renukawrites

[renukawrites]

somebody prayed for you. somebody prayed to have you in their life. and you hurt them. sometimes, these things happen. but you don't get to be smug about it. you do not have permission to inflict more pain. you are not allowed to become more disrespectful. because the same energy that grants prayers, also looks after consequences. - renuka i. in life, there will always be a chance of hurting others. but you should know remorse because of it. it should humble you. you should be bothered by the fact that you are the reason someone is in pain. and you should do what you can to make it easier. that's the least you can do for a human being, if hurting them is unavoidable. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

[renukawrites]

what appears to be happening may not actually be what's happening. the events behind the scenes may paint a more accurate picture. but perhaps you're not privy to that information. you can spend your energy analyzing what's available to you, and jumping to conclusions. or you can trust that it's moving in the direction it's supposed to, until that path intersects with yours. - renuka i. it's going to unfold how it's meant to whether you're sitting on the sidelines documenting the process or not. so why not spend your time elsewhere. doing the things you love. until it's ready for you. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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you can't help someone who doesn't see a problem. sometimes you have to let people go down a turbulent path, until they're ready to get off of it on their own. you can't learn people's lessons for them. - renuka i. whether we see it or not, our lives are individually designed to teach us what we need to learn in this lifetime. we can't rush the lesson, nor can we shield people from them. all we can do is be there for our loves ones. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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you're an incredible human being. why wouldn't there be someone out there who matched your energy? - renuka i. if you haven't met them yet, it's not because they don't exist. it's because of timing. trust the delays. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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let your body heal in its own time. society will force you to speed up the process. it was never a race. slow down, be gentle, be forgiving. - renuka i. on illness, injuries, post-partum, surgeries. listen to your body. we're always in such a hurry to resume life. yield to this pause. what can you do today to be more gentle with yourself? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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there's no formula for how to make a relationship work. none of us really know what we're doing. what you should be looking for in a partner, is someone who's willing to learn. someone who WANTS to prioritize your happiness. not just their own. - renuka i. we all want to be happy in a relationship for a long time. but do you want your partner to be happy as well? do you want it to be long-term for them, too? this is important. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

[renukawrites]

I'm judging how well I'm doing in life based on how I'm treating myself and others. am I being loving, gentle, supportive, encouraging, protective, honest? am I giving myself and others permission to rest, to play, to say no? am I giving us the room to be ourselves, to explore, to give up, to start again? is character incorporated into your definition of success? it should be. - renuka i. wealth and recognition are great but they pale in comparison to the development of your character. you should always see it this way. why? let me ask you this: when you describe yourself...what are you saying? when others describe you, what are they saying? what do you want to be known for in this world? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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you want me to care, ask yourself why? because what's going on with you no longer concerns me. this sounds harsh, I know. but I only mean that I'm prioritizing people who prioritize me. so, reflect on why you still feel that there are holes in your life that only I can fill. - renuka i. instead of dismissing what you feel, you should sit with it. there are answers there that deserve your attention. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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sometimes, I find myself having conversations in my head with people who have yet to give me answers. I like to be prepared. but...I don't have to be. if and when the moment arises, trust that you'll know what to say. it'll likely look different than what you've created in your head, anyway. so don't spend too much of your energy on scenarios that haven't happened. - renuka i. we all want answers, conclusions, closure. it's hard to let that go, I know. write out what you're feeling so that you can get it off your chest. and then leave it. should you get the chance to talk it out, you'll figure it out then. for now, stop revisiting it in your mind. free up that space for more important things. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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maybe you're searching too far out there. what you're looking for may be closer to you than you think. sometimes, when we're hyper-focused on a dream - finding a partner, finding a job, finding a place to call home - we want to cast a wider net. we begin to set our sights on some imaginary thing out there. and in the process, we fail to see what's right in front of us. maybe the people, the job, the house you have right now IS home. I'm not saying not to dream big. I'm saying, make sure you're not overlooking what's already yours. - renuka i. another perspective for you. if you find yourself restless - sometimes, it means getting up ad moving. and sometimes, it means stopping and taking inventory of what's right in front of you. something to think about. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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endings hurt. that doesn't mean you SHOULDN'T walk away. sometimes, it's necessary. for the happiness of all involved. if it's no longer working, give yourself, give the other person permission to release it. so that the next phase of your journeys can begin. - renuka i. the longer you're in this unhappy dynamic, the longer you're enduring a life that serves neither of you. you shouldn't have to dream about a better life, dream about escaping your current one. you should be living it. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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being vulnerable, being sensitive, being able to feel is not a weakness. how heartbreaking, that there are so many of us in this world, who have been conditioned to run away from it. but one thing we can do, is be an example of what it means to embrace this part of being human. - renuka i. and create space for others to feel comfortable exploring this side of them. and be patient with the pace they choose to explore it. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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if you're feeling trapped, remember that you're not stuck forever. you have options to get out. it's hard to take them, I know. where do you even begin? what will become of you? start here: you deserve freedom, peace of mind, even joy. if that's what's waiting on the other side of this, it's worth it to try. release yourself from this hold. - renuka i. some of these situations are complex, and I don't want to simplify it in any way. there may be other people involved who could potentially get hurt from this choice. but...what's the alternative? live like this forever? does this actually benefit the other people involved? or would you be wasting their time and yours? follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites check out my motivational books & products here

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your brain's going to have questions that don't always need answers. you don't have to know how everything's going to turn out. maybe, the answer isn't for you to know. maybe, the answer is meant to be experienced when it arrives. find comfort in this. - renuka i. we look for answers when we're trying to make sense of things. but what if we didn't analyze everything for once? what do you think will happen? it'll probably unfold exactly as it was meant to - whether we worried about it or not. so, chill for a change! follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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standards are high for a reason. not because you're looking for someone to give you everything. but because you have everything, and you're looking for someone who can keep up with it. and there's nothing wrong with that. - renuka i. you've made a conscious effort to work on yourself. you've accomplished what you've wanted to accomplish. you've found what you need to make yourself happy. now, you're just looking for someone to share it with, and to add to it. and you're allowed to be particular about this. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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you made the choice not to be with me. and that means you don't get to have access to me or rely on me emotionally, even on an energetic level. you're on your own. and I say this with so much love. because this isn't punishment. you just can't have it both ways. - renuka i. I can't be lingering in the background. I belong up front. but there's no space for me there. and that's okay. but you need to reflect on why the people you've got up there aren't providing what you're looking for from me. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here

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I shouldn't have to chase you. not me, not your family, not your friends. letting your loved ones know what's going on in your life is a sign of respect. you acknowledge that they deserve that piece of information as members of your inner circle. - renuka i. unless you're a spy, you shouldn't have a secret life. the minute you develop connections, your life isn't just your own. now, I don't mean that you should be living for others. what I mean is live however you wish to live, but keep your loved ones in the loop. maybe being a mystery was cute when we were young, but not in adulthood. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites shop my motivational books & products here