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Hey. I have a problem. When my boyfriend is around, he makes me feel loved and gives me attention, which is great. But when we're communicating online, he's very distant. He doesn't sent me pictures from time to time, doesn't tell me who he talks to or who he doesn't, doesn't even send me his own pictures. He rarely opens up about his feelings, and he believes having deep conversations will hurt us. I also feel like he doesn't give me enough attention online. I'm worried that when he goes abroad for his studies, our relationship won't last because he might not reply regularly and eventually forget about me. I've tried my best to communicate it to him. It just doesn't change. What should I do?

Heya, I haven't gotten an ANON in a while plus I have been gone from this platform for too long, LOL. Anyway, I get how this situation is weighing on you and your feelings are totally valid. It’s really important to feel both emotionally connected and secure, especially when you’re apart. It think your boyfriend is great in person but he struggles with maintaining that connection online, which might just be his way of communicating. Everyone expresses affection differently, but if it's affecting how you feel, it’s important to have that conversation yk. In my opinion, you’ve done a great job trying to talk to him, but maybe approaching the conversation differently could help. Instead of focusing on what he’s not doing, try sharing how it makes you feel when you don’t hear from him as much online. Maybe ask him what his expectations are for staying in touch when he’s abroad, and figure out if there’s a way where you both feel secure. If he's not trying to understand then it maybe is a different issue but like then I would say that you deserve someone who will. Trust is key in long-distance relationships, and sometimes setting clear expectations upfront can help. But PLEASE, don’t compromise your own happiness and emotional needs. You deserve to feel loved and valued in every way. :)

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AM I A BAD PERSON?

ofcourse not. I think you're an amazing human being.

Did you know you can't breathe if you smile. c;

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Things that take time & many tries to get right:

learning to be a good friend/partner

healing from depression, failures or heartbreak

becoming amazing at an art or skill

overcoming anxiety, insecurities and low body image

overcoming the need to isolate yourself

changing self-hating thoughts to kinder ones

making a real connection with someone

overcoming self-defeating and self-sabotaging thoughts

learning how to study effectively

finding a sense of stability and calmness at your core

quitting habits or addictions

leaving people and behaviours that turn you into the worst version of yourself

getting used to healthier coping mechanisms & mindsets that feel fake

treating yourself like you truly care about yourself

becoming the person you always wanted to be

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reblog if you want people to anonymously tell you your red flags

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Wait wtf. 😂

I was today years old when I got to know that.

Revisiting your childhood games: (desi's version)

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- Inky pinky ponkey, father had a donkey, donkey died, father cried, inky pinky ponkeyyyy

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Harry styles and his obsession with ANTIDOTE

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Rickshey waley bhaiya mandir chaloge kitne paise logey das bees....

Dumsharadz

Teen ka tala band

Red lighter

Revisiting your childhood games: (desi's version)

- AKKAD BAKKAD BAMBE BO ASSI NABBE POORE SAU SAU MEIN LAGA DHAGA CHOR...

- Inky pinky ponkey, father had a donkey, donkey died, father cried, inky pinky ponkeyyyy

- Lemon Shake cruchy ice mix it once mix it twice turn around touch the ground don't you dare curly hair STATUE!! moooooooove

- BAITHE BAITHE BORE HUE KARNA HAI KUCH KAAM, SHURU KARO ANTAKSHRI...

- Red hands!!!

- Odd Even (Hand Cricket)

- CHICKLETS!!!!

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True desi kid culture is eating Bournvita/Horlicks/Complan power straight out of its container

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came across a heart shaped strawberry while making strawberry syrup; can now confirm, love is stored in the food.

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