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[manifestingitgurlll]

Hi! What does it mean to not identify with the ego? I always saw it as flipping your thoughts or trying very hard to ignore them/your circumstances. But it doesn't seem to be the case...?

I know that I'm pure awareness, but I don't know when I'm identifying or not identifying with the ego, as well as what it means to 'move on'. Does that mean you have to forget?

Also, everything about nondualism feels trust based, so I kind of freak out when I start to think that maybe I'm just waiting and that's why I'm not seeing any changes. Though, I don't know if I'm actually waiting or I'm being either.

I hope the questions aren't too self explanatory, it's kind of hard to read between the lines without any examples! q_q

not identifying with ego just means to stop placing yourself within its limits. so if i say, im 6 ft tall but im still aware of ego seeing me being 5 ft 1. not identifying would be recognizing that that's not my story. what ego sees, thinks, feels, or believes means nothing bcs i know im awareness, not just ego. im aware of being 6ft tall, so i am!

if you decided you have it and you're not entertaining anything that says you don't, even if you're aware of seeing/thinking/feeling the opposite, then you're not identifying! thats knowing.

moving on doesn't mean forgetting, it just means moving on from the old story. you're not bringing it back up, trying to "do" more, you've just accepted it is done. you continue being and living life, knowing its done and that you have it. just simply being!

i get wym abt not knowing if you're being or actually knowing you have it. so just ask yourself those two questions: are you aware of the fact that you have it? are you refusing to entertain and identify with anything that says otherwise? if both answers are yes, then you know! you are being! thats all it is.

dont look to the mirror for validation that you're "doing it right." it means nothing when YOU are the source. look to yourself only.

i hope this helped answer ur questions!!

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Okay so I KNOW I HAVE IT bur i feel too impatient and excited abt the physical unfolding. I KNOW THAT BOY LIKES ME BUT WHEN HE’S GOING TO TELL ME THAT UGHGHHHHH. Am i not being the person who has? Can you give me advice😭

feelings mean nothing, you can still "feel" impatient and excited and still know you have it. its like the day before your birthday. you know you have gifts, but you're still excited and impatient for them. it doesnt change the fact that you know you have it!

just remember that yep, the guy already likes you, you're together. anything that contradicts that (sight, feelings, belief..) is meaningless

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Hey sky! I have a question. So I’m very new to manifestation and I’m following the law of assumption. And I see a lot of bloggers saying to “live in the end” and have your thoughts aline with the version of you who already has it. But under loa, couldn’t I just assume I don’t need to live in the end, or that I don’t HAVE to believe in order to manifest? I say this because I’m having trouble with just assuming it’s already done and living from there.

well yes you dont have to "live in the end" and you dont have to believe! all you do is know, everything else is irrelevant

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Hi! I'm not an anti-shifer or anti-manifesting person? but I'm stuck at a point where I see no improvement or escape for my currcent cirmustances. Pretty long+negative sorry 😭

for example wanting to manifest perfect eyesight, perfect teeth with no fillings, no moles etc, and it's very hard to keep being positive and believe in manifestation because I see no progress that I have my desires and I've yet to see anyone who's manifested things like that that seem 'irreparable?' If thats the word for it, so it makes me doubt it sm. For shifting, I like to take a daydreaming method approach at night when I go to sleep but I haven't ever woken up in my DR, dreamt of it or had symptoms etc. I really want these things to be real, but each day I wake up to my 3D cirmustances and it's very difficult to still keep trying and affirming when I feel it's a hopeless case for me. I lack motivation to even shift now, I don't feel excited about it but I do wanna shift. Same with my other desires. It feels really tiring because I feel stuck and yet I can't find a way to move/have a new look on my situation no matter how many posts I read on here. I

I have a very boring life, no friends, no school, no work, and shifting and manifesting is basically my only way of having a future atp, so I NEED it to be real, but I haven't manifested any of my desires. I have for example had eczema before and listened to healing subliminals and my eczema/allergy went away but I also did some skincare so I'm not sure if I can call it a success. I lost a game account and submitted a recovery from three days ago, I kept affirming Id have my account back and I got it yesterday even though I was afraid my recovery form would be rejected even tho I did have all correct information. I don't know if that can be called manifestation as if I didn't submit the recovery form, I wouldn't have gotten it back.

Do you have any advice or thoughts to share about what I've just written? It'd really help me

everything is a manifestation, its impossible for you to not manifest when its thats all you do. you manifested your eczema going away. you manifested having your account back. you manifested waking up. you manifested breathing. you're constantly manifesting!

you're trying to think about it logically like "well i did this LOGICAL thing so thats the only reason why it worked," but logic doesnt exist. it could've easily happened where your skincare didn't work, or the recovery form didnt go through. but no, you manifested the outcome, and so it was!

why would you look towards other people for validation on if somethings real or not when it all comes down to what your awareness? there are literally thousands of "big" success stories, but it'll mean nothing to you if you continue to think (know) that you can't do it.

your issue is that you keep taking what you see to be real and permanent, when its not. and bcs of that, you're just solidifying the fact that you dont have it!

"I haven't manifested any of my desires" "I see no progress that I have my desires"

why are you putting so much importance to sight as if it means anything at all? understand that knowing is ALL that matters. its not abt sight, its not abt feelings, its not abt belief; its only about knowing. if you know it, then it is done. the end.

i understand its difficult when you're seeing the opposite and its bad, I GET IT. but you have to stop seeing it as something real. its all an illusion, created by awareness (you!). you dont need to fight it, but just see through it.

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The 2nd of the month was my SP's birthday, and I assumed he would spend that day with me, but we didn't. August 5th was an important day for me, and he got sick when I was supposed to meet him that day. The 14th is also my birthday, and I'm worried he won't celebrate my birthday. I know I wouldn't worry about my birthday if we were already in a relationship, but I assumed we would spend the days before that together, but that didn't happen, and that won't happen either. I'll never be able to be with him.

but realize that the only one saying whats not happening (and giving meaning to it) is you! you know that you create your reality. whatever you know, is. so why would you continue to stay stuck on the old story?

YOU are the one creating the story that "you will never be with him." that nothing will ever happen. so thats what reflects. you're only getting in your own way. do you want the old story to continue? im sure you dont, so stop identifying with it. actions mean nothing, feelings mean nothing, what you see means nothing. so stop basing what you know on any of it. i know its hard, but push through. you lose absolutely nothing.

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hello ! I hope you are doing well :) it’s totally fine if you don’t wanna answer this ask but as a fellow black girl how do you handle people belittling your feelings or preaching the “we are limitless/there are infinite realities” when it comes to being weirded out by race changing or the lack of consideration that people have toward your feelings? Like genuinely it hurts so much to have the only place you though to be a safe space be filled with these type of people and their enablers… not only that but as a person who cares about the world I live in general it’s just genuinely painful to see people berate others for being weirder by weirdos under the claim of “we can manifest anything” — not even for morally grey or benign topics that are subjective ( having multiple s/os , manifesting someone in a relationship , becoming a billionaire , manifesting the downfall of an abuser/evil person) but for genuinely bad stuff like incest , racial insensitivity , killing people for no reason , bigotry…etc especially as a victim and because of the trauma I have. I genuinely hate the way “ not my life/dr , not my problem” as been a used as a way to shut the growing number of legitimate weirdos in the loa and shifting community (I totally get that in truth there is nothing we could but I feel like people are too enably and condoning with the way they talk about these topics). I know I’ll probably get jumped for this if I ever post this anywhere and that is what makes me even more sad. it’s so triggering , loatwt and shiftblr , nowhere is safe.

How can I just allow myself to not be so affected by this? thank you if you took the time to read this

(Also if you’re more comfortable this way you could indirectly respond to my ask with this 🙈 emoji if you don’t want to post this)

hey, i totally agree with you and relate. it can be really hard seeing this time, especially in a community that already gets a lot of flack and is seen as "made up" and "delusional."

honestly, for myself, i just block the people who do or support the things that im offended by. blocking and pressing not interested curates my feed to how i want it to be. yeah its still out there, and i hate it, but at least if i dont see it, i cant get triggered by it. i only follow people i genuinely enjoy, and i only interact with posts i actually like.

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you never manifested anything that would be considered "impossible" you only "manifested" a boyfriend, feeling happy or other normal possible things like that

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Hi, I am thinking of starting my own law of assumption blog. Do you have any advice for newer loass blogs starting out?

honestly just have fun! i always post for fun, i do it bcs i genuinely enjoy sharing my thoughts. dont feel pressured to answer every single question, especially if someone is coming at you with hostile energy. same with anons, the delete and block button is there, you don’t have to go back and forth with any weirdos if you don’t wanna.

[manifestingitgurlll]

Hello! How are you?

I wanted to have your opinion about something, because you’re so helpful in my journey.

So, everything is us, ( awareness) and our ego too. (Because saying that we are not our ego is to help us to understand that we are after all Awareness?)

You said when we decide that we already have in imagination and in physical because everything is imagination.( and I agree with that!) But it’s the sense of our ego ( mainly the view )that is showing the old story or whatever. ( anyway, we know that we have it and that’s enough)

But actually, the only thing that would allow our ego to see the new story that we choose is to decide that the ego sees it? Since it’s us ( awareness).

Anyway, I’m so sorry that you receive hate from people, I send you a lot of love 🫶🏼🫶🏼

i’m good thanks!

really for ego to recognize the new story, you just need to stop focusing on whether or not ego recognized the new story. you just disengage from it all, period. you stop giving it any energy and solely focus on you knowing you have it. bcs that’s truly all that matters

(and ps, yes you’re right, ego is awareness, like everything else. when we say you’re not ego, we mean you’re not JUST ego like we think we are. we are awareness, and awareness is everything)

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omg your latest post about the ego trying to rationalize … so damn true!!! my super specific manifestations will materialize and my brain is still like “well… it’s probably just a coincidence…” like nooo bitch, i did that!!! lmaoo but fr i’m obsessed with your blog! all your posts just hit so good 💗

yess exactly! and that’s a perfect example of simply not identifying with it, refusing to take that as your truth and staying firm in what you know. and aw i’m glad you like my posts! 🫶🏽

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why would you look to a mirror for validation? do you hold a mirror and look at it 24/7 to make sure your face is really there? no .you just know it is. its the same for everything. knowing is everything, not sight. when you know it, then it is. cant see it? who cares, you know and thats all that matters.

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What does being an orphan or being adopted have to do with law of assumption???? ?? ? ??? That person is either slow or just wanted your attention LMAO

cause what does new age manifestation even mean 😭😭

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do transition periods or purges exist? like do I need to experience the bad before the good when it comes to fixing my life?

no, not unless you think it does!

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Duuuude. That anon.

people are so insanely crazy. and thats literally why i never posted abt being an adoptee on my main socials, cause ppl love to throw it back in your face and use it as a gotcha moment. its weirdddd

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ofc orphan like u obsessed w new age manifestation movement lol

orphan 💀 my parents aren’t dead babe go back to school

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thats one thing thats funny abt ego...always trying to rationalize.

"no, thats not your manifestation, its just a coincidence!! it didnt really happen, stop being delusional"

but remember, YOU make the decision on what any of what you see means. if you decide that your sp looking at you for 2 seconds means your manifestation worked, then thats true! who decides that its not?? no one other than you! so think in your favor 🙂‍↕️

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also another success story! ive been focusing on manifesting "smaller' things, with the intention of NOT affirming constantly, just to show myself that yes, i dont need to think abt it all the time for it to manifest.

so i manifested that my dog, who hasnt been eating his food lately bcs he loves his medicine treats too much lol, would eat 2 bowls of it in a row, in a day.

like i said, i didnt affirm constantly. i just put it on a list and marked it as completed. done.

so then today, i walked past the dog bowls, and one was empty! i have two dogs, so i initially thought "hm that mustve been *my other dog,* the manifestation didnt work :(" BUT then i caught myself. sight means nothing, until i give it meaning. so i asked myself why would i give it THAT negative meaning? i could literally decide it meant that superman flew through my house and fed it to a stray cat if i wanted to 💀 so i changed it, i said "nope! *my dog* ate that. he has a really strong appetite lately."

then later on (when i meant in a row, i meant like one after the other, not directly like 5 seconds after yk so this was a couple hours later), i was trying to get them to eat. the entire time i was just thinking, "well he ate 2 bowls in a row, so i know he has the hunger." not obsessively, just like randomly here and there. well, he ate the entire bowl! this is the same dog who refused to eat ANY FOOD the whole day 😭 so i KNEW this was bcs of my knowing (and again, why would i want to think any differently lol?)

it sounds silly, yes, but stuff like this just really helps me build my own confidence even more. i always struggle with thinking i need to DO to GET, which just keeps me stuck on the old story, but this really just shows me that truly all i need to do is know its done. bcs it is!!