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this could be the snart of something big

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I adore my film club, between all of us we've got this encyclopedic knowledge, like i gave a fairly good explanation of this movie but they know me and movies well enough that there are times where I'll be like "what's that movie with Jimmy Fallon" and they'll know the niche movie where he gets like 5 minutes of screen time that I'm thinking of and get it right first or second try and within like 5 minutes

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tiktok from rushadicus

gang what do we think, is this folkpunk?

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i mean this in the nicest way possible but some of you need to learn how to be annoyed

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sure you have the power of friendship on your side but have you considered that we have the power of EVIL friendship on ours?

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Just looked up poliotics. ... HUGE mistake . who did all that?

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why people on the internetdo a shouting? small letter, small voice, small baby bird. thank u

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Find someone that puts in extra or notices things.

Another moment from last night, I haven't even talked to him about this being something that I struggle with but he was like "just so you know and can adjust to the idea, I'm getting a haircut tomorrow. I know it's nothing big or anything but I also know that change in things that are usually dependably safe and stable can be really rough for you". I really want to write on this more and will probably do a big post on accessibility and dating and things one can do for a neurodivergent friend/partner that make all the difference but folks, putting in that effort is so special and important.

I'm going through shit, I'm literally homeless right now, but I've also never been happier. I'm so thankful to have him in my life

I know scott pilgrim is not that deep but it *could* be a killer metaphor, being in a relationship with someone kind after being with people that were shitty and abusive and didn't put in the effort really is like teaming up to take down your evil exes. working through everything and such

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ya boy is officially homeless but yk what, I'm really glad to be free of my abusive family situation. The insiting incident was super shitty but I think I'm glad that I took the leap!

Couch surfing and unemployed rn, objectively on my ass, but in this moment I can't emphasize enough how much things will change for you when you leave your abusive situation, I'm sleeping the best I have for years. Much recommended, as soon as you have a safety net and will be medically ok with leaving the nest. When I have the mental energy to I'll follow up with housing resources that I've been reading about for people in my situation <3

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like, my guy will put in the extra effort to be kind or honestly sometimes do what should be the bare minimum and i feel like crying tears of joy. like last night we were playing Peak which is this super collaborative game and I was really struggling but he was super patient and helpful and i teared up. the kindness and gentleness....... it's the minimum, I know, but I'm really really used to people being shitty and having someone I can rest and be safe with is invaluable, especially in times like this where I'm struggling

Ever since I've had him I've realized how much I value and need a kind lover. When thinking about the sort of person I'd want to be with and spend my life with that was never a main thing before, having someone kind. It's so, so important.

I know scott pilgrim is not that deep but it *could* be a killer metaphor, being in a relationship with someone kind after being with people that were shitty and abusive and didn't put in the effort really is like teaming up to take down your evil exes. working through everything and such

[whatpseudonymsaid]

I know scott pilgrim is not that deep but it *could* be a killer metaphor, being in a relationship with someone kind after being with people that were shitty and abusive and didn't put in the effort really is like teaming up to take down your evil exes. working through everything and such

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no disabled person should have their parents be their only choice for support/caregivers. it’s not a privilege to be stuck with them and you don’t have to be grateful.

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detective: [kneels down looking over a dead body] hm. gross

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just saw a birth announcement thing that was like "3 inches went in. 19 inches came out" and i am on the floor in tears i'm laughing so hard what is wrong with heterosexual people

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I love that people just screenshot tiktoks. Fuck videos

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spotify now notifies people when you save their playlist. be careful out there fellow stalkers

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turns out my life isn't irredeemable i was just Hungry and didn't notice it

exactly