo own bestfriend & lover?

Here’s some things that can help-

Self judgement Transmuted into Self acceptance

if you mess up it’s okay, no need to be perfect, sometimes we can be our works critics (🙋🏽‍♀️including myself) we are all imperfect humans doing the best we can, while we can… so let’s be a bit kinder to yourself.

Self improvement and empowerment.

now, look how far you have come. Through everything your still here! now that somthing to be proud of! You got somthing you keep procrastinating on? (Your not alone) we’ll take small steps to achieve it, NOT HUGE JUMPS, take your time, because not everyday is going to look the same ( that would be quite boring if ya think about it) so whatever you need, just give that to yourself.

I’m open to questions and helping y’all.🤍