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Posting faggot and queer like 2am gunshots to keep property values on my blog low and scare away assimilationist LGBTs who want to replace my empty lot full of native wildflowers with a 5-over-1 because they're too traumatized by their upbringing to accept the reality of our diverse marginalized community

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if you’re on tumblr and over the age of 24 it means the mental illness won

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When we say make Pride more accessible we mean make sure disabled folks can actually enter the gay bar. (We see your doors with a lip on them.)

When we say make Pride more accessible we mean don’t pack people in and make it hard to move in mobility aids. 

When we say make Pride more accessible we mean stop having Pride events that only happen on grass. 

When we say make Pride more accessible we mean make sure all bathrooms are easily found and usable. 

When we say make Pride more accessible we mean make sure we actually can sit somewhere if we need to. If all the seats are bar stools that is not helping or helpful. 

When we say make Pride more accessible we mean don’t expect everyone can dance physically. 

Stop using ‘that’s just how it’s always been’ as an excuse. Intersectionality in the community needs to be a thing. 

Handicapped queer folk exist, too. 

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Ada Limón, from “The Great Blue Heron Of Dunbar Road”, Bright Dead Things

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tumblr is only for people who r weird and a bit lonely and had a strange interest when they were 12 that led them here. if none of those apply to you like genuinely what is there for you here

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'the mortifying ordeal of being known' what about the comforting joy of being understood

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Maybe I'll treat myself to some substance abuse in response to these slight inconveniences

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you’ll have an easier time letting go of people if you stopped attaching them to your future. you are your only constant.

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In the name of Love, Katie Maria

( @heavensghost )

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“I can write the saddest poem of all tonight. I loved her, and sometimes she loved me too.”

— (via amortizing)

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their mental health is not your responsibility. you are not their therapist, and it's not fair for them they treat you as such. it's lovely that you care and want to help but remember that it's okay to take a step back and put your own mental health first, that doesn't make you selfish. the only person who's mental health you are responsible for is your own and you are allowed to prioritize that.

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it’s so attractive when someone pays attention to the little details of you