#aspectusexual

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since you said it was okay, im gonna request again! but i have a more specific idea in mind. could i please have a level 3 quackity from an inverted dsmp au? with transids, quackity being a mogai gender holder, and also being intersex! since we are intersex bodily. and, claiming a lil sign off since we probably will request more in the future.

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I'm sorry about the lack of Picture or banner it took me literally an hour and a half to find the source for the second pic and the closest I got was a reblog from January of 2022. I was scrolling for so long, I didn't have the motivation to edit the pictures. Sorry the front triggers are so short too the Mogai horde was a bit draining. I hope this is alright!

Also I had a slightly hard time figuring out what exactly Inverted DSMP meant but I ended up on Roleswap!DSMP and it stuck in my brain. If this isn't what you were thinking I can make another pack. But like even tho Roleswap!DSMP is what I went with I couldn't find anything when it came to Q.

Anyway sorry for the rambles!! Here we go!! My first Level 3 Pack :33

× Woof! Inverted DSMP Pack! Woof! ×

Name: Quackity, Alex, Alix, Alexander, Alyxander, Seren, Mavo, Garret

Nicknames: Q, Quacks, Prez, President, Reviveity, Zombie, Rez, Rev, Zombz

Age: Ageless

Gender identity: Intersex, Blood Intersex

MOGAI Identity horde: DollBoy, Vampiregender, Alexigender, NB man, Birdthing, Corpsething, Deadthing, Bloodysinkaesic, Gorething, Genderhoarder, Bloodaesic, Sadomasobodiment, Fleshabomination, Scargender, Brokinadinic, Bloodgender, Rotgender, Zombiething, Zombin, Malizomb, Zombiehorder, Stitchesgender, Stitchbeing, Vileic, Gorrific

Pronouns: He/They/She/It/Zey/Xe/Doll/Vamp/Bird/Feather/Flap/Dead/Corpse/Blood/Zomb/Zombie/Undead/Gore/Bone/Rot/Wound/Scar/Stitch/Vile/Gross

Opt Emoji pronouns: ☠️ / 🪶 / 🦴 / 🕊️ / ⚰️

Sexual orientation: Aspectusexual, Cupiosexual

Roles: Aggressor, Arsonist, Compulsion Keeper, Grudge Holder, Melpomic, Gender Hoarder

TransIDs: PermaDead, PermaColdSkin, TrisHarmful, TrisManipulated, PermaGrudge, PermaRotting, PermaBleeding, TransInternalBleeding

Source: DSMP! Inverted AU

× Faceclaims ×

Image 1 × Image 2

Aesthetic: Gore, Grunge, Dark academia

× Outfits they would wear ×

× Mood board ×

× Favorite songs ×

• City - Hollywood Undead

• World War Me - Theory of A Deadman

• The Haunting - Set It Off

Front triggers(Pos/Neu/Neg)

+ Source talk, C! Wilbur content, L'manburg, Conabuse, Being above others, Minecraft

| Birds, Nesting, Homey Minecraft builds

- Fire, TNT, Genuine Toxicity

Sign offs: 🪦 , 🕊️ , 💀 , 🦆 , 🐦‍🔥 , 🧨 , 💣

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Aspectusexual flag

(Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They may make sexual jokes but do so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship.)

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Aspectus-

Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.

Term coined by: Anonymous

Aspectussexual:

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Aspectusromantic:

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Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from my flag scraps folder by anonymous).

Color meanings: Unknown

Check [Here] to see designs for different attraction types for this orientation (sexual/romantic/alterous/platonic/etc)!

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Okay so I've been through extreme near death trauma and since then, dont really express much attraction. I use sex and sexual activity to cope, but dont care on my partners gender at all. I'm not really attracted to anyone. I'm also extremely repulsed by romance and close friendships. What would my sexual, romantic, alterous, platonic, and sensual orientations be? Some would say its pan and others would say ace so I'm really not sure thanks for any help!

Sexual attraction =/= sexual action; if you don’t feel attraction, you can call yourself asexual regardless of how much sex you have. But it’s your orientation, so the choice is yours.

Here are a few terms that might fit your sexual orientation:

A-: “Experiencing no attraction. (Asexual, aromantic, aplatonic, analterous, asensual, aqueerplatonic).”

Aspectus-: “Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do.A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.“

Caed-/Caedo-: “A feeling that one was previously able to experience a particular kind of attraction, but that ability was lost due to trauma.“

Caligo-: “On the A- spectrum, defined as feeling attraction that is very weak or vague, almost nonexistent, like a vapor, fog, or mist. “

Cass-: “Feeling utterly indifferent to your orientation, as though it does not matter or is not a significant part of your identity. “You might feel attraction, you might not, meh, maybe you like girls, or nonbinary people, ehh, who cares though?””

Cupio-: “Not feeling a type of attraction, but desiring interaction that goes with it regardless.“

Gray-: “Being between a- and allo-; feeling attraction rarely, vaguely, or weakly.“

Icula-: “Being A- (aromantic, asexual, etc) but being open to sexual acts, romantic acts, etc.“

Klape-: “When you feel as though your ability (or potential) to experience attraction has been taken away from you due to abuse, trauma, neurodivergency, illness, or any other similar factor, including any combination of them.“

Nanox-: “A person who rarely feels attraction or feels attraction so small to the point where that attraction is almost nonexistant (depending on how its used, i.e a nanoxsexual person rarely feels sexual attraction) A blanket term for nanoxsexual, nanoxmantic, nanoxplatonic, nanoxsensual, nanoxalterous, and nanoxqueerplatonic.X is replaced by the persons orientation, for example, nanox would be nanopan, nanoxsexual would be nanohomosexual, etc.“

Novi-: “Feeling complicated attraction or lack thereof in such a way that it is difficult or impossible to fit into one word or term.“

Plilisexual: “The opposite of apothisexual, an asexual who isn't repulsed by sex.“

Pomo-: “An orientation where one denies or does not fit any labels for a particular kind of attraction.  For example, someone who is pomosexual may or may not feel sexual attraction, but is not interested in specifying whether they feel it, and to whom.‘Not straight’. A label for not wanting or needing a precise label.”

As for your romantic orientation, you may want to use one of these:

Apothi-: “An orientation defined by repulsion. Whether or not they feel a type of attraction is irrelevant to them due to their repulsion towards the idea of being in that kind of relationship.”

ARC-: “The general term for a person who feels averse, repulsed, or conflicted towards sex, romance, etc.“

Alterous attraction is usually said to be between romantic and platonic, or desiring emotional closeness without it being romantic or platonic. You don’t say anything about it on your ask, but from the rest of it, I'll assume you don’t feel alterous attraction. You can just not label your alterous orientation, or say you are analterous if asked, if you really feel no alterous attraction.

Platonic attraction has two different definitions; some use it in place of queerplatonic attraction, which is sort of like... desiring emotional closeness without it being romantic, or wanting a commited platonic relationship. It’s hard to explain. The other definition is, well, if you have desire to have friends or not. If you use this second definition, you can either be alloplatonic or aplatonic. Again, it seems like you are aplatonic if I’m basing this on your ask, but I can’t be sure just with that information. You can also just not label platonic orientation, since most people don’t care for it.

Sensual attraction has several different meanings. People agree it’s an attraction regarding acts that aren’t sexual but that are intimate, but depending on the person, they will describe different acts that sensual attraction covers. Actions such as the desire to kiss, caress, cuddle, hold hands and sensual touches may be considered sensual attraction, but some people just consider them sexual or romantic attraction. From this ask, I have no clue if you desire this kind of touch or if you would just do it because of your coping. I recommend labeling your sensual orientation as something I listed for your sexual orientation, as something gender-based if you really do feel such attraction and don’t just do those actions regardless of attraction (such as pansensual, omnisensual, polysensual, etc.) or just not label it at all.

Hope this helps!

~ Tath

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Aspectus-

Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.

Term coined by: Unknown

[Image: Flag with 7 stripes: Brownish-pink, pink, cream, dark brown, cream, pink, brownish-pink].

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Flags below are the same as above but with the outside stripes replaced with the colors of the specific attraction types.

Aspectussexual: [Link]

Aspectusromantic: [Link]

Aspectusalterous: [Link]

Aspectussensual: [Link]

Aspectusqueerplatonic: [Link]

Aspectusplatonic: [Link]

Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from the flag scraps folder by anonymous)

Color meanings: Unknown

Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!

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Aspectusplatonic

Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.

Aplatonic spectrum: Originally created in the aromantic community, as well as by trauma survivors and neurogivergent folks to describe not feeling platonic attraction, which are also called “squishes” (as opposed to romantic “crushes”). Platonic attraction exists on a spectrum, just like there’s a spectrum for sexual and romantic attractions. Some people consider aplatonic spectrum as MOGAI, some do not. The abbreviation for aplatonic is “apl” (pronounced “apple”).

Term coined by: Anonymous

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Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from my flag scraps folder by anonymous).

Color meanings: Unknown

Check [Here] to see designs for different attraction types for this orientation (sexual/romantic/alterous/platonic/etc)!

Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!

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Aspectusalterous

Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec. 

Alterous attraction is described as neither being (entirely/completely) platonic nor romantic, & is an attraction best described as wanting emotional closeness without necessarily being (at all or entirely) platonic &/or romantic, & is used in the place of -romantic or -platonic (so say bi-alterous instead of bi-romantic). Someone can be both alterous & romantic &/or platonic & can have varying degrees on attraction, ultimately feel discomfort / unease / or just a sense of inaccuracy in calling it wholly romantic or platonic. Similar to queerplatonic/quasiplatonic/quirkyplatonic attraction but not quite the same.

Term coined by: Anonymous

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Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from my flag scraps folder by anonymous).

Color meanings: Unknown

Check [Here] to see designs for different attraction types for this orientation (sexual/romantic/alterous/platonic/etc)!

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Aspectusqueerplatonic, Aspectusquasiplatonic, or Aspectusquirkyplatonic

Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.

Queerplatonic, Quasiplatonic, or Quirkyplatonic: Describes relationships where an intense emotional connection transcending what people usually think of as ‘friendship’ is present, but the relationship is not romantic in nature; people in a queerplatonic relationship may think of themselves as partners, may plan on spending their lives together, etc. The ‘queer’ is a reference to the idea of queering relationships and ideas about relationships, not for describing the orientations or genders of anyone in a queerplatonic relationship. Anyone, sexual or asexual, romantic or aromantic, straight, gay, queer, bi, lesbian, poly, cis, trans, etc etc can be in a queerplatonic relationship, can have more than one such relationship. It’s a popular term within the aromantic community, but not all aromantics feel queerplatonic attraction, and not everyone who feels queerplatonic attraction is aromantic. Similar to alterous attraction but not quite the same.

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Term coined by: Anonymous

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Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from my flag scraps folder by anonymous).

Color meanings: Unknown

Check [Here] to see designs for different attraction types for this orientation (sexual/romantic/alterous/platonic/etc)!

Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!

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Aspectussensual

Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.

Sensual attraction: Having a desire to engage in sensual acts with a certain individual (kissing, cuddling, hugging, hand holding, etc). Useful for people on the ace/aro spectrum who are uncomfortable with romantic or sexual acts or feel little to no sexual or romantic attraction but do desire sensuality or do feel sensual attraction.

Term coined by: Anonymous

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Full size [Here]

Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from my flag scraps folder by anonymous).

Color meanings: Unknown

Check [Here] to see designs for different attraction types for this orientation (sexual/romantic/alterous/platonic/etc)!

Full pride gallery HERE! FAQ and “dictionary” of genders, orientations, and other related terms HERE. Send any questions to Ask-Pride-Color-Schemes!

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Aspectus anon again, that is what I meant, “fully self-aware and just enjoys participating in this particular social game”. I thought that is how my explanation is, that they enjoy acting as such but are not actually allo. Now I am just confused how that wasn't clear, sorry.

So if I were to combine the definitions into this would that work better?Aspectus- Where a person can appear to have an attraction, but in reality they do not feel that attraction at all. They tend to act in ways that most people would assume allo people do.A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but they're doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they are still aspec.

-Hermy

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Okay, further clarification for aspectus: they tend to act in ways that most ppl would assume allo ppl do, but the aspectus person is fully aware that they arent allo. A case would be an aspectusexual person likes to flirt, make sexual jokes, and look sexy, but theyr doing so because they enjoy it, not because they have the goal of attracting someone for a sexual relationship. Ultimately they r still aspec. Does that make sense? I can try to explain more/better if u feel this is still not clear.

I don’t think your meaning is coming across very clearly here.

It’s obvious this is intended to be an a-spec identity for a-spec people, but it’s still unclear whether this is in the realm of “fully self-aware and just enjoys participating in this particular social game”, or more around “misinterpreted internalized amanormativity/allosexism”, or even “trying to pass”. 

I guess the defining elements here would likely be self-awareness and genuine enjoyment. 

-Face