#headmate tags

[io-iota]

my favourite discovery as of late (only a couple months ago at most) is that you can stim by humping. this has game-changing implications for autistic sex

[yokiforreal]

I'm not like actually mad at anyone but I do use it/it's because I'm trying to not be gendered so seeing a lot of girlthing stuff in the notes is like. great! good for you! I seriously hope you don't precieve me as female just for the it/its pronouns I use though!

[cleverpaws]

i just think hes funny. hi everyone

[thepatchworksys]

i guess this one might be controversial but can we like .. stop normalizing completely ignoring and shunning new headmates? im getting really irritated every time i see posts that talk about running into a new headmate and immediately ditching them because you dont care. i get that sometimes people are busy or tired but i feel like you should at least come back later, try a little bit.. even if your system has shared memories! it really doesnt feel good to be new to the world, be seen for the very first time, have them go "im not dealing with you" and leave.

This post is not radqueer safe.

[disabirbity]

Maybe this only applies to me but I made the meme anyway and now it's free.

[quixoticornithologist]

ewebwewewbebwe. i really like jasky

[io-iota]

@esmae-solace

being bossed around by littles >///////<

[ambrosiaque]

PLURALCORD;

A Discord server intended for any and all systems & multiples aged 16+!

Do you find your identity to be unstable and fragmented? Do the voices in your head have their own opinions? Do you find solace in the palace of your mind? Is your head busy and full of foot traffic? Do you often feel out of place, or like nobody understands the inner workings of your brain?

If you said "yes" to one or all of these questions, then PLURALCORD might be the place for you!

Why PLURALCORD?

PLURALCORD is a Discord server made by systems, for systems! With integrations such as PluralKit and Tupperbox, our goal is to make a place that is made with the average plural in mind so that we may all be brought together as a community, without the need to fight for accommodations, visibility, or respect.

MAIN ATTRACTIONS;

Traumagenic & non-traumagenic friendly.

Pluralkit & Tupperbox for your free use.

Starboard for our hall of fame.

Member verification for your safety.

Well-organized channels, no clutter!

Roleypoley for colour, pronoun, preferred terminology & boundary roles.

Custom emojis for nonverbal communication.

Channels for art, music, games & other interests.

Voice channels for streaming & hanging out.

Channels for littles, age regressors & caregivers.

Opt-in 18+ channels with age verification.

Channels to talk about neurodivergence & physical disabilities.

Ticket bot for support requests, questions & suggestions.

Designated channels for introjects and source talk.

No source or media blacklists, we love all introjects!

No system tag required.

Multiplicity & plurality resource sharing.

[habitscapes]

recent doodle page + a magma with @tsubasaslove @terrariafan230 and @wubbforbrains ^_^

[npdkondraki]

more chimney sweep

[kittydoodle]

(ID in alt!)

batch of icon commissions ive done!

commission me for an icon?

[io-iota]

unsupervised little has been spotted harassing customers in the local k-mart

[helltrskelter]

If Kiibo can exist? Taka should've been allowed Alter-Ego Mondo as a robot, methinks

[solar-jack]

NORMALIZE IN-SYS RELATIONSHIPS!!!!

Okay aggressive title aside I wanna talk about romantic headmate relationships

I want expressing them to be more normalized!!! I think it's generally well known at this point that headmates can have relationships with each other. But I never see it talked about much beyond that it's a thing that happens.

I wanna hear about how people experience their relationships. I wanna hear what folks do together and how they express their love.

But something we especially wanna hear is how systems do physical affection.

"Physical affection?! But you only have one body!" THAT DOES NOT STOP US IN FACT IT MAKES IT EXTREMELY INTIMATE

We hold our own hands. We kiss our own body. We wrap our arms around ourself. And we want this to be normalized. Okay sure maybe it looks a little odd at first, but this is normal to us. And we want others to see it as normal and okay too.

(I swear to fucking god if "showing headmate affection on camera" becomes the new thing used to fakeclaim like how switching on camera is I will YELL)

I wanna be able to show our affection in front of someone else and make them uncomfortable NOT BECAUSE IT'S OUR OWN BODY but because they're being a third wheel just like to singlet couples.

[rottkitt]

is there a m*a*s*h fandom. hello. calling any mash fans i’m getting into mash i haven’t seen a lot of it but i’m making it a goal to watch as many episodes as possible.

i love radar and klinger they’re my spirit animals… my babies i love them so much oughgghh th my god

[bugg-bonez]

Drew my own faceclaim rahhhhh!!!!!

Btw heads up, my original source design is the Critter Frin / STP Frin AU, so erm check that out!?! This is just my personal ref because RAGHHH.

Anyhoo, art time!!!!!

CW FOR NON-SEXUAL PARTIAL NUDITY & HEALED SH SCARS!!! PLEASE DON'T CONTINUE IF THIS MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE!!!

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Ahem.

Now. Art time for REAL