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Can you please make an About Me worksheet that's either Monster High, MLP, or Disney themed pls?

[ID: 2 monster high about me worksheets are shown. At the tap they say “About me!” And have multiple boxes to fill. The 1st says “picture of me” and has a spot to place a picture. 2nd says name, 3rd says pronouns, 4th says favorite animal, 5th box asks for likes, 6th box says extra. Both versions have a spot to put an x or check next to a couple words. First version the words are baby-re, kid-re, middle-re, teen-re, petre, and caregiver. The second version has the words vampire, werewolf, zombie, mummy, sea monster, and ghost. /end ID]

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🌱 eden or alana. she / ae / any, nh fem terms.

I'm a person with did, and a introject of c!philza.

I'm still figuring out what to do with this blog.

mayyy be focused around my secondary role of caregiver. so possibly agere cg stuff. but also general stuff. I also regress so eh. we'll see.

I do curse occasionally so like be forwarded if that ain't your thing. 👍

If you want name or pronoun help, I'm you're guy!!! I love names. I hoard 'em

I don't believe in doubles, and I don't really care about "sourcemates" haha. anyone can interact with me, in fact I encourage it.

the only ppl I'd like to dni are ; radqueers & endos. thanks :>

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ship so niche there's not even mediocre porn written about them on ao3 i will not make it out alive

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Newborn regression🍼

Inspired by this post!

- Tiny babbles, barely an audible sound

- Sleepy all the time <3 lil babie..

- Being held and swaddled

- Being cradled

- Looking up at your caregiver <33

- Sleeping on your back with your arms and legs far from you like a newborn

- Reaching out your little hands to something you like :)

- Being tucked in to sleep!

- Pacifiers, soft toys, bottles, cribs 💙

- Gentle, quiet words from cg <3

- Tummy time and napping with cg!

Newborn regression is so very soft and special to me 💙

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Sometimes regression isn’t about being happy.

Sometimes regression is being so mad at the day you had and the people that are mean and the world for being cruel that you can’t help but get small at the end of the day and seek comfort and feel frustrated at yourself for wanting to regress and be safe.

Sometimes regression is having an ugly meltdown and crying about things that are happening and things that happened before and things you don’t want to have happen again.

Sometimes regression is the last defense against a depressive episode, the hope that nostalgia will give you the feelings you need.

Sometimes regression is coming down from panic and anxiety swirling, self soothing or being held by someone while you’re catching your breath and shakily drinking water.

Sometimes regression is not wanting anybody to touch you at all, wanting nobody to hurt you or overstimulate you or make you feel like you physically exist at all.

And sometimes regression is letting your little self drink the water you need, eat the food you deserve, put your face in the sunlight and do whatever you need to do to keep going. Sometimes it’s letting yourself sit and breathe. Sometimes you share that space with all of your feelings, simple and complicated alike while you’re little. Sometimes it’s just about feeling safe. ˚✧₊⁎💛⁎⁺˳༚

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⋆ happy pride month everyone! ⋆

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🍄🌻🍂 Outdoorsy Agere 🍂🌻🍄

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green / calm moodboard?:D

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tips to caring for littles who suffer from:

emotional dysregulation, hyper empathy,

and harsh moodswings !!

• develop grounding techniques to bring your little back to earth when they spiral. (breathing exercises, hand squeezing, observation games, etc.)

• remind them that what they're feeling is only big right now, and will pass.

• offer reassurance and spend time with them. Do not get angry if your little is easily upset or agitated.

• if the source of the moodswing or dysregulation is removable, try to get your little or the cause away from the other.

• find distractions to help your baby cope. (tv, games, toys, coloring, etc.)

• offer to talk with them about their big feelings and / or listen.

• if they're comfortable with it, take over bigger tasks and set down rules to prevent harm. (Ex: earlier bedtimes, no exceptions.)

• show love towards your little, and communicate your feelings aswell.

• encourage your little to be open about their moodswings the moment they have them. Preventing further damage or fear for both parties.

• if your little is experiencing hyper empathy towards another party, assure them they're a good person for feeling on the other's behalf, but remind them that they're their own person.

• if your little is neglecting themselves for others, step in and stop them from doing so if safe.

As someone who experiences big emotions very quickly, and has symptoms of hyper empathy as well as bpd. I have a hard time distinguishing my emotions, I hope this post helps others like me ^^ feel free to add your own tips on!

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if YOU’RE regressing… and I’M regressing… THEN WHOS FLYING THIS PLANE???

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sea stimboard ♡

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Affirmations for age regressors

I am a good kid

I am caring and loving

I am very cute and deserve to have my needs met

I am a good friend to all people, animals, and plants

Nobody is mad at me

Even if I do a bad thing that doesn't make me a bad kid, I just need to do better in the future

All of my friends and stuffed animals love me very much

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[ 🐦‍⬛ ] raven queen moodboard!

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edit: wow tysm for all da reblogs and likes :DD I didn't expect this to blow up :3

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Can we agree that being disabled doesn’t give you permission to ask me what my disability is or how did I get it if we are strangers/don’t know one another very well? You’re still asking me to share my personal medical info. I don’t ask disabled people why they’re disabled. Not even if they’re my friends, honestly. They can share it with me if they want to, but it’s not up to me to decide for them when and why. Being disabled doesn’t grant me that right.

There are so many other topics we can use as ice breakers. Humor about disability is fine. But let’s not dig into something that personal and/or traumatic.

My 2 cents.

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& you know what it actually IS lifechanging to smile at strangers & say please & thank you & goodmorning & compliment someones outfit & help someone in need & be more accepting of loving other people just because they are other people!!!