#is it yaoi if one of them is nonbinary

[azurewrathicflame]

i posted this on my tiktok but i like this drawing a lot, i’ve been experimenting with procreate and a new brush so ive been drawing all day haha

also tiktok fucking frightens me so much, i’m not sure how much i’ll post there but yea!

forgot to put this here but pls like and reblog >_<!

[moociaoafterdark]

It's probably hard to kiss the Emperor, at least in his "Tots not a golden god, stop calling me a god, ignore my booming voice and my halo made out of pure light" form. Like,,, Brother's BIG. HUGE. ABSOLUTE UNIT. Meaning, if literally everything about him is big, his mouth is too. Like... If you try going in with the tongue, and he tries to reciprocate - you're gonna be choking on that thing like it's a fucking dick. Press F in chat for poor Malcador, man, that dude was getting gagged each time when he was just trying to kiss his homie on his hot mouth because they were feeling romantical.

I'm still gonna try to draw them making out, tho. I think it's hot.

[ace-ogato]

What’s your fav dynamic for unigato ?

I'm gonna be honest I'm like stupid. And I don't really know how to answer this, so I'm gonna use it as an excuse to ramble a bit and hopefully answer your question LOL

In mind, their whole Thing can be boiled down to being "Suspiciously Intimate Best Friends", which I have said before because I think that wording is funny. They're both extremely aro, to me, with Affogato giving zero thoughts to the concept of romance and Cream Uni probably being some sort of cupioromantic or nebularomantic. Both of them have next to no frame of reference for what is traditionally considered romantic vs. platonic (for various reasons) and just do whatever, hence the "Suspiciously Intimate" part. So to me they'd consider themself really good friends, but maybe down the line they can start using QPR as a label if they fucking learn about it (<- the use of the label would change nothing about their relationship tbh).

God I'm so ass at explaining

They've very "Guy who fucking sucks and nobody likes x Nice individual who's the only one who tolerates this fucking guy" which is a niche dynamic but one that is dear to me, because it's really funny. They give eachother a chance because there's a lot of shared ground between them, being that loneliness and self-inflicted isolation. There's a lot of differences in the reasons for, reactions to, and motives behind those similarities but they are THERE and that common ground goes such a long way. Cream Unicorn is one of the few people willing to give Affogato a second chance despite him being the way he is, and that would inherently draw Affo in. But Affogato can't really use this against Cream Uni because he has nothing to gain from them, so it's just a rare instance where he has a genuine shot at making a real connection with none of his own stupid bullshit getting in the way... Guys trust it's peak.

idk I just like the idea of two deeply lonely individuals finding comfort in eachother. They're fun... also I don't see it as Cream Unicorn "fixing" Affogato, hell no, their unique circumstances just kind of helped Affogato escape his own shortcomings in terms of connecting with people.

[startw1nk]

some new (lie) oc drawings!!

[infraredss]

a girl will do/say the most dorky, silly or stupid thing in the world and I will be like ooaoaoaogghhhhhh. make out with m ee

[fridgevespidae]

noooooo i thought we were past the 'can nonbinary ppl be considered gay' thing...... its 2025 why are ppl still asking this i havent seen this discussion in yrs

[hellpupp]

[ghostificati0n]

saw some comments on a jinshi n maomao and tamaki n haruhi art on pinterest where some children were asking if haruhi was a girl or not and what the anime was if she is

bro.... u dont get it... ull never get it......

[161-malefail]

Goretober +Day I: Cannibalism+

Cw: Gore, cannibalism, mildly suggestive (?)

A very rough sketch I did four days ago and forgot to upload on the first of October.

[woolydemon]

i am so apathetic to popular male transformers characters, but i have a simple trick to make me care abt them: i turn them into robot women then i suddenly start seeing their appeal

[beastshopping]

Might be doing Old Man Yaoi in Sims 4 lads

[chubby-aphrodite]

welcome to my fantrolls where we have toxic yuri AND toxic yaoi (and i didnt even realize it until just now)

[moetxt]

yoohankim throuple potential is truly insane. everyone already knows joongdok needs infinite kayfabe and infinite worlds to keep falling in love with each other; we're always working on that (and so is hsy). meanwhile yoohan is PURE cold war spy/assassin or "mr. & mx. smith" flavored nonbinary yaoi or worstie coworkers/colleagues/peers because yjh is at his core a metaslave, but hsy is a dungeon master; he cannot win her games. and finally, dokja and sooyoung by themselves are just rock paper scissors: the more one gaslights gatekeeps girlbosses, the more the other manipulates manwhores manslaughters, and vice versa, endlessly. that's why they need a gamer to declare a winner, be the winner, call them both losers, or commit arson.

[weeb-polls-with-pip]

Anime Awakenings Round 4 Side A Poll 3

Propaganda:

Haruhi -

"When I was a young kid she was sooooo gender to me and honestly she still is. Seeing someone who turned looks in both masc and femme clothing and be so comfortable being perceived as whatever gender made me hella envious. She'll be your handsome girl and your cute guy at the same time and little me wanted that more than anything. Also seeing her pull guys and gals of all types and her just being so nonchalant about not caring about gender whether it's hers, others, or who's attracted to really spoke to me. Now I'm a femboy trans guy and it's probably because of Haruhi and maybe her bisexual genderqueer dad, they're my icons."

"G E N D E R. I wish I could give as few fucks about my gender as Haruhi does about hers. Like, she does identify as a girl, but she genuinely does not care if people see her as a boy or a girl or something in-between, she just wants to be judged on her strength of character. And I was always so obsessed with that aspect of Haruhi's character literally from the first time I watched the anime five years before I started consciously questioning my gender."

"Seeing them disguised as a boy for most of the series (without being upset by it or seeing it as a joke even) made me understand I was transmasc better."

"Despite mostly using she/her, Haruhi's non-caring attitude about her gender helped me in my journey of learning my own nonbinary identity! She acknowledges she's afab but that means next to nothing to her! She doesn't care if people use he/him for her, she doesn't care if she's thought to be a boy by many others, she doesn't care whether she even presents as more feminine or masculine. Even if she's not canonically nonbinary, I consider her important to my journey in discovering I'm nonbinary."

"She gave me a deep desire to be a girl like her, because I've always wanted to be a tomboy when I transition, so she was a very early instance of that gender envy. Add in all the romantic situations she's in with girls as a host, really fed the lesbian in me."

"The fact I actually started the anime because I thought it was yaoi and I found the mc cute (because that's the kind of guys I was into at the time) and when I realized Haruhi was actually a biological girl the attraction stayed even when they were wearing girl clothes and I kinda had a bisexual huh. moment. Also not only did I want them I wanted to BE them, they looked good femme and masc and watching them be so chill about their gender was genuinely… enlightening? Idk all I know is I put less pressure in trying to be a "girl" after I finished the anime. Also just look at their big soft brown eyes, it had 12 y.o. me in a chokehold. Also, that anime was genuinely good when it came to fashion like there's some clothes trends there that no one wears today anymore for good reasons but the characters all somehow make it work still."

Utena -

"Her dressed as a knight and her relationship with Anthy made me even more sure that I was one of the sapphics."

[samusamab]

Objective Best Rooks for Each Companion Romance

Just finished my first full playthrough of Veilguard, so I now feel qualified to talk about the best/funniest rook race/class/faction combos for each companion romance. As always, feel free to argue if you want, but remember at the end of the day my opinions are always right (Government Mandated: this is a joke)

(PS: Race opinions may not be included, sue me. Also, light spoilers below, obviously. I'm pretty sure I got all the spoiler tags, but here's your fair warning just in case.)

Bellara: Grey Warden rogue. The bodice ripper girlie deserves a roguishly charming parter who is also a little dark and tortured, as a treat. Dating a Grey Warden feels like as close as Dragon Age gets to dating a superhero (but like, a broody one) and I think Bellara would love that dynamic. I have no strong opinions on race, but we'll say Qunari.

Taash: Elf Mournwatcher Mage. I may be biased, but I just finished a Mournwatcher Taash run, and seeing the way they talk about necromancy with Rook compared to Emmrich is so funny. Besides I think they'd enjoy a little goth elf to throw around.

Harding: The same combination as your inquisitor. Nothing better to me than establishing Harding having a strong type. Also very funny to imagine the inquisitor meeting Rook, the new partner Harding keeps telling them about, and they're a little too similar. Make Lace a little weirder and more fucked up (affectionate), she deserves it.

Davrin: Lord of Fortune Rogue. I see your "Davrin doesn't like the Crows because they're killers for hire" and raise you, faction of pirates and thieves that are literally just in it to beat people up and get as much loot as possible. It would be like if Isabella and Blackwall were a couple. I rest my case.

Emmrich: Mourn Watcher Mage. Listen, I know I already did this one, but let me be a little lazy. Admittedly, I am not an old man yaoi enjoyer (though I believe in their beliefs). So this one is mostly based around the idea of you Rook leaving to save the world, and ending up romancing the man who would've been their necromancy doctorate advisor.

Neve: Veil Jumper Warrior. Hear me out here, I'm obsessed with that one Neve voice line that reveals she knows nothing about the outside. Give her a wild child ranger-coded partner who lives in the cursed magic woods and would speedrun winning a season of Survivor. Make her have to go on hiking dates, it's enrichment.

Lucanis: Shadow Dragon Mage. Look, I know this is just Neve in a different font. But I'm obsessed with that Taash line about Lucanis and Neve dating where she implies their relationship has a predator-prey dynamic because he's a mage killer. Not that Lucanis is that kinky, but a Rook can imagine. Even if it ends up the other way, I'm all game for a short king magehunter getting tied up by his mage-dom.

Honorable Mention: I think it would be hilarious to romance Taash as an AFAB-Nonbinary Qunari Lord of Fortune. Just helping your hot coworker speedrun all of your own past life experiences. Please let me know if you've done this, and if it was worth it.

[this-is-exorsexism]

kind of tired of people who ship a popular ship in my fandom (she/her canonically character x canonically they/them character) calling it yuri

I get that there isn’t a nonbinary equivalent to yaoi/yuri but just because one character is a girl doesn’t mean the other (CANONICALLY ENBY) is fem or girl adjacent?

this is exorsexism.