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If I had a normal relationship with food and alcohol and drugs and sex and sexuality and money. Then I would probably feel a lot better

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For U.S. peeps...

You can register to vote on Election Day in these states: Alaska, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Iowa, Maine, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Montana, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, Rhode Island, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, Wisconsin, Wyoming, and Washington D.C.

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My Tears Ricochet by Taylor Swift

Evil by Melanie Martinez

You Might Not Like Her by Maddie Zahm

Exjw's what are some songs that you love that helps or you relate to?

I will open this question up honestly to literally any excult member or anyone with religious trauma. I'm genuinely curious what kind of songs everyone has found.

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I'm sorry if you may have already heard about this, but I thought it would be best to warn you about some "discourse" currently taking place among exmo blogs here on Tumblr.

There's this horrible bigot called r4cs0 who is naturally a cis straight white baby boomer male living in northern Idaho where he brags that his hobby is hunting endangered animals. And of course he loves Mormonism and says that it was completely okay for Joseph Smith to have multiple wives for "financial reasons." So recently he and a bunch of his Trump supporting followers went off on a big rant about how exmos are just cowards who gave up on their faith because "jump humping" in college turned them gay.

Unfortunately an exmo blogger I follow called lemuel-apologist took the bait. And I'm assuming (and really hoping) that she was just joking around to try to troll r4cs0… But she claims that r4cs0 is "right" because she allegedly did organize a "queer jump humping orgy" when she was at BYU in order to protest the "inherent ecclesiastical absolutism of colonized Mormon institutions!" I'll spare you the more gruesome details that she divulged, but I guess the "punchline" of this story was that in order to have multiple groups of people jump humping at once, they needed access to multiple beds. So they broke into a furniture store and held the orgy there, causing it to become a protest of both Mormonism and capitalism at the same time!

As you can imagine, r4cs0 and his hateful followers didn't think this was a gotcha at all and instead have been spreading this story around to whip up even more bigotry. They even said they plan to send it in to Libs of Tik Tok!!

That's so gross to hear :(

There's always going to be angry weirdos who try to push their bigoted agenda onto groups of victims. Just remember that they don't know you personally and cannot fabricate the reasons why you or anyone would leave an oppressive group like Mormonism, try as they may. Also side note, anyone who is obsessed with being hateful towards the queer community is most likely struggling with accepting their own sexuality 🤷‍♀️

Anyways, keep your heads up darlings! You are all doing an amazing job in your healing journey 🩷

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A beautiful description for the experience of leaving any control group/religion

Yet another comic about leaving the Mormon church that can be applied to a variety of things.

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i."Revelation - It's Grand Climax at hand!" Watchtower Bible & Tract Society, 1988.

ii. "Pure Worship of Jehovah​—Restored At Last!" Watchtower Bible & Tract Society, 2018.

iii. Watchtower magazine, April 1989, May 1989.

Illustrators uncredited in publications and therefore unknown. 

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miniminuteman on youtube

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fuck casual friendships. our souls are intertwined. loving you is woven into the fabric of my life