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HOW TO ROMANTICIZE YOUR LIFE PT.2

Here's the highly requested come backk, how to romanticize your lifeee!! Are you getting tired of the everyday life? Grab your friend, your cat and favorite snacks, it's time to add spice to your bland life!

୨୧Create a band!୨୧

Everyone wanted to be part of those cool 2000s band, like Roderick Humphrey from diaries of a Wimpy kid, so why not making friends, or become friend with the band kids!

୨୧Make your own site/blog୨୧

This is especially for my 2014 Tumblr coded girlies and the girlies that wanted to be a fashion magazine author, you just need to decide what you want to talk about! Do you want a gossip tea page? Do you want a spotted? Or a self improvement one? You decide!

୨୧Write poetry/songs୨୧

This is for my romantics out there! If you can, go in nature and write poetries or songs take a moments to yourself and express not only your feelings but also your creativity on paper throught your words.

୨୧Start a collection୨୧

Summer it's the best season to start collecting stuff, seashells, rocks, crystals, stamps, swinsuits,stickers,albums,dolls,manga,cards etc..if you ever get bored of your collection you can sell it or use it for DIYs

୨୧Trow a slumberparty/sleepover୨୧

I never went to a slumberparty, but they seem so much fun! staying awake with your friends till the first sunlights, stargazing, gossiping and crazy storytimes! They don't even have to be your friends, they can be your cousins or your siblings!

୨୧Make a mixtape୨୧

This is so old school, but it seems like a fun way to pass time, it's like making a playlist just phisycally! You can choose if you want to do it on a cd or an actual tape.

Here's the second part for my "how to romanticize your life"!! If you want you can find the first part here , as summer it's coming I'm gonna try to post more guides and answer my inbox!, stay tuned cause I'll make sure to make the most about this time and to give you more fun props! xoxo gorgeous

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Type of shoes I'd wear everyday if men didn't exist

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2025 : #22 How to LOCK IN

✒️..You overwhelmed. u keep saying, "I need to get my life together," but you don’t even know where to start. That feeling being stuck in ur own head, paralyzed by everything and nothing at the same time it’s real ikr I've been there but there’s a way out of this messy shit is to locking in. Locking is when "u stop reacting, and you start creating" . You start showing up for yourself like you matter because you do but how .. ?

1. SET GOALS & INTENTIONS

Before anything else, you need direction. When life feels messy, it’s usually because you're reacting to everything instead of moving with purpose. So start with a pause. Ask yourself: What do I want my life to actually look like? Not in vague terms like "success" or "happiness" but specifically. What kind of mornings do you want? What kind of work fulfills you? What kind of people do you want around you? What does peace look like for you?

Now set intentions. An intention isn’t just a goal it’s a way of being. A goal says "I want to lose 10 pounds." An intention says "I want to treat my body like it matters." That's the difference. Intentions give your goals a soul. Write both down . This is your why and you're going to need it when things get hard then u will remember to keep u going

2. KILL DISTRACTIONS

When life feels messy, the first thing you have to do is quiet the noise. And I don’t mean just the literal noise . I’m talking about the mental clutter: endless scrolling, group chats with no purpose, random content you consume that makes you compare yourself to others (hear me out) All of it is stealing your focus. You can’t figure out your life if you’re constantly filling your brain with everybody else’s.

Start by auditing your digital life. What apps do you open as soon as you wake up? What’s constantly grabbing your attention but giving you nothing real back? If it doesn’t help you grow, if it doesn’t calm your mind, if it doesn’t fuel your creativity it’s time to let it go. At least for now. Silence can be uncomfortable at first, but within silence lives clarity. And clarity is the seed of change.

3. FLIP THE MENTAL SWITCH

This part is important as setting goals . If your life feels off track, you have to make a hard decision with yourself: Am I going to keep living like this, or am I going to do something about it? This is where you flip the switch. And flipping it means choosing to no longer accept a half-lived version of your life. It’s the moment where you say, "I’m tired of feeling behind. I’m done wasting time."

You might not know how to fix everything yet, but the decision to lock in is the beginning. This switch is an energy shift. It’s the point when you stop waiting for motivation, stop waiting to feel "ready," and decide that showing up is no longer optional. You become your own motivator. You stop asking, "Can I really do this?" and start saying, "Watch me." It’s about becoming unrecognizable to your past self, one action at a time

4. CONTROL YOUR SPACE

When your life feels messy, often your space reflects it ofc . Look around your room. Your desk. Your phone. Your inbox. Is it all chaos? Then your mind will be too. You don’t need to do a full makeover you just need to create order. Clean your room like you're clearing your head or like someone important will come in organize your stuff like you’re organizing your next move.

When your physical environment feels chaotic, it signals your brain that you’re not safe, not grounded, not focused. And that’s exhausting. You deserve a space that supports the person you want to become. Light a candle. Open a window. Get some sunlight in . Your space should be a place where change can happen. Because once your space feels clean and calm, your mind starts to follow.

4. FUEL YOUR BODY

You can’t lock in if you’re running on fumes. That foggy, tired, heavy feeling you’re carrying A lot of it is physical. You’re probably dehydrated. You’re probably not sleeping enough. You're probably surviving on caffeine and chips or whatever. And I get it when your mind is a mess, eating right and sleeping well feel impossible.

But your body is the machine that gets you out of this rut. If your body is crashing, your mind can’t focus. Your emotions spiral more easily. Start small: more water, less sugar. Stretch your body in the morning. Take deep breaths. Cook for urself , go outside. Move your body. Fuel it. Your energy and mental clarity will thank you. You don’t have to go from 0 to gym rat. You just have to treat your body like it matters.treat your body like how u will treat your child

5. FOCUS YOUR MIND

Right now, your thoughts are probably bouncing everywhere. You feel overwhelmed because your brain is trying to solve everything at once. But focus isn’t about doing everything. It’s about doing the next thing.

And to do that, you need clarity. You need to know what matters right now. not next week. not next year. right now. What’s one thing you can finish today that moves you forward? Is it doing laundry? Submitting an application? Journaling your feelings? Focus on that doing your homework ?. Give it all your attention. Turn ur phone off and pour into that one thing. Get used to being present. That’s what real focus feels like your full self showing up to a single task.

6. OWN YOUR TIME

When your life is a mess, time just slips through your fingers. Days go by and you don’t even know what you did. That stops now. You need to get intentional. Before bed, plan tomorrow. Write three things you want to accomplish. Block off your time, even if it’s just: wake up 1h before ur usual time , workout , cook breakfast... . It doesn’t have to be extreme. It just has to be deliberate.

Think of your time like currency. Once it’s spent, you don’t get it back. So don’t spend it on guilt, fear, overthinking, or distraction. Spend it on action. On healing. On building something that matters.

7. ALIGN SPIRITUALLY

Here’s the part no one talks about when you're in a mess: your soul is tired. U feel disconnected. You might not even remember what peace feels like. Locking in isn’t just about habits It’s also about realignment.

You are more than your productivity. You are more than your checklist. So pause. Sit with yourself. Be still. Breathe. Talk to God, the universe, your ancestors whatever u believe in , journal . Let your spirit speak too . Let your pain surface. Let yourself feel again. That’s where the answers you’re begging for will show up always have some minutes everyday whenever in the morning or night to sit and talk to urself and let everything out (negativity) .

8. EMBRACE DETACHMENT

Detachment isn’t about not caring it’s about caring from a place of peace not panic. When you’re locked in, you learn to release your grip on things you can’t control: people’s opinions, outcomes, and timing. You stop chasing, and instead, you start aligning. You don’t beg for energy, attention, or results you trust that what’s meant for you is flowing your way. The art of detachment is what keeps your power close. You give your best and focused, but you’re no longer shaken by what doesn’t go as planned. That’s is called control .To practice detachment, start by identifying what’s stressing you out or what you’re obsessing over ask yourself if it’s something you can change or if it’s beyond your control or out of it . Then, consciously let go of the attachment to that outcome or person. This doesn't mean you stop caring it means you trust that whatever happens is part of the journey and that it will all unfold as it’s meant to. You can practice detachment by shifting your focus back to what you can control your actions, your attitude, and your peace of mind. With time, detachment helps you remain calm, clear-headed, and more connected to your own path without being weighed down by the uncontrollable.

If your life feels messy, that doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re being called to level up. To stop floating. To stop waiting for someone to save you. Locking in isn’t boring it’s freedom. It’s how you take back control. And once you feel that click you’ll never want to go back.have a good luck 🍀.

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Time for me to stop yearning to be someone else. I am me, me is great. I will better myself for me, not change myself for others.

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✿𓈒ིུ.·:*¨ WHAT IS NOIR GYAL?

A movement & style that embraces black girlhood & black hyperfemininity, created by me.

BACKSTORY:

This is highly inspired by my inner child. I've always struggled feeling "feminine" as a black woman & although, I do love the other "girly" & "hyperfemininity” styles i've felt even more out of place within those communities since they tend to target towards societies standards. There has been other black individuals I've spoken to that also relate, which inspired me to start "Noir Gyal." My goal is to inspire myself & others to feel "feminine" while also embracing our blackness through all stages & also creating a safe place.

✿ For more, check out the pinterest board & playlist:

❀ https://pin.it/5dCPbDLd5

❀ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2v9WgxZ0OHu7wWZFhZBgHQ?si=rO7tHrKfSyiG7ID_7uo64w&pi=lafr-HeFQ2iyM

✿ #444 all my black hyperfems, or black people who relate, feel free to use the tag #noirgyal

- blowing kisses, n giving sugar. - ℒ ❀

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Becoming the best version of me

ᴛɪᴍᴇ ɪꜱ ᴀ ᴄᴏɴꜱᴛʀᴜᴄᴛ. ᴅᴏ ɴᴏᴛ ᴡᴀɪᴛ ꜰᴏʀ ᴛᴏᴍᴏʀʀᴏᴡ ᴀꜱ ɪᴛ ᴡɪʟʟ ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴄᴏᴍᴇ.

𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝜗𝜚⋆₊˚

🍨 be more mindful on social media: use it to connect, create, inspire, less time doomscrolling, switch from apps like tiktok to tumblr and stubstack, stop opening social media when bored or tired

🍨 hobbies: read more (articles, poems, newsletters), watch long pieces of media (movies, documentaries, video essays), write down everything, research a specific interest

🍨 spend more time with yourself: self care, do your skincare despite being tired, reflect on your day/month/year, shadow work, wake up earlier, paint your nails, journal

🍨 mindfulness: meditate, affirm, live in the assumption, high vibrational music, practice gratitude

𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝜗𝜚⋆₊˚

🍨 take care of your body: stretch, pilates, yoga, drink 2L of water, don't skip meals, limit caffeine, sleep 8h

🍨 consistency: morning and night routine, study daily, practice spanish and BSL, have non negotiable tasks, calendar, reminders, reward yourself

🍨 space: keep tidy, deep clean, fresh air, organised folders + notes, real friends

𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡 𝜗𝜚⋆₊˚

🍨 educate yourself: study outside the curriculum, learn about history, cultures, politics, keep up to date with what's going on in the world

🍨 spirituality: get in touch with your morals, energy, manifest and set intentions, follow the moon, learn about the universe, study religions

𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝜗𝜚⋆₊˚

🍨 live in the present and be kind to yourself, don't punish yourself for falling back into bad habits but pick yourself back up again.

🍨 don't compare your journey to others. be the best version of yourself for yourself.

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About me 𐙚🧸ྀི˖

I'm 17, mixed (black+white), unlabelled (although I may identify as bisexual) and go by Kelsie.

I'm into spirituality, old black and white films, substack, conscious rap, recording life, reading, educating myself on anything I'm not knowledgeable in and people who are undeniably theirselves.

Some of my favourite movies are: the wizard of oz, but I'm a cheerleader, gone girl, in the heights, the devil wears prada, first daughter, charlie's angels, final desrination, heathers and a streetcar named desire.

Favourite shows: moesha, girlfriends, fresh prince, skins, pretty little liars, gossip girl, criminal minds, law and order svu.

Artists I'm obsessed with at the moment are Stella Donnelly and Doechii.

Although I love Neapolitan, my favourite colour is is actually purple.

I'm not mysterious or quiet - I love talking to people so I'd love to be friends.

I'm here to blog, connect with people and romanticise my life!

Other

🍨 pinterest - divineaura

🍨 letterboxd - tamzs

🍨 spacehey - kelsiesblog

. ۫ ꣑ৎ dividers @anitalenia ♡

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"You're hard to read"

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biggest struggle is press on lover with curly hair 💔

🎀 ⋆˚.⋆ need to get my nails done so i can achieve my full princess form

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Girls who cry when they’re angry are angels

˖ ࣪ 𝜗𝜚 ˖ ࣪ 𝜗𝜚 ˖ ࣪ 𝜗𝜚

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i love the moon i wanna bathe in the moonlight

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you know what? yeah

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