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The thing about me is, Iām so rejection sensitive, at least where friendship is concerned, that I have learned to completely ignore the part of my brain that tells me that someone is mad at me or hates me and wants rid of me, essentially granting myself cockroach levels of resilience to passive-aggressive social rejection and ghosting. So yes, I will be That Person. I have absolutely no shame and I will send you 32 things that made me think of you even if you havenāt replied, I will persist in asking you to hang out. Like I choose to believe that everyone is just busy or forgetful or has their own shit going on, itās the only way I can be a functional human being. So if you want to get rid of me thatās completely fine, but I will take none hints and Iām going to need you to Set Some Clear Boundaries, Maāam.
#rejection sensitivity#adhd#maybe?#honestly I've never been tested but some of it checks out#honestly this is just something I thought of in the shower this morning#not directed at anyone#but more like a mission statement on this my 39th birthday#have I figured this shit out?#probably not#but life is too short to fret over whether someone is mad at you#and I thought maybe others could use hearing it#wisdom from your tumblr crone aunty#give people the tools they need to have a good relationship with you#also as I was writing this I messaged a friend I haven't spoken to in like 12 months#and got a response#so taking my own advice also works
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Teeth are so fucking weird. They are bones that fall out of your head when youāre a kid and itās supposed to happen.
Of course we came up with the tooth fairy to make that experience a little more magical and rewarding.
#signed a mom who is psyching myself up#to sneak into my kids room#and exchange currency for her head bones#ALSO#a kid in my kidās girl scout troop wrote a note to the tooth fairy#AND GOT A RESPONSE#so now I need to do a tooth fairy note too#thaaaaanks other mom
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puppy instincts kicked in
#my art#jayvik#jayce talis#viktor arcane#jayce#viktor#arcane#league of legends#u ever think about how hes probably got pavlovian responses to viktors cane noises? he woke up so fast
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It doesn't matter if that fic has been in your drafts for years and is now self-indulgent to the point of parody. If Steven Moffatt is allowed to do it professionally, you are allowed to do it for fun.
#every time I write I take a peek at my brain and it's just Steven Moffatt in there yes-anding himself#and I have to remind myself that that's okay#I don't know how he got in there but if I am responsible for keeping him captive so be it
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#ordinary photo of yeti#they made astarion in a lab for me to be obsessed with.#like hottest man in game for me is halsin truthfully. astarion is my shitty little white dog with separation anxiety who bites people.#very different things. if i say i'm doing a playthrough as astarion that's when you put me down#main factor motivating me not to is i need to hear neil newbon's voice acting at least once a minute or i die.#i've got a dark urge concept rattling around the brain but i should maybe self-impose a gaming break and take care of. responsibilities š#babbling
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"You're putting your sick fantasies onto fictional characters!!"
Oh!! Oh no! I was putting FANTASIES... onto FICTIONAL characters!?! Why did no one tell me!?
#yes that is part of a comment i just got#and i implore you to read my response in the most sarcastic tone you can imagine#proshipper#proship#profiction#anti anti
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pls reblog for sample size etc
follow for more occasional useless polls :)
#medical cw#people looking at my post history my be able to intuit i have adhd#last post got a few responses and i immediately wanted to know this
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every fucking conversation on the internet looks like
subject matter expert: hey :) i'm here to help, i love you and this subject matter. i studied really hard and have literal years of training and experience with this. please make this 1 very small change to your life that is virtually no effort whatsoever and will help the environment and everyone around you.
random guy: i don't like that because my life will have to change. what if the change is impossible for me specifically. you cannot ask me either to stop or start an action - i will do whatever i want forever and i am offended you even asked about that because it would be a change in my life. plus what if it sounds like no effort but it's huge effort. what if i made that change and then i died because of it.
subject matter expert: again, it's not really a lot of effort, but of course we understand there might be a lot of reasons (medical, financial, etc) that you can't make this change, so we have experts who have created programs/infographics/alternatives so you can make this change smoothly. but of course maybe if it would actually kill you - we have compiled a very big list on other ways you can help out! :) we are just trying to make the world a better place for you and those around you :)
random guy: this is propaganda because of Big Subject Matter. this is going to destroy me and my life forever. where is your proof. i saw you attached studies but i don't want to read them. i really liked doing this thing to harm the environment and those around me and now they are saying that i cannot do that and i am just wondering how do we know you are an expert? my mormon lobster who uses flags to communicate has a different opinion than you and i trust Mormon Lobster . he Knows things :)
#got distracted by the possibility of mormon lobster with flagspeech#this was specifically about rock stacking in which ppl who work with the environment are like#please stop :') doing that :')#and u KNOW the response that they get when they ask that.#like. just to be real w/u i'd have expected more from the People who Go Outside.#one is probably an Outside Going person if one stacks rocks#and Outside Going people USUALLY agree with what Outside Experts suggest#but no. the rock stacking. they NEED to stack those rocks.
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I mean I get thatās itās not the only contributing factor, but Iām curious exactly how much of the shelter dog over-population problem is actually due to poor dog ownership/management vs the housing crisis and economical stress. Iād be willing to bet by investing in social programs that give people the resources they need to care for their pets (cough cough affordable and free housing cough cough) that the amount of pets in shelters would dramatically drop. We can all sit here pointing fingers and screaming at each other until we are blue in the face, but if the owners basic needs are not being met, how can we hold them to a basic standard for their pets?
#I know Iām probably preaching to the choir#but truly it feels like we got one group of ppl being like#adopt donāt shop! people breeding animals are evil!#and the other side being like#alll shelter dogs are inherently genetic disasters that will always have behavior issues responsible breeding is the answer#or the problem is uneducated owners#idk guys we r all ripping ourselves apart when the real enemy#*turn and looks directly into the camera*#is our government#USA centric post
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mzen for these trying times
#project sekai#prosekai#prjsk#prsk#mizuena#mizuki akiyama#ena shinonome#my art#still havent gotten my twt account back... :(#i actually have a lot of drawings piled up but i reallyy wana post it on my actual main :(#i sent the ticket thing and the only thing i got back after i replied to the automatic bot email was a reply to my reply with#THE EXACT SAME THING AS THE AUTOMATIC BOT RESPONSE#idk if this means hope or not but... maybe.. ?#i at least want it back BEFORE kana5... hopefully..#gahhh im not giving up !!!!!!!!#everyone pray for me !!!!!
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It's ok, Minato asked for permission first
#naruto fanart#naruto#naruto uzumaki#uzumaki naruto#fukasaku#I know the headcanon that Minato got the āflee on sightā order because he killed a thousand iwa nin (in the anime) is super popular#but I always thought it was more likely that he got that order on him because anyone he touched became a security risk#I know in my heart Minato learnt how to teleport bijudamas by using the Hiraishin and sending them to Iwa#Minato put a finger on you? good luck#now if you ever put a foot in your village it can and will get nuked :)#or in the best-case scenario he will simply appear in the middle of your camp and murder all of you#I also like the idea of Minato putting a kunai in the middle of one of the oil ponds in Mount Myoboku#and use the Hiraishin to send his enemies there#puff now you're a toad statue#ahh so many possibilities...#Kishi missed making Minato a true nightmare in the 4th war *sigh*#I understand though. A clever Minato with the Hiraishin would be too OP#they had to dumb him down. Cowards all of them *sigh again*#my hate for that arc knows no bounds#but it's ok it's ok I got your back Minato <3#also updating the tags a day later because I totally forgot to talk about the drawing itself lol#but I think itās actually extremely weird that supposedly so many people turned to stone while training with the toads#the scroll Naruto signed only had 5 names on it despite being passed down for generations#and even if there were more scrolls around or people simply went to Mt Myoboku to train in senjutsu#I don't think the toads would let them turn into statues???#they clearly care about their students and go through great lengths so Jiraiya DOESN'T turn to stone while using SM#so there being so many statues around of people failing SM training never made much sense to me#so I decided Minato (during the 3rd war) was the one responsible for that#he deserves it āØ
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my partner and i have been watching rebels :) its really fun
#full disclaimer my partner is entirely responsible for the joke.#they explain visual gags to me and i say 'you got it boss' and open up my tablet#art#peterofthedrakes#digital art#graphic art#fanart#artists on tumblr#comic#star wars#star wars rebels#sw rebels#ezra bridger#sabine wren#star wars rebels fanart
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Continuing from this (starting here and here)
Hopper doesnāt want to think about Steve.
He doesnāt really want to even see the kid or his broken arm or his wide gap-tooth smile where heās starting to lose baby teeth. Every interaction is a reminder that heās not doing anything to stop this clear case of child neglect.
Heās failing Steve and if heās failing a kid whose problems are so blatantly obvious, then he could fail Sarah when the problems are close to home.
So no, Hopper doesnāt say anything when he walks into Melvards and sees Steve at the check counter. He nods to Joyce and continues on.
Heās got a list from his wife and thatās all heās here for.
Sure, he noticed that on the check out counter is a tube of toothpaste, a box of cereal, and a pint of milk. Sure, he clocked Steve with his chin resting on the counter, pushing coins across it to Joyce and asking, āHow ābout now?ā
Thatās just good observation. Heās a cop. Itās his job.
āThat brings you to $2.54,ā Joyce tells him. āYou need 1 dollar and 0.32 cents more.ā
Hopper is not listening to Steve sigh. Heās not standing next to a shelf of sunscreen watching Steve push the toothpaste to the side like, āI donāt need to brush my teeth. Is it enough now?ā
āHow about this,ā Joyce whispers, leaning on the counter like theyāre going to share a secret. Hopper is sure sheās crinkling her nose when she pushes the money back over to him, āHow about you take all your quarters and I let you take your cereal, and your milk, and your toothpaste.ā
Whereas he canāt see Joyceās face, he can see the instant suspicion on Steveās face when he steps back from the counter, āThatās stealing.ā
āYeah, silly, if you steal it. Youāre not doing that,ā Joyce concedes. āIām letting you have this stuff.ā
āI donāt think youāre allowed to do that, Miss Joyce. Youāll get in trouble.ā
āWell, how about a trade?ā
āLike a Quick Pro Skrull?ā
āSure,ā Joyce says easily. āI will trade you $2.54, one box of cereal, one pint of milk, and a tube of bubblegum-flavored toothpasteā¦.if you let me sign your cast.ā
Steveās voice is soft, considerate the way kids arenāt supposed to be when he says, āMiss Joyce, thatās not a fair trade.ā
āItās the only thing I want, baby.ā
āFine,ā Steve agrees, laying his casted arm on the counter. āI get my allowance in two days and Iām going to buy you a flower.ā
āThat sounds lovely, sweetheart.ā
Hopper leaves the sunscreen- itās not even on his list - and goes to the canned goods in the next aisle. While there, he has a better view of Joyce writing her name on Steveās cast.
āYou know, Steve,ā She tells him. āIām going to put my phone number right here because I have little boy about your age. His name is Jonathan.ā
āI know Jonathan from school.ā
āThatās good! Maybe some time you two can play together.ā
āOh, no thanks, Miss Joyce,ā Steve shakes his head sadly. āMy dad says youāre poor anā Iām not allowed to play with poor people ācause poor people are lazy and donāt work hard even though you have a jobā¦ā
Steve pauses like heās contemplating that before continuing, āAnd Tyler - thatās Tommyās big brother. Tommy is my best friend and I wish I lived at his house - he says that sometimes people are so poor that they canāt aāford food and they eat babies. He says that happened in Ireland and he would know too ācause his great-great-great-ate grandpa is from there.ā
āIām not a baby,ā He tells her seriously, āBut my Nonna says Iām a sweet boy and one time I was playing with a kid from the trailer park and he bit me.ā
He tells her, āI donāt wanna be eaten.ā
Joyce blinks at him.
Hopper blinks too where heās listening in.
Steve doesnāt blink at all but instead gathers up his stuff. He gives her a big smile and says, āThanks, Miss Joyce. I love you. Bye.ā
Then heās gone.
The store is empty except for Hopper in the baby food aisle and Joyce at the counter. She asks aloud, āDid I just get accused of cannibalism?ā
Hopper has never laughed harder.
#Steve is expected to buy his own groceries with his allowance#his parents will tell you itās to teach him responsibility and that money management is an important skill#but itās really bc theyāre not home a lot and kept forgetting to restock the kitchen#it looks bad when teachers comment on your kidās weight#Steve thinks itās pretty cool though and all his friends are jealous that he has a wallet with real money in it#though also heās six and not allowed to use the stove#heās mostly buying cereal pop tarts and microwave hot pockets#theyāre bad about consistency when giving Steve his allowance though so sometimes he falls short but also. heās six#Steve heard his dad say Quid Pro Quo and was immediately like: Woah. Dad knows a professional alien and heās fast!#and then got really excited that his dad knew something about Marvel Comics bc Richard is always telling him that comics are for nerds#He says that Steve needs to grow up and get rid of his comics#but now Steve thinks that heās only saying that so he can keep them#like he did when Steve got a foul ball at an MLB game#Tyler Hagan read A Modest Proposal and either doesnāt understand satire or is terrorizing Steve and Tommy. Your choice.#steve harrington#joyce byers#jim hopper
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"I can't not hate you for that, a little"
#captain rex#star wars#the clone wars#aviiart#hello i got mad and drew a thing instead of attending to my responsibilities#what was i thinking when i drew this? absolutely nothing#caption is a quote from night in the woods#which is a very solid game btw would absolutely recommend#no sketch for this one just sat down screamed at nothing and then rawdogged the rendering#somehow worked out ok tho
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dont try to talk her out of anything sheās SOOOOOO good at comebacks
#rose lalonde#dave strider#homestuck#fanart#doodles#my art#op#dave response: fuck it got room for one more
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