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At night I dream of public transportation networks so efficient they make cars obsolete

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pov you suck at ace attorney and the new detective doesnt pull punches

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Related to the “loss of speech” event, it happened while I was with a NT friend. I was so overwhelmed, I gradually stopped being able to talk out loud at all. I knew I needed to warn my friend somehow, because it was her birthday and her daughter’s as well, and I didn’t want to ruin that for her.

I typed a few words on my phone to explain the situation, and you know what she did? She just said “Alright, I get it.” and she didn’t make a big deal out of it. She went out of her way for the restaurant folks to be mindful and turn down the sound of the (very loud) music, without ever specifying that I was disabled. 

She was mindful to ask me “yes or no” questions, and when she had to ask open questions, she waited for me to type it out on my phone.

She also explained the situation quickly to her children, and asked them to be mindful and not talk to me too much (which I was grateful for, because those children can be so chatty and loud sometimes, even if they’re nice x) ). All in all, she was nothing, but understanding. And the situation didn’t worsen, thanks to that.

If you’re NT or allistic and you want to be a good ally, take notes. Whether your autistic friend/folk/whatever they are to you is fully nonverbal or only experiencing episodes of speech loss, respect their needs, and accept that spoken language isn’t the only viable way to communicate. 

If you’re in a position to do something to help them and make the situation easier on them, don’t hesitate. If you’re not, be understanding and allow them an out. Don’t force them to stay and suffer, and, more than that, don’t complain afterward if the person is then having a meltdown.

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orchestra au but my only goal is to make klavier a classical musician

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It’s too early in the morning for me to be called out like this

imposter syndrome in autism is so..... im rotating it in my mind

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I go off Tumblr for two weeks and come back to this (not mad just funny)

why do people think people with autism and people with adhd hate each other. i for one am kissing all my autistic friends and mutuals on the hand like it’s a victorian period novel

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Photos and final product for Mq. & Mrs.’s amazing lgbtq coloring book for kids.

Model : Alicia Michele

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i do feel out of place on this site because of how much people talk about feral sexy unhinged sniveling blood all over murderous insane men…. what about the normal guys ☹️ . . do we not support guys who get a iced caramel beverage from starbucks and go ‘wowie this tastes good 😁’ .. what happened to loving all of gods creations equally.. ☹️

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Don’t say it- (jokingly)

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Folks, friends, y’all…. esk*mo is a slur. I understand a lot of people don’t know that, I don’t want to be a dick about it, but I’ve been seeing it in fics. Wanna write “esk*mo kisses”? Just say “nuzzled noses” or something.

I’m not here to call anybody out, it’s been in multiple fics, I’m not vague posting. This is just a psa. 👍🏻

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to all the neurotypical miles edgeworth enthusiasts

headcanon whatever you want but this man canonically uses logic chess as a way to navigate conversations. it may be just me but that's one of the most autistic things i've seen a character do ever.

*to clarify: I do not mean neurotypical fans who like miles edgeworth, I mean people who headcanon him as neurotypical

*to clarify further: this is not meant to come off as aggressive, merely enthusiastic because I certainly use logic chess as a way to navigate social situations (note: I am bad at chess)

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reading the art of war to learn how to navigate social situations

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asogi my beloved *_* (commission)

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If I had a nickel for every time I fell for a black-haired lawyer who is emotionally repressed, good with weapons, and would do anything for their loved ones I would have three nickels. Which is not a lot, but it's weird that it happened three times.

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reblog and put in the tags if you think your profile pic would have a good met gala outfit

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