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Stop being lazy and ruining your life

Procrastinating is the worst thing you can do to yourself. Obviously, studying is hard but failing is harder. So suffer with studying rather than failing. Realise that no one is coming to save you, you'll save yourself. Always invest in yourself whether it's time, money or anything else. You are your greatest investment. So stop scrolling, tie your hair and start working towards your goals. You can live your life after you have that degree/ grades but for now, grind as much as you can.

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You will get over it

As I'm writing this, sitting on my bed thinking about all those times where I thought I couldn't make it but I did. The universe always has a bigger plan for you, stay focused and trust the process. Do what you need and have to do, everything else will fall in place afterwards. You need to understand that everything happens for a reason and the universe is not your enemy. Life maybe teaching you a lesson right now but you need to go straight right through it and have faith in yourself that you can do it. Trust me it will get better, it's all in your head. You need to fix your mindset in order to fix your life. There are a lot of opportunities out there waiting for you to get them, all you have to do is have faith and put in the work. Remember it always starts with the head.

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Becoming smart is easy

Read books like - 48 laws of power, how to make friends and influence people, never split the difference etc.

Read psychology and human behaviour, trust me it's going to change your life.

Watch motivational kdramas and 'study with me' videos. It will boost your confidence and motivate you to study.

Watch Liz and Simone on youtube. They're the best and they're going to change your life.

Eat healthy, it affects your brain so much because your mind is what you consume and you should not eat cheap and unhealthy.

Workout or excercise because this factor is ignored by most of the people but in order to keep your mind healthy you need to keep your body healthy too.

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Its all about confidence

You have to always remind yourself of the fact that you're the main character in your life, so don't live like a side character.

There's always going to be someone judging you so there's no point in caring about people's opinions.

Always do things to satisfy yourself not others. People pleasing is not a trait of a confident woman.

If you're good at something but you don't have the confidence, trust me you're going to ruin it.

Confidence also revolves around self concept and can help your desires manifest quickly