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r.ewr.ite watching me while i move my scripts over to notion.... idk how he doesn't find this boring LOLOLOL

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a guide to cosmabonding

cosmabonding is the in between of soulbonding and shifting, at least that's how i see it! rather than shifting to see your DR s/os or friends, you can have them shift over to this reality and interact with them here! it's what i mainly do, especially when i don't have the energy to shift.

how do you do it? it really depends on person to person. some people will use tarot cards to communicate with their companions, some people simply talk to them and invite them over in their head, some ppl just manifest them over - me personally, i'll always invite them over in my head! being able to communicate with them in your head like this is more akin to soulbonding, hence why i linked it above for everyone to get familiar with it if they aren't :) you might have to guide them through shifting their way over here if they aren't already familiar of multiple realities and such!

when they are here, you'll have to focus a bit to fully sense them. typically the air feels 'heavier' when someone's around for me, or at least someone im not used to having over! it takes focus to see them, hear them, feel them, etc at first - but when you get used to it, it'll feel like second nature!

some things can hinder the process such as stress, anger, any negative emotion - i don't think it can't happen if you're not feeling your best, you might just have a harder time sensing them is all! there have been plenty of times where ive worked through this though, and i know everyone else can do the same!

uhh i think that's about it! im not the best at explaining stuff so im sorry if this makes like. no sense. LOL - but if you have any questions i am here to do my best to answer! happy cosmabonding!

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I PROPOSED TO 🌀☀️ YESTERDAY AND HE SAID YES LETS GOOOOOOO

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shifting misconceptions i wish were blasted with a disintegrating ray

'clones' do not exist i hate tiktok sm for starting this no one is going to control your body while you're gone unless you're a plural system!

2. you do not physically teleport there like your body isnt gonna suddenly poof out of existence - your only transferring your consciousness. ppl get uppity when its compared to astral projection but it's pretty similar in sense of steps to get there. i think this step really hinders a lot of ppl and when i tell them this they have a MUCH easier time shifting

3. you dont need to be in a good mindset or be super hydrated to shift - it's a good thing to be taken care of and be in a good mindset, but really it all comes down to focus. emotions can cause blocks but they can't full on prevent it from happening. also im severely dehydrated and shift just fine LOL

4. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE STILL TO SHIFT! if your position is uncomfortable, MOVE! doing all that 'void state' stuff is fine if it helps you focus but if it bothers you and especially if it makes you hurt, please move. your body isn't going to be still while you're gone anyway (i.e scratching an itch or adjusting, not the aforementioned clones)

5. obligatory you dont need to script or do methods blah blah everyone knows this one LOL

6. shifting doesn't just apply to us in this reality. ppl from other realities can shift here too when invited! not so much as a misconception that it is a little tip - it takes less energy than shifting and you can go abt daily life with whoever you want basically! i also call this cosmabonding! :)

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i love shifting cause i can take my partners wherever i want i have this waiting room thats a big hotel and it has a hot spring in it and last night i took 💥🥊 and we had so much fun <333

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"erm actually [character] wouldn't do that!! ☝️🤓"

i wake up to the sight of them laying besides me every morning. i know they like their coffee black with just one sugar packet. their calloused hands are soft against my cheeks and their lips taste like cherry wine in the evening. we watch the stars together and talk about our dreams every night before we fall asleep, embraced in each others arms. i know them better than the author does

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bpd kicking in and making me hate my friends rn shifting / cosmabonding save me (not abt anyone here btw a personal friend group)

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saw a post that was like "imagine you and your f/o making up after an argument" and im like.... yall having arguments w/ your f/os?? yall are fighting??? i could never /lh

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my love language is making stimboards for my partners and going LOOK LOOKIE ITS U I DID THAT PLZ KISS ME <3

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update my fiance and i explained the fnaf lore to 💥🥊 for like 45 mins and i feel better :)

feeling awful rn im gonna go cuddle w my partners so i feel less awful >:(

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feeling awful rn im gonna go cuddle w my partners so i feel less awful >:(

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taking an impromptu nap w/ j.ing yua.n >>>>>>>>>>>>> everything else ever

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forgot to take my meds two days in a row i need my partners to coddle me RIGHT NEOW but theyre all still sleeping </3

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TODAY WAS ⛓️🗝️'S BDAY BUT HE COULDN'T COME OVER WAAAAA....... sent him gifts and most of the days been spent with 🌀☀️ and my fiance :3

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hello ! i'm julian and welcome to my cosmabond / shifting blog ! i talk about how im a cosmabonder on my main , but i never go into too much detail there . . . but i plan to talk about my day to day experiences here! kinda like a little diary ! :)

my main is @hsrwife ! my selfshipping escapades is heavily tied in with my shifting escapades so you might see some stuff from there reblogged here ! tysm for stopping by ! dni basic dni criteria, proship, anti shifters, radqueers, doubles of my nonsharing partners!