#histrionic

[hellhoundzzz]

hello fellow attention seekers. ily

[raincamp]

its so humiliating having to admit to people that sometimes my only motivation for doing something is for validation or attention

[0pooleart]

I'm going to be making a music video all by myself

Coming soon or not soon I'm not sure

[hlstrionics]

꒰ྀི HISTRIOPLATONIC

an aplatonic spectrum term which can be used to signify "abnormal" perceptions of platonic relationships that can be seen in those with HPD

this is inspired by antiplatonic by @aspdboyfriend and can serve as an HPD version of antiplatonic, the symbol is by ratbastardz

[ersatz-introspective]

this bitch collects cluster b's like pokémon who let him cook‼️‼️

[honestlyhistrionic]

HPD seeking / withdrawing

I've been going back and forth on coining some terms like these, but I figured I'd give it a shot!

These terms describe two sides of the histrionic experience. The first, seeking, refers to a period where a person with HPD needs more attention than they usually need. They may be more prone to acting out to get that attention, and they likely will feel more distressed than usual when they don't get the attention they need.

The second, withdrawing, refers to a period where a person with HPD pulls away from others. They might delete social media, unfriend people, skip plans, ignore messages, not leave the house, etc.

Both experiences can be related to feeling ashamed or criticized. Some histrionics will be more likely to react to shame with seeking, and others may be more likely to react with withdrawing. They can also be unrelated to shame; some histrionics may find they end up seeking or withdrawing with seemingly no cause.

These terms are exclusive to people with HPD or HPD traits.

[unhinged-aiko]

I think it's insanely irresponsible to diagnose minors (especially -15) with Cluster B personality disorders.

I got the idea for this post by my aunt, who is a psychiatrist. She has also said that she thinks it is extremely irresponsible to diagnose minors with Cluster B disorders.

I'm not sure about the diagnosis of HPD because I haven't seen much about it. So I won't speak on that one.

But for ASPD and NPD, most professionals won't even look into those two disorders until you've reached 18. This is because most kids/teenagers go through these symptoms before they become adults. When it continues to be a problem through adulthood is when it is usually considered a personality disorder. Often times, normal teenagers and children are irresponsible, manipulative, lack a bit of empathy, impulsive, etc etc... that in no way means they have a personality disorder.

Same with BPD. Unlike the others, BPD can be diagnosed before the age of 18, but where it becomes irresponsible is when they are diagnosed before the age of 15. Before the age of 15 is the usual peak of puberty. Puberty is known for causing mood swings, anxiety, sensitivity, impulsivity, obsessive thoughts, and rage. All of these can also be symptoms of BPD. Therefore, diagnosing a minor under the age of 15 is VERY irresponsible because their symptoms could easily be from something else and not BPD.

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

they should make a forum or something for pwHPD and pwNPD to post their works or their selfies and the only replies allowed are compliments. not empty compliments either, they have to be genuine or specific compliments and praises. for ppl who are writhing in pain from not getting enough attention or praise

[tumbler-polls]

Please reblog for a bigger sample size!

Submitted by @anon.

[starfilled-galaxy]

We need an actual tag for HPD ONLY, not umbrella cluster b stuff, an actual HPD tag, cuz even the actually HPD tag is taken over by general cluster b posts

[hellhoundzzz]

[hlstrionics]

꒰ྀི HISTRILIX

Histrilix: An HPD experience in which it affects how you show affection, bonds, and feelings in general. It may feel superficial, inconsistent, disconected, or generally different to the way people without hpd experience these things, and may cause issues with forming relationships or bonds.

It may or may not be considered part of one's orientation, and it may be arospec, aspec or aplatonic, depending on the person using the term.

This is an HPD version of Anisolix, colors inspired by this HPD flag

[lithiis]

not to brag but i have a friend who gives me attention when i explicitly express i need it and understands that im cluster b and actively cares for me with it

[kiruliom]

ah the vicious cycle of "I feel like I dont have a place in the real world so Im spending most of my social energy daydreaming" but that leads to me losing my place even more in the real world

[dodgeryy]

Anyone with personality disorders willing to share difficulties in relationships/intimate connections?? Asks, comments, rbs??

-Cluster b (borderline) trying to get to know more about the other clusters and PDs because you never really understand until you talk w em I find.

For me personally the main trigger is just fear of abandonment and emotional permanency. Which literally categorizes bpd but idk if other clusters are as interpersonally defined and recognizable as b???

You're all valid! This is a safe space correct me if I said anything wrong.

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

manifesting that every histrionic reading this gets showered with love and attention forever and ever