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I wish not having friends wasn’t seen as such a loser, weirdo, and lame thing. I wish having a lack of emotion and empathy wasn’t seen as creepy or cruel. I wish being aplatonic and not having platonic attraction or being aromantic and not having romantic attraction wasn’t seen as some undesirable thing.
I’m not a robot. I’m not boring and uninteresting. I just experience the world around us much differently to you. I’ve seen things you couldn’t even dream of. I’ve experienced things you wouldn’t wish on anybody.
#I didn’t choose to be like this.#szpd#actually szpd#actually schizoid#aromantic#aspec#arospec#schizoid personality disorder#cluster a#actually cluster a#lack of empathy#no empathy#low empathy#flat affect#aplatonic#aphobia#actually aromantic#actually aplatonic#trauma survivor#actually ptsd#actually cptsd
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i’m getting increasingly tired of people coming into aplatonic (and afamilial) spaces to tell us “i don’t understand you, but i support you!!” like cool. that’s like. the bare minimum. at best it’s just annoying and taking up space in places for us and at worst it’s infantilizing and dehumanizing. if you actually support us, speak up for us and stop talking over us. if you support us, work to normalizing being friendless, stop demonizing people for not wanting friends. if you support us, normalize not caring about or wanting family. if you support us, stop hating people for not liking or caring about their family. saying you support me does nothing for me.
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ID by StrangerlsDanger!
[Image ID: Image one is a four panel comic. The first panel has a snake saying "bleh i exist :P" and looking happy. The second panel has another snake saying "erm.. how? justify your existence". The third panel is of the same snake in the first panel, with furrowed brows, saying ". . . um... no???". The last panel has the other snake, who looks very shocked. The second image has large text made out of fire that says "this is about being aplatonic do not derail"./. End Image ID]
#screenie draws#my art 2024#ms paint#aplatonic#actually aplatonic#apl spec#aplphobia#aphobia#aspec#id in alt text#//;i also put the id under read more‚ since i read that alt text doesn't work sometimes
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Aplatonic Visibility Day 2025
#worshipper's oath#aplatonic#aplatonic art#aplatonic visibility day#actually aplatonic#queer art#queer artist#okay I have to add tags I normally dont use and thats scary :(#anyways uh sorry for being late here you gooo
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aspec culture is realising that the reason i could never communicate what i want in a relationship is that i dont. i dont want any of it.
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No imo today sorry 💔
In fact, total break from the usual focus of my content lol no narcissism at all (though I’m still using some of the tags for the sake of reach. I’ve noticed a nice little overlap between aplatonicism and npd/npd traits, lmao)
Today—ironically by request of my friends—I felt like making a new/alternate design for the aplatonic flag because I’ve never liked the standard one very much. I wasn’t fond of the colours, which is fine, but the meanings also rubbed me the wrong way? Take a look at what I mean:
It just feels weird to me to design it based around what we aren’t, as well as how we can “make up” for our aplatonicism, so to speak. I don’t think that was the intention. but I dislike it all the same.
Anyway, here’s my own design:

Meanings:
Pink & green - friending and nonfriending aplatonics, placed next to each other to show solidarity
White - joy in one’s aplatonic identity; mirrors the white stripe on many aspec flags
Grey - greyplatonics and demiplatonics, like on other aspec flags
Black - finishes the white-grey-black gradient present in other aspec flags; represents aspec community and aplatonicism as a whole :3
hopefully I’ll do another imo thing soon. If not, uhhh… Whoops!
#aplatonic#lgbt pride#pride flag#flag design#aspec#atertiary#actually aplatonic#aspec pride#aplatonic spectrum#aplspec#not imo creature#actually npd#narcissistic traits#npd safe#long post
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Made a meme after meeting an aplphobe in the wild
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being aplatonic but not aromantic or afamilial but always having been disinterested in romance and having a shit family sucks ass omg
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can i be real the thought of someone having a platonic crush on me freaks me out more than the thought of someone having a romantic crush on me
#i think its about the expectations?#for someone having a romantic crush i can just be like yeah sorry im not interested#and then the onus is on /them/ to not be a dick about that (or to be a dick in private)#but for platonic crushes i cant really go sorry i dont want to be friends without seeming like a complete and utter dick#like literally no way to phrase that#and then the onus is on me to apologise for being aplatonic#aplatonic#actually aplatonic
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anyone else feel like this

#friendship is complicated and can be extremely stressful and its just not worth it most of the time#but having friends? friends are great :D i have a lot of them :D#and by that i mean my mutuals all of yall are my friends unless you say otherwise :3#roadtrip.system#im like 80% sure this is a me-being-aplatonic thing so im tagging it#aplatonic#actually aplatonic#id in alt text
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So apparently people can form strong deep bonds with people, and feel on the same wavelength as specific others. That is....um apparently something that is the norm to feel, and all I have got to say to that is,
WHAT THE FUCK
#Aromantic aplatonic#aromantic#Aplatonic#actually aplatonic#actually aromantic#Not meaning to be rude#this is sort of a joke#The rest is my traumatized neurodivergent aroapl brain exploding#Aro#Apl#aroapl#Og post
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Being asexual, aromantic or aplatonic is powerful, you reject one of the main things society is built upon.
#aromantic#aspec#asexual#aplatonic#actually aromantic#actually asexual#actually aplatonic#aroace#aplspec
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“we need more weird queer people” yall can’t handle aplatonics
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i want people to stop treating aplatonism as a something else RAHHH I WANT PEOPLE TO STOP TAGGING APLATONIC IN POSTS ABOUT AROACES THAT DOESN'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT APLATONICS I WANT APLATONIC TAGS TO BE FLOODED WIRH APLATONIC STUFF I WANT APLATONISM TO BE RECOGNIZED AS ITS OWN THING RATHER THAN A SECONDARY LABEL TO BEING ASPEC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Familreplato
[plain text: Familreplato]
Definition: a term for an aplatonic person whose platonic attraction is replaced by familial attraction. Anyone who they become friends with is seen more as family than a friend.
Not intended or exclusive.
Not inspired or requested.
Flag/s:
[Flag ID: a flag with six horizontal stripes, the colors in order being grape purple, pale gold, parchment, purple haze, white, black. end ID]
[image ID: A⁴spec+ flag in a black box, next to a longer black box with text reading "DNI; queerphobes, transphobes, enbyphobes, xenogenderphobes, racists, ableists, sexists, intersexists, neophobes, anti mspec gays/lesbians, anti-conflicting labels, anti-kink allosexuals, transids (except transgender), TERFs/Exclusionists, ace alienators, 'ace and aro = same', endophobes" end ID]
#lgbtq#flags#mogai friendly#mogai pride#coined by me#term coining#coining#coining post#identity coining#liom#mogai coining#mogai community#actually aplatonic#aplatonic#familial attraction#mogai flag#mogai#mogai safe#liom pride#liom community#liom friendly#liom coining#liom term#liom safe#coinings
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Hey, I just found this blog, so I'm not sure if you do this but I was womdering if there was/you could make an eraplatonic (was once alloplatonic, but for some reason in now aplspec) flah :3
There you go, I based it off flags I found for erasexual
I also designed one myself
White and yellow - Alloplatonic
The grey divider on the white and yellow stripes - No longer Alloplatonic due to any reason or none, it also goes downwards and stops before the aplatonic stripes to symbolise that the person is now aplatonic
Green, blue and purple - From the Aplatonic flag, for currently being aplatonic now
I sadly couldn't find any for you so I made some based from those I found and tried making one myself
#aplatonic#apl#aplatonic flag#aplatonic spectrum#aplatonicism#aplspec#apla#actually aplatonic#pride flag#pride flags#eraplatonic
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