#”LIVE FOR YOURSELF—NOT FOR OTHERS”
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With elegance and clarity, this lady (AI Facsimile) reminds us to trust our inner compass!
#AI#Artificial Intelligence#Lip Syncing via AI#Adobe After Effects CC#Photoshop#AI Facsimile#”LIVE FOR YOURSELF—NOT FOR OTHERS”#@esha.words#Embrace Your own Truth#Desires#Dreams#Breaking Free#Courage#Inner Compass#Your Own Heart#Heartfelt#Journey#Motivation#Authenticity#Live Boldly#Elegance#Clarity#Quiet Strength
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Katniss is such an unreliable narrator. She says "Then something unexpected happens. At least, I don't expect it because I don't think of District 12 as a place that cares about me" girl you deliver strawberries to the Mayor, you hunt and trade for the district, when you fell at Prim being chosen someone caught you, when you went to Prim people parted for you, when you volunteered EVERYONE stopped. Idk how to tell you but I think you're a pillar of the community.
#katniss everdeen#the hunger games trilogy#the hunger games#primrose everdeen#hunger games#batcavescolony reads the hunger games#suzanne collins#'now it seems i have become someone precious' NOW? GIRL BFFR you're their hunter girl#and this isn't negative just bffr girl#your WHOLE DISTRICT did the three finger salute that you yourself says means admiration thanks and goodbye to someone you love and on top is#old a rarely used. your WHOLE DISTRICT decided in that moment that they needed to bring back this sign of respect for YOU#...................................................................#idk why some people are thinking i mean this as negative i don't she is unreliable but its not intentional. like when Peeta heart stoped in#CF she doesn't know what Finnick is doing at first cus she doesn't know off the top of her head what cpr is. she also thinks Peeta after the#reaping is acting for the cameras. he isnt we dind out later his mom basically told him Katniss was gonna win and he would die. obviously#shes not doing it on purpose shes just for lack of better words uneducated? as in she doesn't know everything shes not omnipotent#so when Plutarch (? second games guy) shows her his mokingjay hiden watch shes like *wtf that's weird?* then the people traveling to#district 13 show her the mockingjay cookie and explains it and she then goes on the difference between his watch and their cookie#and why does eveyone act as if district 12 is as bad as the capital? they CANT help Katniss and Prim in the way you want. they cant give#them food. none of them have any! and im not putting iton Katniss but they hid they needed food so they could stay together. it sounds like#some of you are in this our world mentally of what people do after a loved one dies (brings food constantly checks on them etc) district 12#cant do that. they dont have food and they're all suffering. you cant give someone food when you have none to give. then theirs the fact#that peeta DID help. Peeta buring the bread and tossing some to her then taking a beating from his mom is a HUGE thing in the books.#he used his resources to help her like you all said someone should.#district 12 DID (rip) care about Katniss before the hunger games. why do you think she was allowed to hunt? or how her trades were good#these are the little ways 12 can shows Katniss they love her. but again Katniss doesn't see this and YES its because she had ptsd before the#hunger games as well. i swear some of you make it seem like d12 was all living a life of luxury and glaring down at Katniss.#other things that show Katniss is in hight standing with at least her people of d12 is her dad was known enough through d12 for peeta dad to#comment on his singing along with his commenting on her mom. also her mom is a healer in the community. yeah her parents arnt the top but#of d12 but they are/were definitely high staning in the Seam.
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the stars, the moon, they have all been blown out (you left me in the dark)
#the sandman#dream of the endless#morpheus#morpheus sandman#sandman netflix#this is an old piece i always planned to post when netflix's brief lives came out!#still feeling very conflicted about all of this. it can't be said enough but holy shit fuck NG i wish him the absolute worst#i still love the community around sandman there are so many lovely amazing people in it#and so i'm choosing to focus on that and the wonderful actors and writers involved in the production and what they've created#since these stories were important to me and many people I will stress that above all please please be kind to others and yourself.#sorry for that tag wall. hope you are having a wonderful day if you've read this far! (or if you haven't lol)#my art#sandman art#sandman comics#pretty stylized but still#blood cw#i was super inspired by art nouveou last summer and i really enjoyed tipping my toes into heavier painting!#the modesty blobs was sort of a funny touch by past me though. dunno what was going thru my head#tumblr please this is not nudity i swear to god
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When in doubt, Soup it out.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#lan wangji#a-yuan.#wei wuxian#Yes I am skipping over LWJ's panic at WWX joking about giving birth to A-Yuan. It's funny bit but there are many more to come!#The last time these two sat down together the tensions were so high. The peace is nothing more than a layer of cold fat on the surface.#It's not 'really' them coming to see eye to eye. It's them not having the energy to say what they really want anymore.#LWJ is very defined by his jealousy and the conflict it creates with his need to put his feelings aside for the perceived greater good.#To live a life where you are always second and never ever allowing yourself to be first...#If other people can be at peace and happy - it has to be worth it right?#If he orders a plate of food that he will struggle to eat but is the favourite thing of the person sitting across from him#Is it not worth the sacrifice?#But remember! You can't take anything for yourself ever. No matter how much you want it.#He did it once before and he regrets it so much. So all he can do is accommodate.#And WWX? Well. You can't let anyone in if there isn't enough water to splash around in.#Keep things shallow and they just move on. Even if you'll miss them when they go - this is just how things are now.#No more teasing and trying to pull a reaction from LWJ anymore. You'll never be more than someone he can't stand so what's the point.
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i know the pain is nauseating. i know you are disappointed. i know you feel betrayed. i know it feels hopeless and bleak. i know you're tired.
please don't disappear.
please be kind.
please continue to take care of yourself.
please keep living day by day.
please live. out of spite. out of hope for a better tomorrow.
if you are POC, queer, femme, trans, disabled, you are loved. you are wanted. i may not know you, but i love you with my whole person. there is still good in this world, this isn't the end.
#important#us politics#pingyappathon#if you need to step away to take care of yourself then please do so. stop doomscrolling.#there so many good marginalized people who cannot leave this country. we have to stay and fight#if not for ourselves then for those who can't.#by nature and job occupation i am a caregiver my heart aches for everyone and myself#personally i live out of rage and bloodlust for my enemies. i fought too hard and too long for my happiness.#i wont back down or give up for myself or others.
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me: im not a asoryu divorce truther, but i AM an asoryu taking a break & eventual unlabeled-long-distance-situation truther. they ABSOLUTELY needed to go on different paths at the end of the game. i totally get people who rewrite them to go back home together after 2-5, but it misses the point IMO. their split is a bittersweet thing & a testament to their devotion to each other as people and friends more than it’s a toxic split and a tragedy. it’s not ryuunosuke leaving in bitter anger at kazuma’s deceit, or kazuma being idiotically self punishing. rather, it’s them mutually saying “We need to exist outside of each other for a while for our own development as people. But i would never leave you in anger. You will always be enough for me, but you also need to learn to be enough for yourself. And ultimately we will meet again at the crossroads. When we need each other the most, and we are finally ready, and we will walk our paths side by side. Unbroken, and never having been broken. And that bond is stronger than both of our deceit, violence, shyness, and ignorance combined.”
their physical split is a show of their assurance that they could never spiritually ‘fall off’ from each other. no matter what happens, they stand together in a cosmic sense. they need to be apart so that kazuma can find a self that will live past 24, and so ryuunosuke can develop the self he found in his own journey— the self that sees its value at all. basically, ryuunosuke is leaving for himself to prove that he has a self, and kazuma is staying for himself so he can learn to care about himself enough to put his struggle in the hands of the people offering to him— so he can learn to stop running. do you get me?
you, tied to a chair and actively being waterboarded: BLBLBLBLBLLBLUBUBU—
#asoryu#asoryuu#ryuuaso#ryuunosuke naruhodou#naruhodou ryuunosuke#kazuma asogi#asougi kazuma#kazuma asougi#ryunosuke naruhodo#tgaa2#tgaa spoilers#the great ace attorney#tgaac spoilers#dgs2 spoilers#dgs2#I THINK THATS ALL OF THEM?!#ugh. but yea. the shortest version of this is i think the asoryu not-breakup is them showing that they value each other as people enough to#-want the other to start putting himself first.#kazuma has his demons the fight- the anger the self destruction the self isolation. and ryuunosuke sees that and is like i am going to be-#-be here if ever you need me. you are not alone. but you are still a human person who needs to just exist for himself for a while#i like dgs if you cant. tell. i like the kind of moral thing of like. you are not alone you are never alone-#-but still you have to live for yourself. its good#oh fuck that wasn’t short at all…#whatever. I ❤️ BITTERSWEET YAOI
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just a reminder that it's okay to change and fail and make mistakes and be imperfect and feel grief and not know what you're doing with your life <3 life will pass + you will succeed even if it looks different to what you imagined
#you'll get there!#i think it gets to summer and a lot of us feel scared abt the future and how our lives look in comparison to others#but its reassuring to know that everyone feels like this no matter what their life looks like#and how we spend our days IS how we spend our lives but that doesn't mean u can't rest or take care of yourself#life is short! be kind to urself <3#reminders#diary#tiyas thoughts
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Some more doodles from my Sora lives au for further context go here
#my art#one piece#vinsmoke sanji#black leg sanji#vinsmoke reiju#vinsmoke ichiji#vinsmoke yonji#vinsmoke niji#vinsmoke sora#vinsmoke siblings#sora lives au#oifaaadoodles#some aus you make just for yourself and that one other person#this is one of those aus#straw hat pirates
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"I really felt so dirty back then, and that I wasn't good enough for him."
REVENGED LOVE (2025). EPISODE FOURTEEN.
#revenged love#asianlgbtqdramas#asianlgbtdrama#cdramasource#dramasource#boyslovesource#tvedit#*#faiza gifs#they changed a fair fair bit from the novel i'll be honest. but the crux of it was the same#its the way xiao shuai has just. kept on living. for others. not for himself anymore. but just for others.#my darling boy its time you live for yourself too :((((
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Thinking again about how many disabled people end up getting shunted into art/craft work because like. You can technically do it. Sometimes. Yeah you make a pittance at best and are almost certainly going to make your physical health worse by pushing yourself to get things done, but what else are you gonna do? You're too sick for anyone to hire you. You're "not sick enough" to qualify for benefits. Just devote every scrap of time and energy you have to a chronically underpaid, low-prestige, incredibly labor-intensive industry. A few people manage to make it work with luck and help and the right skills. Many people don't. Everyone gets pressured to monetize their hobbies, but it's especially insidious if you're disabled because any tiny thing you manage to accomplish to bring yourself joy gets twisted into proof that you should somehow be able to work.
#curseblogging#the thing is like#i went to bookbinding school#i saw what it was like to try to make a living as a craft worker for able-bodied people with significant starting resources#and the answer is: fucking hard!#people generally being like well if you work long hours and never allow yourself a break#and do a bunch of events and shows and teaching#and are good at not just the work but at finances and marketing and every other aspect of business management#(and ideally have a spouse with a regular job so you don't have to pay for your own healthcare. because this is America)#then maybe#MAYBE#you can make a reasonable living as a craftsperson#but this same VERY DIFFICULT PROFESSION#gets pushed on disabled people as something obvious and easy#and a lot of people do try their best to make it work because what other choice do they have?!
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Like one of the reasons I'm so entranced by daring is a character is how he's so self-centered but sooooo unapologetically kind and earnest to other people. He acts with a frankly egregious sense of grandeur that is definitely in part an act an act, yes, but he's willing to admit his mistakes so easily. He's so quick to accept and forgive and it's so clear the happiness of other people is something he deeply values. Prince Charmings are raised to be grand heroes with zero fear, but at their core they're about helping others and being there for them. Daring might not be a destined prince charming anymore, but he exemplifies the core aspect of kindness for kindness's sake without ever asking for anything in return. There's something poetic about it. He couldn't save someone when acting as Prince Charming, but when he was just being himself, genuinely just trying to help someone in danger, he did save them. Daring has a bleeding heart and hides it under the illusion of self-importance. I don't believe that it's all an act, I think he does very much love himself (even if it can get unhealthy) but it's so clear he loves other people just as much. There's a reason he's the gold standard of prince Charmings, and it's not his brevity or combat skills.
#DARING THE CHARACTER YOU ARE.....#AND THE WAY HE KEEPS CARING AND KEEPS LOVING DESPITE THE WORLD DENYING HIM TIME AND TIME AGAIN#THE WAY HE HOLDS NO GRUDGE TOWARDS DARLING THE WAY HE HOLDS NO GRUDGE AGAINST FAYBELLE THE WAY HE CARES!!!!!#Daring is genuinely so emotionally strong and I love him for it#He's so big brother <33#Ever after high#Eah#Daring charming#Daring charming eah#When I'm in an 'unconditional love' competition and my opponent is daring charming#Not to mention that to live a life predetermined to the servitude of others means you need to develop a strong sense of self to cope#How are you going to survive being a narrative tool if you don't uphold your personhood yourself cause nobody else will#Which is why his breakdown in the mirror realm was so poignant to me#For the first time in his life he existed outside the context of other people's perception of him and had to reconcile with a sense of self#So focused on his image that to exist outside of it was as much a death sentence as an imprisonment#To be handcuffed while your life purpose is being bereft from you as you can do nothing but watch#To be imprisoned in the only tool of your personhood as if you're a mockery of everything you tried to be#Wouldn't you break down? Wouldn't you falter and collapse under the weight of contextless existence? Wouldn't you?#Minty talk about daring without bringing up the mirror realm once challenge level impossible
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I think it would really benefit people to internalize that mental illnesses are often chronic and not acute. Some of us will never be able to jump the hurdle of managing illness, much less sustaining a sense of normalcy. Many of us will never "recover," will never manage symptoms, will never even come close to appearing normal - and this is for any condition, even the ones labeled as "simple" disorders or "easy-to-manage" disorders.
It isn't a failure if you cannot manage your symptoms. It isn't a moral failure, and you aren't an awful person. You are human. There's only so much you can do before recognizing that you cannot lift the world. Give yourself the space to be ill because, functionally, you are.
#mental health#mental health advocacy#like... anxiety and depression are often concieved of as simple and easy to manage...#...but that isn't the case for so many of us. anxiety and depression just have a lot more research invested into them...#...and while i wish this were the case for literally every other condition it does alter people's perception of you to some extent...#...so while this is NOT solely about anxiety or depression it includes us...#...my anxiety and depression and PTSD have *destroyed* my life. this is chronic and will probably be life-long...#...and that isn't my fault. i've done the fucking work but guess what? that doesn't account for the fact that I Am Just ILL#the least we can do for each other is to be compassionate#be compassionate to those who cannot heal. be compassionate to the people who can't manage their lives. this world is scary enough#recognize that management of symptoms is something not all of us can do - even IF their condition is labeled as 'easy to manage'#i allowed myself to feel angry that i can't heal 'normally' and that was unfair as fuck toward myself#and i NEED people to internalize this so that MAYBE this could help somebody else who is where i was#i NEED them to understand that it's okay that they are where they are - sometimes shit just doesn't turn out how you expect or want#don't beat yourself over you being a person. you are struggling enough. you deserve to rest. just rest please#and just... give yourself space
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It’s been one long, long year of learning Henry inside and out, learning himself, learning how much he still had to learn.
#rwrb#rwrbedit#red white and royal blue#firstprince#alex x henry#userninz#userveronika#chrissiewatts#userclara#usersteen#usergayppl#userlang#mine*#honorary book edit for today :')#ouuhhhhh this is. yeah.#learning from each other and wanting to better yourself not only for them but also yourself........#they both lead so very distinct but partly similar lives#that theyre able to use those different lived experiences to uplift and enable each other to grow 😔#rwrbbook*
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He is at his limit.
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#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#lan wangji#LWJ's breakdown has been a long time coming and I love how he breaks down. It is a torrent of emotions he can't hold back anymore#He bites! He cries! He throws a tantrum!#We know from bonus content that he was a biter when he was younger but that's exactly the point. It is a childish behaviour.#LWJ has been help up to the highest expectations to be mature and beyond any childishness.#He is selfless - cold and composed to the outside observer.#It is a false ideal to live by to be disconnected from everyone. You can't be a person if you are perfect.#But by god he was never perfect to begin with. He has a terrible temper and is awkward in social situations.#He's overly righteous and rigid - And so on and so on. Both him and WWX know each other for their flaws first.#And it is not about how other aspects 'make up for it'. It's about seeing someone's worst traits and going 'I can tolerate that.'#You can't ask someone to love the worst parts of yourself. But you can show them and have them be tolerated.#MXTX did not write SVSSS and MDZS's main couples to be about seeing the worst parts of someone and still choosing them-#only for readers to miss the point of what that really means!
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[Text: This introject doesn’t give a fuck if you think they are valid or not.]
Like/Reblog if you save or use!
#userbox#this user#system#system stuff#traumagenic system#did#osdd#endos dni#mod plush 🌻#undescribed#introject#it is your god given right to be an idgafer!!!!! if you're not harming yourself or others who cares!!!#free yourself from the shackles of judgement and criticism!!! enjoy your life with no scrutiny!!!#you exist that is so awesome. keep surviving try thriving but most of all LIVE LOUDLY AND PROUDLY#youre afraid to be corny but i was born on the cob. or something like that idk -🌻
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That guy is a fake I'm the only anon who really understands that you partake in intellectual endeavors not for the interest and curiosity but for the vanity. You live not through yourself but through your relationship with people. You understand that intellectual pursuits are regarded highly by people in general and that's why you make sure to share with everyone online that you're doing them, you want to be respected. The problem with this is that it's deceitful. Genuinely virtuous endeavors produce respect as a byproduct not as a goal. You suggest to everyone that you're smart when really you're just performative. You could be generating results and providing something of value but instead all you provide is this hollow facade of obscure words and references with no substance of your own beneath. And I'm so mad about your review honestly. The only reason you want to lean into things that piss people off is because as I said you don't live through yourself, but through others, and being able to elicit any kind of reaction makes you feel better. A true intellectual would be entirely indifferent, far too occupied by the inner world of their pursuits to give a care.
hmmm... not true actually. please consult the graph
#ill make you mad a bit more: i dont post about everything i read! im not even maximizing my pseudointellectuality...#as i said before i dont believe in the whole ''dont throw stones in glass houses'' thing. but i think you probably do...#it is in itself performative to send this ask instead of blocking me. you love being angry and you need me to be angry!#not very living-through-yourself if you ask me. in fact it sounds like self-actualization occurs through the other...#youd know that if you read your hegel instead of being angry at me for reading my hegel... :(#meanwhile my posting stems from wanting to share my joy of philosophy. i think you have not considered this. why is that?#you must move past your own mental blockage. get over your fear of being dumb. read a philosophy book and post about what you liked from it
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