your-radqueer-dad

[your-radqueer-dad]

hi dad, me and my sys want to create a headspace where we can be while not fronting (and we want to try to make it very vivid/feel like we’re actually there) but we don’t know how

here’s the problem: we have non possessive switches so we kind of “turn into” eachother (though we’re still very much different people) It’s usually a pretty fast and drastic change (so not over time, usually) so we’re not sure how the non-fronting alter would visualize anything, because they’re well…not conscious. We thought of solving this problem with co-consciousness, because then we could visualize while the other person did everyday life things. But that’s like, really hard to multi-task (we havent really tried) and we also kind of (?) wanted to try to have separate memories (because we currently don’t. But we’re scared it would be irreversible. We think we might be able to manage to do it but we don’t know if we could undo it?) basically instead of both the alters being aware of eachother we would try to have 1 line/‘core’ (hard to explain) of consciousness that would be aware of everything while the individual alters split off from eachothers memory and become unaware of what eachother is doing, but then after a certain amount of time we would want them to be able to both merge with/return to that line of consciousness and remember everything that happened as if they had known the whole time like “oh yeah [name] did that” It could be complicated tho, uhm yea we just don’t really know how/are scared of the consequences and have kinda low motivation 😭 I guess our unsureness and fear that It might be irriversible is what is holding us back. We just dont know if it will be permanent, what do you think, dad?

-Joel/Jupp/Ray (wants to be called kid/kiddo)

-And Yahweh but he doesnt wanna be called kiddo

Hey, kiddo and Yahweh! 💖✨️

I don't know much about the subject, but it feels like what you're describing could easily go either way when it comes to permanency of it🤔

If y'all read something about it taking effort to maintain, it's most likely not permanent, but most likely, once it becomes second nature, it becomes hard to reverse.

But in most cases, if something can be turned into something else, it can go the opposite way when it comes to the mind.

Like how you can unhypnotize somebeings!

I'm not sure if that's how it works, but that's my base understanding🤔

Do any of the beautiful plural kiddos have any advice for these beings?

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hi i know I'm a radqueer and I'm scared my friends will hate me and I know they will. Do you know any good radqueer safe spaces?

(sorry if this comes off as rude and sorry my writing is bad im stressed)

Hey. You don't need to apologize for anything. I like to think that this is a safe space for anyone🫶 any Kiddos and Littles who have any good suggestions, please reblog this, commented, send it as an ask. Let's help each other out💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

Happy Pride Month to all queer folks!!

This Pride Month, I want to make it clear to all of the queer folks who are pushed to the side that you are loved and you are seen.

To the genderfucky queers, to queer folks of color, to Indigenous queers, to young queers, to disabled queers, to the kinksters, to the nonhumans, to plural folks, to sexqueer folks, to the paraphiles, to the transIDers, and to everyone else,

You are loved and you are not alone.

As much as things seem to be falling apart, and as much as everything kind of sucks right now, there are folks out there who love and care for you. I'm one of them. We will survive.

[your-radqueer-dad]

I'm getting an award from my school!!! :3

That's so awesome!! I'm so proud of you💕✨️💖

[your-radqueer-dad]

I have an ultrasound today to figure out if I have pcos, I’m scared.

I know it's scary. I wish I knew how to help you feel better. This is what I know: having PCOS simply means your intersex if you want to identify that way. It doesn't mean you're broken or lessons any of your identities. It would simply be another fact about you, and isn't it awesome to know facts? Especially about yourself?!

Try seeing it as an opportunity to learn more about yourself and be open to whatever the outcome is💖💕

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hey, lonely. I'm Dad :D

i'm lonely, radqueers haii hi hi haii,,, radqueer littles haiiiiiii, radqueer systems haiiiiiiiiiiuuui stares at u

[your-radqueer-dad]

hi dad !!! it's breakup anon. my main is a lil more overtly rq now as well, but the blog/alter whose really delved into it is @babybarbies !! it's our transage and selfship blog ♡

I hope your day is going well, I'm going to a pride event today!

I love that username! That just makes me think of kittens cuz their baby babies lol

If any of you are interested in having a lovely friend, give it a follow💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

I am shatting, father. Send help. I am dying.

I hope you're alright!! I'm broke too😭

[your-radqueer-dad]

hi, I left the last ask bc my main is another alter in the systems acc so I didnt wanna use their account, anyways, thank you! you really helped :-), I started doing more stuff alone and trying to find myself, also, I just turned 13!!! turns out im really good at making blinkies and pixel art! im really happy and proud of myself! I feel like I CAN be proud of myself now, I feel like I can be myself now. thanks dad.

-@xxthelazywolfxx

I'm glad, I could help💕✨️ happy belated birthday and happy Pride✨️💕

[your-radqueer-dad]

i wanna cry but im scarwd to talk about it and I dont know where to go

-D

Whenever you need to cry, you can always vent with me, and if you don't want me to post it, just say so! I can always respond privately, and my DMs are open if that is preferred!

I love you, and I want this to be a safe place for you✨️💕

[your-radqueer-dad]

hi, the breakup anon again <3 thank you for your kind words. its really helped some, and i also learned a new term since i always just called myself transplatonic haha :)

if its possible, id like to at least share my rq blog @ with you/your followers in the hopes of getting myself out there? if not since thats kind of a promo thats totally ok !!!!

Go ahead and give yourself a promo! I don't mind helping my kiddos meet other kiddos💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

tw: nsfw kinda

hey dad. i think my friend is lowkey trying to get me to cheat on my bf?? its super coddling and super cling, i mean nothing wrong with that but its also been making somewhat of sexual advances at me? like offering to massage my chest (im afab) when im stressed. ive already expressed my boundaries towards it in the past before but its just being. really weird towards me.

I hope you're okay!! they were doing some Predator Behavior... if someone's making you uncomfortable even after you've tried to set boundaries, they're not really a friend... I'm sorry it took me so long to respond. I hope everything's alright🫶

[your-radqueer-dad]

Whenever I see your posts I want to tag them with things like "thanks Daddy !" but /gen not /sx

I'm worried it'll come off weird though ><

Honestly, that's hilarious 😂

[your-radqueer-dad]

hi dad.. i recently had to have forcibly been broken up with because i was living with my abusive partners and ive kind of lost all of my friends in the crossfire because they happen to seem like the better party...

im not really sure what im asking for, i just wanted to share that i've been a little lonely, but i am trying to get myself at least... immersed in the rq space. i just feel like i can't share any of my problems or sadness without being isolated, i guess.

do you have any advice for making friends?

I want to say, "Just be yourself, and the right individuals will come to you!" But that's not always the case... I'm cupioplatonic, so I have difficulties knowing when I have friends.

The best you can do is interact with individuals, protect yourself where you need, and hope for the best.

It's a tough world out there, and you're allowed to vent your loneliness, your sadness, and your problems to me and in your blog.

As long as you're friendly and kind, you will make friends. It just won't always be immediately.

[your-radqueer-dad]

Yeah, deletions can be very intense sometimes like; I had to get on medication because of how intense mine was (especially since it was coupled with hallucinations)

I'm back! A lot of stuff happened but I used to be @the-prettiest-corpse (Aiko) but a lot of stuff happened lol

Anyway have a Bob :3

Hey, kiddo. I would love to have the update! A lot of stuff has happened with me, too lol

Thank you for the Bob💕

[your-radqueer-dad]

hi I'm new here and to the rq community but I don't have any rq friends yet 3: and my partners r very anti 3:

so I don't really have anyone to ask questions to and I feel like im being super annoying to people! any advice? :(

Well, I'm back, and I'm happy to answer questions! So if you still need questions answered, I'm here💕✨️

[your-radqueer-dad]

Hello dad , found your blog through our boyfriend and I think you're cool

Thank you! 🥰 I'm going to try to be more active. I originally started it as just me (Dylan), and then I don't know what happened, but at some point, I had a dad character in my head. I would love it for him to show up again. But until then, Dylan is dad lol