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This is in response to an anonymous ask. Anon has been able to sense what we might call Oversoul or Big animals for a while, but since a significant magical awakening Anon has lost the clarity of their Sight.
Anon has advised that after trying connection techniques that used to work, this problem has not resolved.
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Anon, I disagree with your hypothesis that this may be an active choice by your spirits, either to test you or to encourage you to do something.
When I went through my 'awakening' I encountered an intense shift in the kind of work I had been able to do, and I had to re-learn old skills I was already confident in. It's happened to me more than once. It blows.
This isn't because I was being tested, but rather because my circuitry was being converted from DC to AC and the 12 volt systems weren't compatible with my hardware any more.
I believe it's normal for practitioners to lose and have to re-learn or adapt around old skills. It sucks, but it happens. It would rarely be my first assumption that these things are spirits wanting distance, or putting us through shit tests, or something.
Here are my suggestions:
Tell them you do not like the distance and it's scary. Invite them back and ask them to stay close.
Put old techniques up on the shelf and try something completely new. Like if before you were attempting grounded visualization, this time try water scrying. Or, shapeshifting during astral travel.
Ask them to send clear, direct messages about how to resume old levels of clarity and contact.
Redirect your focus away from spirit working and towards psychism: perform experiments to see if there are any other changes to your Sensing and try to troubleshoot
Engage the help of an ally known to assist with matters of Sensing and clarity, perhaps including gods, plants, or mineral spirits; or smaller spirits (especially the Dead) who can give you information to improve your Sensing and solve this problem.
Redirect focus towards matters of magical hygiene; regular cleansing, unblocking, and ward maintenance can have material effects on Sensing.
Review all ongoing sorcery and ensure no wards, spells, or any projects could be impacting the ability of spirits to easily arrive to you.
Review many recent actions and ensure you have not accidentally caused offense or accidentally did something to send the spirits away; resolve offenses, known or unknown, through general offering rituals asking to bury the hatchet and resume a positive relationship
#in mundane life “relationship tests” are widely viewed as manipulative and toxic behavior#it's not unreasonable to apply these same standards to spirits#“ghosting” a practitioner or giving them the silent treatment is not fair behavior from a spirit#especially if an emotionally supportive relationship was established beforehand.#Communication can be imperfect and sometimes the spirits can't explain to us something is happening before it starts#for example if you're undergoing a magical “rewiring” and your old systems stop working correctly#leaving you stranded until you learn new techniques for your new systems.#But if you're worried that spirits might be playing “hard to get” or giving you a relationship test#you can tell them you don't abide by that behavior and ask them to be honest with you that they need distance or what their goal is.#But also you gotta clearly communicate your own needs.#Like there is no reason to assume they know your needs unless you've told them.
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Hollow Worship: It was never about him
Summary: Gojo Satoru was used to being admired. Worshipped, even. That was the natural order of things. But worship isn’t always devotion. Sometimes, it’s possession. Sometimes, it’s something far worse. Trigger Warnings(Contains Spoilers): MDNI, Non-Con. A/N: The people who feel close to someone call them by their first name. Those who don’t—or don’t see themselves as a living being or a human—use surnames. This is my dark little gift to my muses @mullermilkshake & @TheVillagerandtheSea—hope you both enjoy your dose of brain rot. Hehe.
Your POV
Gojo Satoru was used to being admired. Worshipped, even. It came with the territory—being him.
His power? Unmatched.
His looks? Otherworldly.
His charm? Debatable. But that was your problem, not his.
The first time you met him, you were busy existing like a normal, competent jujutsu sorcerer with a stellar track record.
That lasted exactly five seconds.
Because then he walked in, all six-foot-whatever, grinning like an idiot, and your brain just—
Flatlined.
Your eyes dropped.
Not to his ridiculous sunglasses.
Not to his stupid smirk.
Lower.
His chest.
His stupidly big, indecently sculpted, menacingly perky chest.
The fabric of his uniform stretched obscenely across his pecs, and you were stuck staring at them like a sleep paralysis demon locked in combat with intrusive thoughts.
“Uh,” you said, completely forgetting every word you’d ever learned.
Gojo wasn’t surprised when you immediately froze upon meeting him. Awestruck, clearly. Like a rookie catching their first glimpse of true greatness.
His smirk widened. “Oh? Speechless? Must be my overwhelming presence—”
You didn’t respond, still frozen.
Satoru knew what people usually looked at. His blindfold. His jawline. Sometimes his hands (for some weird reason).
But you? You looked like you’d seen God’s greatest creation.
Right there.
On his torso.
It was bizarre.
Your love for Satoru (or Toru, as you lovingly called him in your dreams) didn’t start that day. It had been brewing for years—long before you ever laid eyes on him in real life.
Back when he was just an unattainable god-tier existence on your timeline, you already knew he’d be yours.
Because there was one thing that separated others from you, your special grade technique was a bad match for his.
When someone dared to call him overrated? You were there, bombs locked and loaded.
When a hater tried to say he wasn’t that strong? You had an entire thesis, six sources cited, and a clip of him soloing special grades in 4K.
And when anyone tried to downplay his assets—the sheer, disrespectfully sculpted divinity of his existence—?
Oh, you were feral.
“I wonder if sex eyes replineshes his cum output too and efficiently releases cum to the point where he releases massive cum while releasing almost close to 0 cum. Also, would it look blue? Would it be stronger than normal cum? Lot of questions.”
“How much do you love Gojo?”
“How much water have you drank all your life?”
"Honestly, at this point, if he fucked my Grandma, I’d lick her asshole just to taste his cum.”
The Gojo fandom was a lawless wasteland, and you thrived in it.
You had favorites, of course.
The thirst edits that sent you into a spiral.
The fanart that made you question if you needed to start paying tithes.
The slow-mo clips of him laughing, walking, existing—each one a religious experience in its own right.
And then there was The Video. The one where he cracked his neck before a fight, his uniform stretching just right across his chest.
That was the day you learned true spiritual enlightenment.
“Daddy Gojo needs to be locked in a mating press IMMEDIATELY. I’m tired of this.”
“I will open my mouth and take big bites of your huge breasts. Then I will open my anus behind me and let you impale me with that huge dragon-slaying eagle. Until the flowers fade, until my room becomes sticky, until your semen rushes from behind me toward my esophagus and out of my throat. Until the blood flowing in my veins becomes your semen. Until I howled loudly, which made me very happy.”
It was true love.
Except now you were here.
You had spent years preparing for this moment. Practiced your greeting. Rehearsed a perfectly normal, non-feral introduction. Told yourself you were above the insanity.
Then he walked in.
And your brain just left the building.
It wasn’t just the face. Or the voice. Or the aura that made everyone else in the room seem insignificant by comparison.
No, it was worse.
Because Gojo Satoru in real life?
Was so much more.
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A few days later, you were on your first mission under Tokyo Jujutsu Tech.
Supposed to be dealing with a curse. A minor one, at that. Easy work for someone of your caliber.
Barely a threat.
But then it happened.
Satoru’s chest bounced when he dodged an attack.
The moment he’d moved, his uniform shifted—just slightly, just enough for the fabric to pull taut, for muscle to flex, for the weight of him to move in a way that was, apparently, devastating to you.
Your brain short-circuited like a Windows XP error.
You stopped mid-step, completely entranced, like a deer staring down an 18-wheeler made of raw pectoral muscle.
You almost died.
Over boobies.
Gojo had saved you, obviously. He yanked you back, put down the curse like it was nothing.
Then he turned to you, expecting at least a little bit of shame.
Instead, you were still looking.
Not at the curse.
Not at the aftermath.
At him.
At something beyond, something in, something he couldn’t quite put his finger on.
His fingers twitched at his sides.
“…Newbie nerves?” he said, tilting his head. “You know, I could give you some pointers—”
Nothing.
No reaction.
Just that same, unblinking, fascinated look.
“Huh,” he frowned.
And, like a curse magnetized to a ten-pack, you kept staring.
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Gojo’s POV
The first time he met you, he thought you were a normal, competent jujutsu sorcerer. Maybe even impressive.
Then he noticed the staring.
It wasn’t the usual kind—no awe, no fear, no giddy admiration at his reputation.
It was fixed. Heavy.
It took him longer than it should have to realize what you were staring at.
Not his uniform.
His chest.
At first, it was easy to ignore. Gojo was used to people looking at him, analyzing him, wanting something from him.
But this was different.
Your gaze didn’t waver, didn’t break away when caught—it just locked on, paralyzing, suffocating, an unspoken weight pressing against his ribs.
Gojo wasn’t used to feeling watched.
Not like this.
Sure, people stared at him all the time—students, sorcerers, civilians, enemies. Everyone wanted a piece of him, whether it was his power, his reputation, or just the sheer spectacle of his existence.
But your gaze?
Your gaze felt different.
He laughed it off.
Because what else was he supposed to do?
He’d gone to Nanami first.
“She stares at my chest. Constantly,” Gojo said, sitting backward on a chair like the human embodiment of a red flag.
Nanami didn’t look up from his paperwork. “And? I have important matters to handle, Gojo-san.”
“No, but seriously. She stares like—like she’s buffering. It’s like she’s studying them. That’s weird, right?”
Nanami’s pen stilled. He glanced up. “You mean the sorcerer with a higher kill count than you?”
Gojo blinked. “...What?”
“She’s a special grade.”
“Huh—”
“She’s more competent than you.”
Gojo frowned. “Okay, rude, but—”
“You should be grateful she even looks at you.”
“How can you—”
“She has more important things to do than entertain your delusions.”
He tried Ijichi next.
“Ijichi, listen, she stares. A lot. You believe me, right?”
Ijichi sighed, exhausted. “I believe you’re tired and hallucinating, Gojo-san.”
Surely Shoko would believe him, right?
Shoko took a drag of her cigarette and, without looking at him, said, “Sounds like a skill issue.”
No one believed him. No one.
And that’s when Gojo knew: he was alone in this.
That should have been the end of it. But it kept happening.
You were competent, respected, powerful—and yet, Gojo would catch you frozen, staring at him.
Not at his face.
At his chest.
It happened during missions.
It happened in meetings.
It happened when he was simply breathing in the same space as you.
And then, the first incident happened.
It had been a nasty mission.
Multiple special grade curses.
Gojo handled it like always, but the last one caught him off-guard.
Just for a second.
Then the mission went wrong.
Fast.
Gojo got clocked.
Hard enough to black out.
It wasn’t often that he felt truly helpless.
It would be fine; you were there; you’d take care of it.
But when he woke up, there was cold floor pressing against his back.
Did he tear off his clothes in the fight?
But there was warmth too.
Something was off.
Pressure. Softness.
Something was… moving?
His brain caught up at the same time his eyes adjusted.
He tried to sit up, but—oh.
Oh, no.
He looked down.
It was you.
Your face was buried in his bare chest.
Fully.
And—oh God, were you moterboating his chest?
Gojo was a man of many words.
Right now? He had none.
Your hands clutched his uniform pant’s waistband, face buried between his pecs like you were trying to merge with them.
“...The hell?” Gojo rasped.
You froze.
Stared at him, unblinking.
You had been waiting for this.
Didn’t look embarrassed but... devastated?
A long, long pause.
Then:
“...Can I—”
“No.”
“Just one more—”
“Absolutely not.”
You sat back with the heaviest sigh known to man.
Because you were disappointed.
Gojo scrambled away from you, grabbing his uniform coat, almost tripping on his own feet and putting it on hurriedly before teleporting away.
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Your POV
You loved his chest.
And Gojo Satoru, for all his confidence, was confused by the sheer devastation on your face as he pulled away, as if he’d just denied you your one purpose in life.
Meanwhile, you?
You had been thriving.
You had touched him.
Felt him.
Got a taste—no, an experience—of the divine creation that was his body, and it had been just as glorious as you always imagined.
Better, even.
Your fingers still tingled.
Your face still burned.
Your soul? Ascended.
And he had moaned.
Not a little gasp, not a sharp inhale—he had moaned.
The moment his consciousness had flickered back into reality, before his brain even had the decency to register what was happening, a soft, breathy, utterly wrecked sound had left his lips.
For you.
He could deny it all he wanted. Could try to act like he wasn’t completely gone for you, but you knew the truth.
It was only a matter of time.
And time was something you were ready to bend.
You’d always admired him—Satoru, the strongest sorcerer, the most beautiful man alive, the reason why your entire search history was a carefully curated shrine of edits, thirst posts, and questionable thoughts.
You were the one who lived and breathed Satoru. The one who had a folder on your phone labeled “Toru’s Temple” filled with pictures and clips (taken of him when he wasn’t looking) of him doing the most mundane things—like adjusting his blindfold or his fingers intertwined when he sat waiting for his hot coffee to cool—because even the smallest movement felt religious.
But admiration had limits.
Love didn’t.
And what you felt for him?
It was love.
Because if Satoru told you to jump off a cliff, you’d ask how high?
Because if he ruined your life, you’d apologize for wasting his time.
That’s why, as you watched him stumble out of the infirmary, still slightly dazed, still rattled from your little touch, you knew exactly what you had to do.
Toru baby needed guidance.
Someone to make him understand.
And that someone was you.
You smoothed out your uniform, lips curving into a soft, sweet smile as you watched him head toward the training grounds. The first-years were waiting for him, clueless to the fact that their beloved teacher had just moaned like a two-bit whore under you.
Adorable.
But you weren’t worried.
You had a plan.
All you had to do was wait, when he was just tired enough, just distracted enough—
And then?
You were going to corner him.
And you were going to make him see.
Make him understand that what happened between you wasn’t just a coincidence.
That his body knew what his stubborn little brain was taking time to accept.
That he belonged to you.
And if you had to break him in to make him realize it?
Well.
That was just love, wasn’t it?
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A few days later - Gojo’s POV
Gojo had always assumed there were limits.
There were things he could stop, things he could overpower, things that no one—no one—could ever do to him.
Because he was the strongest.
Because he had Infinity.
Because he was untouchable.
Because—
Because—
Because he was wrong.
It happened fast.
Too fast.
He saw the shift in your eyes before he even registered that his body was already reacting.
Already activating Infinity.
The barrier was up.
Infinity was absolute.
That’s what Gojo had always known.
A law of physics as natural as breathing. No one—not even a special-grade—should have been able to touch him without permission.
But your fingers wrapped around his wrist anyway.
Like Infinity wasn’t there.
Like he wasn’t there.
He had never seen you use this technique before.
Something that bypassed Infinity like it was nothing.
Not time manipulation, not a Domain Expansion—just something else.
Something made for this.
He had seen cursed techniques used in ways that violated human limits, but never like this.
Never against him.
Never against his body.
Gojo didn’t understand.
Didn’t want to understand.
His breath stuck in his throat. His body locked.
His vision tunneled, and it wasn’t because of a fight, wasn’t because of an opponent stronger than him, wasn’t because he had made a mistake in battle—
No.
This was something worse.
His body wasn’t reacting the way it should have.
His instinct screamed at him—pull away, push back, destroy—
But he couldn’t.
Because his body wasn’t obeying instincts of war anymore.
It was responding to something else. Something he had never prepared for.
Fear.
Not of death.
Not of losing.
But of you.
Your hands touched his chest first, like before.
Then lower.
Lower.
The horror didn’t hit all at once.
It came in waves, in wrongness, in realization.
He had never been touched like this.
Never been unable to stop it.
His body was screaming at him to move, but he couldn’t.
He wasn’t fighting a curse.
He wasn’t facing death.
He was frozen.
He wasn’t the strongest.
Not in this.
Not when it was your weight against him, your voice—his own name slipping out of your mouth in a way that made his stomach churn—
Not when he realized his body was obeying instincts that had nothing to do with power.
He wanted to disappear.
His body was betraying him.
Why?
Why?
His arms twitched—move, move, fucking move—
The world tilted when you shoved him back onto the floor. It wasn’t forceful enough to hurt, but it was enough to make one thing painfully clear—
He wasn’t in control.
You straddled him, your weight pressing down on him like a cage. Your fingers tangled in his hair, yanking his head back, forcing him to look at you.
Your hands slid over his body, exploring, claiming, violating.
Everywhere you touched felt like fire, but not the kind that burned away impurities. This fire was corrosive, eating away at him, leaving behind nothing but ash and shame.
Gojo wanted to die.
His body—his own body—betrayed him.
Heat pooled under his skin, a sick, involuntary reaction that made his stomach churn.
It meant nothing.
It meant nothing.
It meant nothing.
He wanted to laugh.
He wanted to vomit.
It wasn’t supposed to happen like this.
Not to him.
The strongest. The untouchable. The undefeated.
That’s what everyone thought.
That’s what he had always thought.
Until now.
Your voice cut through the haze, cooing words that sounded sweet but felt like poison.
Like nothing was wrong.
Like he was a willing participant.
Like he wasn’t lying there, wishing he could sink into the floor, wishing he could dissolve into nothingness, wishing he could sit under water and watch as his skin shredded away layer by layer until there was no trace of you left on him.
Until your touch became a bad dream, a distant memory, and not his reality.
He closed his eyes, desperate to escape, but his Six Eyes betrayed him.
They showed him everything—the way you looked at him, not as a person, but as meat.
As something to be devoured.
His arms refused to move, heavy and useless at his sides.
Was this the freeze response people talked about?
The body’s way of protecting itself when fight or flight wasn’t an option?
He shut his eyelids tighter, as if he could block out the world, block out you, block out the unbearable reality of what was happening.
But he couldn’t.
He could still feel your hands, your weight, your breath.
He could still hear your voice, soft and sickeningly sweet.
He could still see, even with his eyes closed, the way you looked at him—like he was nothing more than an object for your pleasure.
He waited.
Waited for it to end.
But it didn’t.
And all he could do was lie there, trapped in his own body, wishing for it all to be over.
Wishing for the nightmare to end.
Wishing for the strength to fight back.
But it never came.
And so, he waited.
And waited.
And waited.
And then—
A crack!!
The weight was gone.
Gojo barely felt himself collapse back on the floor, his body folding in on itself like a marionette with its strings cut.
His body still wasn’t listening.
Then he heard the sounds.
The sickening crunch of bone against bone.
The sharp, wet slap of flesh meeting flesh.
The guttural cries of a fight that wasn’t his to finish.
His body did not move.
He didn’t move.
Didn’t help.
Even as the fight broke out around him, even as voices—familiar, urgent, furious—got lost through the fog in his mind, even as he felt the warm splatter of blood against his skin, he remained still.
Paralyzed.
Helpless.
When the silence finally fell, heavy and suffocating, he felt something solid.
Warm. Safe.
A hand.
“Satoru.”
His whole body shuddered at the sound of his name, at the weight of it, at the way it anchored him back to reality.
Nanami was there.
Gojo’s hands, trembling and weak, gripped Nanami’s coat like it was the only thing keeping him from being swept away.
Nanami was real.
He couldn’t breathe. Couldn’t think.
The world had tilted off its axis, and he knew, deep in his bones, that he would never be able to straighten it again.
So he asked, because he had to.
“You believe me now, right?”
The words clawed their way out of his throat, raw and broken, the weight of them thick enough to drown him.
He was drowning.
Then, after what felt like an eternity, after everything, Kento finally spoke.
“I believed you then, too.”
Soft. Solid. Unshakable.
“She had ears on us. I couldn’t risk tipping her off.”
Gojo’s stomach dropped.
Because that meant—
That meant he had never been alone.
That meant Kento had known.
That meant someone had taken it seriously.
Gojo’s chest collapsed inward, the weight of it crushing him.
Like he had been bracing for something that never came.
Like he had been drowning alone this whole time when, in reality—
Kento had been there.
Had always been there.
His breath broke, a ragged, shuddering thing that tore through him like a storm.
He broke.
The strongest man in the world.
He didn’t let go of Kento.
He couldn’t.
His body still wasn’t listening, still frozen, still trapped in the aftermath of what had happened.
Because it knew.
It finally, finally knew.
And the knowledge was worse than the violation.
The realization that he had never been alone, that someone had seen, that someone had cared enough to take it seriously—it was too much.
Too much to bear.
And so, he clung to Kento, to the solid, unyielding presence of the one person who had believed him, who had been there all along.
Because if he let go, he wasn’t sure he’d survive the fall.
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She was dead, but Gojo Satoru was afraid.
Of women.
Of touch.
Of himself.
Of what had already been taken from him.
And of what would never come back.
Gojo didn’t talk much anymore.
He laughed when he needed to, the sound hollow and rehearsed, a performance for the sake of those around him.
He joked when expected, the words slipping out like a reflex, but the humor never reached his eyes.
The mask fit perfectly, molded to his face over years of practice, but it was heavier now.
Heavier than Infinity.
Heavier than the weight of the world.
Because beneath it, he was breaking.
He didn’t touch anyone.
Not casually. Not intentionally. Not unless it was absolutely necessary.
And he didn’t let anyone close.
Not physically. Not emotionally.
The space around him became a fortress, walls built from the rubble of what had been done to him.
But the fortress wasn’t impenetrable.
It couldn’t keep out the memories.
The phantom sensations.
The way his body betrayed him, flinching at the slightest brush of a hand, freezing at the sound of footsteps behind him.
He felt it every time someone’s eyes lingered a little too long.
Every time he caught a glimpse of a smile that felt too familiar.
The weight of hands on his chest.
The warmth of breath against his skin.
The disgusting truth of it all.
And no one noticed.
Except for Kento.
The disgusting truth of it all.
And no one noticed.
Except for Kento.
Kento, who didn’t comment when Gojo’s hands shook as he reached for a cup of coffee.
Kento, who didn’t force a conversation when Gojo’s responses dwindled to single syllables or silence.
Kento, who—one day, in an empty hallway, when a female walked a little too close—stepped between them without a word.
It wasn’t just the hallway.
It was the little things.
The way Kento would subtly position himself between Gojo and anyone who got too close during meetings.
The way he would linger in the room after everyone else had left, fiddling with his phone, giving Gojo the space to breathe without the pressure of being watched.
The way he would hand Gojo a file or a pen without letting their fingers brush, a small but deliberate act of consideration.
And then there were the things Gojo didn’t even realize he needed until Kento provided them.
Like the time Gojo froze in the middle of a mission, his body locking up at the sight of a curse that bore an unsettling resemblance to her.
Kento didn’t ask questions.
He didn’t demand an explanation.
He simply stepped in, taking over the fight without a word, giving Gojo the space to retreat without shaming him for something that wasn’t his fault.
Or the time Gojo found himself unable to enter a room—that room, his feet rooted to the ground at the sound of laughter—her laughter, or at least something close enough to make his stomach churn.
Kento didn’t push him.
He didn’t tell him to get over it.
He just stood there, a silent presence at Gojo’s side, until the laughter faded and Gojo could breathe again.
Gojo didn’t thank him.
He couldn’t.
The words stuck in his throat, tangled up with everything else he couldn’t say.
But Kento didn’t seem to expect gratitude or even think of it.
He didn’t seem to expect anything at all.
He was just there.
Steady. Reliable. Unshakable.
Reminding him, even in the darkest corners of his mind, where the memories lingered like shadows, there was a light.
Faint, but there.
Kento didn’t touch Gojo. Didn’t even look at him.
But he was there.
A barrier.
A shield.
Gojo had never needed a shield before.
Now, he couldn’t survive without one.
A/N: The comments in this fic are real comments people have actually made about Gojo on Twitter & Reddit. "How would this actually play out in a realistic setting?" I’ve always had this thought lurking in the back of my mind whenever I read some of the feral, lawless thirst comments people make about Gojo. So I did what any sane person would: I turned it into a horror fic. Also, if you thought Gojo was too OP to be a victim… yeah, so did he. Now, tell me—be honest—what’s the worst Gojo thirst comment you’ve ever seen? 👀 Drop it in the comments. (Or, if this broke you emotionally, just leave a 🍞 emoji so I know you’re still breathing.)
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This morning, my therapist shared this really useful hack and I feel like it could be useful to share: it is the pie chart method.
Essentially, it is a great tool to identify the behaviours, situations and events that caused a certain effect, in order for you to truly understand what really happened.
You simply draw a circle, identify the circumstances that caused the outcome and give each situation a percentage of its influence on the outcome.
For example: you bake a cake but it turns out horribly. It could be that 45% of the fault could be given to the oven that has malfunctioned, 30% to the wrongly calculated measurements of the ingredients, and 25% of your inexperience baking a cake. In the end, you will realise that it may not be your fault, and therefore you should stop being so angry at yourself.
Disclaimer: sometimes the fault could be given to you. This is a useful method for those of you who may constantly be harsh to yourselves.
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i can imagine etho brainstorming how to get his rizz up, reading scientific research on human connection and realized "hmm people like you more the more you use their name. easy hack" and then he started making an effort to call people by their name more and thats why he's always saying people's name in conversation when he talks to them. bc its all calculated to make people like him more. and it WORKS
#sometimes etho lets it slip how much he plans and calculates his behavior like that time gem was laughing over how unexpected the things he#says are and he was like “thats how humor works gem” and#it really seems like he spent a long time researching humor and working to incorporate new techniques and strategies!!!!#and it makes sense bc this is how he approaches everything in life#by analyzing it to death#like what was that long spiel about how repetition in building is similar to repetition in music?? these are the thoughts of someone who#overanalyzes and overthinks everything#and there is no reason to think his social strategies are any different#points at him AUTISTIC!!!!!!!!!#dying over him asking bdubs texturing questions. “why did you put that block in that exact place.” bdubs: “ohh its ... art...”
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I love thinking about how this would go down with them
#ghost rider dandadan au#lisa totally brings this up again. ‘awwwwww my evil minion is no longer evil minion-ing’ ‘what the fuck are you talking about??’#gotta be direct with this one girlie pop he’s one dense motherfucker. usual flirting techniques ain’t gonna apply here#REALLY need to draw their respective ‘jealous rage’ moments#some days lisa thinks she might have hit aira with that washing too hard. other days she thinks ‘perhaps not hard enough’#idk how jealous of a person robbie is in canon I’m thinking it’s not that bad. but in the dandadan world he’s got a couple things going-#against ‘reasonable behavior’#Robbie would be way closer to lisa in this universe considering their shared nightmare experience lmao#and then here comes along this dude outta NOWHERE and he’s ‘open’ and ‘trusting’ and ‘outgoing’#ALL THINGS ROBBIE REALLY ISNT#and the dude wastes NO TIME hitting on lisa. like. okay jiji. can you take a few fucking steps back please.#robbie reyes#lisa (ghost rider)#lisa o’toole#<- fuck it. tagging her name as that. she deserves a last name and that’s a good one.#my art#ANYWAY can you tell I’ve been thinking about this a lot#I just want them being kind of insane about each other to transfer over yk#please pardon the shitpost quality I am ✨tired✨ but I wanted to talk about them so so SO bad
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I get caught in a lot of negative spirals as a person with BPD and autism, but I've been doing a lot better at catching myself before that spiral gets intense and pulling myself out of it. It's always going to be a battle as healing is lifelong and nonlinear. I've had some moments of relapse and needed to get back on medication this past year, but I think I'm in a good place and I know I'm moving forward in the right direction. I think things are really good right now and they're going to stay this way for awhile. 🫶
#as for the relapses i wont get into detail but i havent relapsed into my worst behaviors all incidents have been minor#right now im working on getting my hair pulling back in control ive pulled out a lot of hair in the last year#its not noticeable to anyone really but my hair is a big insecurity of mine so struggling with ripping it out has been hard#but again im noticing and im actively working on nondestructive soothing techniques#things are getting better i feel it#ramblings
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It should be clarified that I know neither shit nor fuck abt dog training, but in the months before I brought Hugo home, riddled with anxiety, I watched like 20 hours worth of McCann Dogs training videos, and now that is in me forever.
#they are amazing I learned SO MUCH#they are responsible for 100% of the techniques I used to train Hugo into a good boy. and I didn't even do that good a job#really like detailed ass videos on how to work on literally any behavior or trick. it's crazy.#sergle.txt
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Graphology: The Study of Handwriting
Graphology, the study of handwriting, offers intriguing insights into personality and behavior. I find it fascinating how the way we write can reveal aspects of our character—our emotions, motivations, and even how we interact with the world.
Graphologists analyze various elements of handwriting, including size, slant, pressure, and spacing, to interpret individual traits. While some consider it a pseudoscience, the connection between our writing style and psychological characteristics is an engaging area of exploration.
Understanding graphology can enhance our self-awareness and improve communication. It offers a unique lens through which we can examine ourselves and others, providing insights into human nature that may otherwise remain hidden.
#Graphology#Handwriting Analysis#Personality Traits#Behavioral Psychology#Writing Style#Self-Expression#Pseudoscience#Communication Skills#Psychological Insights#Handwriting Characteristics#Graphological Techniques#Human Behavior#Emotional Expression#Analyzing Scripts#Individual Differences#Forensic Graphology#Personality Assessment#Visual Communication#Self-Discovery#Interpretative Skills#today on tumblr#new blog
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WHY does self confidence need to come from within. it's! so! hard! to! do!
#sooo ashamed of myself i engaged in Unhealthy Behaviors (tm) again#i just want to know things are ok but the big joke is the only one who can make myself believe that is ME#>:'( guess i'll just keep practicing those stupid fucking grounding techniques that make me feel like an idiot LMFAO
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It is so funny reading about pottery techniques for class and seeing the words “Mishima technique” while listening to the p5r ost
#I had to take a moment to pause and just look at the page#and then look up the technique to see examples and it’s actually really cool!!!#however Google did think I was looking up Mishima (the character) when autofilling the search bar hsjksksks#which is…predictable#anyways :3#persona 5#persona 5 royal#HELP I CANT REMEMBER MISHIMAS LAST NAME TO TAG HIMMM#GOOGLE PROVED RIGHT IN PREDICTING MY BEHAVIOR ONCE MORE AS I SEARCH UP HIS WIKI#mishima yuuki#sigh#I may be stupid#pottery#technically this post is about pottery too
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but I'm also watching like "I know exactly how I'd redirect this behavior" and let me tell you. lan qiren is not it
#lan qiren is NOT up to date on behavior management techniques and inquiry based learning 🤨#<- this is a joke#ghost posts#text#lqr#cqltober lb
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Me, handling rabbits for my exam: hey I just need your buddy there
Rabbit: *THUMP*
Me: well that's unnecessary and rude. Don't do that.
Examinator: can you explain what that was
Me: yeah of course I spent 2 years in this study. *To rabbit* I'm also many times your size and not even handling you. Don't try to be tough with me. I'll eat you.
#for those that don't know: rabbits stomp as an intimidation technique#this was the first time they did it with me#and they never actually talked to me about that behavior#but I do a bit of reading. of course#also threatening to eat prey animals you handle is always fun. because they don't understand but the people sure do#disclaimer: don't do that around kids they might cry. you'll feel bad if hey cry
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just have to say that that meme about watching fp1 actually happened to me last year. i genuinely pulled out my phone and started watching. while she was laying next to me. needless to say we are not together anymore
are you. single
#kind of icon behavior. if i’m being honest#callie speaks#asks#not now babe. can’t you see i need time alone to analyze pecco bagnaia’s braking technique. babe. where are you going babe.
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anytime there's production trivia for something i've actually seen like "& the director didn't tell any of the actors this was going to happen so as to get Not Acted Surprise, from the Actors" it's like that's so funny the way i didn't ever see that part as like wow that seemed so particularly genuine to me compared to other parts of this work or other works in general. but on the other hand there'll be scenes in something where a surprising event occurs around multiple characters and there'll be trivia like "wow the way nobody (else) knew this was going to happen beforehand, in so impactful a scene, that makes sense" and then someone involved will be like that's not true
#different to Beforehand be like okay yeah so there will be an element of surprise within these parameters#like how it's different getting jumpscares in media you can at all expect them & indeed jumping; scared#vs in any format where it is a fully unexpected complete disruption of the Established Conventions / Expectations#like that one's just attacking someone but like it doesn't count anytime you do anything to people if there's no Physical Contact Violence#like spoilers it's just abt consent. even for whatever little things like well actors aren't ppl you try to prank ''real'' reactions out of#or yknow ask that to be Their strategy like well just make the feelings & behaviors Not Acting. in which case everyone will have a bad time#or even when stuff Is supposedly not entirely acting. like unscripted reality things where like behind the scenes is supposed to work#Against whomever is in front of them to like corral them into Situations that they react to as Real. ramp it up until They ramp up &c#watched a movie that was enjoyable enough the other day & good for what it was even supposed to be doing#(which other things deemed more ''objectively'' good do too but w/whatever other elements that make it Worthwhile Art by Contrast)#(stuff that's like so yeah this could be a soap opera / technique of shows/movies considered more ''fluff'' & ''unserious'' but b/c like#the subjects styles characters plotlines &c aren't associated w/things the Fluffy Feelgood Unserious Art is; this is great though#or At Least decided to be ''self aware'' with it & thus using it Savvily vs the Unaware works using it b/c they don't know any better)#anyway & i was like now some acting performances do not feel like ah so Raw Real Genuine lol but yknow. they didn't need to#sure might not be the case in a different work doing different things but in This case it was like i'm getting what i need to get from it#meanwhile even in Any works like on the one hand ethically shouldn't be trying to get ''real'' ''unacted'' shit from Actors / Performers#on the other; firmly secondary hand; that the indeed Pranked(tm) reactions vs acted ones are effectively indistinguishable anyway also#even like mild Good(tm) surprises like; yknow; context needed. does the person know they're getting one. do they like Any surprises#do they have the ability to really trust your intentions re: A Good Surprise as well as you understanding what you'd consider That. & so on
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the final commission in the set for @tsotc of the lovely couple Cyrus (he/him) and Phitsamai Wongsuwan (sy/hyr / she /her) ! first time in all my couch-drawing years drawing a chaise lounge [poses]
#ffxiv#fanart#commission#i was admittedly fighting for my life over those scallopped ruffles cause i was trying a new technique#but they came out better than i imagined so i am very excited about that aspect#also every time i make a big piece of art im always scanning my eyes for where in a small tucked away corner did i forget a specific spot#whether it be for details or coloring cause it feels like i always forget Something even if its super minute#but i think theres nothing here. a first for my tiny eye behavior#gotta be like top 3 commissions ive done thouhgh cause i got to draw flowers a couch ruffles AND love? the rylan package...
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