#i mean im a blogger...and a girl...so????

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Mel (Amelia)

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[d0uth1nk1mawh0re]

I need a pack of marlboros and a bottle of vanilla vodka

[cxndiedvi0lets]

[serenityyiz]

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[redribbonsandblood]

WHY IS MC COMMAND CENTRE SO GODDAMN COMPLICATED I JUST WANT MY CUTE LITTLE SIMS TO DO CUTE LITTLE SIM THINGS LEAVE ME ALONE

[frillyweepybunny]

i love him. the distance makes things difficult but i love him, he's the nicest, sweetest, most affectionate boy in this cold, cruel world 🪽🌆🎧

[thedaintiestdoll]

I'm higher than the Empire state building and I feel like God on my littlegirlblog✨🎀💖

[cxndiedvi0lets]

You know what I find stupid? Girls tearing each other up because of the idealisation of "Girlhood". Why are you all tearing yourself apart the idealisation of the "female identity of a feminine stage"

Do you see how arguably stupid this is?

Plus, it doesn't make you quirky. This also applies to the girly girls and alt girls or whatever label with the identification of a female/girl. None of you are gonna enjoy anything for your desperation of indifference or your façade of being a "girl's girl" when all you do is talk shit about other girls.

Honestly, whatever. Y'all are completely weird as hell for that. Why does a particular stage in your life need to be identified with a gender. Thats so fucking weird. You gotta learn between whats for the audience and your personal experience and "coquette girly girl's" or whatever. Throw how many sparkles you want as long as it isn't evil eyes and glorifying submission to men.

[connormoving]

also me and my sims have bonded deeply theyve got a whole backstory that i cant rly represent well in the sims but its rly cute TO ME

[these-posts-arent-real]

Oh StarClan... your dash has turned into warrior cats again.

#sorry <3 #this one has parts that are based off of that #one post rhats like "if there were cat-people #do you think calico tboys would try to dye over their patches"

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🍲 ex-thundrclan-kipper Follow

Me & Night (my mate)!!!

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:O Kip's mate has finally been revealed!!! And his name is Night? Cooool.

🍲 ex-thundrclan-kipper Follow

Yeah haha. Technically his full name is Night Hunter, Bringer of Darkness, but it feels so weirdly formal calling him that, so I usually stick to just Night.

#life #kittypet #collar tw #cw collars #id in alt text

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🛤 carnation-stem-02 Follow

I find it really funny when I see cats on here vaguepost about big blogs. Like cmon mouse-brain everyone here knows who you're talking about. Just say their name.

#this is about that one mommy blogger shitting on kipper the kittypet #btw #in case some of you couldnt tell #would be funny if it wasnt so stupid

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🥬 rxttencatmint Follow

Hahaaaaa.... my mother found out ive been slowly dyeing my ginger patches black...

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Why would you do that??? Being a tortie is so cool, I wish I had ginger patches! They're so pretty, why do you want to get rid of them???

🥬 rxttencatmint Follow

Uhm. Gender dysphoria??

Like. I know cis male tortoiseshells exist but they're so rare that most cats take one look at me and go "oh, tortie, must be a girl" and that hurts.

🪺 robbbinpaw Follow

OH STARCLAN im so sorry Rot i wasnt even thinking about you being trans, I probably sounded really insensitive... I do understand what you're saying now.

Didn't even ask, how did your mom take it? Does she know why?

🥬 rxttencatmint Follow

You're fine <3 I get it. And no, she uh.. has no clue why I did it, she thinks I'm in my "emo phase" or something.

🐍 xviper-the-fagx

Uhh unrelated but what do you use to dye your fur?? Asking for... science...

#"science" meaning i am also a tortie tboy #well technically i'm calico but ykwim

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I can't be the only one here who thinks it's unfair to allow kittypets on this site. Posting pictures of themselves and their mates inside of the twolegplace, influencing the young kits on this site to abandon their Clans... surely everyone else sees the problem with this as well.

This is Clanblr, not "Kittypetblr". This was specifically made as a space for Clan cats to connect, not for kittypets to push their lifestyle on us.

They're going to convince our kits to abandon their home and their belief in StarClan just for a more secure life.

#EXACTLY #I only recently found out ex-tc Kipper was a kittypet #it was so upsetting to me because i've always loved his wood-scratch art #to find out he's a clan-abandoner was so saddening

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🌻 l1llyst3m Follow

The recent drama surrounding Kipper the Kittypet is sad and I hate that he's being bashed just for existing, but it's also incredibly stupid. I believe the cat who wrote the original post said something like, "it's CLANblr, not KITTYPETblr," and then something about belief in StarClan and I just... do you even realize how many Clanblr mods are non-Clan and/or don't believe in StarClan?

To name a few, @s-t-a-r-burning is former WindClan now rogue & openly an atheist, @theshadowhaseyes has been a kittypet his whole life, and @ssuunnrraayy-p has made zir entire blog about how ze travels from one Clan to another & doesnt consider zimself a Clan cat. Those are all mods. "It's clanblr no-" shut up. Just shut up.

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🧷 name-lists-by-theme

Theme: Water

as always, these work as either part of your name, but they are intended as the first part!

-Abyss

-Bay

-Bog

-Cove

-Creek

-Current

-Dew

-Fog

-Lagoon

-Lake

-Marsh

-Mist

-Pond

-Pool

-Puddle

-Rain

-Shallow

-Sleet

-Spray

-Splash

-Storm

-Stream

-Torrent

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I think a lot of cats put way too much emphasis on the parts of the warrior code that dont matter, and forget the parts that do, like "feed elders and kits first" and "never neglect a kit in pain or danger"... I feel like those are significantly more important than "a warrior rejects the soft life of a kittypet," but maybe that's just me.

#berry yaps #I'm irritated by the kittypet drama going on on this site

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I feel like we don't talk enough about how SkyClan got chased out of their own territory during a time of crisis rather than all of the Clans trying to make room for everyone...

I mean, seriously. I know it's taught to all SkyClan apprentices, but I've talked to some of my friends from other Clans and they just. Didn't know that. They were never taught that the other Clans allowed SkyClan to be chased out due to territory loss.

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:/ im pretty sure the whole thing about skclan being kicked out of their territory is just a conspiracy theory

🔲 sag3-chas3s-squirr3ls-deactivated

Imagine trying to tell a cat that they don't know their own Clan's history 💀

#ohh i finally found it again #that 1 fucker trying to say that skyclan's history is a "conspiracy theory"

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:/ I do not like being stuck on the wrong site.

[salemlunaa]

crazy how people are getting on to you and emma for simply not agreeing with that girls post about shifting and manifesting, like i get she deactivated but how’s that anyone’s problem? everyday it’s something new on this app 💀💀

no bc i literally got a few comments (which they deleted) and many asks about how i was “super mean and need to apologise”

and i’m like

apologise for what? i heavily disagreed, no insults exchanged, no accusations of her being “wrong” all i did was disagree. No personal attacks made, she was even a mutual of mine who I respected and I saw no wrong in stating my issue with that specific post in calm manner.

I would love for them to point out where exactly i was mean, where emma apparently “bullied” people , and i would also appreciate these people rereading ops post, as she accused people of spreading misinformation solely for not agreeing with her. Her choice to deactivate her account was not anyone’s fault.

me and emma, @hrrtshape , respectfully expressed why we disagreed and why we thought some of what she said was harmful. If people can’t handle a discussion to the point of deactivating that’s not a matter i see myself wasting thought on.

So to anyone feeling offended on ops behalf (for like no reason 💀) please please please do not come to my page with all that bullshit, there is nothing i need to apologise for, nothing emma needs to apologise for, if op can express her opinion in PUBLIC and accuse other bloggers of spreading misinformation in PUBLIC, i am also free to speak my mind IN. PUBLIC. So im seeing these comments and asks like thanks but no thanks.

they’re acting like me and emma were the ones who gave “i’m right, you’re wrong” vibes, we weren’t the ones who stated our opinions as fact…

like are you guys allergic to a conversation where you’re being disagreed with…

[bloomzone]

hii!! im new to this entire girlblogging thing and it all seems so exciting and fun ><! it really motivates me

i dont really know how to go about it though :( like how do i girlblog?? what is girlblogging like exactly?? like i get the idea of it but what do u "exactly" do? sorry if this sounds silly 😭😭

and seriously i love love lovee ur page so much !! it has made me so much more productive and im satisfied with my progress :D

hope u have a great day ahead tysm for reading through this :3

hii angel !!

first of all you're so cute for this message and not silly at all i promise!! i was literally in your place once like staring at girlblogs thinking, “omg this is so pretty and motivating but... what do i actually do??”

so i’m super happy you asked here’s everything i’ve learned, and a veery siiimple way how to start a blog !

🗒️ i’m so sorry for not answering earlier or maybe my answer is not effective 100% i’ve been entering my exam season lately so things have been a bit crazy, and i haven’t had the time to talk much or reply to everyone in my inbox. i didn’t want you to feel ignored or left there especially after such a sweet and kind message like yours.

girlblogging isn’t about being perfect or aesthetic 24/7

it’s about showing up for yourself it’s like ur own little soft space on the internet where you post the things that matter to you, your goals, your routines, your messy thoughts, your progress, your healing or playlists .. whatever makes you feel like you.

you can make it look cute if you want (and trust me it's fun ) but the real magic is when you post with meaning.

when i started my girlblog…

i made this blog honestly because i needed to hold myself accountable. i was struggling with discipline, with staying on track, with self-worth... and i told myself:

“if i create a space where i act like i’m becoming the best version of me maybe i’ll actually become her.”

and that’s exactly what started happening.

so like when i post about discipline or motivation or glow ups ... I’m not just sharing advice. i’m reminding myself too j don’t post things just because they’re trendy. i post things that reflect where i am or where i want to be.

and once i achieve something i love sharing what helped me because maybe it'll help another girl too. THAT'S A GIRL BLOGGER

so how do you start?

this is what i recommend:

grab a piece of paper or just open your notes app and write:

what’s something i care about right now?

what’s helping me grow?

what’s something i wish i had guidance on?

and then start posting about that.

for example:

﹙ ✿ ﹚ if you’re focused on becoming more organized, post your routines, planners, study tips, or cozy to-do lists

﹙ ✿ ﹚ if you’re trying to glow up, post your skincare, your healthy habits, your challenges (10 days of productivity / 10 days for building a habits .... )

﹙ ✿ ﹚ if you’re healing, post your affirmations, journal prompts, or how you’re learning to treat yourself kindly

you don’t need a niche seriously.

girlblogging isn’t about fitting into a box. it’s not “only” skincare or “only” study stuff. it’s about being a whole human.

some girls post about beauty, some about healing, some about routines, some about faith or wellness or school or food or writing or dreams...

and some post about all of it.

how do you grow?

this part gets easier the more you enjoy what you’re posting (read that again.)

💌 post consistently (even small stuff counts! And always reblog stuff that inspir you)

💌 interact with other girlbloggers comment, follow, hype them up it builds the cutest community ever

💌 use tags like #girlblog #girlbogger #selfgrowth #studyblog ... it helps people find you

💌 and most importantly: be honest, be kind, and be real.

one of the most helpful things i learned:

→ post what you need to see not what looks cool not what everyone else is doing but what you wish someone had told you. what you needed when you were feeling lost.

that’s how my blog started growing when i began writing like i was helping my past self. and yes other girls needed those same words too so u don’t have to have it all figured out. you just need to start.

thank you again for saying such sweet things about my blog knowing it helped you feel productive and satisfied with your progress actually made me tear up you’re gonna do amazing, i can feel it and if you ever need support, inspiration, or anything i’m right here !

now go post something you love and let the journey begin<3

@bloomzone

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❁ཻུ۪۪♡ currently wandering around somewhere in Texas

❁ཻུ۪۪♡ asks and/or dms are open to everyone (except weird old men), Im very awkward and have terrible social skills so it might take a while for me to answer

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❁ཻུ۪۪♡ I tend not to post abt myself a lot as I’m a very anxious person but I try

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❁ཻུ۪۪♡ DNI: basics(racists, homo/transphobes, terfs, zionists, xenophobes, etc.), creepy old men, trumpies (or anything that aligns with MAGA ideology), and you weirdos that romanticize lolita and movies/books like it

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❁ཻུ۪۪♡ live, laugh, love Ville Valo, Johnny Knoxville, Evan Peters, and Norman Reedus

[apriciate]

WHO’s THAT TOY?

brought to you by your fave blogger, PARIS!

Welcome back to another scandalous edition of “WHO’s THAT TOY?” the only segment that keeps your obsession with APRICITY’s dating life alive and well! I’m your girl PARIS, and you KNOW I’ve got the juiciest tea fresh off the stove. Today’s main course? None other than Ms. Trinity herself, our resident Hot Girl CEO! And let me tell you, this girl has been MOVING lately.

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THE STREETS ARE TALKING…

You didn’t hear it from me (okay, maybe you did), but Trinity’s been spotted out and about with a mystery man! And not just a one time thing. Oh no, babe. We’re talking late night drives, club appearances, and some very cozy dinners. The last time she was seen leaving that swanky restaurant in Gangnam? He was right behind her with his hood up and face hidden, but cameras don’t lie. I even managed to get my hands on a few exclusive selfies from her IG story. But our girl likes to gatekeep and decided to plaster heart symbols right over that mug.

But let me spill a little extra for my loyal eiffel towers: there’s been talk that this isn’t just a “fling.” My sources (you know I got my girls everywhere) say Trinity’s been sneaking him into OPULENCE’s private events, making sure he’s always on the list under a different alias every time. The last one? “Mr. Hwang.” Be so for real, Trin! We see you!

It doesn’t stop there. Multiple fans have claimed they saw them cruising around Itaewon last weekend. Top down, hair flying, and him driving with his arm casually slung over her seat. At this point, I’m convinced Trinity is living the soft life on his dime, because why was he spotted at Chanel’s private shopping event right after?

A few blurry pics have been circulating on forums, too. Y’all know I don’t usually touch blurry evidence, but this one? You can see Trinity laughing with her head thrown back and arms hooked around his waist. The outfit matches one she posted on IG that same night, so, you do the math. Apparently, the two were spotted sneaking out the back door of a house party in Cheongdam-dong. Front door’s not good enough? Or are we avoiding a certain someone’s prying eyes?

She’s also been on one lately with her tweets, and I am living for it. If you follow her (and let’s be real, who doesn’t?), you’ve seen these gems:

What happened to APRICITY’s little miss sweet polly pocket that every knows and adores? One things for sure, I fear for her wellbeing. We all know OPULENCE doesn’t tolerate bullshit like this so I guess we’ll see how things play out.

THE VOTES ARE IN… ALMOST

I know y’all have theories, and I wanna hear them! WHO do we think is the man behind the heart?

the boytoy is…

💗 OATH’s ZION — they were spotted together at that rooftop party last year remember?!

💗 ROMEO HAN — their collabs seem way too convincing. are they really just acting?

💗 JACOB M. (Staff) — let’s not act like we didn’t see those clips of him checking her out behind the scenes of their company photoshoot!

VOTE NOW! I wanna see what you think!

TOP COMMENTS

? @/queenslvy : trinity bagging men left and right? i mean… is anyone surprised? she’s THAT girl ♡ = 10k likes

? @/mintychuu : lmao, watch it be romeo. opulence loves their messy pr couples! ♡ = 5.6k likes

? @/srslynomore : i just know she got that dude on a leash. pimping out here like it’s her full time job. ♡ = 2k likes

✎ [ PIN OF SHAME ] ? @/iluvalice : can she stop embarrassing herself? it’s giving desperate ♡ = 1.2k likes

REPLIED # ? @/whores4trini : why you mad? she’s living her best life and you’re watching it from a cheap cellphone. STAY PRESSED! ♡ = 20k likes

? @/trinsugarbby : nah because if it’s zion, IM GONNA LOSE IT! that man is FINE fine! ♡ = 7.1k likes

? @/jodylody : i’m just waiting for the company to force her to fake apologize for her tweets again lol. ♡ = 5k likes

[warmcoals]

dembly you argue in bad faith, you knowingly and meaningfully use cruel judgmental language to talk about other trans women in so many public situations over the years, you move the goalposts and cry victim and shout "no You're being mean to Me!" any time anyone points out this behavior, and you still try to claim ignorance even tho ppl have explained to you gently, even kindly, multiple times how your words hurt and the effect they have when combined with your blindly following audience.

and still you turn these followers against people like a mean girl commanding goonies, and still you say stuff like "isnt it good to be normal" one post behind "you girls are too weird." i genuinely hope you stop posting. i mean i expect your "private" personal blog will be full of vitriol or petty ideas but thats your business i suppose. just stop bringing other, impressionable trans people into your toxic orbit.

the reason we get to know and support and love each other online, as trans girls and such on here, is because we listen and share in our niche interests and get excited about things we don't know and listen with interest to learn abt and experience them. we are all mentally ill here, truly, but we're mostly working hard to be good friends and grow our social and media knowledge bit by bit, recapitulating all the chances to make friends and be understood and boosted and wanted that we never got before we were girls. it feels good, it turns out. it's really nice.

as a blogger who purposefully culminated a huge following based on sending asks and perceiving u as a micro-celebrity, u could have used yr platform to broadcast that message, of interest in different hobbies and personalities, of patience with girls who are more blunt or dont know boundaries yet, of always supporting selfies bc we all always look pretty, of trans women loving trans women. but since you transitioned youve just been biting and tearing, setting yourself apart from other girls, using language that the majority of us are clearly offended by, and calling us crazy for feeling that way. while still boosting a Brand. it's that which ill never forgive you for. im sick of it. go away

[trynafindbarbiee]

I want to vouch for barbie. Since im taking coaching from soya.

Even tho im not supposed to be in tumblr since she said it'll cause me to overconsume, I couldn't help but want to check around and see if you posted more of her success stories (they help massively btw thank you so much) and being met w a person saying that you're scamming us is crazy.

Soya, in my experience, really made me realize Loa and the void in general. She made everything click for me and would motivate me if i ever felt doubtful that i wont enter on my designated day.

Yes there have been scammers in the community but that doesn't mean that every coach that offers a payed (cheap service might i add) is a scammer!

its ridiculous. I had a gut feeling that someone would be mad about the fact that its not free and cause drama. this always happens

Another thing is how can you say that void success stories are unbelievable?? anything is possible when manifesting, be it using the void or not. We make the impossible, possible.

Also there was a poll on whether or not we want to see success stories from soya and the majority voted yes.

And the last thing that got me was the gaslighting bit....you cannot be serious? because she said "well what're you waiting for? go get your desired life"? if thats gaslighting then this entire community is gaslighting everyone. I cannot begin to count the amount of motivation posts that use variations of that exact phrase😭😭😭

promoting your friend's business is not manipulation nor is it gaslighting, its called being a good friend. And with that, many people finally achieved entering the void, which is worth more than 20 fucking dollars.

Anyways. Thank you barbie for introducing me to soya! This isn't shade towards any blogger. Its specific to the ask only.

Hope you have a nice day!🤍🤍🤍

" Another thing is how can you say that void success stories are unbelievable?? "

Yeah exactly, first u say everything is possible and then u go like "Also all the success stories seem so fake. I'm not one to doubt success stories but the first few all seem like they're the same Indian girl and then the last 2 sound like random fictional novels."

Huh..BTW thankyou for taking your time and writing this beautiful ask ! I genuinely appreciate it 🌷