#In-Sys Relationships
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Shout out to those in in-sys relationships!
In-sys relationships are not only incredibly common, but can be incredibly healthy!
Shout out to those who formed loving another part already, or those who formed and came to find love later!
Shout out to those who are navigating relationships IRL while also navigating innerworld relationships!
Shout out to those who have sexual, romantic, queer platonic, and/or simply platonic relationships with some or multiple parts!
Shout out to those who view innerworld relationships as a form of self-love and recovery!
#did#dissociative identity disorder#osdd#other specified dissociative disorder#osddid#shout outs#positivity#did positivity#system positivity#in-sys relationships
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in-sys relationships are great but i cant steal his fucking blanket >:[
#wonderhoy ☆ sysstuff#it is not staying in the drafts any longer. free him#in-sys relationships#in-sys dating#in sys relationship#i need a tag for this#insys relations ☆#plural#endo safe#pluralgang#posting even from my dreams?
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Intuspluric cuture is my relationship is a crack/crosship :D
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#intuspluric culture#in-sys relationships#in-sys dating#plural culture#system culture#pluralgang#fictive#introject
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i think that relationships within our system, platonic/romantic/etcetera, are actually very important for us to heal (and also they're just nice in general)
like, making friends with other people in the system helps us have more understanding towards ourselves, and different aspects of us, especially when it comes to persecutors and trauma/emotion holders. like... making those system members feel loved and cared about helps us feel more connected and just better overall
there's other benefits as well, but we specifically wanted to talk about the healing and self-love (selves-love?) aspects. because that's something that people don't talk about as much. loving your system members and having friendships/partnerships/etc within the system is cool, and can be really valuable for healing and communication, if it turns out to be something that works for you
#parable speaks#system stuff#plurality#endo safe#pro endo#in-sys relationships#like. having relationships and friendships within the system has been rly rly helpful for us#on top of the fact that it's fun. it also helps like. people with very different opinions abt stuff in our life understand each other better#which helps us work better together as a system instead of arguing/fighting over things in our life
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wearing your partner's clothes has a different meaning as a system
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#-pop#DONT ASK#in-sys relationships#FUCK IT I love my stupid ass husband#We are fucking weird For each other
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Loue "I'm finally getting good at pronouncing Huenn's name! Overcoming amnesia barriers in the name of love!"
Huenn *says something affectionate*
Loue "HeeWn."
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This is basically what happened after Jin lan city right
#svsss#luo binghe#shen qingqiu#bingqiu#just skip over all the plot and this is what happened right#SY speed running his resurrection and relationship
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✨My very first post on this blog will be me complaining that Careless Whisper is being blasted in the brain rn/silly
#✨demi rambles (cosmic col)#it's because of one of our in-sys couples btw hfhfgfds#plurality#plural system#in-sys relationships#endo safe#traumaendo
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In-system relationships can be so intimate.
Waking up together, opening the same eyes, and stretching the same limbs. Yawning in time and saying a good morning that only you who are involved can understand what it's for.
Sharing a meal, not only from the same plate, but with the same hands and the same senses. Deciding what to eat together, something that fits all of your tastes.
Curled in the same bed, in the same blankets, in the same body, drowzily mumbling about nothing and everything to each other. Joking around and feeling their sleepy laugh as if it were your own.
Living life, and inviting them to share yours and your time in it--performing your daily tasks in the unison of cofront. Seeing and hearing and feeling everything together.
Feeling them blush when you flirt or compliment them. Feeling their joy when you get them a gift, or how safe you make them feel simply when you're around them.
Enveloped in the same love, from the same brain, with the same feeling of care for each other palpable between you. Feeling the emotions you feel yourself, coming from the other person. Feeling their love for you, in the rawest, most direct possible way.
#endo safe#plural#pluralgang#actually plural#plural system#plurality#system#in sys relationships#in sys dating#alterhuman#osddid#did osdd#actually did#quoigenic#cdd inclus#pluralpunk#did community#dissociative identity disorder#terrorpunk#pro endo#op#vince (he/they)#@ my insys partners. yes. all of you#i love you
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intuspluric culture is having dated for a while and then suddenly an update comes out to the two of our source and now everyone is calling the ship abusive even though it's really not
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#intuspluric culture is#intrasystem culture is#in-sys relationships#cw abuse#traumagenic#endogenic#plural culture#system culture#plurality#pluralgang#actuallyplural
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Did I make an au just for a rarepair? Yes, but heres my idea of a shen twin au
In my version Shen Yuan transmigrates into the body of 5 yr old Shen Shi, twin of Shen Jiu. It is very important to note that in this au SJ and YQ refer to SY with "A-Shi" and "Xiao-Shi" respectively, and SY takes up the identity of Shen Shi. SY is also fully cognizant when he migrates so he has the complete thoughts of a 20~ yr old while in the body of a 5 yr old. This causes some major dysphoria and also anger at the helplessness of being in a body that does not fit him and also the fact that he has no social nor physical power because he is a child. He also views SJ and YQ as his little brothers even if he is actually the youngest physically.
He eventually is taken in my the Qiu family alongside his brother. It is when SJ starts to bond with Qiu Haitang that it finally pieces together that his brother is going to be SQQ and grieves for the events that he knows is going to happen to him. The building rage and anger at the helplessness of the situation culminates in Shen Yuan starting the massacre with SJ instantly jumping in and causing the majority of deaths. When SJ carries out the unconscious body of Qiu Haitang SY realizes the opportunity in front of him. He knows that she is going to be the kickstarter of his brother's downfall and in that moment grabs the nearest weapon, and with a heavy heart, kills her as SJ watches in shock. He turns to SJ telling him "You can't leave any witnesses, they always eventually spill" before both run off. I dont know what to do with the Wu Yanzi so I'm ignoring it for now. And im also unsure if he gets a system but we'll see.
Eventually they meet up with Yue Qi now Yue Qingyuan and the anger SJ has towards him. SY is also angry but its more so for SJ's sake than his own. The two of them become a part of Cang Qiong sect and while SJ is taken in by the Qing Jing peak, SY is taken in by the beast and flora peak (which I do not have named). They both become head disciples and later peak lords. SY also is able to clock that SQH is not the original version due to airplane saying a modern phrase and a friendship forms. SY is also the one to start biting and defending his brother when QQQ or LQG take potshots at him. It's while they are still disciples that SY meets Su Xiyan while hes on a mission and they worked together for a bit before SXY split. They continued to meet up until eventually a friendship formed and SY meets TLJ a "companion" of SXY. SY clocks who the two of them are goes to SQH to learn all he can about them and their future. SXY and TLJ eventually fall for each other and SY makes sure to prevent the palace master from finding out as long as he can. He also warns them about the palace master and to not trust any letters not hand delivered by SY as he will act as a middle person to make sure no one intercepts them. It is also during this time that SXY and TLJ both gain interest in SY. Neither can explain fully why but his autistic swag, photographic memory and ability to name drop paragraph long information in seconds intrigued them. They start courting him, shen yuan is of course oblivious. It is also important that SY introduced himself to TLJ and SXY with the name "Shen Yuan" so only the two of them refer to each other as such. He also clocks when SXY is pregnant and tells her as such when symptoms start to show and again, not to trust the palace master. By this time he is now a peak lord alongside his brother.
Eventually the old palace master finds out and instead of targeting TLJ, he first targets their lynch pin, shen yuan. He sends letters to SJ and YQY about SY being a traitor. Showing him being a demon sympathizer and hanging out sect secrets that actually SQH was leaking due to the system. SY is captures, a trial occurs and SY is charged as guilty with the punishment of execution, but YQY and SJ object. Since it was CQ secrets he was sharing they have the official say. So instead of execution they instead lock him up on the beast peak using talismans and sigils. He is not allowed to talk to anyone besides fellow peak lords and his head disciple. He cannot leave the peak without another peak lord monitoring him and this also applies when teaching. This lockdown completely breaks him as he lost trust with his family and the confinement dives him crazy as a peak lord he commonly left to document and work upon his bestiaries. This leaves him in a depressive state and constantly paranoid as he cant trust anyone. And No One has told him definitive news if SXY and TLJ are safe, SQH has confirmed that TLJ was not captured and helped SXY but he has no clue where they are now and if baby LBH is with them. As SY is confined on his mountain he stops caring about appearances and starts wasting away seen in image 3. I havent figured the rest out with LBH but he does become a part of cang qiong sect under Qing Jing, the abuse he faces stays the same. If he is raised with TLJ and SXY or by the washer woman I do not know yet. LBH hearing about the rumors of a monster on the beast peak heads out and comes face to face with SY who is delighted to see him but also horrified that about 14+ years have now passed. This pushes him a little out of his depressive episode because now he has a son to take care of and he can't waste away in front of him. He needs to act strong. He teaches LBH the best he can while contained and tells him about his parents. The two form a father son dynamic where both cant really escape the situation they are in but at least have each other for company. SY also holds onto LBH's jade pendant so it isnt lost. He also tells LBH that if he meets a demon named TLJ, to mention the name Shen Yuan.
While on a mission LBH meets up with TLJ and tells him that he's met SY and TLJ loses it (pos). He asks where he is as SXY and TLJ have been trying to find him with no success. He is told that hes on the beast peak in cang qiong and has been contained there for the last 16 years. TLJ then hatches a game plan to free him and the decide to use the immortal conference as a distraction. Most of the cultivation world will be at that conference so minimal security will be held at the sect. They use this to their advantage. TLJ strikes a deal with MBJ to cause a distraction to keep the cultivation world on the two of them even if alarms go off that SY is escaping. MBJ agrees to this as TLJ allows him to target any huan hua disciple he sees (they dont tell SXY this). While they cause a distraction by appearing on the 7th day of the conference, SXY sneaks into cang qiong peak and works on the talisman and sigils. This works and eventually she gets to SY he sees the bad shape he is in, but it was better than what LBH originally saw. The two of them start crying and SXY activates a 2 way communication artifact with TLJ telling him it was a success.
TLJ then turns to MBJ and MBJ teleports, appears in front of SXY and SY and teleports the two of them to the demon world. TLJ then turns to his son who's demon seal now broke and decides to do some father son bonding and the two both go into the eternal abyss together, as this is a tradition for heavenly demons. The two of them return after 1-2 years and have MBJ teleport them out rather than using Xin Mo.
#svsss#svsss au#su xiyan#tianlang jun#shen yuan#doomed polycule au#tianxiyuan#is that their ship name??#While there are bingqiu fics where Sy is SJ's twin in my heart I could not imagine SY being the one interested#He is around 50 when LBH joins the sect (idc the peak lords are old to me) with another 20 years ontop of them. He would FEEL Old#LBH would forever be a child to him and he would never date him#So yeah I have him with his parents instead and he and LBH have a proper shizun and disciple relationship with some added father and son
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There's honestly nothing funnier than spitefully kissing in headspace in front of a homophobic person. Like haha fuck you take that!! But they literally do not know
Like I've infiltrated. You don't even realize I'm gay kissing in front of you and your kids and your dog right NOW!!!!!! Bitch
#tommy's og art wow#i made a textpost#plural#in system relationship#in system dating#insys relationships#insys dating#in sys relationships#in sys dating#insystem relationship#insystem dating#plurality#multiplicity#endo safe#endo friendly
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☆ACTIVITIES FOR INSYS PARTNERS!
okay i promise we'll make the new scp layout for our tumblr soon, it'll just be a while😭 anyways! we decided to make a list of things for insys partners to do when fronting (coming from two alters who've been together for over a year!)
to make things easier, i (🎩 proxy) will be writing in plain white, and my partner (��� proxy) will be using blue.
we have also made sure that polyamorous partners will also be capable of doing all the things in this list. whilst we are not poly ourselves, we understand others very well may be.
singing with eachother! be it by taking turns with each verse, picking songs for eachother to sing, singing different characters in songs with multiple characters, etcetera, singing is something we do a lot! (we did it a few minutes ago :D)
making a music playlist together! with us, we made a playlist together full of love songs/songs that remind us of eachother and the relationship we have
write poems for/with eachother! you could write separate poems, you could work together to make a poem, or you could write one stanza each about eachother until it's a full poem
helping eachother to get through work you have for the day. if you attend school, you could change who the main fronter is every lesson. if you have work, you could change every hour or so. overall, take fronting shifts, and when you aren't the main fronter, stay in co-front to talk to eachother. we find it makes the day pass far quicker whilst also motivating us. if you have a frontspace, you can also interact with eachother throughout the day/when you aren't the main fronter. with us, we'll occasionally share kisses, and since we have a sofa in our frontspace, we'll either sit next to eachother, or on the other's lap.
making food together! you could bake, cook, or do anything really :) a personal favorite of ours is sandwiches and soup!
watching something together. you could watch a tv show, a movie, a video, a series, anything that comes to mind. we personally enjoy watching analog horror together. and laughing when the other gets scared. that too.
playing games together is a good one! you could switch players every few minutes/hours depending on the game, or switch players every time you die. that or you can have one person play as the other talks to them/advises them on what to do (this goes for every activity!)
drawing yourselves together is a nice one aswell! you could draw yourselves together in an actual art piece, or just as doodles (we're planning on drawing ourselves as cats later so we can have matching profiles, tell us if you wanna see!) you can also draw eachother if you're fronting alone and are missing them
match profiles! if you use any logging/proxy tool, you can make your bios, layouts, banners, pfps and all that lot match :D we have matching layouts, banners, quotes, and plan on having matching profiles.
this list will grow when we think of more, have fun!
-🎩 & 🕯
#encephalon sys#endos dni#anti endo#did system#non traumagenic dni#pro endo dni#osddid#endos fuck off#anti endogenic#system#insys partners#insys relationships#insys relationship tips
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I’ve yet to see a fic that starts with Shen Yuan A)Single and B)At peace with his queerness. Who is this man and why is he just casually okay with liking boys. Where did Shizun go.
#established relationship fics are one thing#or if he’s recently come out of a relationship#like the fic is that Bingbing died or whatever after they already got married#ofc he’s gonna accept tacitly that hes gay fro#the start#there are really only two ideas I can think of that can make it work#1) the story flashes back over time to explain the sequence of events leading up to the beginning#or 2) I don’t remember who came up with it#but silver fox SY who’s got a failed marriage or three and has finally comes to terms with not liking women#svsss#scum villian self saving system#shen qingqiu#shen yuan
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happy pride time to draw the most oblivious gay trio in all of ancient china <3
(a little ref for who's who in the first pic bc i was too lazy to color lmao)
also bonus under the cut!
#my art#svsss#shang qinghua#shen qingqiu#shen yuan#shen jiu#sha hualing#liu mingyan#scumplane#bingyuan#mingling#i will always draw svsss during pride#it has somehow become a tradition#also yes this is my disciple!sy and transmigrater!shl au#which i wish i had more time to explore#but alas#finals are a bitch#also like-#mbj and lqg is such a fascinating thing to me#i want to see what shenanigans they can get up to#like idk if i ship them romantically#but theres definitely some sort of queer platonic relationship going on there
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