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drew fanart of kaiju no8. i like kafka a lot

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Kaiju no. 8 (2 Second PV)

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I'll be the one to neutralize Kaiju no 8

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Been watching Kaiju No. 8! I like this guy, he's funny ^^ Also here's him with cat ears, haha

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Kaiju No. 8, Kikoru Shinomiya

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Writing Notes: Emotional Intelligence

The concept of emotional intelligence has been proposed to explain why some people with a lot of academic intelligence do not appear to have a lot of practical intelligence, people skills, or what might be called street smarts.

Goleman (1995), in his book, Emotional Intelligence, presents many cases of people who have high levels of traditional intelligence yet fail in various areas of their lives, such as in relationships.

Goleman also reviews the psychological literature and comes to the conclusion that traditional measures of intelligence, although predicting school performance fairly well, actually do a rather poor job of predicting later life outcomes, such as occupational attainment, salary, professional status, and quality of marriage (e.g., Vaillant, 1977).

Emotional intelligence, Goleman argues, is more strongly predictive of these life outcomes.

Emotional intelligence is proposed as a set of 5 specific abilities:

Awareness of one’s own feelings and bodily signals and an ability to identify one’s own emotions and to make distinctions (such as realizing the fear that lies behind anger)

Ability to manage and regulate emotions, especially negative emotions, and to manage stress

Control of one’s impulses—directing one’s attention and effort, delaying gratification, and staying on task toward goals

Ability to decode the social and emotional cues of others, to listen, and to take the perspective of others (empathy)

Leadership, the ability to influence and guide others without their becoming angry or resentful, the ability to elicit cooperation, and skill in negotiation and conflict resolution

It is easy to see how these skills and abilities relate to positive life outcomes and how they are so different from traditional concepts of intelligence, such as scholastic achievement and scholastic ability.

If these notes inspire you in any way, please tag me, or leave a link in the replies. I would love to read your work!

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More of Kafka in my style 😳🫠🖤🩵🤍

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Did anyone else hear Luca mutter "used to be" after Carmy said David Fields (Joel McHale) was a great chef?

Carmy: "He's the fucking worst and one of the best chefs in the world."

Luca: "—used to be one of the best chefs in the world."

Carmy doesn't notice (of course) because he's too busy stewing and saying curse words but that's interesting.

Did David Fields lose his mojo when Carmy left Empire to go home after Mikey killed himself? Was Carmy the mojo?

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Unfortunately, laying on a man’s chest is the only thing that can heal me.

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Prompt #1196

"Why would you do that, that is stupid!"

"And stupid would be very on brand for me. Have you never met me before?"

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"The only reason I had fun tonight was because of you."

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sometimes writing feels like dragging your brain across gravel. but at least the gravel is sparkly. and covered in metaphors.

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I'm so enamored by this picture

The dedication. The connection, Carmy in his curly glory, Syd's skin glowing, my favorite bandana she has ever worn. I would put it on an oil painting.

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Kaiju No 8 | Hoshina Soshiro

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A major problem of being a writer is falling in love with your side characters. You want to explore them, want to share every detail you created for them, show them off to your readers. The pain of not letting them outshine the main character is real.

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I wear suits now. THE BEAR: 2.07 || 2.08