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Redefining Masculinity: Breaking Free and Being Real

“The best way to destroy something is to pretend it’s not there.” – Terry Crews Hey everyone, Growing up, I lost count of how many times I heard stuff like “Man up” or “Real men don’t cry.” So, I did what I thought I was supposed to do—I shoved my feelings down, put on a tough face, and tried to fit into this idea of what a man is “supposed” to be. But honestly, it never felt right. Society…

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YourJustaMan: Real Stories, Real Growth

Welcome to YourJustaMan, Hey, I’m Omar, and I’m just a man—like you—navigating life’s challenges, triumphs, and everything in between. YourJustaMan is a space I created to talk openly about the unique struggles we face as men. Whether it’s battling mental health issues, enduring abuse, grappling with societal expectations, or simply figuring out how to handle life’s daily grind, this blog is…

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Overcoming Emotional Burdens: A Man's Journey

When I was 12, my mom was getting married, and my dad told me something I’ll never forget. He said, “If your mom gets married, I’m not going to pay for your private school.” At that age, I didn’t know what to do, but I did know one thing: my mom wouldn’t be able to afford it. So I made a decision. I went up to her and said, “Don’t worry about it—I’ve always wanted to go to public school. Do your…

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The Power of Vulnerability: Breaking the Silence

Society often tells men to be strong and silent, but true strength lies in embracing our vulnerabilities. I recall a pivotal moment when I was alone in upstate New York, at SUNY New Paltz. Born and raised in New York City, this was my first time truly away from home. Surrounded by unfamiliar faces and far from the comfort of my family, I found myself confronting old memories and emotions that I…