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so my return to tumblr got a little derailed and I keep forgetting to check it but I like that every time I come back I see likes and reblogs on ancient WordGirl posts like good to know that show is still getting love ages after it ended
I also never changed my facebook cover photo from a wordgirl screenshot and my laptop avatar from a picture of LRW just because I didn't get around to it. But I like those little reminders of my old stomping ground
me: hi i need a good referral to some sort of mental health specialist to get proper diagnoses for these specific potential issues. i've put this off for a long time because i have a hard time making decisions, struggle with communication/contacting professionals, and have a hard time trusting medical personnel without a good reference
my pcp: here's a list of several dozen providers i printed out that include a lot of ones you don't quality for and don't specialize in what you asked about, it's just a massive print out of all our resources
me: wow this is worthless to me
It's a lot healthier to go for a daily walk than to sign up for a gym membership you won't be using because you hate that kind of exercise. It's a lot healthier to eat a frozen meal than to skip a meal because you were too tired to cook something healthy. It's a lot healthier to take a quick shower than to procrastinate an elaborate routine for days. Don't aim so high that you won't be hitting anything!
you don't deserve trauma though hopefully you won't be standing by how you mocked others for that and saying they deserved it
I don't recall saying others deserved trauma????
But I also won't discount the possibility that I said some absolute dogshit idiot stuff when I was younger. I've changed a lot over the years and gotten much wiser. I truly apologize for things I said in the past that indicated others deserved trauma. I also have the tendency to say things that means one thing in my head but comes across differently to most people. So either I said some horrible things because I was ignorant and naive, or I said something that came off absolutely atrocious when it wasn't what I meant. Either way, I take responsibility for the hurt it caused others, and I hope that I continue to become a better person as I go through life.
once i get around to it, i'm gonna sit down and reblog as many good hildibrand posts as i can find so if you don't wanna sit it go ahead and mute that tag, i'll probably tag as both first name and first + last
wow i apparently got sent a bunch of messages over the years i was inactive and i truly don't remember any of the context
for those who haven't talked to or heard from me in awhile, my memory doesn't work anymore because a trauma in the summer of 2021 just dumped shit out of my brain. i've been told i probably have PTSD but haven't found anyone to diagnose yet
anyway i don't really know how to talk properly, and i'm not sure how much of me is the same as before or completely different. not really sure who i am because there's so many things i used to derive a sense of identity from that are different now. like i used to have an incredible memory, be amazing at keeping in touch with people, be able to multitask extremely well and balance a hefty mental load.
but somewhere along the way as i aged i just became run down, and it's hard to feel alright about myself when the few things i did genuinely take pride in are gone
i hope this isn't odd, but i randomly stumbled upon your blog and saw you were considering coming back to tumblr and that you were lonely... i just wanted to say, do it!! i came to tumblr again for the same reason but the people on this site are lovely ^^
I'm having trouble remembering to log on and look at posts. I think it's because there are people I follow that post stuff that I nowadays have a bad association with, and my current hyperfixation is too niche for me to find content for.
I want to come back, but I just can't seem to actually like. Sit down and do it properly? I'm not even sure how many of my old friends are still here.