#mod erin

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You when antis tell someone to kill themselves: "That's bad!"

You when someone tells antis to kill themselves: "Time for a reblog with no tag for suicide baiting!"

https://www.tumblr.com/just-antithings/762416041882238976

Oops, your mask slipped ):

truly incredible reading comprehension on your part, but what else should I expect from the piss on the poor website. try not to hurt yourself with that kind of reach

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when antis reblog posts from radfems/terfs and try to excuse this with “this doesn’t mean anything because clearly I am queer and not transphobic!” it’s giving me “my bigotry is different than that of the people I claim to not support!” vibes

if you (general) don’t actually agree with radical feminism, why are you reblogging posts from people who state very openly that they’re radical feminists? Is it because you think policing people’s gender identities and being against kinks / taboo fantasies or being pro kink shaming is the new wave of queer “liberation”? Are you an idiot?

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What’s up with antis putting fudanshis in their dni? With fujoshis they pretend it’s to protect gay men but then they ban gay men?

Also I’ve noticed people will exclusively insult you by calling you a fujoshi if you’re a trans man, which is. Hm

I think it’s bc for the most part they have no idea what fundashi means. also it’s the radfem rhetoric

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idk why but this anti thinks it's ok expose minors to my blog bc i wanted my friend to draw something involving an inside joke.

this one sided beef has gone on for 2+ years now and i had to alert the police because they or someone they hired doxxed my home address along with my phone number.

kids these days have way too much free time

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an important fyi

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Your daily reminder that exclusionists are scum

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Yall need some new material

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I just want to make a small rant: I love that the antis are going back to the 'how dare you fetishize mlm' thing again, they'd taken a little break on it for a few years. As a gay man, I love seeing these supposedly inclusive and 'protector' puritans tell me that my very existence and any relationship I have (fictional or IRL) is not a real relationship, but a sick fetish. Thanks for being homophobic, gals. Thanks a bunch. I was starting to relax a little too much.

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Antis have genuinely distorted the way people see age online

For context im about to turn nineteen. I've been feeling more and more guilty about still being into fandom and having hobbies instead of spending 99% of my time looking for a job and talking about taxes or whatever the fuck antis think grown adults do.

Antis have created this narrative that the moment you turn 20 you should immediately drop everything you love and get a dead end job and be miserable for the rest of your life. And if you don't do that you're weird and creepy and a freak who's probably a pedo/s

Seeing people in their 20s being called freaks for still writing fanfics or just having fandom related hobbies in general makes me wanna throw my phone into a lake and never log on ever again

Since when is 27 considered old???? Do these ppl think humans just drop dead at 30????

yeah it’s both ridiculous and depressing

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by far the wildest shit i’ve ever seen. idek where to begin with this

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Good luck! I look forward to seeing yall tear each other apart in the process

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Lol. Lmao, even.

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To all the people yelling about people "not writing enough f/f or even just women in general": Trying to write female canon characters is exhausting af. There's often so much baked in misogyny that one has to try to either write around or avoid or worse: actively choose to keep. And that means doing emotional labor of plunging yourself into that, for free, for people who will scream at you that you did it wrong anyways. Most slash fans are women, or people otherwise affected by misogyny. Women who don't want to try to wrangle a character out of a mess of misogynistic tropes. Especially when they're almost certainly going to be yelled at about how they're doing it wrong. (If they get feedback at all). People demanding more people write female characters and femslash (for free) are demanding some pretty damn intense emotional labor from, most often, other women. Of wading into the characters and trying to navigate the misogyny baked into a lot of them. Try to extract Kairi Kingdom Hearts from the misogyny baked into her character: actually really think about it. And then think about what parts you need to keep in order for the story you're writing to still work. Or think about what parts you need to remove and how that will affect what you're writing. Say you're writing a canon-compliant Kindgom Hearts fic. If you remove the misogyny to the best of your ability: will that change things in a way that means your fic is no longer canon compliant? Do you expect someone to think about that and do it for you? For free? When they are writing for fun in their spare time and could instead grab Saix or Sora and NOT have to dive into misogyny?

And even when people DO take the time to perform the emotional labor and time and energy to wade through the misogyny baked into some of these characters? Chances are they'll see a much lower viewer turnout. Readers don't want to risk tripping over bad writing or misogynistic tropes, either. And if they do get a turnout... chances are it's going to be someone telling them they Did it Wrong. When people give one-note female characters actual nuance, readers throw fits. If they don't write pure soft and tender uwu f/f people (especially antis) throw fits. Write a villain AU? People lose their shit. Write a toxic relationship between women? People lose their shit. Explore a dynamic that is anything beside perfect sweet innocent sexless uwu and you're likely to get eaten alive for being "fetishistic". And frankly, even the perfect sweet innocent sexless uwu is likely to get you accused of some shit.

If you want more femslash or just female characters to be explored more in general, you guys have GOT to start being real fucking normal about people who DO write it, and also writing more of it all yourselves. You have to start letting people do badly at it. You have to start letting people be fucked up about it. You have to start actually helping others write sex between two women. You have to start being normal about female characters, yourselves.

And you gotta accept that if you're not willing to do the work yourself, you can't get upset that no one else is willing to, either.

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https://youtube.com/shorts/lkTe2ECv-lE?si=o5mGshl89vMipwHO

"FIXING PROSHIPPER ART"

AND IT'S FUCKING WILLIAM & ELIZABETH AGAIN DOING NORMAL FATHER-DAUGHTER STUFFS

HELL IT'S FROM THE SAME ARTIST THAT ANTIS KEEP HAVING PROBLEMS WITH

Ugh

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one again BAFFLED by people telling me I can't write about trans men being happy to get pregnant. i am a trans man with 3 bio kids and i was never once dysphoric while i was pregnant. in fact my big family wanting preg kink ass was having a GREAT time lmaoo

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I don't know the full picture, but the photo looks innocent

I don’t think antis are okay