#Love You to the Moon and Back 🌕Jack Frost

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Familial FOS PERSONALITY TYPES AND HOW THEY INTERACT WITH MINE

(I'm not going to lie, this will be MUCH longer than my previous ones)

INFP X INFP

INFPs will typically have a weird “mind-reading” connection with other INFPs. That said, these types are so individualistic that if they have opposing values their connection can be like a bomb about to explode. When INFPs have friendships with other like-minded INFPs they tend to feel heard, seen, and inspired. Together they can explore each other’s imaginative inner worlds, fight for similar causes, and listen to each other without fear of external pressures and rules.

INFP X ESFJ

Warmth and passion are often at the heart of this friendship or relationship. ESFJ/INFP partnerships can be tumultuous or deeply rewarding depending on how willing both types are to understand and respect each other. ESFJs often appreciate the quiet tenderness of INFPs. INFPs can help them to tap into a deeper, truer sense of who they are and what they value. In contrast, ESFJs can provide INFPs with a friendly, down-to-earth haven with which to be themselves and share their ideas.

INFP X ESFP

These two types tend to click because they have a shared passion for authenticity and adventure. ESFPs can help break INFPs out of their shell and introduce them to a variety of exciting experiences. Their enthusiasm and fun-loving nature is often endearing to INFPs. In turn, INFPs can help ESFPs to tap into their emotions more fully and experience life with more depth and imagination. These types tend to bounce ideas and possibilities off each other well, with the ESFP wanting to immediately take action on ideas and the INFP going along for the ride and frequently enjoying the thrill!

INFP X ESTJ

ESTJs and INFPs tend to have fiery interactions – sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way. They are opposites in many ways while still sharing the same cognitive functions. ESTJs are often drawn to the quiet sensitivity and creativity of INFPs while INFPs are drawn to the pragmatic, logical nature of ESTJs. If both types can be patient with each other’s differences there is a lot of opportunity in this friendship or partnership for personal growth and broader perspectives.

INFP X ISFP

ISFPs and INFPs tend to have a really strong and powerful connection almost immediately. They both are dominant introverted feeling types, so they naturally give each other space to be themselves. They are both idealistic and visionary, with ISFPs having a more down-to-earth, pragmatic bent while INFPs are more focused on imagination and conceptualization. Together they can broaden each other’s worlds and help each other to have more open-minded, balanced perspectives.

INFP X INFJ

INFJs and INFPs share a mutual love of meaningful, deep conversation. These types tend to thrive as friends when they give each other space to be their authentic selves. While they share none of the same cognitive functions, because they share three preferences (Introversion, Intuition, Feeling) they tend to respect each other’s individual needs, empathize readily, and connect over ideas and possibilities.

INFP x INTJ

While these types might seem like opposites at first glance, they actually have quite a bit in common. They both look inward to their values and outwards to efficacy when they make decisions. They are both introverts and intuitives. They enjoy exploring ideas, theories, and possibilities together. They also respect each other’s personal values and autonomy.

INFP X ESTP

ESTJs and INFPs tend to have fiery interactions – sometimes in a good way, sometimes in a bad way. They are opposites in many ways while still sharing the same cognitive functions. ESTJs are often drawn to the quiet sensitivity and creativity of INFPs while INFPs are drawn to the pragmatic, logical nature of ESTJs. If both types can be patient with each other’s differences there is a lot of opportunity in this friendship or partnership for personal growth and broader perspectives.

INFP X INTP 

INTPs and INFPs have a shared love of freedom, exploration, and autonomy. INTPs prefer thinking over feeling so they may come across as overly blunt to INFPs, and INFPs may come across as overly-sensitive to INTPs. However, once they get to understand each other there’s usually a very strong bond and mutual appreciation. Both respect each other’s space to feel and think what they want and both have a creative energy that is inspiring to the other.

INFP X ISFJ 

ISFJs and INFPs create a bubble of warmth and empathy for each other. These types usually click very quickly. They share a mutual sense of empathy, warmth, and gentleness. At the same time, ISFJs bring a more grounded presence to the relationship while INFPs help to clarify values, bring ISFJs into their pure identity, and give a spark of imagination. These types share two cognitive functions: Extraverted Intuition and Introverted Sensation. Because of this, while they have some differences, there is still a mutual sense of comfort here.

INFP X ENTJ

ENTJs and INFPs are very different at first glance, but these two types can really help each other grow. INFPs are often inspired by the big-picture, strategic, action-oriented nature of the ENTJ. ENTJs in turn find the warmth, authenticity, and imagination of the INFP intriguing. They can both help each other in contrasting ways. ENTJs can help INFPs bring their ideas to life and tap into their thinking side. They can also help them refine their ideas and create strategies for their realization. INFPs, in turn, can help ENTJs delve into their deeper feelings and values. They can also help them to see innovative alternatives and possibilities so they don’t get stuck in tunnel vision.

INFP X ENTP

ENTPs and INFPs share a mutual love of exploration, imagination, and creativity. While these types can have some friction due to their differing judging processes (ENTPs are auxiliary thinkers and INFPs are dominant feelers), these same differences can help them grow as individuals. This friendship or relationship pairing may be a little fiery and argumentative at times, but if both types can work at understanding each other’s type preferences it can also be one of growth and refinement.

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For you and Jack Frost: who’s the oldest, how do you annoy each other, and how do you apologise to each other? (From the familial f/os questions) - @limey-self-inserts

Hiya Limey!! thanks for sending theses over - if anyone is interested in the ask game these questions came from you can find it here.

🗓️ - Who’s the oldest?

ha, that's a trick question there. If we're going chronologically then it's Jack as he is almost three hundred years older then myself but if we are talking physically, emotionally and mentally then it's me. Because of that we constantly go back and forth on who the oldest is.

😑 - How do you annoy each other?

Like its our last night alive. Usually its little things, I pull on his hood , he puts snow on my head. I steal his staff and he puts his cold fingers on my neck to shock me. Things like that are very common.

💐 - How do you apologize to each other?

Reluctantly - We're both sore losers. Most times we just continue on without really saying sorry to eachother. Kinda just brush it under the rug.

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For Jack and Merope

Tagging @tex-treasures @polyamarhousgarden @shinyeeveelynn

If anyone else would like to be tagged, just dm or message under and I'll make a list.

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Howdy Hedone! I come bearing many questions ♥︎

For Gomez :>

- what is a comforting thing or piece of advice your parental f/o has told you that you still hold on to?

For Storyteller :>

- what is your grandparent f/o's favorite dish and have they taught you how to make it?

For Grandmama :>

- what kinds of activities do you like to do with your grandparent f/o?

For Cardan :>

-what's your favorite fun fact about your cousin f/o?

- tell us about the different occasions you would see your cousin f/o growing up- what brought you together initially? Bonus: what's a favorite memory of yours with Cardan :D?

For Eren :>

- how does your sibling f/o show they care for you?

For Jack :>

- how do you and your sibling f/o like to playfully annoy each other?

Clover @tex-treasures

Thank you for the ask Tex!!!

- What is a comforting thing or piece of advice your parental f/o has told you that you still hold on to?

"Hold your head high. We are Addamses. We live for the unconventional!"

- What is your grandparent f/o's favourite dish and have they taught you how to make it?

My lovely grandfather favourite dish is mash potatoes. With butter and spring onions mixed in. I'm a terrible cook, probably could burn water if you left me in a kitchen long enough, so its safe to say that I don't really cook that often. He's not that great either to be honest but he does make a mean dish of mashed potatoes.

- What kinds of activities do you like to do with your grandparent f/o?

I could spent hours with Grandmama, sitting on top of the Kitchen table as she looks through her spell cook- book. Cook I am not, witch I am and in this way I enjoy helping her as she mixes her cauldron.

Spell by spell, potion by potion we create wonders and horrors alike; Chocolate miracles, storms in votka bottles, ruby red poisons that strike with a snap of the fingers- the list are as endless as the sky above.

-what's your favourite fun fact about your cousin f/o?

In the books Jude (the main character and love interest of cardans) remarks that Cardan smells like moss, oakwood, and leather. I often associate the scent of Honey and Hazel with Cardan to be honest. I just think its neat.

- tell us about the different occasions you would see your cousin f/o growing up- what brought you together initially?

I met Cardan at a family reunions, the first one since I joined the family. Asha, Cardan's mother, couldn't resist going to it to gloat about her position in the high court's. She brought Cardan along with her as an afterthought. I was still new to the family and there wasn't many children at the time. He was a cruel child but I stuck to him like glue and I guess we kind of grew on each other.

Bonus: what's a favourite memory of yours with Cardan?

There are so memories to choose from but my favourite is this story here . Its not the prettiest memories but than doesn't make it any less precious to me

- How does your sibling f/o show they care for you?

Eren has n odd love language. He fight for me, if anyone said anything bad or catcalls me Eren goes into a violent rage. It's cooled over the years but it's still there.

Encourages me to eat more. Food is scarce in the walls and during the time before Eren, Armin and Mikasa joined the military there were times where we didn't have enough to keep the four well feed. In order to keep them healthy I often didn't get to eat. Now that they're is more food Eren always encourage me to eat more, to make up for all the lost meals.

- How do you and your sibling f/o like to playfully annoy each other?

Jack does things like throws snow balls into the back of my head, putting his unexpected chilly fingers on the comfortable warm skin at the back of my neck, using his staff to push me

Thats not to say I'm a saint; Pulling at his hood, throwing snowballs at his face and stealing his staff are common weapons in my arsenal with dealing with Jack.

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Coming Home

Mai awoke to the sound of intricate ice patterns of frost creeped upon her windows. Quick as a flash she kicked off the blanket and sprang out of bed. Tripping over books and shoes in her way as she raced to get her boots on, not even taking the time to change from her pyjamas or take a coat. 

She leaped from the kitchen door to the garden. As soon as Mai’s feet hit the ground she ran straight into the forest. The chilly air nipped at her exposed skin as she jumped over roots and flowers by leaps and bounds but the smile on her face never waned. Her breath came out as rapid puffs of frosted air as she ran. Her glasses fogged up. Mai took them off, not even taking time to slip them into a pocket. She held them in her hand. Though her sight was now limited Mai knew where she was going

Racing and leaping across the frosted forest floor. Running, till finally..

“Jack!!”

As soon as he landed Mai jumped into his arms, ignoring the small sound he made as they made contact. Normally hugging Jack was like hugging a block of ice but the coldness of his touch comfortably cooled her heated skin now. It had been so long since she had last seen him and though he always came back to her, the fear of losing his way and not coming back was an old one.

After some time had passed and a chill reminded her both of her state of undress and how old it was, Mai reluctantly released him from her hug and took hold of his hand instead. Jack, as ever reluctant to let go as he ever has been, said nothing about it and simply laced his frost coated fingers with her.

While pulling him along, onto the trail leading back to the hobbit hole with a skip in her step Mai said,

“So how have you been? Where have you been? I want to know every detail”

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For platober, a platonic fo. In this case, my brother Jack Frost 

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Spice, Pumpkin, Scarecrow, Candle with whichever platonic f/o you’d like!!! :D

Thank you Joanna!!

Spice: What smells and tastes do you associate with this F/O?

Moss, like really, really old moss and Petrichor are the smells I most strongly associate with Oberon.

Pumpkin: How much trouble do you and F/O get into together? Whose idea was it?

Jack often drags me into his mischief, the most common form though is breaking into Santa’s workshop. Even though it only has one outcome: us being personally escorted out via yetis, Jack carried out by the scruff of his hoodies and me by an ankle as fling us out. He convincing me to keep trying to sneak in, despite it always ending the same. We’ve even started betting on how far we can go before they catch us. Loser has to fly the other home.

Scarecrow: What’s one of your favourite quotes from your F/O?

Notice me not as I side eye Cardan. But for real he has so many good lines!! But I think one of my favourite ever quotes from him is from the novella “How the King of Elfhame Learned to Hate Stories”, in which he stars in. 

“Everyone finds different lessons in stories, I suppose, but here’s one: Having a heart is terrible, but you need one anyway. It doesn’t matter if the boy with the heart of stone was the villain. It doesn’t matter if he got what he deserved. No one’s heart has to remain stone.”

Candle: What would you get or make your F/O as a gift?

Ellaria would me likely to get me something aesthetically pleasing yet practical. A light-weight blanket with beautiful embroidery that would work well both in the court of King's Landing and when crossing the desert.

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Opal, Jasper and Agate for the ask game! With Nico, Jack and Howell (doesn’t have to be in that order)

-Raynard (@Raynards-Rambles)

Thank you!

Opal: In your selfship, which one of you is more of the leader? How good are you and your F/O at taking charge?

Jack likes to take charge when we’re together. He likes to play tricks and pranks on people while I help by working out how to do them. 

With Nico I think its split between each other, maybe Nico if I’m being honest but not by much. 

When he were younger Howl was more of the leader between us but now days it’s split.

Jasper: How do you and your F/O help each other if one of you gets ill?

Both me and Nico are stubborn when we’re sick- so it becomes a bit of a game to catch each other out when we’re sick. But when I’m ill Nico will go get me a milkshake, sit with me and watch a movie. Poor Nicky gets stuck in a perpetual loop of Labyrinth, Disney's Dinosaur, Still Game, and an endless list of Disney musicals. Sometimes even sick days can be fun.

Jack doesn't really get sick cus he’s a spirt but he can overheat if he spends too much time in a warn climate. When this happens I have to take them to somewhere colder and just stay with him for a while. Its quite I sight to see or so I’ve heard; just one frost spirt laying face down in the snow, trying to cool off and me, head to toe in black and red velvet, scarfs loosely wrapped around my neck and bottom half of my face with only my nose and fogged up glasses visible under my hood- I look like a vampire marshmallow

Howl is a big baby when he’s ill so I have to do everything when he’s sick. When I’m sick though I’m lucky if Howl stays in the same room as he with out gloves and a mask on. To be fair he does brew me Health potion.  

Agate: What is your favourite way to relax with your F/O? Conversely, how do you and your F/O like to have fun?

Nico and I like to watch movies together. He’s pretty up to date on the modern world now but we still like to sit down and watch an old movie at the hobbit hole. Our favourite movie to watch right now is Coco

Me and Jack like to race each other, I just grab my staff and we pick a place and set a bet. Usually it’s “last to reach (insert place here) has to fly the other one home!” but we also bet on sweets and hot chocolate. 

We don’t get to see each other that often but when we do Howl and I like to shop together. He loves to spend hours upon hours shopping for the right cloths and I will drag him into “weird goth-shops” (aye Howls, I see right through you as you look at those blouses) but we always stop off at some book shops.

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Does anyone ever sit down and start to think about all the crazy stuff you would do with your f/os? I think I think about all the time

I can feel the pounding of my heart as I hurriedly search for Eren in the scouts wagons before they head out past the Walls, the rough tug of his clothes as I half drag/ half carry him away by the scuff of his neck from another fight. We’re so different and yet so alike; Where I bite my tongue, Eren will react to the slightest perceived injustice. We I will try and think things though, Eren will dive in head first. Though I must admit he’s getting better at thinking things out. 

Despite this we don’t argue too much, only really when it comes to big things like when he joined the army or when he went to Marley. We also have vastly different views on forgiveness and on what is best for Paradis.

I can feel the ice cold hugs that cool my skin and the wind that fly past us as we racing each other, feel the snowflakes that brush against my fingers as they fall out of his hair when I ruffle it.  Sneaking into Santa’s workshop is a common past time but always getting caught. We never make it pass the guards but we have a lot of fun trying.

Jack is a creature of forced solitude, he thrives in the company of others and even though I have been able to see him for most of my life - he’s still not used to someone noticing him and so often afraid that there will come a day where even I stop seeing him.

I can smell the thick cigar smoke as it swirls around the room, can see the glint of a blade and hear the clang of metal as it sails through the air before being deeply imbedded within the mahogany floor, hear the voice that calls “dirty pool old man”

Since the moment I stepped foot into the Addams mansion Gomez teaches me things. Sword play,  knife throwing, juggling - the works. He brings a joy and zeal to life that you just don’t see in people, all with a grin on his face and a cigar in hand. But the proudest grin always appear when I call him “Dad”

I can feel the cool silk of a kimonos Himemiko dresses me up in as she slides them up my arms. The vibrancy of her wardrobe always surprises me. All the pinks, blues and greens. She is a much smaller size than me she most of her stuff doesn't fit but there is a kimono in the back that is too big for her that Himemiko loves to dress me up in.

The feeling of my feet hurting after hours of dragging each other all around Harajuku, cold rush of the water as we swim in her swamp together. We love to go under the waves and blowing bubbles at each other.