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here is a reminder for all my fellow proshippers that you never have to feel obligated to tell people why you like a particular ship. you don’t need to disclose your trauma to someone else as explanation to why you ship what you ship. never let someone else make you feel disgusting because they cannot think further than their asses and realise fiction is fiction.

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Movies about families make me really sad

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Should I buy digimon cards

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hi.

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I quit reddit when antilolitary got banned.

Lolitary posts actual csem

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Me having fun shipping characters is nothing more than that

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It's funny when people call shotas kids when I'm short and have a round face and look younger than I am

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Antis will never be welcome in my life.

I have always had trust issues because of trauma, but I had 2 friends I made in elementary school I was friends with until middle school. One went to a private school and the other one moved five hours away. I did get back in touch with the private school girl but the other one ignored my texts for years. Private school girl wasn't exactly nice to me but because of trauma I had low self esteem and I believed if I ever stood up for myself everyone would hate me. Fast forward, I lost touch with private school girl for a while and I had attempted suicide and nearly succeeded. Nobody had texted me or checked up on me. So Nobody visited me. Some time later, private school girl wanted to hang out again and was apologizing for how she treated me. We talked for a while and I slept over her house a lot. One day, I was maybe 14 or 15 at this point, I opened up to her about what being proship was. I had never told anyone i was proship in real life before. She said she agreed with me and later that day flashed me without ny consent when she told me she had a girlfriend.

when I left that morning she hugged me. She then started ignoring me for months and Christmas came. We had planned to get each other gifts. I got a squishmallow, a keychain, and a necklace I think that I bought with my own money. I went to her house and her sister opened the door and she took the stuf and private school girl wouldn't come down. Pretty rude if you ask me. I ended up getting in touch with the other friend and after a while I explained to her what proship was and she said she'd considered herself proship now. One of her friends was transphobic towards me and she stayed friends with them but that's not the point. She said that private school girl had been ignoring her for 2 years. We were good friends for a while until summer I invited her over my house and she ditched me twice. After this she started ignoring me for five months and when I told her she wouldn't be invited to my birthday party she blocked me. At one point, I got Instagram and reached out to people I used to know because I didn't have many friends. I got a message from someone I wasn't comfortable talking to. I was talking with someone who I was friends with but she was always friends with bad people. I got a message from someone who used to bully me and had a Trigger response and sent the old friend a long message about how I won't be abused anymore. She then ran with the story I was accusing her of something I didn't. I tried to clear things up with her and was sent a message from my abuser that I was being aggressive and needed to leave her alone and accusing me of all these things I never did and basically treated me like a criminal because I asked once to be unblocked. I then learned they were friends with private school girl and it made my blood boil. Here's what they did to me

Screaming in my face randomly, twisting my arm, calling me fat when I was suffering with anorexia, picking me up without my permission, calling me a bitch for literally no reason. She was also friends with our other friend now that she had ignored for 2 years. And then it hit me. She was definitely spreading rumors about me to her and convinced her to block me.

Private school girl said she just couldn't recognize me and she was scared of me because her sister was proship and did something bad and said I was too complicated of a person because I have mental health issues and her new friends aren't like that.

She made me afraid to open up to anyone ever again because I'd become too complicated to deal with.

Antis will never be welcome on this page.

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If we start treating stylized anime art as csem we'd be taking time away from actual victims. Watering down abuse is only going to hurt victims.

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Proshippers aren't bad and here's why.

The definition of proship is someone who respects other people's ships regardless if they like it or not. You don't need to ship anything to be proship. Pro is a prefix, meaning support. It does not mean problematic.

Does fiction affect reality? Yes, but your brain can tell the difference between fiction and reality. There are a lot of things people like in fiction that disgust them in real life. Imagine playing video games. You hijack someone's car, kill people and mug them, or kill your enemies. But you know it's not real. When you go to the movie theater, you submerge yourself in the story. But when you leave, you know none of it was real. Let's take disney movies for example. It may be an emotional roller coaster, but you know it isn't real. Snow white was 14 but I don't see anyone screaming at disney that fiction affects reality. We all grew up with disney and most of us are fine. When I was 12, I shipped billdip. Back then, it was normal for 12-14 year Olds to ship weird stuff. It never made me believe these things are okay in real life. There is 0 evidence to suggest that if you indulge in proship content you are going to become a monster.

Is it weird or gross? Sure, but it's not bad to be weird.

Can it be used as grooming material? Yes, literally everything can. But you're not going to blame the candy company for grooming and try to ban candy.

"Kids are going to think it's okay in real life"

In my opinion, if you can't tell the difference between fiction and reality you probably shouldn't be on the internet. I can't speak for everyone, but I for one advocate for proper tagging (tagging is useless on Twitter though.) Most proship accounts don't allow people under 18 to follow them. If a kid ignores their dni it isn't their fault. I don't think it's fair to accuse people of being groomers just because you were groomed by a proshipper.

I am using my freedom of creative expression to have fun. Art is one of the healthiest coping mechanisms out there. You tell proshipper to go to therapy but there's literally art therapy.

Nobody has died because of a drawing. If not harming anyone and doing what I like makes me a bad person so be it. You only live once and I may as well live happy.

"It's morally wrong"

This is the same argument homophobes make.

Notice how advocating for art censorship has saver NO ONE?

So it's not hurting anyone, makes people happy, but you hate us because we're freaks. It's the same argument homophobes make.

I've been proship since I was 14. I haven't hurt anyone.

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Next antiship take: Romeo and juliet fans are problematic

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𝑹𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒔 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒔:

🌿 you don't owe anons your energy 🌿 you can create whatever you want 🌿 your worth isnt determined by your ships or involvement in shipcourse 🌿 you are worthy of love and respect 🌿 its never worth it to be cruel. use your energy to promote seeing the humanity in others 🌿 i am always here for u! 𝑾𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆, 𝓒𝓱𝓲𝓱𝓲𝓻𝓸

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🎀 Challenge for Antishippers 🎀

calm the fuck down 🧁

like seriously chill the fuck out 🌺

stop harassing people over fiction 💕

get a hobby or something 🌈

stop suicide-baiting people in fandom and telling them to die 🌷

learn to block and filter 💐

focus on the ships you love rather than the ones you hate ✨

stop harassing people over fiction 🍭

leave content creators alone 🎀

quit assuming that we all masturbate to "problematic" fiction you creeps 😍

don't gatekeep fandoms and the main tags, you don't own them 🌟

stop creating a safe space for pedophiles 💖

and stop calling us pedophiles when our community is full of minors and child abuse survivors 💫

let people ship what they want 💙

people are allowed to enjoy things that you don't, get over it 🎉

stop harassing people over fiction 🌸

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Acceptable Opinions about Ships:

I don't like this ship because I just don't find it appealing.

I don't like this ship because it reminds me of abuse.

I don't like this ship because I grew out of it.

I don't like this ship because I think it's problematic.

I don't like this ship.

I have these ships blacklisted, please tag your ship art.

Unacceptable Opinions about Ships:

I don't like this ship, stop drawing it.

I don't like this ship, kill yourself.

I don't like this ship, you deserved your abuse.

I don't like this ship, you should be harassed.

I don't like this ship, you should be raped.

And for those that need a guide on how to filter tags:

If you don't believe anything has happened in the unacceptable category, please look at my pinned post.

Proshippers literally don't mind if you don't like ships, and will (generally) tag.

I'm a Proshipper, and I literally have ships I don't like or trigger me blacklisted and filtered.

Proshipping is not about "You HAVE to like this content"

Proshipping is about "This content can exist. Use the tools given to you to block it out if you don't like it."

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this is a tweet, but it’s relevant here

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Proship, at it's very core, is a combination of four general principles--

Ship And Let Ship

Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That's Okay

Don't Like, Don't Read/Dead Dove: Do Not Eat

The Golden Rule - Treat others the way you wish to be treated.

That's it. That's all there is to it. That is what proship means. These things used to be common sense. I guess it's not so common anymore.