#do some self reflection
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Please stop
Me and some other fans have noticed an uptick in some disturbing behavior from some Vinesauce fans and I want to speak up about it. Please, stop making sexually explicit posts/art about Vinny and Joel. I know for a fact both of them have stated their discomfort about this content throughout the years, and yet I keep seeing people either drawing them in a sexual way or just posting fucked up shit about them on public platforms. If you feel the need to ask me for proof of them saying that, you are part of the problem. They shouldn't have to say that they don't want people making explicit posts about them, that should be common courtesy. If you don't want to stop, I can't stop you. But at least don't publically tag your delusional fantasies for everyone else to see. Keep it to yourself. These are real people, with real lives, and real feelings. Online fandom may have made it seem acceptable to act like this in recent years, but it's not. IT IS ESPECIALLY WRONG WHEN THEY HAVE ALREADY SET THEIR BOUNDARIES ABOUT IT BEFORE. It's disgusting that so many people think it's okay to go past someone's personal boundaries for their own pleasure. Real, living people are not your OCs that you can dress up and parade around in whatever way you want. If you want a character that you can make that kind of art about, make an OC. Find a TV show or movie. A book, a comic. Anything else. And, If someone asks you to stop doing something that makes them uncomfortable, listen to them. It's that simple. I recognize that many of you are young and have been conditioned to see this stuff as normal, but the sooner you grow out of that the better it will be for your own life and relationships. If you are a full ass adult and still think acting like this is okay, then I don't know what to tell you. It doesn't make sense that so many of you claim to be fans and care about people while repeatedly doing things that make them uncomfortable. They are regular people and deserve to be treated with the same respect as anyone else. If you would probably get in trouble for sexual harassment in real life, don't say that same shit online. Respect people's boundaries in the same way you'd want them to respect yours.
#vinesauce#vinesauce vinny#vinesauce joel#vargskelethor#feel free to get mad at me i dont care#if you do get upset by this ask yourself why#do some self reflection#this shit causes real harm and im tired of just having to ignore it
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every time a queer person agrees with sam takes by the dean cult that is straight dudebro redditors, bigoted conservative fathers, and tumblr deangirl festishizers, an angel loses it’s wings
i’m talking about hating sam for not kissing their king’s ass & validating his entitlement as much as they do and “allies” saying that d*stiel is great representation while refusing to acknowledge any of sam’s arcs as queer allegories
at least the first 2 shamelessly admit that misogyny is the main reason they hate sam (nagging, prissy, hysterical woman) and love dean. get on their level! smh
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not to be a hater but the way cis men handle being broken up with (usually by a woman) is so fucking irritating. Especially when the guy is avoidant. So you have no problem hurting someone repeatedly to the point that they dump you, but you have an issue with them breaking up with you after repeatedly trying to tell you how you're hurting them and trying to fix the issue? And now that girl you were codependent on left, you can "never love again" and "she doesn't know how bad she hurt me"? Cry me a fucking River
#mine#sorry just seeing this a lot lately with ppl I know#it annoys me to no end#take some fucking accountability for your actions#do some self reflection#and introspection#you have no problem overthinking everything else
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sometimes a theme recurs in your work without your permission. and sometimes it reaches a threshold where you're like. well now i think this is saying something about me against my will. don't know what though
#creative writing#shitpost#sorry just wrote a third piece with the same underlying idea/premise#which i didn't do on purpose#and now i'm like. well fuck. what's this mean about me?#now i gotta do some self reflection about that
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you always land on all fours
#umineko#umineko spoilers#ikuko hachijo#ikukos turn for a more serious piece... the old man has reigned for too long#now. INCREDIBLY LONG INCOHERENT TAGS RANT INCOMING FAIR WARNING HAS BEEN GIVEN:#it makes me so so sad how little discussion there is about specifically ikuko because imho she fits so neatly into a lot of the more#overarching Big Themes of the game in a way that i have not ever really seen people take notice of or point out in a meaningful way#like even just off of the top of my head. the significance of names and what it means to go by a name that's Not Yours (she has like 4+)#what it Means to be a witch how it represents a person's deepest insecurities and flaws & how its at its core a coping mechanism#the fact that it takes two to create a universe and trying to do it on your own anyways has the capacity to bring you intense misery#^ (how she's shown to be extremely dismissive of her own work and skill until a collaborator comes into her life and helps/encourages her)#and even the family/patriarchy/misogyny stuff that is so prevalent in the rest of the game comes back around to her. even her Only Friend#(young&stupid atp to be fair) remarks that shes Weird for being unmarried + the little she does say about her past invites the question of#to what extent her self-image stems from her family deeming her a freak outcast & effectively disowning her while celebrating her brothers#and i have lot in my mind about the witch thing specifically because i think her particular situation is very reflective of what umineko's#entire magic system and fantasy facet as a whole is meant to represent for an individual. from what little we see of (what is presumably)#her Real personality she is shown to be deeply self conscious in a way that is JARRINGLY diametrically opposed to both 1.) what we see in#featherine and 2.) what we see when she is acting as a Public Figure. because both of the above are very much purposeful acts that she is#putting on in order to obfuscate her true self. and i have always been very resolute & adamant about not totally equating her to featherine#not only because im very firmly in the camp of “featherine is the avatar of the Pen Name & tohya is part of her too” but also very much b/c#i feel very strongly that the stark differences between the two are very centrally relevant to her character & her psyche. as is the case#with most other witches featherine's personality traits serve to reveal/magnify a lot of ikukos inner workings by playing on her#insecurities/reversing them e.g. ikuko being very quick to downplay her skill/achievements becomes featherine being the COMPLETE opposite#to the point where she barely registers even other witches as living beings rather than just fun touys. BUT even though i do champion the#ikuko/featherine separation so hard i ALSO think it is purposefully relevant that at first glance the line between them seems so blurry#her introduction implying a more nebulous separation between her reality/fantasy counterpart is i think is an intentional move on her part#like it is part of the front she is putting up when acting as the Author. as opposed to Ikuko the person who we (in a way ironically very#similar to the way that the Real Battler is presumably only shown during the boatscene) only very briefly get to see take up screentime#which even on a meta level lines up very well with her apparent underlying nature as a like. extremely private largely reserved/shy person#hit tag limit but if by some miracle anyone is still reading this thank you... please see ikuko with the love she deserves... ok ily byeee
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The Master about the Doctor when they're not around: *heart eyes, but with panic in his voice as he thinks about the Doctor possibly dying* A cosmos without the Doctor scarcely bears thinking about...
The Master to the Doctor's face: *points a weapon at them* Killing you once was never enough for me, Doctor. How, how gratifying to do it three times over.....
And it's in the same fucking story.
#oh dearie me#master sweetie i think we need to do some self reflection#doctor who#dw#dr who#classic who#the master#the doctor#thoschei#ainley master#tremas master#fifth doctor#first doctor#second doctor#third doctor#the five doctors#doctor/master#doctor x master
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people using ai to generate fics is terrifying because large language models are getting better and better at approximating real writing, for the very reason that they steal more and more work from real writers every second.
ai generated writing has become sophisticated enough that often you truly have to rely on a gut feeling that what you’re reading isn’t written by a human. as @bi-writes says in her post, it’s the same as ai images that just have a certain look to them. sometimes there are specific “tells” you can pick out as evidence, but sometimes there aren’t.
ultimately what ai writing lacks is a true understanding of what is being written.
crucially, large language models aren’t actually intelligent. the way they work is simply predictive text on steroids. they generate words based on the words that come before - when they start a passage of text, they don’t “know” where it will go. this is why sources like chatGPT consistently give incorrect information, it doesn’t know what it is telling you, it is only regurgitating words in a human-like order based on the swathes of information it has stolen from other sources.
one thing ai writing will always lack is a true thought-out plot. it will constantly repeat itself. it will have plenty of adjectives and similes and “creative” synonyms, it'll be rife with cringey wattpad tropes as bi mentioned, because it is entirely unoriginal.
what frightens me is a future where the difference becomes indistinguishable to laypeople or casual readers, especially those who aren’t writers themselves. making accusations is near impossible without evidence and we don’t want a world where real art is dismissed simply out of ai paranoia, but the thought of a future in which real authors are sidelined in the industry because readers are sated by robot-written slop is genuine nightmare fuel.
all this to say, i guess, is human writing can never be genuinely replaced if readers and writers are aware that ai generated work is hollow, meaningless, unoriginal garbage whose very production is harming our planet. or, rather, that readers continue to care that the art they consume is produced by a human being.
i honestly don’t know how anyone can stomach to read or enjoy work produced by ai knowing that there is no human feeling behind its creation. all i can do is hope the majority feel the same.
#if you have published an ai generated fic i beg you to do some self reflection - what is the point? what have you achieved?#ai#ai generated writing#fanfiction
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this is such an interesting read on a couple different levels. amazing to see such a culture shift in a relatively short period of time.
#and this might just be because i’ve never been a big drinker so i can’t relate#but some of the quotes from vets lamenting that no one wants to go out and get trashed anymore were wild to me#i do see how a culture shift toward gaming / virtual connection could feel exclusionary to an older guy#but ‘no one wants to pregame six beers on the bus before the bar so idk how i’m supposed to bond with my teammates’#seems like something worthy of some self reflection#but maybe i’m being a judgemental asshole#in any case: sidney crosby on edibles confirmed
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Assisting Acquaintance Acquired.
[First] Prev <–-> Next
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wen ning#wei wuxian#Ignore how Wen Ning's hair looks here because I messed it up. Let's pretend he just sported a different hair style for a brief moment.#I am not exactly great at consistency but I am trying very hard to work on that (immediately messes up again).#Absolutely *love* how Wen Ning clearly remembers and admires WWX...who does *not* recognize him.#This is the best day for Wen Ning and it means *nothing* to WWX. A painful one-sided crush made worse.#It is bittersweet to realize that we care about someone more than they care about us. Sometime we pour love into a relationship-#-with someone who just can't reciprocate. It isn't always a conscious things either. Some people just aren't aware we care.#And painfully - so painfully - You can't make them aware. No act of kindness or gift or self sacrifice will make someone care about you.#You can martyr yourself for someone and they will continue on unchanged.#I think a lot about the parallels between WN and LWJ. Not foils - just reflections. A theme repeated.#People who give so much of themselves to someone who doesn't have the capacity to give any part of themself away.#I will die on the hill of 'Wen Ning would be the love triangle romance if that trope wasn't being avoided'.#And to be honest - thank the stars above that is the case. I do not know any good love triangles in media.#We are skipping some of the sad Jiang Cheng content because I really want to finish season 2 before May.#Sorry JC emo moment lovers...I'll deliver another time.
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tim kon cassie trio on the mind today. not a love triangle, not a polycule, but a secret third thing (when a gay man, a lesbian, and their pet bisexual freak love each other very much...)
#i just think post breakup and post coming out koncassie are like platonic soulmates almost. their bond is so important to meeee#and then tim and cassie have that unbreakable bond of The Ones Left Behind. they are so important to each other#and then tim and kon are. well. gestures at their everything#like ... they're such a fascinating trio bc kon and cassie make such good mirrors in some ways#and then tim and cassie are really good mirrors of each other in other ways#and they're both obsessed with kon. they both just love him so so much. and. it hits#i am going to place them in a situation or so help me.#like something about that romance that isn't. btwn koncassie and then timcassie both trying to kiss kon through each other#and the way that evolves as all three of them come out and do some reflection and self discovery#idk it's just genuinely sooo tasty. putting them in some soup as we speak#rimi talks#tim#kon#cassie
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Reminder for pride month that queerness is not limited to whiteness and if you erase non white queers, when talking about the community, every queer person who isn't white gets to throw rocks at you and shoot you out of a cannon 💖
#my random stuff#queer#queer community#tag storytime for my mutuals:#so; my 6th form wanted to do some stuff for pride month#so one of the guys in our year (he's queer- idk if he's got specific labels and white btw) printed out some photos of queer celebrities#those celebs being- ellen degeneres; troy sivan; judge rinder; adam lambert; and Kristen stewart#which annoyed me on like. 3 counts#first or all. ellen???? so many lesbian celebrities out there and you pick ellen??#second of all. where are all the ICONS of the community. like not just celebs well known to queers; but the ones straights know as well??#freddie mercury??? bowie?? elton?? even like. chappell roan would work better than the ones he picked#and third (and most annoying)#WHY ARE THEY ALL WHITE BRO????#i asked him about this and he said “dunno. i don't know any black queer people”#do you realise how that sounds??? you're just making that statement with zero self reflection????#dude; our community would not fucking exist today without queers of colour !!!#also like. Freddie Mercury; possibly THE MOST OBVIOUS CHOICE isn't white !!#there's people like megan thee stallion; janelle monae; ncuti gatwa; demi lovato; cynthia erivo; tyler the creator THE LIST FUCKING GOES ON#even if you want to keep the list mainstream; there's still loads!! a bunch that i didn't even put in that last tag!!#so this evening i basically compiled a powerpoint of queer and non white celebrities (as well as some of the icons he had overlooked)#and sent it to our head of 6th form saying “it upset me that all the pictures from today were all white. here's some non white queer people”#hopefully I'll get to put the pictures up tomorrow#this post is brought to you by a half chinese queer person#and if you say anything nasty on this post i will throw rocks at you and launch you from a canon
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Something that fascinates me about the fact that people complain about TGAA making them uncomfortable isn't just that there are parts of it that are supposed to make you uncomfortable but also guess who else is uncomfortable by the same things that tend to make players uncomfortable? Ryunosuke and Susato. They literally point it out when something seems off to them (Pat's treatment of Roly, Joan's abuse of John, the casual racism from the English on MULTIPLE occasions, Sholmes referring to Joan as a "beast," the casual sexism/misogyny Susato is subjected to in both Japan and England, and the blatant classism from both van Zieks and the jurors).
The things that are supposed to make you uncomfortable because you're playing as a Japanese character studying in Victorian England. In Victorian England, things like domestic abuse, fatphobia, misogyny, and plenty of other concepts shown in TGAA were socially acceptable. If you're uncomfortable with heavy subjects like are shown in TGAA being portrayed in fiction to the point you HAVE to complain about it, TGAA isn't a game for you.
Like this is a screenshot I got during my first playthrough of TGAA.

Like this stuff is supposed to make you uncomfortable. I don't know what to tell you. TGAA is a period piece; the court side of stuff isn't all that accurate, but basically everything else is. I genuinely don't know what to tell you if media exploring uncomfortable parts of history makes you so uncomfortable you have to yell about it.
#ace attorney#the great ace attorney#this is the second time ive talked about this lol#anyway no hate meant to anyone. i just wanted to mention that some parts of tgaa are SUPPOSED to make you uncomfortable#you dont need to yell about it making you uncomfortable. thats the point of those parts of the game#also i say this as a white person: if learning how shitty white people have historically been to racial minorities makes you that uncomfy#maybe do some self reflection on why. just a suggestion#it makes me uncomfortable too but i take it as something to learn from. “this makes me uncomfy so i WONT do that”
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i find shima believing his behavior around mitsumi to be part of his facade so interesting bc like. his M.O. wrt kindness is typically far more detached, no? he's not going out of his way to explicitly befriend everyone, he's not trying to include them in every conversation, he's not alluding to them hanging out (in group settings mind you!!) being like a date, etc etc... its crazy that he can do all those things and still be so blinded by self-loathing.
i think theres also something to be said about how he can so easily take mitsumi's word as gospel when they break up and then proceed to not really. trust that her reasons for liking him are genuine as well. let's dissect this guy like a frog.
#or should i say legitimate 🤔 its#*not that he thinks shes being dishonest but that she doesn't understand him bc hes a hashtag faker#and hes Tricked her bc hes so EVIL and MALICIOUS and VILE#and therefore her reasons for liking him cant be authethic or legitimate or genuine#some self reflection would do him WONDERS. seek therapy maybe!#shima#skipping and loafing#skip to loafer spoilers#i guess
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*Holds up Félix and Chloé* It’s not obvious because it’s all WIPs and very little has been posted but I care them so much. I love putting them in a room together and locking the door to see what happens. They’re two somewhat territorial cats who are fighting one minute, then totally chill the next. They’re judging each other. They like to hang out and judge other people. They’re mocking each other one minute and then planning each other’s parents’ (Andre and Audrey’s/Colt’s) murders. Amélie invites Chloé over and treats her like a daughter. Chloé is breaking down crying in Amélie’s arms because she feels loved one moment, then smirking at Félix because she’s stealing his mom five minutes later. Sabrina knows Félix by his full government name due to Chloé’s ranting but has never formally met him. They both love Adrien so much but they’re not the greatest at remembering to tell him. They both have so many issues. They complain about each other. They have blackmail material for days. They would kill for one another if it came down to it. Do you feel me. Do you get me. Did any of that make sense. I know I’m taking a five second interaction and allusions to what their relationship was before and blowing it up out of proportion but they interest me so MUCH and I WILL make headcanons about it.
#One of these days I’ll get to write something proper and my rambling will make more sense#there’s a few moments in CTS that I really wanna get to bc they mean so much to me#I wanna see them interact more. I think it’ll be funny/interesting/heartbreaking. I’ll take anything#I haven’t written anything for it but I do think it would be interesting to have them talk post season 5#Where Chloé is at her lowest and thinks she can’t get better. and then Félix rocks up like ‘Been there#‘C’mon let’s get you some self reflection and view changing experiences. Or don’t I can’t make you’#and she’s like ‘What you’re suddenly perfect now??’ and he’s like ‘HA. no. but I’m getting better. trying to anyways. and you can too’#‘But you have to WANT to.’#and. yeah. I just think about them a lot okay#miraculous ladybug#felix graham de vanily#felix fathom#chloe bourgeois#SB Speaks#SB Rambles#oh boy I did a lot of rambling
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arthur lester? i barely know her!
#i had to pause and do some self reflection after finding this in my drafts#what am i even doing anymore#malevolent#arthur malevolent
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the peace that i feel knowing that every voice that hates on hmoney doesn’t matter, and that the majority of audiences like it and want it back and so do the inventors of the ship- the actors themselves🙂↕️🙂↕️ never underestimate the love a gay has for that one token “straight” couple.
the way that the hetty and trevor relationship compliments each of their character journeys so well without over taking their main plots and lets them be awful and human, but then also grow is so good. i need to yap more about them honestly.
#lowkey convinced every kid who hates on it just doesn’t like older women#idk so many lesbians including myself love it and that’s how i know it’s superior#but but but they’re toxic!#….#sorry some people want their ships to actually be reflective of Adult relationships-have nuance-complexity-and show growth#instead of some self insert white gay fantasy where both characters are unrecognizable#hetty woodstone#trevor lefkowitz#ghosts cbs#also they’re hot and some of us don’t think holding hands is the dirtiest thing you can do#don’t get me started on months ago seeing people say it makes trevor ooc…literally what show are you watching
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