#fuckthebinary

[les-amor]

i dont know if im a femme or a masc i think im just me

[pluto-spacekid]

The Others

Boys don’t cry, but girls do. What about the others? 

The pain isn’t physical, that’s just the side effects. Am I supposed to be content living in someone else’s body? I want to reach out for help, but I don’t in fear of becoming the next toxic friend we’re trying to cut off. I guess I’m fucked up.

  I know what they say behind closed doors. That I’m confused. A dyke. Being trendy. I’M NOT. There is no place in society for the others. No place in my home for me. Inquiry turns to yelling and tears. My spirit is broken, their egos inflated. 

Betrayed by the people I thought were on my side. Maybe I’m just bitter and jaded but I don’t trust them as much as I used to. Maybe it’s normal to feel these things. Or maybe I’m as unstable as she is. But I’ll keep it locked away so I don’t get cut off like she did. 

I’ll get over it. Because I’m supposed to. I’m a good kid that doesn’t cause a fuss for this nuclear family. Disappointment is a rough road to travel, though I walk down it often. 

Pink or blue. Vagina or penis. Male or Female. Everything is so either/or. Why not neither? Why not both? 

I get misgendered and lectured. In the morning it will be “fine”. I’ll play along.

 I feel alienated when I’m conscious. Some days are better than others, but those are few and far between. I want to dress how I want and not have a label smacked on me. I am an other and nothing else. Most people can’t look past the curves and poisonous estrogen though. 

Too young. Too dumb. Too liberal. That’s all I hear. Maybe I’m just too alive.

[sherlock-at-the-bakery]

New year’s resolution

I’ll just start them-ing everybody unless someone specifies they want another pronoun, so from now on, my stories will be more politically correct and more importantly, more mysterious, because we all know how fun it is to keep your conservative relatives guessing the status of your relationship.

[qwear]

Introducing the brilliant pattern-mixing and other fashionable achievements of Tristan Bowersox

[post-sex-cigarette]

Living in the borderlands.

[ifreakinglovepoems]

Pink or blue?

Have you ever seen old pictures of someone who’s hair used to be long? but you’ve only seen it short so the pictures look all wrong. That’s how I feel when I look in a mirror.

It's just that I feel society wants me to be this one person, but in my mind I'm dying to be this other vertion . That's what I think when I look in a mirror.

I want to wear a tie with a dress and wear my hair short with lipstick, but some say my style should depend on vagina or dick. That's what I hate when I look in a mirror.

I hate being called a girl, becaus I don't feel feminine enough. I don't want to be a guy though, because I'm not that rough. That's confusing when I look in a mirror.

I do like my masculine height, my curves and my androgenous face. In fact, there's not a part of my body that I'd replace. That I embrace when I look in a mirror.

I know you have grown up with genders and you have learned that there are two, but please treat me like a person, not like a pink or blue. That's what I hope when I look in a mirror.

It is hard to remember new pronouns and get into new habits, but know that it warms my heart when you try call me what fits. That makes it better to look in a mirror.

I don't want society to make people mindlessly surrender, I hope you feel free to express whatever gender. That's what I want you to see in a mirror.

[crowappreciation]

Pronoms - a Trans short film (fr sub en)

[thesnowyassassin]

All worlds begin in darkness, and all so end. The heart is no different. My second tattoo, this one in honor of the game series that has been an important part of my life for over ten years. #kingdomhearts #tattoos #ftmtransgender #transman #transpunk #fuckthebinary #personal https://www.instagram.com/p/BstR38OlvL2/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=c2todvpsiphz

[aceing-life-blog]

Toxic Masculinity

Noun. The concept that to prove you have the biggest dick you must be the biggest dick.

Example: The toxic masculinity was rising in the room when they started talking about whose truck was better. By the end of the conversation, it was clear they weren’t comparing trucks anymore.

Add your own examples.

[themaskedmuskequeers-blog]

Gettin tings digital ennit - - #digitalart #nintendo #mariobros #ripgenderroles #artistsoninstagram #feminism #genderroles #fuckthebinary #transgenderartist #lgbtactivism #birminghamuk #princesspeach #superpeach #princessmario

[girlinabowtie]

Sunday funday (unemployed and feeling fine!) #rosecoloredboi #wildfang #wildfeminist #tomboy #tomboi #boi #queer #lgbtq #fuckheteronormativity #fuckthebinary #dresslikeawoman #girlinabowtie #girlswillbeboys #boyswillbegirls #fashion #thatgirljames #blogger #feelingmyself #london #uk #greenpoint #patio #greatoutdoors #getoutstayout (at London, United Kingdom)

[shehehimherme]

#Blackout - Waffle House Chronicles ft. Black Don’t Crack

Happy birthday to me. 03/06/17

[thesnowyassassin]

My New Year's Eve look, looking damn good if I do say so myself #ftmtransgender #transman #fuckthebinary https://www.instagram.com/p/BsFOLi3FFap/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=fntbuliiqt65

[transparentgender]

4 Year Zaddy-Versary: Fck the Binary.

Another year has flown by. I’m reflecting again on the progress made along my journey, and anticipating the upcoming challenges. In doing so, I’ve come to realize that this past year has been another transition of sorts: I’m moving further and further away from the notion that I must lean toward one end of the gender spectrum, and am falling in place with the unknown. The unknown is scary. I worry about how I’m perceived often times, and I am concerned that people’s perception will result in violence on occasion. But I’ve always existed in the unknown and as I embrace it, I have never felt more fulfilled. It has been 4 years since I’ve gone under the knife. Today this is me:

I may be perceived as a man, I may be perceived as masculine, some may say I have a deep voice, yet, I am none of these things. I exist in world were possibilities are limitless.

My body is non binary.

I think this is something I was alway aware of, but it took a change in people’s perception of me to understand my body will never define my gender nor will my gender be defined by my body. At this time in my public transition, I have the privilege to move about the world in a way that grants me the space to explain these ideas and realities to others who may not understand. I stated a few years ago that I am not the one transitioning -I’ve always had a pretty good idea of who I was- rather the people I know and love are the folks transitioning. You have transitioned away from referring to me as a woman, and t]have walked into the unknown with me.’

My genitalia doesn’t define me. Top surgery or none, neither defines me. Facial hair or a light voice, neither defines me. Short or long hair, neither defines me. Fck your gender rules. Fck your gender socialization. Fck gender all together. Fck the Binary

[sagittariusshit]

Nonbinary symbol block prints in this beautiful golden yellow coming next week ✨ . . . . . . #nonbinary #nonbinarypride #nonbinaryart #queer #queerart #queerartist #homedecor #queerhome #enby #enbypride #nonbinaryartist #beyondthegenderbinary #fuckthebinary #transpride #transgender #nonbinarygender #nonbinarypositivity #blockprinting #blockprint #queergifts #queerbusiness #queerownedbusiness #neverwaredesigns https://www.instagram.com/p/CId1zXQpjZX/?igshid=pvxgozlk74ns

[queerveganme]

#transliberation #misgendered #queervegan #tattoos #enby #nonbinary #genderfluid #fuckthebinary #fuckthecistem # (at Cowbridge)