#-have hate anons in my inbox bc people cant read

[miiilowo]

i love the acceptance of like weird fetish shit on this website but especially in the gore department. i know a lot of people only see appeal in it like metaphorically but i feel like being okay with it even if its not something youre into is a good gateway into processing that a lot of other spookyscary fetishes/kinks/paraphilias/etc aren't really harmful at all 98% of the time and that being a weirdo freak whos into weirdo freak shit doesn't make you a bad person. there is like 1 very obvious exception to this (we all know. what it is.) but in general just like. idkkk. who gives a fuckkkkkk

[my-castles-crumbling]

Anon Advice Asks - June 25

@teasiswriter (x2), pg anon (x3), had to get it out anon (new), brag anon (new), depressive episode anon (new)

@teasiswriter

Welp, tomorrow marks the day I asked to start working in the applications for the jobs I applied to, and none got back to me.

I am officially unemployed for the summer

And I saw a dead rabbit today, so I guess that’s a worse omen :/

Sorry for being a Debbie-downer, thank you for reading

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CAS I GOT AN EMAIL BACK

andddd then my parents told me that this specific store is one they have “reservations” about and aren’t fully sure if they want me to work there,

Uhm, yeah. I’m sad about that too, but I’m proud of myself at least? I tried and tried and at least someone reached out? Even if I have to say no

Agh I’m sorry for putting this on you

Feel free to ignore this and my previous ask.

You’re a rockstar, goodbye

Hi!

I'm so glad you got an email back! Honestly if you haven't said no yet, you should go for the interview, even if it's just for the experience of doing an interview.

I hope you keep getting more emails and good news, keep me updated!!!

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pg anon

Hi! Okay so as far as your (ex)bf- I'm glad things ended up working out okay. But a mutual breakup is still hard, so remember to take care of yourself. Also keeping all of that to yourself is HARD, and talking about it is important. Can you talk about it with him at least a little?

Also as far as coming out- please do it in your own time. Whether or not you have supportive people, that needs to be something you're comfortable with. Don't push yourself <3

I'm glad your friends with cancer are doing well!

C - ugh I'm sorry his parents didn't react well. I've probably already asked this but what about school? Is there anyone at school who might be helpful. I really hate that this feels like it's all on you, you know? Even if you just rant to a teacher without telling them names...bc you're right, you deserve to be able to rely on people!

School - yeah I understand. Most education systems SUCK and it's an awful, claustrophobic feeling knowing it's almost impossible to change. I'm sorry that's happening to you right now <3

Films - that sounds so frustrating for you! I'm glad you have people around you that understand your boundary though <3 What about them gives you nightmares? Like could you maybe start with some really tame, g-rated movies and see if those feel safe, then work your way up? Just a suggestion, if you want to keep that boundary PLEASE don't feel obligated to push yourself.

anon names- oooo that's a good question. I think either option (telling them or just skipping) is good, depending on what feels best for both of you. I love that you're kind enough to think of their feelings like that though.

Your positives made me smile, I'm glad you had a good time at prom!

<3

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had to get it out anon

he is just a man. how could he why would he. i trusted him. oh my god. i hate him. you know you hurt me and you didnt even say sorry. i was there for you when you were crying every night till 2 even though i cant stay up past midnight. i kissed you. you made me hate that too. god. why. this is the first time i cried because of you. my tears hold so many memories.

had to get it out

Hi hon <3 I'm so sorry about whatever happened, and whoever he is, he's an asshole. If you ever want to talk about it my inbox is open!

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brag anon

cas have you ever done really well on something but didn’t want to tell your friends because it felt like bragging? that’s how I feel right now 😭 my old school offers an alumni scholarship for college students but they forgot to announce it this year. i remembered around the usual time and called, and they sent me the application directly. they always split the money based on how many apply, and i think barely anyone did because i got triple what i got last year. im really excited because i really needed the money, but I’m not telling anyone else so this is me getting it off my chest. i just don’t want to brag 😭

Hi!

well I don't think this is bragging! I think this is just you celebrating an awesome win! Congratulations, this is amazing!

I think you have every right to tell your friends, by the way! I think it just matters HOW you tell them. Just be like "By the way, I got a scholarship, I'm so excited!" rather than being like "Omg guys I got sooooooo much money, so much more than YOU, sucks for you bitches!"

But you deserve to be happy about this, it's great!

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depressive episode anon

(Hi im a different anon but i sorta don’t want to mention this as my anon name I’m sorry)

I think I’m having a depressive episode and I’m not sure what to do, I’m disassociating and everything, even just the thought of going to bed is making me feel anxious

I feel so weird and lonely and terrified and my head feels like it’s fighting itself. I have nobody to tell

I’m not sure what to do

Hi <3

I think the first thing to do is talk to someone if you can. But since you said you don't feel comfortable telling anyone...

Take care of yourself. Prioritize the little things. Brush your teeth, wipe off your face, do things that make you feel safe like curling up in a cozy blanket. Drink water, and eat every once in a while.

And then think about who to talk to. Depression is the WORST, and you need support. Who can you reach out to? Who feels safe to you?

My inbox is always open as well <3

[yallemagne]

Kind of basic bur Top 5 books .. ..? Maybe 5 fiction and 5 non fiction if you’re feeling free

and you cant say FraCula . Okay you can i don’t control you

I am deeply sorry, anon, because when I made that "call me beep me if you wanna reach me" post, I'd completely forgotten that I disabled email notifications for my inbox because of bots.

This is fucking rough. Mostly because I just spent an hour typing out a response (too much effort for a tier list request, I know) and then Tumblr chewed it up. How did I ever manage to write full essays on here back in the day without typing them up somewhere else??? BUT ALSO because I feel like such a fake literature fan. I feel like I've read nothing at all. There are so many books that are staples that I haven't read. There are so many books on my shelf that I haven't finished.

"FraCula"? I presume you mean Frankenstein and/or Dracula? Yeah, lol, no. They are not making the top 5. You'd think that they would because of how much time I have dedicated to them, but that's probably the issue jiopegprio. If I were to rank them, Frankenstein may win over Dracula simply because I have so many more feelings about the latter than the former. Which doesn't make sense, right? But the Dracula fever was a turbulent time in my life, and though I love so much about the novel, I hate so much as well (and those things I hate are because I love the other things with such ferocity). Though... I do have to restrain myself from getting into fights with "Victor Frankenstein is the real monster!!!" people. But isn't the fact that I am able to restrain myself further proof that I love Frankenstein less? That I fight for it less?

Oh well. Onto the actual list:

Twenty-Thousand Leagues Under the Sea by Jules Verne Absolute comfort novel, and I wish I had been introduced to it YEARS AGO when I got it for my friend because it was on their wishlist. I'll never forgive. Though, maybe I wouldn't have been able to appreciate it in middle school. This novel was such a positive influence in my life when I was reading it (on this very blog, you can see it helping me through some traumatic shit in real time). I have never touched any adaptations or "sequels" of it and never wish to. [From this point on, the list order is just chronological to when I read the books.]

Little Women by Louisa May Alcott This book will always have a place in my heart because it felt like the first "real book" I ever finished. My mom was very excited when I finished it. So she got me the actual book. Yeah... the book I had finished had been an abridged illustrated version. But still! The excitement (and confusion) on Christmas day when Ma gave me a copy of the real book.

The Silverwing Trilogy by Kenneth Oppel Keeping with the trend set by Little Women, I actually first found this story through the animated adaptation of it. It wasn't until years later when my cousin coincidentally got me the book series as a gift (literally just bc I love bats) that I even knew there were books. Reading them was so fun, rediscovering moments that were in the animated adaptation, newly discovering moments that were left out. I unfortunately fell off with the third book due to how unfamiliar it was, though. Still. Great fun. [people are gonna fuckin roast me for having children's books in this list and not something refined like Les Mis... that is one of the books languishing on my shelf after I failed to get past the first few chapters in middle school]

The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde by Robert Louis Stevenson Yet ANOTHER book I learned of primarily through adaptation... though this novella has no good adaptations. The reason? They always disregard Utterson! My beloved POV character. I do not relate to him in the SLIGHTEST, I love him so much.

The Vampyres by C.R. Kane If this list were in any particular order, this would be right after Twenty-Thousand Leagues. And the two would be tied if not for a singular detail that made me lose my shit. The author knows what they did. Let me just... put my book review here:

Roses. Garlic. Ash. The Vampyres is a story about the hunter becoming the hunted. This story was delightful to read. Kane introduces the protagonist, Gordon Williams, and his peers: members of the undead who have made pacts with gods to be indestructible, not even threatened by wards that we commonly know to work against undead monsters like garlic and holy symbols. And then, once the reader is confident in the vampires’ total invincibility, Kane pulls the rug from under their feet and introduces a horror that even the proud and complacent Gordon dreads. Every character introduced is fleshed out by the narration, even minor victims of Gordon’s bloodthirst, creating a world that feels lively beyond the protagonist’s supernaturally broad perspective. I’d recommend this story to anyone for its thrilling action, striking prose, and potent emotions.

Just go fucking read it, dude. I need you to read this book. Read The Vampyres by C.R. Kane.

[oriistar]

Hiii I'm so nervous to talk to you but i think you're such a good artist and writer!

I saw your post about how the first chapter of the sun and moon fic is like 8k words?!?! How did you manage that! Honestly i wouldnt mind reading the whole thing either but i guess some people might not like super long chapters :') if its recived well would you possibly do long chapters often? I know that will probably mean a longer wait until uploads but your writing is so descriptive i just know it would be amazing! I cant even imagine getting bored of it haha

Also are you going to post more sun and moon fanart from different aus or even their original designs? You did mention that you'd draw how you see them in your fic so im just wondering how thats going for you so far!

Hi anon! Thank you so much for your sweet words wow <3 I love, love, LOVE getting longer messages in my inbox they just feel so much more personal!

To answer your questions though, I am shocked that the first chapter of my fic is so long actually. I don't know how okay it is to say this on main but i'm admitedly a bit of a stoner and I write/draw usually while high so i'll have the basic plot points of each chaper pulled up to reference but I let vibes take the reigns more than anything else so my writing does run away pretty often! I'll still break this upcoming one up a bit but It will still be quite long and if it's a hit and people like it enough then yes i'd love to do longer chapters!

I have so many Sun and Moon sketches its crazy. I'm stockpilling them as of right now though bc I like to tag the creators of the AUs I draw fanart of and i'd hate to clog up someone's inbox by tagging them every other day! Some of the sketches are from a few AUs i've seen floating around since I joined the DCA fandom and I hope they're well recieved by the creators. Yes ofc i have drawings of the og boys as well, i'd never forget about them!

I am still working on the designs for the fic i'm currently writing though and they are looking so adorable right now. I hope everyone who's looking forward to the fic dropping will be just as excited to see what i'm envisioning and I do hope everyone thinks they're just as cute as I do :3 I'll most likely add a link to the fic masterlist once I do post it though so it will be easy to find :D

Thank you again for your lovely message, I hope you're having a wonderful day!

[ted-calling-orson]

LONG ASK IM SO SORRY

ok im sorry to enter ur askbox but i cant just contain this to tags and like. you are SOOOO right for liking kermit !!! sad mf. love him. also can i just say- WHY is there NOT more fanfic im SORRY but. if we have so much crackfic of modern presidents or even actual fic/oneshots of other presidents, PLEASE give us TR / TR fam fic !!!! id eat that shit UP. i got so tired of it i published my own tr kiddos fic istg its either anon or on my acc i can find it

and im so confused on why NATM teddy aint got more fics that at least mention the kids OR siblings. sorry this is gonna be a long ask. but really !! like. theres maybe 5(?) max fics ive seen mention them. a few in the Treasured Collection NATM fic series, and maybe one or two loose ones around. im SOOOO close to writing a self indulgent fic for it. again srry for how long this is. but i never come across tr fans. rlly i swear. also so right for liking the muppets (Fozzie my beloved <3)

oh !! and the cartoon network idea??? YES. absolutely. id watch it. 10000%. i think presidential cartoons should exist more, beyond episodes in preexisting shows. itd be so cool!! ive watched possibly every documentary i can find on TR/show that features him (like The Alienist) i need some lighthearted stuff.

finally idk if youre big on reading books or trilogies but if you can id recommend reading Edmund Morris' trilogy on TR if you haven't yet. the final book ending had me crying at 7am december 2022 like 10 times.

p.s the erb rap battle was so silly and im so surprised i saw nobody in the comments mention quentin with the line churchill shot of TR's family dying prematurely. sorry for the length of this ask--and dino au is so cool and i wanna hear all abt it !!

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OH MY GOSH THIS IS LIKE A DREAM WHEUSHSUWJWKEKWKWKWJNWJWIXJWBWIDJISJEBDISJSISJSIS oooo we should be best friends ooooooo. Also dw about this being too long you are literally one of my favorite people of all time😭‼️🙏

on the Kermit thing: YIPPEEE‼️‼️‼️ finally another Kermit fan😭 the only other recognition he’d get was from some Indiana jones mini series. Id love to write Roosevelt fan fiction but I don’t like posting my stuff on tumblr (usually my fics are for me and my friends⁉️) but ey, maybe I’ll post something🙏

ALSO MUPPET FAN‼️‼️‼️ my favs are Dr. Teeth and Kermit

on the natm thing: YIPPEE- I wanna write about my au so bad cuz I’ve got so many ideas for it especially for Elliot and Theo’s relationship bc their rivalry was so bad it extended into their daughters. Evil Elliott seemed like an awesome concept and what if he dragged Corinne into it??? Wieihdjehsjs

the tv show: OK OK SO I had a HUGE concept of this show. First off: it’s like your avid 2000s sitcom but with art‼️ The Taft’s (and in later seasons, the Wilson’s) are their neighbors and T.R and W.H.T would have silly angry dad neighbor hijinks (and they both hate the Wilsons together), Alice is the popular girl and there was gonna be a whole episode on her affair with William Borah, Kermit is the shy kid that gets into scuffles with Ted jr, Quentin and Archibald are the spoiled younger sibs, Ethel is the neutral younger sister and Edith is the mostly annoyed mom. Also Quentin and Charles Taft are best friends and I’ll prolly write more ideas for it but I do have designs for Kermit, Ethel and Alice:

anyway, you don’t know how excited I got when I saw this in my inbox😭 but yeah I love your stuff man! Pls post more Teddy stuff I thrive off it im literally one of 5 Theodore Roosevelt fans

ALSO IM GLAD YOU MENTIONED THE RAP BATTLE CUZ- I think that line is about most of his family dying fairly young (Theodore sr., Quentin, Elliott etc) and not just his kids but I could be wrong the fandom wiki of erb is so 50/50

[gurugirl]

Am I seeing a good boy slander?! PEOPLE CAN SIMPLY NOT READ!! There are content warnings for a reason! And there’s no need to complain or simply hate on you as a person or writer in your inbox! I know that everyone has their preferences and that’s okay! But going out of your way to hate on someone is WILD bc this content is free and it’s not doing anyone any harm! I FEEL LIKE I NEED TO SCREAM THIS TO PPL BC THEY SIMPLY CANT GET IT!!!

Ah ha ha! Most of it is more along the lines of "you shouldn't have left the story off where you did" or "you shouldn't have written more parts to the story after you ended it" - like I cannot win with some people.

There are a lot of anons (you know they'd never come to me and say these things off anon) that feel entitled to tell me how I should or shouldn't do things with the story so I half way gave up and that's why things are left how they are. Some anons felt like they had a point to make - yet there would be another anon saying the exact opposite with another point they thought they were making.

I had some good intentions but it's just annoying that people couldn't let me do what I wanted without having to open their mouths and feel like they had a say in the way I did it (like the kind who demand to speak to the manager - you know what I mean). Like they didn't even know what I was trying to do - just mouth breathers really assuming the worst.

Thank you my love!! I want to scream too sometimes! It's why Tumblr sucks certain days. Yesterday I knew to brace myself for the comments (once again) but still I'm shocked when they come in. Wish I could block the actual blogs who spout their rude opinions to me - instead blocking the anon I'll just never see their anon asks anymore so they can keep griping to no one now. Good enough I guess. lol

LOVE YOU!!

xoxo

[metfell]

im really glad people have been really respectful about what i want in my inbox. i get overwhelmed very easily, and i hate having unanswered asks sitting in there, even if its an ask i really dont want to answer. so i have to really be firm about what i do and dont want to see.

i think the biggest thing for me was kind of setting the standard that i dont really want to receive tumblr funnyman haha cryptic shock humor asks. like what do u want me to do? copy/paste the same response of "anon im shaking what does this mean"????

idk i just feel like its SO important to set boundaries on this site. its so so fucking important to have a bigass sign of what people can and cant do.

as long as its like. not ridiculous. bc people WILL follow you from the dash and wont check your pinned. itll happen and you just have to remind people every a lot to read your boundaries. read the pinned. read the carrd. dont be a dumbass. etc etc etc. u know?

[hajimine]

LEX’S 2020 APPRECIATION POST PT. II !

— to the lovely moots & followers who i talk to quite often (or pretty much everyday), this one’s for you.

thank u for being in my life, you made my 2020 so so much better. i’m so grateful october lex decided to make a tumblr acc 🥲

i’ll try my best to keep it kinda short 🥲👍

in alphabetical order:

@4fterh0urs — my omega phoebe 😩‼️ ily so much bc you’re both extremely stupid n extremely smart at the same time. u mean so much to me and i love talking to u even if u call me such weird as nicknames every damn day 😃 you’re so sexy n hella intimidating smfh idk how i was able to make u my bitch (JK PLS DONT KILL MEE) anyways, thanks for being a real one bae + you’re the person i block the most, so you’re special ig 😹👍 ily you’re actually such a sap but u pretend to be all tough heh <33

@archivednikes — my solar system, my wh*re (lovingly) hi bae 😣 ok yk how much i love u but. im gonna tell u again: ILYSM!! OKAY??? please know that you’re such an amazing human being and you’re SO incredibly talented. god i love u so much please take care of yourself baby, you’re always so kind to other people and i hope you can do the same to yourself. once again, i am so fucking glad you decided to slide into my inbox that day, because now i look forward to talking to you every single morning. insert grabby hands ilysm <33

@boosyboo9206 — onyx hi babes! i’m so so grateful for you omg u dont even know it. you always manage to cheer me up with your antics and you’re always here to support me 🥺 whenever i’m down you somehow aways manage to make me feel a lil better. i love talking to u whether it’s about sth as mundane as the weather or even your obsession with the word peepers. thank you for being you, please take care of yourself and stop sleeping so damn late. ilysm <33

@ch4jime — chloe bae!! 😁 hi omg ilysm you’re so cute and cool and nice urghh thanks for always checking up on me! i love love seeing you in my asks, you’re such a lovely person to be around. i seriously need to be better at dropping in other people’s inbox, so just know that i’ll work on hanging out on your blog more often this year bc ily! i wish u all the best and please never stop being you baby mwah <33

@fairyoomi — hi bae 😣😣 how are u?? i know we don’t talk much anymore, and that’s okie, but i still wanna write u this lil note because i’m so thankful i met you here on tumblr. you’re an amazing writer and u were so sweet to me even when i was a teeny blog who didn’t know anyone. i admire u a lot, yknow? thanks for being such a friendly and welcoming person, ily <33

@gu3to — mochi bestieo 🙀 idk if you’ll even see this smh so i’m just gonna text u after this (if i don’t forget to rip) okay so. hello?! you’re so mf cool and you’re a trendsetter 🤩 yes yes im fueling your god complex it’s bc ily smh. you’re so dumb i wanna choke u sometimes but i won’t bc i’m also just as dumb 😁 pls stop disappearing from the face of the Earth okay ilysm you always keep it real and i know i can always count on u to listen to uh... my shit. okay so when are we gonna make out? 🤨 oki bye <33

@hoekageyama — wifey!! maddie baby urghh yk how much i love you, you’re one of my earliest moots im pretty sure? and aaaaa i’m so so glad i decided to be weird as hell and slide into your asks that day (pancreas. sighs. iconic.) you’re my numero uno whenever i wanna bark about hot 2d boys and what i’d let em do to me coughs err yea hehe. please take care of yourself baby you’re such a sweet and kind and loving person and i’m so glad to have you in my life. smh we text each other lovey dovey texts anyway but i still wanna do this for u 😋 ilysm!!! <33

@honeyskawa — lani baby hi! i know you haven’t been super active lately, but i just wanna tell u that i appreciate u so so much!! you honestly made my goddamn week when u sent me that ask about how i inspired you bc what the heck?? never in my life have i expected to have such an impact on someone. you’re a wonderful writer honestly. i love u so much and i hope everything’s going well baby, i’m excited talk to u more whenever you decide to be active on tumblr again <33

@jougogo — kaybae hi!!! you haven’t been on tumblr much lately but hi sexc it’s me lex lol i’ve moved accs hehe 😎 i hope u see this whenever u get your phone back cries. you’re such an amazing person to be around, always so cheerful and friendly, you exude so much positive vibes and ilysm. you always manage to lift up the mood with your sexc self and i admire u for that. you’re so incredibly chaotic and fun to be around ahrgehxhh i appreciate u sm and i hope you’re taking care of yourself bby ily <33

@kemochie — my waluigi, my favorite f*rry, hi 😝 urghhh god we just started talking everyday pretty recently but god. you’re so funny??? and i love bullying u bc u give me so much material to bully u with (ok jkjk i love u that’s why i bully u smh) also, you’re so incredibly supportive and u were actually the one who pushed me to finally post that atsumu fic, even tho stupid me accidentally deleted it LMAOBSBD anw, u bring sm joy in my life, so thank u for that. we’re a small lil filf and you’re the milf to my dilf LMAO ilysm mwah!! <33

@kenmaki — gabbae! virgo bestie!! hi hi !! you’re such a talented person and you’re an amazing writer, and i hope one day u can get past your insecurities and see yourself as the wonderful person u truly are. i love how we were able to relate to each from how similar virgos think + our initial conversation of dick measurements and such will forever be seared into my memory. and congrats on getting a daily railing on the dash HSBDH i don’t look at em i promise lol 🤩🤩 jdbdhdh ilysm bby <33

@miyams — ren sweet babie hi! you’re so incredibly talented please don’t listen to stupid hate anons. i’ll stab them with a serrated knife if i have to 😠🔪 you’re so flippin cute and sweet i love talking to you, and i love love love whenever u come by my inbox to say hi. i hope we can talk even more in 2021, my dms and asks are always open for u bby (even though i suck at replying right away, sorry abt that huhu) i love u sm baby please take care of yourself <33

@miyasangel — ardie bae 😜 hi sexc!! i still cant believe we talk like everyday now lmaoo i used to think you’re so freaking cool (i still do) and now i’m friends w u whattaheck 🥲 you’re such an amazing writer wtf. i hate that we had to start our friendship on such a sour note (ehem discord ehem) but i’m really glad it brought us closer together. ily cockarden i’ll be sure to bully u even more HAHAGS IM JK makes out w u so hard bc you’re so damn hot ily 😣‼️ <33

@owlywrites — owly baby hello! ily so so much and you’re so talented, you deserve so much recognition. i hope i can read more of your fics soon bc they’re so well written ugh 😣 thanks for always checking up on me and always being so incredibly sweet. i love u so so muchhh huhu i wanna give u the biggest hug in the world :( please take care of yourself and never stop being your genuine self kith kith <33

@rilacry — milfy gorlillola 😜😜‼️ hi sexc. omfg i was so intimidated by u wtf (and i still kinda am smh) bc you’re so cool?? and your writing n carrd making skills are amazing as hell wtf. u just exude BDE bc you’re hella hot AND bc u wanna peg everyone. anyways,, i’m glad we got closer recently, even if it was out of really wack circumstances. ily bae pls stop sticking your memojis everywhere mwah <33

@rintaroll — my kue tete ☹️☹️ ilysm smh bye i can’t believe we’re close now wtf you’ve always been so cool and sexc 😩‼️ oh god i rmb when u were still on your old acc and u seemed so out of reach and i was a lil intimidated ANDBDJD SHHH but yea now ik you’re just a big h word dork and i love u for that 😣 i wish u all the best for your singing career bby you’re such a talented writer AND singer wtf. also you’re so pretty???? wtf how rude 😠 JKJK HAHHSBD ilysm kithes u so hard <33

@tetsoleil — geegee!! hi baby 😣 thanks for being such a sweet human being ily! it’s been a while since we actually talked yeah? but i still want u to know that i love u a lot and i appreciate u so much. i’m so so grateful you’re in my life because you’re such a joy to be around. you’re an amazing writer bby and i hope you get the recognition u deserve. i’m always here for u if u need anything. ilysm bby <33

@velvetfireworks — rachie bae 🤩 my bakso goreng, my golden kiwi!!! ily!! hehe im so glad i decided to slide in your dms when u asked me if i was indo. but ahhhh you’re ao sweet and cute and supportive ilysm. an amaaazing writer and i admire your work so much, but i think you’ve heard me say that multiple times before. i’m so glad we became closer recently through our love for greasy food and wonky lil faces 👁💋👁 kith kith ilysm <33

@yato-o — yato baby hi!! urgh honestly i appreciate u so so much?? i feel so lucky to be able to get to know you. i don’t even remember how we met but ahhh thank u for always stopping by and have a chat with me even though i know you’re a busy person. please take care of yourself and get some rest whenever u need to! don’t feel pressured to come on here if you’re tired baby, im so grateful to have u in my life, i luv youu <33

HAPPY NEW YEAR YOU SEXY BAES!

kisses, lex

[g3nosarchive]

ok i genuinely think a lot of other people have this problem but stop inserting yourself when xyz issue is mentioned. when someone is telling you that a person, a celebrity, some franchise is harming their identity or anyone’s identity as a minority, or part of a certain race or religion or anything shut the fuck up and accept it.

they do not need to know your emotional attachment to said thing, your disbelief, your horror, your personal experience - we didn’t ask for all that. we know just how bad it is, cus yk it harms us maybe? we’ve already gone through the cycle of being angry and indignant and now we’re here trying to get you to understand in the hopes that as a friend you do what you’re meant to do when you became friends with us. we are not your constant ball of anger to use whenever you find something that’s “crazy, unbelievably, shockingly” once again, a hate crime, when you decide you want to feel angry and care about it.

more under the cut bc i talk too much

by doing that, you’re making an issue that you didn’t even know about suddenly yours. ask yourself, what is the purpose for telling anyone all that? to get them to sympathize with you personally so you can get a pass because you didn’t know? of course you don’t know, of course you’re unaware, that’s the whole reason why you’re being told in the first place. do not water down the issue or even try to play the ‘everything has some issue like this so there’s no point in going this far’ card. especially as a white person. the reason why you don’t know primarily is because it doesn’t affect you and it doesn’t cross your mind.

when you watch a show with a black character, you don’t care about how off the character design is or how stereotypical and borderline racist the comedy gag surrounding said character is. when you listen to your favorite white music artists or watch your favorite movie with a majority white cast, white staff, white team, and white theme, you don’t care to analyze just how outdated and stereotypical the way that token asian character is portrayed. some of y’all don’t understand and will never understand the mental struggle and awareness forever plugged into the brain of lgbt and/or poc, especially black people when we consume anything, when we go anywhere, when we meet new people, to constantly catch those micro aggressions and know what to avoid.

so when someone tells you insert classic hot mess is racist and you should stop supporting it, one of the worst things you can do beside outright rejecting it is to defend it and insinuate that we don’t know what we’re talking about, that we need 30 different sources to prove it all, that you don’t think (for example taylor swifts dream colonized africa mv) is bad. you try to say the thing or person that is actively promoting all this homophobia, racism, transmisogyny etc needs to be kindly educated, is trying their best, will learn soon enough, just wasn’t educated, will do better in the future (esp looking at u kpop stans). does their apparent regret but refusal to properly apologize actually matter? the damage has already been done.

that in itself is a privilege i could never have. i don’t even try being a fan of any major white celebrity or any kpop group because i guarantee if i search up their name with ‘racist’, ‘sexist’, ‘homophobic’, ‘transphobic’, ‘cultural appropriation’ behind it something or some image is bound to show up. you will all say “oh they haven’t done anything yet” but when it comes out that they did, they have, and they do not care about who it affects, suddenly it’s a bombshell dropped on you out of nowhere.

it’s not that hard to spot these things actually. if your fav is constantly putting themselves against people of color, saying shady shit about non cishets while being a cishet themself, saying one thing and doing another, or has been silent when their voice was expected to speak up, shouldn’t you notice? y’all will reblog all these posts but in reality only 10% are actually reading and listening and actually digesting this information for future use.

and i think the thing that pisses me off is this is all from personal experience where i’m speaking from. over the past 2 days the amount of times if i’ve heard about the “tea that dropped w meghan markle” is ridiculous and annoying. a girl texted me and i sat there and i realized that she does this on a daily basis to fuel my anger and get me to validate her own useless anger. of course i knew about it and i wasn’t surprised at all - she’s still a black woman.

almost every black blog on here, when they get big enough, deals with some sort of weird shit surrounding their blackness. if you get big on speaking about issues you are now this emotionless token ‘smart black person i can actually trust’ to use as your replacement for google. this is not to say asking questions is bad, but it is so easy to pull up some of the shit you guys ask for. some people get called slurs directly, targeted for being too black or not black enough, attacked for their features and etc and someone mentioned this before but the only people that care in those situations are other black people themselves. white people will have blm in their bio but turn the other way the minute some anon starts acting up in their mutuals’ inbox, calling them a dark1e because they felt confident enough to post some selfies. and then you get sad when we dont go to you for any kind of support? 

i’ve stated sometimes that asking me questions on issues and things is okay, but one of the main reasons i say that is because whether i say it or not, i’ll be asked questions and expected to know everything and i am your personal walking encyclopedia and ofc it’s natural for me to have all this information in my head, as if i didn’t research it myself. but then i think about the numerous amounts of people that specifically say not to ask them this shit because it really does tire you out, that they don’t want to have to deal with this in any space but they still get them. 

and then the ones that don’t even know themself so people will use them as an example and say “well this person didn’t know and they’re ‘marginalized identity’ so it should be fine for me too”. good god just apologize, show that you really care, change your behavior and move on. do you think it was fun being asked the statistics for george floyd’s and other black peoples death in class? that you were being inclusive and giving me a chance to show off my intelligence, to prove to others that i really had something up here and you were my greatest star eyes white friend that gave me that chance? i cant close my posts like this properly but i want you to think about that shit and actually ask yourself if you’d do that. a lot of you will read this and think “i’m not that type of racist” “i don’t have those deep seated prejudices in me” yes you do. you just haven’t been called out on it.

for all the shit ive dealt with above, if i’ve ever talked to you about this before dont come to me to apologize i do not need it and you are not the only person i’ve received this from. i guarantee you that there��s about 20 other people i’ve thought about while writing this post considering i’m a black person in the real world, so keep your guilt to yourself an deal with it

white people don’t add on to this

[friendlylocalwhumper]

a long reply to a long anon criticism. deals with race, and oppression as written in whump fiction.

here are a series of asks sent to me about an hour ago, raising a concern/issue with my writing:

1/? dude. i was reading your recent story where emory (a young, gay, black man) was beaten by the cops and i finally had to say something. all your stories where he sits there and worries about how his white boyfriend is the target of police brutality bc of some form of oppression YOU (a presumably non-black person) got to make up?? those have rlly left a bad taste in my mouth, but the one where you actually torture your black character to show how bad the white one has it put me over the edge.

2/? these are real issues. ig i was able to ignore you using systematic brutality as “a fun prompt to write about!” when race wasnt rlly a factor in your stories, but as soon as emory got introduced it became more and more inappropriate of you to twist these ideas. “wouldnt it be sad if lux got beat up just for being a warlock 😔” yeah. and his bf is black, and hes in danger of that every day.

¾ as bad as just ignoring actual brutality was, having to read a story where a young, gay, black man was graphically beaten by police officers for YOUR pleasure, for FUN, when it wasn’t even his race that put him in that position (which isnt even ur place to write abt for torture porn but at least its addressing a real issue) but the fact that he was mistaken as the class you made up and chose to make oppressed?? that was wildly inappropriate.

4/4 this isnt hating on your writing or whatever, so dont call it that and pretend its anything other than informing u of what you can and cant speak about. a reminder of your lane. these arent your concepts to play with, stick to a singular whumper or whatever and cool it on the police brutality since u dont know how to handle it (presuming there even IS a way to handle this correctly as a whump device, which im not convinced there is)

bonus/4 pls dont do the white person thing of just ignoring those messages or going “no its not racist. i know bc i dont think it is/ i say its not.” like. im just genuinely letting you know it’s inappropriate, and you dont get to say “oh its not! i didnt mean for it to be so its not!” so i would appreciate it of you would take it into consideration or at least address it

my response:

there’s some context that i think you’re missing, in terms of how lux’s world came about. i’m gonna try to explain it without sounding like i’m trying to veer off-topic.

the world in which lux and emory live is a dystopia. is it a dystopia because i enjoy thinking about, writing, and daydreaming about systemic oppression? no. oppression isn’t a trope that i particularly enjoy; it’s not, like, something i’m into, you know? the only reason that i set it up like this, with brutal cops and propaganda and general public hatred of this class of people, is because i needed an excuse for lux to get hurt often. i wanted to write him getting beat up, didn’t matter if it was by friends or enemies or assassins or aliens. just as long as i had some kind of general excuse, a plausible reason for him to get hurt as often as i tend to write. so i made a fictional society where people get hurt a lot. lux happened to have magic, thanks to the original prompt that inspired his creation, so i figured he could get targeted for that. that’s why lux, a white boy, is targeted for having magic, and why magic users are oppressed in the universe i made up.

i know that these are real issues. i am white, as you guessed. inherently, i will never truly know what it is like to be oppressed as a black man. i understand why this raised alarm bells for you, and why you felt the need to tell me about your discomfort - to stop my writing of these characters in this universe.

but do i agree with your point that i can’t write oppression because i am white? no. just like i think it’s okay for anyone to write sensitive topics like abuse, torture, conditioning, murder, and assault if they are careful and respectful enough about it. race is a super precarious subject matter, as it should be, because there is a lot of real-life suffering and fear tied into it. i don’t get to decide what’s racist and what’s not.

but i am not fetishizing oppression - or, at least, what i am doing is no different from what other whump writers dealing in sensitive subject matters do. i am utilizing fiction, which will always parallel real life in some way, to create a story that i enjoy writing and reading. i want to hurt lux, so i created a world in which i could do that. i try to walk the tricky line of writing diverse characters without just throwing characters of color around as if it automatically makes my content less white and one-dimensional. i also try my best not to give emory lines about his race, or give him backstory related to being particularly oppressed or privileged, because i don’t feel comfortable putting such words in a black character’s mouth as a white writer.

now for my last point: whump isn’t torture porn. just judging by your automatic wariness and word choice, i’m guessing that you’re not a whump writer. writers in this community are extremely careful. we tag excessively, use content warnings, and do everything we can to help readers avoid content they don’t want to be exposed to. we all know that whump entails the writing of torture, abuse, humiliation, gore, and many other things that, in real life, are terrible to suffer. that’s… kind of what whump is. there’s a general understanding, here, that we’re going to write such heavy things, employing something sort of like suspended disbelief, i guess, to let ourselves enjoy whump without stressing about the real-life parallels to the fiction.

so that’s my response to your criticism.

anon, i don’t really appreciate the fact that your last ask was a transparent bid to get me to publish your messages, but. well. i wanted to do my best to answer instead of just leaving these asks in my inbox.

[fairycosmos]

do you answer all of the messages/DMs that people send you?

no 😔 i mean i attempt to but it usually takes a lot of time. i know this is just a web site, but it bugs me that im so scatterbrained. im  absent and cant concentrate. like unless someone is being rude im never intentionally ignoring them but im just.......ugh and mentally drained most of the time with everything going on. hate to use that as an excuse but it’s true and idk what to do about it. i read a lot of them, appreciate them so much. i want to stress that im not just saying that. i luv to hear from ppl and thats why i keep my inbox open. but if i leave them too long i feel awkward responding like its too late. sometimes i reply in my head and not in reality by accident lmfao. and i usually try to get back to the DMS, tho that can take a while too.....i feel bad writing paragraphs all the time as well, like im blocking peoples dashes or something. but i also dont like giving lackluster responses, i want to give a worth while answer if its a substantial topic. im an air sign, i dont know. as you can see i’m having issues as always and mostly over thinking the whole thing. but if you send me something, please know that it’s never in vain and if it was something nice, it probably kept me going for a few hrs or even days ! and if you want it answered quickly, maybe you could put a certain emoji or say that it’s urgent so i can prioritize your message and try to get back to you sooner. that would help me out a lot. especially if it’s cause you want to talk abt something serious. im sorry about that more than anything, i wish i could be more efficient with the vulnerable anons bc i know how hard it is to open up. theres no justification for that, i just need to work on it and i will try to ! :) in the next few days, i want to start getting round to it. i guess ppl can just backlist ‘anon’ if they find it annoying jgfkdsz

[literaphobe]

hi michelle! so want to start saying that i identify as bi and honestly, I would LOVE it if jake was bi. I think it'd be great. But i'm also okay if he's not, bc how cool is it that they're allowing a man to break down traditional gender norms/roles! i think one of the greatest parts of loving a show like b99 is that it lets us escape the 'real world' for twenty minutes every week. and that means something different for every person watching the show. 1

SO while i believe you are entitled to your own opinions, and you can share them on your blog bc it's yours, i don't think its fair to invite people to share their opinions but shut down anyone who feels differently than you. for example, you said to someone who said they didn't care if jake was bi that you hope they 'get well soon'. also, you posted saying that if bi people didnt want jake to be bi then they're wrong. im sorry but thats really hurtful. you dont get to decide how people think 2

just bc someone feels differently than you doesnt make their feelings less valid, ESPECIALLY someone who identifies as lgbt+. you run a popular blog and it makes me sad to think people might feel their opinions are less valid or wrong bc they see it here. again, im not saying you cant have opinions or post them. but maybe just think about how your words can affect others. also saying this off anon bc i respect you and am open to having a conversation. Thanks for reading, hope u have a good day<3

hi. thank you for ur mannerly tone and for having the courage to go off-anon.

mlm/bi representation will always be more important than ‘straight man comfortable with his sexuality’. while i am not saying that straight men in media shouldn’t be portrayed as comfortable in their sexualities, the stance that it’s okay to take away representation from people in the lgbt community as long as we have Good Hets is harmful, and it gives people in the tv/movie industries a cop out. they don’t have to give us more lgbt characters! straight characters who Know What’s Up are good enough to make them seem woke and avoid criticism! and whether you’re comfortable with this happening as an lgbt has nothing to do with it. we have to hold the media accountable, we can’t just settle for less. whether you want to watch b99 uncritically or not is entirely up to you. i get that it’s exhausting to analyze the media content you consume! i more than understand just wanting to escape and not ask for more! it’s tiring! it’s draining! it’s disappointing, it hurts so much and it gets so so lonely. but we can’t just let the world stagnate. progress needs to be made constantly, and shows can’t be made to feel like they can just do one or two good things and not be expected to do anything else! i’m not asking you to fight for this, i just want the acknowledgement that this is the right thing to do

i didn’t exactly... invite anyone to say anything. i truly am just sending my thoughts out into the void. and yes, i am aware that my words reach a wider audience because i have a larger than average follower count. of course i know my words can affect others. that’s what i’m trying to do. aside from getting thoughts out my brain, i want to promote a less passive line of thinking. i want lgbt folk to want better for themselves. unfortunately, because words and actions have responses, people will climb into my inbox and start conversations that i inevitably have to take part in (sometimes i don’t though. it really depends on where my head’s at that day. having to discuss this repeatedly is draining). most of the time, i’m just making a statement

i don’t particularly enjoy “shutting down people who feel differently from me”. usually, if i’ve done that, i really am tired because i’ve likely discussed and explained numerous times whatever it is the person who got shut down said to me. i might also come off as mean-spirited or perhaps aggressive if i know some anon is just trying to pick a fight/spew hate at me. if you don’t understand where i’m coming from/don’t believe why having an opposing stance is harmful (this might vary depending on the issue), i am (given i have energy that day) more than willing to elaborate on whatever it is i say here. if i say stuff like ‘get well soon!’ it is a tired response to something i have already covered in depth and i am making some semblance of a joke to deflect/put a lid on the stuff i really want to say (likely because i have already said it) 

i never said that bi people who didn’t want jake to be bi were wrong. i was trying to get them to think deeper and explore why they don’t want that. being lgbt sometimes means that we allow and normalize a lot of unfair treatment. we think that we have it good enough so we decide not to ask for more, to settle. and i will never blame any lgbt for falling victim to this line of thought. we were brought up to think this way, we were conditioned to think this way. acceptance does not equal inclusion, and sadly many of us are so grateful for the acceptance that we do not bother to even think about having inclusion. or, better inclusion, for that matter. of course, it is definitely not up to me to decide how anyone thinks. i’m just trying to convince you! very desperately. but if you don’t agree no matter what i say then what can i do? it’s your life. it doesn’t affect me much in the grand scheme of things. i’m not going to hate you for disagreeing. i’m not going to sic the dogs on you. am i going to be kind of annoyed if someone walks into my inbox, turns on anon, and hurls insults at me? yes, that’s hurtful, and it’s kind of funny sometimes depending on how dumb you sound, but it’s mostly tiring and a lot of pain. so like... read, if u don’t like it, move on, if your well-being is drastically affected from reading the things i say, i’ll tag it so you can blacklist 

the sad thing is, being a member of the lgbt community doesn’t automatically make your opinions on lgbt issues valid/unproblematic. internalized homophobia exists. things i described in the point above can lead to this. just because a bi person says ‘im bi! and i don’t care/don’t think bi jake is important!’ doesn’t mean that suddenly, there is no need for him to be canonically bi, that we aren’t being queerbaited/pandered to by the show. do i think that the show is intentionally/heinously queerbaiting us? not exactly. but lack of awareness and lacking understanding on why bi-coding jake w no intention to make it canon is just as harmful bc it produces the same result (in jake’s case)

once again, i don’t intend for people to feel “less valid/wrong” when they read what i have to say on this blog. self-reflection is important. sometimes, people have opinions that are wrong! including myself! which is why more often than not i think deeply into the things people say to me here and consider whether my opinion holds up. you don’t have to feel bad for being wrong. we are all constantly wrong on stuff. everyone, at some point, has had a bad take/the wrong take on something. if you hold yourself up to this standard that you must always be right or you are suddenly a horrible person/must feel bad and demoralized, i suggest that you change your approach to issues such as this. i hate to say this but it is not my job to make sure everyone is 100% cool and chill about everything i do and say here. some things need to be said. some things need to be acknowledged. i’m sorry if any of you have been hurt/upset by anything i’ve ever posted but after a certain point... that is your issue and not mine 

[mjalti]

Hey Ana! This might be a strange question but how do you deal with so many messages in your inbox and so many people reaching out to you? For context, I have a side blog that recently popped off and I’m struggling to keep up with everyone, which sucks because I’m having a lot of fun. It does leave me overwhelmed sometimes though, even when I’m being choosy about what I answer. I don’t want to hurt any feelings by not responding either, which is tough. Any tips on managing my inbox? Thank you! 💘

hey honey! hmm as with anything, remember that you’re the one that gets to define ur boundaries & curate your blog. so you get to define what behavior is ok and what is not. that could range from answering asks once a week, once a month, or never at all. for me personally, i try to “read” peoples intentions. if i say “im uncomfortable talking about my real life” and someone hounds me about my phone number or something, i just block them. the block button is your friend. even with anons, sometimes it can be tempting to respond to the hateful ones in a sardonic way but just know that people who send hateful anons are already losers with no valid opinions anyway, so you should just get on ur laptop & block them. whats funny is that, it probably isnt one of your followers who sent you that. people who follow you do often have a grip on your personality, they tend to know when ur joking and when ur serious about a topic. people who saw one of ur posts blow up & all of a sudden think they’re experts on you without knowing you or following you are the ones who send weird anonymous messages. you get to decide what’s allowed in your environment even ur online environment so dont be “afraid” of exercising that power. your followers are people and they should understand that you have responsibilities outside of social media (esp bc tumblr doesnt pay unlike other media platforms) so if they want to get antsy about a message that’s unanswered, you can also block them. you cant be invited to someone’s house and then tell the host how you’d redecorate their home. that’s just not how it works. If people’s feelings get hurt by your silence, that’s unfortunate but that’s on them, not you.  i say it all the time, but unless someone is helping me pay my bills or buying me things i want, they dont have a right to make a request about how im spending my free time. in terms of your inbox, learn how to flow with it, turn anon off every once in a while. learn who the followers who care about YOU are & try to prioritize answering those asks if you can but otherwise? if you’re not having fun with it, turn ur asks off & focus on what you enjoy doing (whatever thing it is that you blog about) and remember that you’re literally just here to have fun for a bit :)

[irwen-s]

ok i'm back and WHEW sol!!! much to discuss...

QUEENDOM. i missed them so much...rv my beloveds ☺️ ngl the title track is not my fav (itll probably grow on me) but tracks 3-6 slap!! also sidenote about the irene dyed hair discussion: i think she never dyes her hair both bc of her brand deals but also i remember her saying she just prefers her natural hair colour. apparently she hated her purple hair during russian roulette era (luvies around the world being like 😭 at that)

anyways moving on...i love ur gyulwon arranged marriage au sm..the potential for worldbuilding and character studies is unmatched. what u said about gyuri coming from a traditional family but living in a time where there are more liberal ideas and her feeling conflicted bc of that..i can imagine gyuri being all soft alpha and subverting traditional a/o expectations when she's alone with jiwon but then feeling really pressured to act the part of the overly dominant alpha when they're out in public. i wonder how they would handle that 👀

now on to the 2jirom..thank you for feeding all 5 of us 2jirom fans lmaooo but it was So Good..'"she’s so small, but always manages to take the both of us completely . . . ”' [ceases to function] bye idk what to say bc im still processing but you did such a good job balancing the filth and the soft...it was dirty but like,, theyre not complete without the three of them together.. 😭 i love this trio and i will not stop pushing the 2jirom agenda

also i very much agree with your jisun pretty cock hc..i am Looking. if u have more to say do share with the class - here is my contribution: jiwon obviously being the needy omega she is and always wanting to be surrounded by both of her alphas..often times she gets this intense desperation that only really gets quelled by the feeling of being filled to the brim. so she can get a little obsessed w romsun's cocks (saerom likes to tease her about it bc she gets this adorable glazed-over look in her eyes when she's desperate to be filled). However the real truth is that saerom is more obsessed with jisun's cock than jiwon is, and not even always in an overtly sexual way..she just thinks it's so Pretty to look at and she can't help herself so she just has to reach out and touch it..which is when things escalate. sometimes she sneaks in on jisun when she's taking a shower, claiming that they'll get ready faster if they shower together, but the second saerom's hand curls around her hip, jisun knows it's gonna be a long shower. but maybe not...because saerom sinks to her knees with a deceptively innocent look in those doe eyes and says, "don't worry, unnie will take care of you,". she presses a kiss right at the sensitive spot on the inside of her thigh, and jisun fails to suppress the breathy whine that echoes embarrassingly off the bathroom walls. she hopes none of the others can hear them. "you never take long when it's with me, do you?" saerom's little giggle before she takes jisun fully into her mouth has her groaning and tipping her head back

WHEW

- flover anon

flover anon!!!! i havent seen you in my inbox in a while!! shoulda known youd show back up on queendom day ahahha

but yeah omg i finally got around to watching the music video after having the album on loop all day; its so fucking good im kinda just shfhjdjfjdjjfdg. i dont know what my songs ranked in order of favourites is yet but i literally love every song on the album???? like wow jesus they really destroyed it this comeback im so glad for them

also YEAH about irenes hair thats what i recall reading as well; and definitely the thing about her purple hair too HAHAHAHA how she hated it in reality

gyuri having to play the part of a domineering over controlling alpha in public cause thats all she knows . . . and in front of jiwon . . . [pain]

“all 5 of us 2jirom fans” CRYING we need to add more people to the agenda ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡ also im glad you liked it!!! i know its a struggle for me to really write, , , like, , , *deep* nasty stuff since thats kinda unappealing to me but im glad it appears i balanced my soft style with the dirty smoot part ehehe

and yeah i tried to focus the writing so its not Just a relationship where two alphas cater to their omega but like an actually healthy one where saerom and jisun take care of each other and need each other too!

that being said i HATE the image youve put into my head now . . . based off that jisun headcanon that i myself started . . . like fuck. saerom being more obsessed with jisuns cock than jiwon is feels SO right like omfg and how its not even just a sexual thing she genuinely finds it so pretty and wants to touch it all the time im crying

to the point where saerom loves sucking jisun off and taking her into her mouth, just cupping jisun in her hands and pumping her with pure reverence. and all jisun can do is bite her knuckles and try not to buckle as saerom takes her down her throat. just. goodbye, fucking hell

i cant . . . okay maybe after im done with all my prompts i will write this . . . god i cant oh my god

also to complete the 2jirom triangle since it seems like saerom tends to take care of jisun, and jisun takes care of jiwon, i headcanon that jiwon is actually able to have the most sway over saerom. like jiwon and jisun are the same age so their dynamic is different, but saerom is older than the both of them and she gets super soft for her members, especially jiwon—who shed do almost anything for, and jiwon is just sometimes able to take advantage of that. basically similar to the idea that saeroms more likely to indulge her than jisun is ahaha

[girlrry]

Anonymous said: genuinely god help me if i’m 40 and still care about what some 20 year olds say about me on tumblr or twitter

also the fact that i literally don’t care about there being 40yo ppl on here its just the creepy ones

Anonymous said: lmao one of narcissa followers went to your blog and told them your anon age shames older fans in the fandom and said you should do taxes and watch over children and its like that piss on the poor post where like they cant even comprehend what was said on the blog and nobody cares if your 40 and on this site or in the fandom its how you choose to engage in the fandom which most of these older harries spend time in petty drama or caring deeply about a 26 year old sex life which is…yikes

i saw lmao….. embarrassing 

Anonymous said: narcssiatramaine followers are taking bits of your blogs convo and then going to them saying your agesist and saying how you were discussing that women in their 30s need to cater to their husbands and be good housewives like?? are these people okay do they not know how to read

yeah i did not expect them to respond with anything even remotely logical since the only thing they took from my anons is that i’m ageist

Anonymous said: You just said it’s weird that older woman are OBSESSING over someones romantic/sexual life whos way younger than them and all of a sudden everyone acting like they were personally told they are old hags like damn take your insecurities back to school and learn how to read! IF YOU DON’T DO THAT, THEN IT WASN’T MEANT @ YOU

LITERALLY

me: old obsessive harries are creepy

the creepy harries: OKAY SO YOURE SAYING ANYONE OVER 30 SHOULD DIE AND YOU HATE US??

i  was only ever referring to the people everyone knows about i literally do not care what age you are as long as you’re respectful and not weird about it

Anonymous said: lmaoooo i cant with these 40 year olds coming into your inbox crying that a blog doesnt like them and also we were discussing gross 40 year old on this site and if you found offensive with that then maybe you just revaluate yourself

i blocked an anon that was camped out in my inbox going on and on about how i am young and stupid bc i called people out. they proceeded to say how they were not offended and they weren’t trying to insult me by calling me young and underdeveloped. like if you’re not bothered then why are you in my inbox??

Anonymous said: all offense to that anon but those older harries that were mentioned everyone knows who they are and most people find them annoying the fact that nobody has to specify them by name and yet everyone still knows who theyre talking about means it aint just one sided or something a blog came up with

right like i was talking about a very specific group of harries on here i wasn’t hating on every single 40 year old ever i don’t have problems with yall its just the people i mentioned specifically but they had to take that and twist it to discredit me calling them out

Anonymous said: dude where all these anons coming from and have they not been reading your messages like who the fuck is talking about 28 year olds on this site like its specifically people in their 40s on this site who are obsessed with harry’s sex life and are underlying homophobes but dont want to admit it

yeah apparently i think everyone here over 20 is old

Anonymous said: im just going to say it im 24 and i hope to god im not on this site past the age of 35 let alone 30 and going to blogs to yell about people in their 40s in a fandom even though aint nobody specifically talking about you just the type of behavior that is exhibited by some blogs

haven’t you heard that i hate anybody slightly older than me and i said they’re not allowed to like harry :-(

Anonymous said: some of these people are stoopid like honest to god. read it thoroughly digest the words then come up with a response not skim it over and pick few words then get mad

they don’t have enough time left in their life to completely read anything and formulate an opinion i guess. they just gotta read like three words, get offended, and send me hate anons

Anonymous said:why is there so much boomer behavior on this blog tonight ,,,, lit rally no one is saying that older woman cannot like younger musicians or whatever we r just saying it’s extremely weird when grown ass women sexualize Harry specifically when he was a teenager and obsess over his dating life. If it was a man doing this to a young female musician u would call it creepy and uncomfortable so why is it different for an older woman? also don’t say we r being ageist and then say we r stupid like girl,,

I KNOW like how are you gonna say you’re taking the high ground and then pull that shit eye-

Anonymous said: Full stop these anons need to go outside or get a hobby, half the asks they’re sending you don’t make any logical sense.

TRULY. like idc if you disagree with me and you want to voice that i think that’s fine but you have to come to me with a logical argument just sending an angry rant followed with an insult about how my brain is underdeveloped is just wasting my time tbh

Anonymous said: for people who are trying to insult you because you’re young and your brain is supposedly is underdeveloped these older harries sure lack reading comprehension

let us say a prayer for them. i guess we all have underdeveloped brains

Anonymous said: At least harry is 26. I’m also in the shawn side of tumblr & the amount of middle aged moms sexualizing him and writing smutty fanfics when he was UNDERAGE was 🤢 but it was always “fine & completely different because they would never actually act on it so it’s okay”. I’m so glad I wasn’t around back then with harry. Caroline was probably their queen

oh ew nasty. and yeah there’s people who still don’t think there was anything wrong with that (and we all know what age group they belong to)

Anonymous said:“You don’t get to 40 and suddenly love balding men” you’re saying this as if attractive men in their 40s don’t exist…

attractive men outside of harry actually do not exist

Anonymous said:some 40 year old is really coming into your inbox and making you feel bad about being young. like maam go to bed so you can take your kids to school tomorrow morning instead of worrying about what people say on tumblr. embarrassing

i don’t care if they have kids i just hope they have self respect this is genuinely embarrassing

Anonymous said:are these people okay like seriously are they okay

they have normally developed brains but apparently not

Anonymous said: Y'all being so rude on anon? Like I can tell op is super tired of your shit. So stop, take a sec and think “am I being a polite and caring person” before you send an ask. It’s significantly more wrong for a 50 year old to share sexual fantasies online about a 26 year old than it is for a 20 year old lmao. But neither are wrong entirely. In either case can we let this go now?

i don’t completely agree but i’m so tired of this subject i wanna Stop

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hi! indian college anon again! i just wanted to say thank u so much for ur advice, im really really scared abt my future but what u said made me feel a lil better! i think a lot of indian parents try to make their kids to engineering or medicine bcs its safe and good money (like mine lol) my dad actually made me take abt 10 tech classes in hs but i HATE them all and i never told him bcs i didnt wand him to be dissapointed hehe but i am abt to fail one so i think he got the message. my mom (cont)

indian college anon! i wasnt really saying anything much hehe i was just ranting abt how my mom really wants me to do medicine but i hate it, and my dad made me take like 10 tech classes in highschool as engineering prep which i HATE and also gave me really bad depression and anxiety too! and i said a lil abt all the different things i want to do but cant choose from :(( i actually had like 3 messages ur inbox swallowed aksjdfl i write so much lol. anyways, thanks for replying! //

// (cont) i wish i could have hermoine grangers time turner from harry potter and have extra time to study all the things i love…ah i wrote so much thats another thing we have in common i always write soooo much lol. anyways im gonna stop spamming u and i wanted to say thanks for ur reply!!! btw i have to say i really like ur blog i love reading all ur tags!! seeing ur love for sehun and exo makes me so happy! okay now im gonna go byeee

No problem! I felt a bit bad because I just kept on rambling but I have a chronic won’t-shut-up issue that refuses to be resolved lmao. I’m glad to hear it helped a little bit, though ;; I’m not the best at advice, so I tend to just talk about my own experiences orz. But man!! Indian parents really are obsessed with engineering, medicine, and also IT (I swear whenever I go back to India all I see is IT colleges and ads for IT colleges lmao). But oh man, I remember in high school, I only took biology and chemistry as electives, but my dad was like, “Take physics, too, so you can get into engineering,” and I was like okay (when in reality I hate physics with a passion) so it’s just interesting to see the parallels in our situations alksjf Though ofc that doesn’t compare to 10 whole tech classes jfc…

But I really hope you’ll be able to talk to your parents and they’ll listen to you, because being pressured into doing a degree, and spending that many years on something you hate and have zero passion or desire to do as a degree, let alone a career, is counterproductive ;; And if you’re anything like me, after a certain point you’re going to lose the motivation and it’s going to reflect horribly in so many ways - mentally, performance-wise, grades, socially, etc, and considering we both have anxiety and depression, those effects just double and also make it harder for us to cope, because I remember my anxiety made it really hard for me to ask for help until it was way too late ;; If you think about it logically, doing something you hate = no motivation since lack of passion = poor performance = you not actually learning anything = you not being able to apply it in class = especially not being able to apply it in real life = if you get a job it’ll be hard to perform to a desired level = poor job performance = you are very unhappy ;; But that’s just me, I am a bit of a pessimist orz. I hope it’ll work out well for you; maybe it’ll take some time but I’m sure you will get there - if I of all people somehow made it out, I’m sure you can, too~ Let me know how it goes, though!

But it was no problem replying! I just hope I was able to say at least something with a teeny bit of use ;; And also thank you for liking my blog and reading my tags :(((

I really hope it works out for you, I have all the faith in the world that it will ;;