#anyway they're nonbinary. to me
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what's the non-sexual/asexual equivalent of smash or would?
anyway uhhhhhhhhhhhhh Yeah.....






#(hi ignore the content label tumblr just slapped that onto my post for no reason. they hate to see a diva slaying)#look you cant just throw a cunty robot (technically cyborg) at me and expect me not to fall in love#anyway they're nonbinary. to me#smil#the gaslight district
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oh hi deltarune brainrot welcome back
you're just in time for deltarune tomorrow
#work gives me time and also sticky notes#my time is used well i promise#i can feel the brainrot bubbles at my brain again#it's been too long man#terrible creatures and their nonbinary seapkeepers#i would love to make these digital but for now i'm just throwin em on this blog#also deltarune tomorrow is the meme it's not actually deltarune tomorrow#or maybe it will be who knows honestly#anyway#rambling bc i can#also can i say i love love love love love drawin seam#they're just so <3#i'm eagerly awaiting for their plushie to drop again#i missed it#my doods
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who says adventurers can't dress cute?
aka: "I spent almost three hours giving Zen new outfits and took 140 screenshots of them."
#ts4#the sims 4#sims 4 CAS#ts4 CAS#adventures in cas#my sims#cas#ts4 dnd#dnd sims#sims 4 dnd#oc: Zenara#oc: Zen#ignore that you can't see their tail in ANY of these. I may or may not have forgotten to add it to the new outfits.#anyways. they/them for Zen please!#they're my *original* nonbinary purple tiefling warlock.#they're a pact of the fiend and they were an unintentional but direct result of me binging critical role campaign 2.#they were the first dnd character I ever played. Sadly that campaign only lasted two sessions. :'(#I'd love to play them again for real this time. I just need to find the right campaign for it. And seeing as I'm already in 3...#it's gonna be a while lmao.#if you couldn't tell clumsyalien's cc makes up at least 70% of their wardrobe lmao. It's just so perfect for their vibes!!!#the pendant around their neck is their spellcasting focus btw.#ignore the clipping in the 3rd pic... I love that outfit too much but the clipping is annoying.#the pants in the 5th outfit were the whole reason I did this cas session in the first place. They're just so perfect for Zen.#if you've read all these tags thank you and I love you. <3
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I hate when fellow queer people do gender essentialism, even if accidental.
"Men and Women just think differently" TF WE DO NOT! Men and Women are more alike than you think.
You'd just rather say "oh they're just like that" without understanding the complexities of the system we live in.
#And these bitches deadass think they trans/nonbinary inclusive!#No you can't just say “thank you for defying the system by being you” while actively supporting it.#I know they're not being actively malicious and I'm being chronically online about it but I gotta vent cause this genuinely makes me so mad#How can you be a feminist when the phrase “men and women are the same” is such a foreign concept to you.#Anyways that's my rant sorry back to doing art stuff and talking about nerd shit#gender essentialism#lgbtq#lgbtq community#gender essentialism is the mind killer#queer#vent#nyanbles#PS: I'm genderfluid so this is not me butting into queer topics just to start shit cause I genuinely can't stand this nonsense.
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building a saw trap where the very online tgirls of this webbed site have to explain why they specified trans women in a post talking about a way transphobia effects literally all trans people
#jay warbles#i'm so sick of this shit#and it immediately makes me distrustful of them#'oh trans women are actually more likely to do activities seen as self-harmful because they lack other resources to gain control'#oh this is just a trans girl thing? you're saying no non-binary or transmasc people may also do this?#quickly explain why EDs are more common in people CAFAB.#and this isn't a case of these girls talking about what they know#because if you dare to add something as mundane as 'this is also common among trans men/nonbinary people#here is more info about that'#they will swoop in and decry you for talking over trans women and making everything about trans men#because they're too fucking high on their own farts to understand that sometimes#things are also about people who are not them#anyways rant over
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GRRR GRR GR GRRRR!!! [we drank the gijinka potion at 3am (◍•ᴗ•◍)✧*。we're so brahsome brah!]
#banban#garten of banban#banban gay#jumbo josh#garten of banban fanart#garten of banban human#garten of peakprak#stinger flynn#banban fanart#banbaleena#human version#nonbinary stinger flynn felt correct to me#anyway they're just blobs who cares about they are gender
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my thesis statement will of course always be that the angels + demons in good omens are aspec (and nonbinary) but crowley specifically was so aromantic this season. man who goes "oh, romance? yeah, i know how that works. practically an expert. i've picked up so much from the way that people talk about it and represent it in media. i know all the perfect steps to execute romance. it has nothing to do with personhood and feelings; there's a certain list of requirements, certain steps that you take, certain subjective prerequisites to be fulfilled, and then you'll have romance. easy. simple." when he has no idea how romance actually works because it's never been something that was accessible or valuable to him. the general conventions for love seem so simple from the outside when you pick up an idea of it through cultural osmosis but not any real experience or investment in the idea. maggie and nina come in to tell him that he can't be messing with people's love lives because it's serious and personal but how should he know? when you're outside of it and don't even realize that you're outside of it, romance is just a thing that happens. and it seems so simple...
#screaming wailing throwing things punching walls that's aro representation actually#when i say the angels and demons are all aspec and nonbinary. i of course mean That in a sense of like.#they don't align with any of our constructions of sexuality or gender because they're not built with the same inner workings#but by our definitions they're closer to those concepts than to 'conventional' conceptions of gender and sexuality#anyway crowley is so me walking into my middle school classes on the first day of school and picking out a suitable crush for the year#based on effusive criteria that i picked up from media and popular culture and the expectation that i Should have a crush#because those were the steps you took. at least it seemed like that to me.#this applies to aziraphale too of course#when all the romance you've known or seen takes place under awnings in the rain or at jane austen balls. of course it stands to reason#that the same would be true of any love in real life. cause how else would it work#anyway that kiss was so aromantic it's crazy#good omens#good omens 2#aromantic#aro#crowley
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the way spaces end up getting casually gendered is so weird. i normally try to get to my classes a bit early so i can choose where to sit and it's fascinating to watch how ppl will gravitate towards a certain spot depending on the gender of the ppl sitting nearby. by the time the lecture starts the classroom almost always has a visible distinction between the 'guys' section and the 'girls' section. and it happens individually too even when there's not a huge friend group clustering around the same place.
#just something I've always kinda been aware of but was never able to fully put into words until now#i never really look at ppl so it's been interesting actually observing the way people choose their seats#i normally check out the room beforehand or arrive early to figure out where the best spot to sit would be#and i always sit there bc it's the best spot in the classroom (based on my priorities anyway)#and i didn't rlly know how other ppl chose which spot to sit in and i didn't rlly care either bc i had my own perfect lil system#but now you're telling me they just do it based off of GENDER?????#like. guys will sit near other guys and girls will sit near other girls and idk if they're even doing it on purpose or if it's subconscious#just. this is something that has never occured to me to even think about when choosing which seat to sit in#so this has been a mind boggling revelation#at least now i know why everywhere i go ppl always seem to congregate based on gender#and it's like. nobody's enforcing this?? nobody is telling you you Have to sit near ppl of the same gender they just do it by themselves#and it becomes very obvious when you randomly pick a seat and end up being the only person whose gender does not match everyone else nearby#idk. if this was what ppl used to categorize gender then i guess mine would just be Autism#but anyway i would love to hear from other ppl abt this bc i never even realized this was a thing ppl actively did until like super recently#like ik im nonbinary but cmonnnnnn#gender#trans#nonbinary#mine
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show: *repeatedly parallels a character's relationship to someone they refer to as "my best friend" to the relationship between the main romantic pairing, has the character get upset when their devotion to their friend isn't taken as seriously as the romantic couple's devotion*
the show's intended takeaway, probably: "oh these characters are ~~more than friends~~ actually"
my takeaway: oh hell yeah, aromantic rights
#eliot posts#anyway i'm currently rewatching the carmilla webseries#and lafontaine is sooo aromantic to me#back when i was a teenager and first watching the series i did not see it and went w the romantic interpretation#but now i am way more aggressively aro than i was back then#laf was my fav character in the series both then and now#my beloved funky lil nonbinary mad scientist <3#i didn't even know i was nonbinary the first time i watched so i didn't fully connect to them on that level yet#they're just extremely Delightful on their own#they attempted to do an exorcism using nanobots!!! icon behaviour!!!
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ok this isnt meant to be a dig or anything but it's always really funny to me when people like just cracking 30 are like "omg you're in your early twenties, you're a babyyyyyy"
babe you're like barely 30, you're a baby too. You're a blink and a half older than me. I spend too much time around people over 50, the difference between 23 and 33 is a few years at a job and a little more distance from living in your parents' house but it's like, nothing. the gap closes every time you breathe and every time i move. the difference between you and me is like one-fifteenth the difference between you and my dad's friend Joe or whatever. don't worry you'll get to live more life too, but don't kid yourself.
and this is doubled when it's coming from a 25-year-old currently experiencing a crisis of age because they're soooo old, they're 25, the horror! You are twenty-five. We have an age difference of three years. Your concern over this is embarrassing for you and highly entertaining for me. But like don't kid yourself here. You are 25. You are a like a fucking baby to me.
#red rambles#when i was 18 all my friends were grad students#i think my youngest close "peer'' friend was 27#when i was 19 it was covid and almost all my friends were distant people i knew online and then the age gap between me and my oldest friend#got even wider!#when i was 20 i stayed with my grandma for several months and i'm still friends with a bunch of her friends! i got a standing invitation to#a neighbor's house to shoot the shit with her and she's like 55 and she's the youngest of the people in my grandma's social circle i'm all#buddy-buddy with!#i was learning new knitting tecniques from someone in her late 80s!#You are like a little baby to me watch this [hits on a man around three times my age] [hits on a woman almost three times my age] i'd say#im hitting on enbies 3x my age here but i actually haven't met any out enbies that old yet. i think the youngest nonbinary person i know is#their forties and that's just 2x#wait no. i do know someone. but i haven't hit on them. not gonna steal valor LOL#if ur a cool recently-retired californian i cannot recommend coming to [city removed] to come get hit on by a 23 year old nonbinary tboy#but i wouldn't say it's off the table LOLLL#anyway.#point made i believe.#i'm sure i'll hit the Age Crisis one of these days and start being like omg... you're so *young* because you are so Small Number...#but the one i run into is just Omg... You are so Fucking Immature why do you think this problem Matters... and that one i get from everyone#ill be sitting there chatting with like 70yo retired married couples and be stricken with waves of utter disgust bc they're too concerned#with their neighbors' opinions and think it constitutes a legitimate issue if someone does things too differently when there are like.#real problems in this world LOL
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Silver and Clair are so funny to me. Silver meets Clair during the Kris-Silver-Lance-Clair double battle and goes "no way am i teaming up with that embarrassing one in the weird costume! I'm with Kris!" and they proceed to beat the other two together (alternatively they had met beforehand and Silver still chose to refer to Clair that way, which is even funnier).
And subsequently people in Blackthorn keep comparing Silver to Clair when she was younger and it's annoying because they squabble a lot (too similar in personality lmao. like magnets repelling each other) but it also keeps stirring the old pain in Silver's chest.
And Silver mentions it to Kris about it at some point and they know Silver well enough to be like "yo you know you can just... choose not to be a guy, right? I did something like that myself" And Silver realizes "...oh"
Anyways after Silver comes out as trans, she once again gets the old "Oh, you really are just like Clair when she was younger..." from folks in Blackthorn and has to go work out her annoyance by battling Kris and then complaining about how she'll never beat the "just like Clair" allegations now.
#in case it's not clear. clair and silver are both transfem.#kris is trans in a nonbinary way but i'm unsure if they're transfem or transmasc because both are true to me.#trainer silver#gym leader clair#trainer kris#i feel very strongly about transfem silver. she's so real to me.#this holds across media btw. pokespe silver is particularly transfem. all the stuff in the frlg arc with her being made into giovannis heir#like. how giovanni's searching for his son and when they capture silver they dress her up as who they want her to be? augh.#anyways my post isn't about pokespe but. i'm right.#mandibuzzing#blackthorn family
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hey i love you, what's your favorite (top ten favorites idc) modern amis hc
Hi omg! :D
Well, my silliest (and therefore favorite) headcanon is that modern Enjolras wears velcro sneakers because they're more efficient to put on than laced shoes. And at one point he accidentally gets the kind that light up. like these:
So when he curb-stomps cops his shoes flash
#asks#I doubt this is what you were looking for but it's the best I've got anon#cause the truth is I usually enjoy most headcanons I hear!#nonbinary/trans amis?? fuck yeah put it in my eyeballs#Amis of a different culture and exploring how their personality fits or shifts depending on that different experience?? fuck yeah that slap#They're all just ideas personified in the end for the most part#we should all just get silly with it#I suppose if you want a more serious answer I fucking love trans man bossuet#obsessed#give me a disaster trans man who balded after taking T and wears it like a badge of pride#anyway anyone who read all these tags i love you#thank you again for the ask anon!#les mis
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new oc just dropped who dis be
#digital art#my ocs#oc art#original character#illustration#art#my art#i'm trying to find my fucking style again WHERE DID IT GO#anyways#oc: moro#they're a nonbinary mythical idol in a world where mythical creatures are just idols for some fucking reason#dont @ me#it's not a serious concept it's just so i can draw some batshit stuff#HEHEHEHEHEHE#what mythical creature u may ask?? I DONT REALLY KNOW SOBBING INTO MY HANDS
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just thinking again about the difficulty of achieving actual escape velocity from the womenswear standard of Pervasive Negative Ease…
#an extremely 2015 post brought to you by an extremely 2015 experience#namely 'someone i follow posting an outfit pic with vibes describable as ~dapperqueer~'#except that like. the trousers were by menswear standards pretty noticeably too tight#which is something i used to notice all the time with transmasc* outfit bloggers back in the day—#just that like‚ esp by comparison with the rest of the outfit‚ the pants would just be disproportionately painted on—#and like. idk. on an individual level you Gotta not hyperscrutinize people's individual choices. you just Gotta.#but systemically it just really points up like.#a way in which 'girls' get trained to shy away from ever wearing anything that might visually bulk up their body#such that their perceptions of what 'fit' means become totally skewed#by comparison with any standard that respects like. freedom of movement for both you and the fabric you're inhabiting#ditto the way so many knitters make these intensely Shaped and frankly shrunken sweaters#and like. idk. that's not my style‚ i love a good british-fisherman shapeless sack look‚ but you do you!#but like. do you not want‚ like‚ enough room to at least fit a shirt under??#but like. the body Must Be Contained.#anyway obviously it's hard bc like. lord knows with trans fashion you're always like. trying to strike a balance between things that Fit#vs things that like. seem to you to help create a gender-affirming visual illusion even if they're in material tension with your body#(and also like. 'nonbinary' isn't in fact 'just doing the Opposite thing'! the freedom to pick and choose is part of the point!)#but at the same time. on a broader level. Patterns Do Emerge…#anyway really i'm just mad bc i'm thinking abt like. clothes i bought in too small a size#bc of my bad mind-warping training#and how i'm STILL‚ even now‚ struggling to accept eg the birk size that all metrics agree i should be#because something in my brain is like. wow those sure are some boats down at the end of your hairy calves!#which is making me feel murderous bc like. i love my leg hair passionately actually! and i deserve to have room for my toes to wiggle!!#like. goddamn. can we take up space!!!#anyway. like i said. some *extremely* 2015 nonbinary feminism feels…#(probably a bad and humiliating post to make but what is a perblog for if not. bad and humiliating posts.)
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Day 4 of pride month and we already have someone erasing Bellara canonly being pan. I hate it here in ways I cannot even begin to put into words
#my posts#🦌#🦌 coffin bells#vent#da fandom not be shitty to bi and pan people challenge#and don't give me any of the 'well if they're pan they need to outright say it!' shit#bcs people were screaming and crying when taash said they're nonbinary#since they said that characters in a fantasy setting wouldn't use that term#there is no winning#anyway. i love my acepan4acepan wife
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In honour of Pride month, and being a genderless being, I wanted to discuss one of my favorite things in transformers.
When it comes to transformers, my favorite thing is the fact they technically have no true concept of gender and sexuality. All of that comes from organic planets that do. Such as with IDW and all the femmes being esentially trans by earth definition.
it shows that they're still problematic or crazy or all kinds of bad things since their whole thing is about war and fighting, but yet they're a species so accepting of things like love and what not(depending on media/fanfic).
And it's so funny to me, cause like you can have a ship of some silly gay old men and call them lesbians if you saw it fitting them. Cause like, with them, what even is a man?
#on par with this#another concept is#Some people: Noooo why are there *girls* they're robots! They don't have a *gender*#Paramount: ok! Here's a they/them child!#Those few people: *GASP* HOW DARE-!?#pride month#lgbt pride#transformers#macadams#transformers worldbuilding#tbh with you i was thinking of how my friends in a discord server made a joke of tfa Blitzwing in the meme “lets go lesbians!”#and a friend there than commented smth along the lines of “Blitzwing a lesbian confirmed?”#but we all call him a man and such and that's mostly what got me thinking about this lmao#yes i know lesbians are women#but some nonbinary folk will identify with lesbian#which is also where this joke came from#anyways I'll stop rambling now lmao#love you all stay atrong deception warrirors
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