#dpd

[forget-meabh-not]

Dependent comfort / Depend comfort

a term that was originally coined for our friend @themurdersc3ne !!

dependent comfort is basically like narc fuel but for those with pwDPD( dependent personality disorder )

we aren’t a pwDPD so we aren’t the best person to give examples of what depend comfort looks like :,)

This term is (obviously) pwDPD exclusive .

[starryroe]

lonely living in a world where you know no one will be able to care about you in the specific way you want to be cared for

[paranoidpdsuggestion]

[pdcultureis]

dpd culture is ‘How To Never Stop Being Sad’ by dandelion hands

Avoid your friends for weeks even though

They're the only sense of consistency you have

Left in your life, if they really wanted

To see you they'd come, but they won't (who cares?)

- mod 🍁

[vampfire1]

disability pride month is july and im on vacation and have not checked tumblr in a week but here is some love for people with personality disorders <33 because yes they are disabling and it sucks. SO:

i love you people with npd

i love you people with bpd

i love you people with aspd

i love you people with hpd

i love you people with stpd

i love you people with szpd

i love you people with ppd

i love you people with avpd

i love you people with ocpd

i love you people with dpd

i love you people with personality disorders

i love you people who were told they feel nothing when they feel too much

i love you people with scary feelings

i love you if you call yourself a narcissist or just say you have npd

i love you people with disorders that make people flinch

i love you people with the big scary disorders

i love you people who spiral because they didn't text back in a few minutes

i love you people who feel safer when hidden behind a mask

i love you people who always mask and i love you people who don't mask and i love you people who can't mask

yall are amazing and i love you so much

you are deserving of love and appreciation and understanding even if you aren't "healed"

love, a pwPDs

[graphicdesignevident]

INCLUDES ALL CLUSTER A, CLUSTER B, CLUSTER C, FLAGS!!

⌏this is my first post on this account,, I've been wanting to make a blog for stuff I find/make for a while, so I thought why not do it now lmao!! ( intro coming soon though. ) ⌌

MADE BY ME!! :DD - I did steal the moving border on them from https://blinkies.cafe/ So please know that!! ( you can also make your own blinkies on there!! )

⇢ creds not needed,, but please like or re-blog!! I'd really appreciate it!! :))

CLUSTER A:

CLUSTER B:

CLUSTER C:

links to the original posters flags I used: (some may be re posts because of archived things, or broken links idk)

{ STPD - PPD - SZPD } { HPD - NPD - BPD - ASPD } { OCPD - AVPD - DPD }

[ppd-culture-is]

Stop saying differently abled when you mean disabled.

Stop saying gifted burnt out kid when you mean disabled.

Stop saying the c-slur when you mean disabled.

Stop saying 'super power' when you mean disabled.

Stop saying senile when you mean disabled.

Stop saying special needs when you mean needs for someone who is disabled.

Start saying disabled when you mean disabled.

Disability isn't, nor will it ever be, a dirty word. The only reason you think it's dirty is because you walked on it with muddy shoes.

[aintnopartylikeaprideparty]

as someone who has experienced abuse from someone with a personality disorder, it's actually incredibly easy to not dehumanize everyone with a personality disorder. i've seen people do borderline eugenic rhetoric surrounding people who have npd, aspd, bpd or other personality disorders, and then be like "I'M allowed to say these things because i'm a survivor, and if you disagree you are hurting abuse victims."

and frankly? i'm tired of it. as an abuse survivor i'm here to say that you're NOT allowed to turn into a fucking eugenicist the moment you're hurt by someone with a personality disorder.

does hurting and belittling other people who happen to have the same disorder as your abuser, people that are already suffering and that are already looked down on by society, bring you any healing? does it bring you peace?

Being hurt by someone isn't an excuse to hurt others that you feel justified in lashing out on. you're literally in control of your own actions,

you may claim to be making a safe space for abuse survivors, but i will never feel any solidarity with you, and i ESPECIALLY don't feel safe with you considering i might have a personality disorder.

you are excluding a large amount of abuse survivors in the name of "advocacy". a lot of people with personality disorders developed one or multiple due to heavy abuse. in the aim of creating a safe space, you are excluding the ones who need a safe space the most.

[alexandraisyes]

Reblog/interact if your blog is a safe space for all people struggling with their Cluster A, B, and C personality disorder regardless of whether they are high or low-functioning in their disorder.

[titan-god-helios]

kissing everyone with a personality disorder from ANY cluster on the forehead (or giving you a cool blanket or flowers or a badge) you're so cool <333

[takemetodragonstone]

t shirt that says i survived hell and all i got was this stupid personality disorder

[motormouthedfool]

bitches be like "do i have a personality disorder or am i just looking for attention or am i just trying to find excuses for behaving the way i do"

im bitches

[paranoidpdsuggestion]

you ever just wanna say 'fuck it' and act like a complete caricature of the worst of your personality disorder even though you know it's gonna make you look like an asshole/annoying/etc. to perso/neurotypicals and make other people with the PD look 'bad', but you don't care anymore? like we are gonna be villainized by these people for the rest of time, why should we care to appease them anymore if they aren't ever gonna listen to us or our experiences anyway

[mentallystrawberry]

love will always turn me back into that little girl who was never good enough a little girl just begging someone to love her, take care of her, to hold her and never let go

[avoidant-attachment-culture]

avoidant culture is feeling far more comfortable yearning for fictional people that don't exist because i never actually have to get close to them. i can just write alone and feel comfortable never divulging anything

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[psychotic-tbh]

Shoutout to folks with Personality Disorders. Y’all don’t get enough support and deal with so much ableism/sanism, it’s unreal.

And to folks without PDs, pls do your best to support PwPDs. We’re not free of ableism til we’re all free of it!