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Do I low-key have the hots for my teacher? Maybe
I am weirded out by it? Oh yes, definitely
#my mind immediately goes to those messed up teacher x au fics i (used to) read#always thought having a crush on your teacher was weird. now look at me#and this was all made worse when my friend jokingly made a comment about us standing close to each other#after i told her i had to keep following him so he would give me full advice on smth#and she doesnt like him but i dont think he is a bad teacher. today i told her about having a private feedback session with him#(barely anyone showed up to get feedback from the teachers)#anyway i said that to my friend and i quickly realised that i sounded wrong (dirty) and she DEFINITLY noticed that and made another comment#my friend is a bully and makes it weird#but in my defense: i dont have control of who i like and what my type is#and i cant help it that he is kinda cute#okay jokes aside. he is a nice guy and a somewhat good teacher (with anxiety which makes him more likeable and relatable and funny)this guy#teacher crush
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C'mon... Really? Really?
Another person around with my blog that's openly riding the "I hate BakuDeku and everything about it is bad!" train?
After all my posts????
My goodness! What's happening lately? Has something happened to make so many people openly scream about these 2? Am I missing out on an event! I'm baffled, this hasn't happened so much before (·︿· `)
I'm sad! They were a fic writer too!
One last time! Then I'm going to update my pinned post:
I don't block people unless it's a very last resort, but I'm going to block anyone who explicitly, unnecessarily, and constantly complains about BakuDeku.
You can hate the ship, you can not want anything to do with it - I'm not a shipper, I get it! That's not my issue
But if you go out of your way to make hating a ship your entire personality to the point where you need to drag everyone around you down with you, then I can't let you hang around my blog anymore and risk having people harass my friends :-(
(please please please please just be nice! Please just be a nice person! Please please just stop harassing people! For me? Please it's so easy-)
I'm getting so tired of this
#what on Earth is happening though guys#i only hang out on Tumblr is something happening or are people all just deciding to be mean for the fun of it?#at the same time?#I'm so confused#i recently had the lovely experience of seeing a post reblogged by a fellow fic writer#only for them to bring up BakuDeku even then it was completely unrelated?#i don't know they seemed so nice only for me to look a little further into their blog#and find a ton of these posts :'(#i get it's not a popular ship and all but don't all ships have their issues? geez louise#i root for the underdog so even though i don't personally ship anything I'll defend my friends#ships and really anyone's who's getting unnecessarily bullied in all honesty#gah! what the heck??#it's so weird#if anyone wants me to make them a gif like that then please let me know! i made it in like 5 minutes lol#💬#📢#💢#my hero academia#boku no hero academia#bnha#mha#seriously though where are they coming from now??#bakudeku
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really bad sonic take that i still remember every once in a while because of how outrageously awful and out of character it was is that sonic would be ableist and mock people with mobility issues for being slower than him . he would NOTTTTTTT fucking say that
#honestly the idea that sonic would randomly make fun of people for being slower than him is already weird#because from what i remember he only really pokes fun at people's speed if theyre a rival of his who claimed to be faster first#and even in that context its not usually in a mean-spirited way on sonic's part#when it comes to everyone else he doesnt care hes literally been shown to slow down a bit so his friends can keep up with him more easily#and hes made comments about how its okay that not everyone is a super fast runner or a good fighter or whatever#but bringing disability into it and saying hed be mean to disabled people for being slow is extra weird#because hes literally been shown to be completely normal about disabled people#and not have a habit of mocking them or treating them as lesser or anything#(examples being the episode of sonic x where he takes helen on an adventure#and also arguably his entire relationship with tails counts too. like maybe some wouldnt consider an extra tail to be a disability but#having a part of your body that works differently from everyone else's in a way thats considered not normal and being bullied for it#sounds pretty disabled to me)#people will not know a thing about sonic and just go online and say whatever#also sonic is actually disabled himself didnt you know . my source is that im disabled and i like him
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@drifting-stars-mabel
The "post from another Dipper blog" that you included in your post "just intended to spread awareness" reads like this:
"You're getting publicly shamed."
"That's stupid. You're gross. Like really gross."
Yeah, this seems like a very fair post intended to "let people know" and not intended to harass or bully a kid. It's laughable that this post says "he is twelve years old" when the minor you're all bullying is real and actually that young.
None of you give a fuck about real people in the slightest, do you?
@pinetreethefinetree
And you said, "should they be writing the things that they are? No." Oh my God! Who the hell cares?? This isn't about shipping! (Or, well, it is, because none of you have real problems to care about.) But it shouldn't be — it should be about leaving people alone and blocking those who make you uncomfortable, not about harassing a kid into giving an apology that they don't even understand.
This is what you all are enabling with defending call out posts. "This guy should kill himself." "I knew there was something off about him." "I know what my next YouTube video will be about." ALL THIS HAS DONE IS ESCALATE THE SITUATION WHEN A SIMPLE BLOCK WOULD HAVE SOLVED THE PROBLEM.
As far as I'm concerned, you're bullies. Everyone supporting this ridiculous call out post against a kid is participating in targeted harassment.
#gravity falls#proship#''they made me soooo uncomfortable'' BLOCK THEM BLOCK THEM BLOCK THEM OH MY GOD IT'S SO SIMPLE IT'S SO EASY#i mean i clown on weirdos online too!! when people are weird to me i take screenshots and make fun of them—#—IN PRIVATE WITH MY CLOSE FRIENDS WHO I TRUST NOT TO HARASS ANYONE#I LAUGH ABOUT IT AND BLOCK THEM AND THEN MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE#i DON'T put people on blast to bully them#congrats guys. you exposed a kid to her first death threat#good fucking job.
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where's that post about how USamericans talk about gifted kid programs like it was a supersoldier program. it makes me laugh so hard
#y'all have made the so-called gifted kid experience feel so totally unrelatable#i always loved being the so called smartest in class#still do#no angst about it#like yeah i was bullied but it wasn't because i was smart. it was bc i was fat and had poor social skills and tbh#you don't need to be gifted to be bullied for those reasons#my experience was weird bc i always had the best grades etc but never actually made it into any of the programs#my score for the IQ test was actually too low#which is funny. maybe i'm just insane#my best friend in hs did make it into the program and he definitely did think he was smarter than me for that reason#but now he is in the navy and i am not so. speaks for itself#WAIT. supersoldier program omfg ...#also i say gifted experience in the same way that like. idk. being part of math club can be an experience#it's not a real inherent thing to you as a person#i just get annoyed at how ppl talk about it like it makes them part of an oppressed class like dude omfg. even as a kid#i knew i wasn't being bullied for being smart. in fact it was honestly the only part of me that made ppl think i had social value#which is fucked up. but it's not oppression for being smart
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ok but can we talk about the transition from being the weird unattractive girl/boy as a kid to suddenly being percieved as a hot gay person bc that shit is so jarring. but also like really wholesome? like wow I don’t have to conform to cishet expectations of attractiveness and actually people find me really attractive for the natural way I look and present myself. that’s so wild.
#inspired by a convo with a friend today lol#but also like. I so distinctly remember having this realization when I was like 13!!!#bc while I never felt ugly I WAS the weird nerd girl who got bullied a fair bit#and then one day a little while after coming out as bi I was thinking and suddenly was like.#wait a minute. I’m gay and I like girls with short hair. gay girls like other girls with short hair. I have short dyed hair.#I AM the cute girl with short hair!! woah!!!!!!!#it just opens up your world a bit yknow??? like there’s not just one way to be attractive#and also judging yourself only by the standards of the average cishet man or woman’s taste can make you feel so undesirable#but the way queer people love is so much more varied and accepting and it’s so freeing#anyways. I love entering my ‘wait holy shit I can pull’ era.#like I always knew I had it in me and I’ve always been confident but now it’s validated lmaooo#I always knew I was pretty as hell!!! I knew it!!! even if boys pretended to like me in order to bully me!!!
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being autistic in the bad at social stuff way has mostly just made me sad my whole life
#it’s like i want to make new friends but every time i try it’s like im doing it wrong and it’s like everyone else in the world got this#guide on how to be a normal human being and they didn’t give me a copy so i’m just floating around breaking rules i didn’t know about#it’s like a combination of bullying and terrible parents made me#socially fucked up enough and then my brain doesn’t know to fix it and i keep trying to wrong things#and in person i seem okay because ive gone to the same school forever and some normal people have adopted me as their weird awkward friend#and boys have always been nice to me because i’m hot but it’s like#what if i want to be more than the pity friend or the girl you befriend because you wanna hit#what if i wanna be normal and fit into groups#what do i do then? just kms?#sry for the rant#delete later
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whats the weirdest thing you’ve ever normalised
i wanted to try to find something a bit lighter to say but there's genuinely nothing light in anything weird that i have normalised, SO.
i guess the weirdest thing i have normalised is exclusion, like actively excluding people and being very open about it. i wasn't the one doing that, it was done to me in middle school and that was part of the bullying i was subjected to, tho the adults (especially the teachers) were the ones who made me normalise it and bullying in general, because they constantly repeated to me like on a daily basis that bullying didn't exist and neither did exclusion, and therefore of course A 12 YEARS OLD IS GOING TO NORMALISE THAT
#to this day i still have trouble accepting that those were the things happening to me#the weird thing is that when i saw it happening to others i knew it was wrong and it wasn't normal#but i was incapable of saying that to myself#like i blamed myself a lot and the adults around me at school made sure i did that#(it was done to many other kids getting bullied in that school not just me)#and that was because they didn't want a bad reputation and because at the time there wasn't a law against bullying#and also because the parents of the group of bullies were friends with the headmaster who was also the head of my class and my teacher#i don't wanna go deeper into details about the other things that used to happen to me and what it has done to my mental health#but today as an adult i wholeheartedly blame the adults more than the bullies#and i'm very much angrier towards them than towards those who did those things to me#because those were adults they were teachers and they had to protect me#as they had to protect many others in that school#but they didn't even try#and i hope that one day i will get to meet the headmaster again just to tell him everything i think of him and how much of a shitty teacher#and person he is#also because i know that many people had to go to therapy because of the way he handled bullies and bullying#he ruined so many young people when he was supposed to help them#just to make you understand the person he was (and is) i remember one time when i was 12 when he checked on me asking me how things were#and i said that i did not care if they did something to me but i did not want them to target my brother with fatphobic jokes#and he looked at me (a 12 years old he was in his 40s/50s) dead in the eye and said “your brother is old enough to defend himself”#my brother was 13#this teacher was the headmaster#not gonna reread the tags and the post because this triggers me a bit BUT THANK YOU FOR THE QUESTION!!!#just a reminder that it is never alright to normalise these things#if i made any typo you know why mwah#asks#bullying tw#tw bullying
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i had to listen to multiple people admit to wanting to kill/abandon their baby if it came out autistic or special needs and i had to just sit there in disbelief.
this is so normalized ts isnt a joke it makes me scared and im not even autistic or special needs (well im not 100% sure actually.) but still it hurts and has hurt my heart for years when i see people talk down to autistic people like they’re babies or the evilest people alive like uhm…buddy you’re harassing someone over something they cant control that will never be funny in my eyes. never has been and never will. why worry about others? you have a life of your own. focus on yourself and what you’re going to do with you life.
#im sorry this has just been brewing in my head for the longest#and it got heightened monday when i saw a friend of mine laughing at the jokes and even playing into it#its scary#you want to kill slmeone because their brain doesn’t operate the same way yours does?#how closeminded and selfish can you be.#its like that with self expression as well#dont break societial rules or you’ll be ‘weird’ or bullied#that makes zero sense to me#we weren’t created in a copy machine#we all arent going to be the same#and thats okay#differences are good#changes are okay#you dont have to bully others because they dont fit into the rules youve boxed yourself in#that’s genuine loser activity#you shouldnt be worried about what someone’s wearing if youre not wearing it#anyways rant over guys im STARVED
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a friend who'd wait :)
#im posting this very late because i was sort of weary of how it came out and ended up messing w it until it was like 4am oops.#and i have plans tmrw so... oh well! i did my best and ill put it out while i can!#and i tried to make the scene match barnard's colors lol#finn's ocs#finn's art#i know i said id do more sillay stuff with the simpler screentone only style but i had a couple more of these in me#and this is the first piece im making thats like an actual part of the story too rather than just setting stuff for fun#i wanna write something to go with it too but for now ill just sort of briefly explain the context in the tags here:#barnard has a pretty bad case of OCD and his compulsions have made it difficult to make friends in the past#he was never outright bullied or anything but people just didnt really have the patience to deal with it#he has compulsions that include stuff like walking through doors until it feels right and needing things to be perfectly aligned#which in group settings has lead to people having to wait for him to finish his rituals and join them#they might find it tolerable at first but eventually they grow impatient and hes just... not invited to stuff anymore#but juno is a newer member of the guild who ends up frequenting the same library. hes also kinda a little weird#and they dont become fast friends or anything but just sort of naturally spend time in the same place#though they never plan meetups they eventually fall into a routine. around the same time theyd just both be at the library#and read next to each other. and maybe talk a bit. and eventually they end up walking back to the guildhall together#since theyre going to the same place after all. and juno always waits for barnard outside the door#eventually barnard asks if this bothers him. juno kinda just tells him 'of course it does' without any malice or anything. just a statement#barnard is surprised and apologizes and juno says not to. but the next day juno doesnt show up at the usual time.#barnard assumes hes committed somekinda more by bringing it up. he ends up staying there late reading to get his mind off it & not ruminate#but when he leaves juno is in fact still waiting for him down the hall (see pic) having collected a bunch of books literally abt ocd#he fell asleep bc barnard stayed later than expected. and hes an eepy guy generally. and also one very bad at expressing himself#but now barnard gets that juno's 'of course it [bothers me]' had the implication of 'but its worth it' which no friend has previously done.#and from the interaction juno was also able to understand that this isn't something barnard just does for the hell of it so. he studies.#and checks a bunch of stuff out because he thinks it could help his friend too (theres ocd workbooks and such- i remember working w them)#and thats the point where they became more ''friends'' than ''pleasant library acquaintances''#from there on they also do get into juno's problems. whole other bag of worms. but this specific scene is more about bernard from his pov#sorry about when i said briefly explain. i lied </3#but compared to the whole sequence im picturing its brief so shhh
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Borrowed a novelisation of Castrovalva from my university’s Doctor Who society and brought it home with me, and the thing is it has an absolutely dogshit cover, just cringe as fuck, and I accidentally left it on my fucking bed and my dad walked in and picked it up and looked at it and made a noise somewhere between confusion and amusement and then left. And I just started questioning my entire life and what I was even doing wasting it on this silly stupid sci-fi show and how my choices had led me here.
#I was literally watching p.r.o.b.e on the Internet archive the other day too and then I listened to a big finish audio.#I am beyond salvation#I’m in deep#I want to get off this fucking train but I missed my stations and now I don’t know where to get off#doctor who#I feel like I’ve circled all the way back to my BATIM era#like I had a good thing going for a couple of years where j&h was my most prominently expressed interest#and that was good because it was a bit weird but it was also like. a classic of English lit#and I could talk about jstor essays about it and stuff#like an intellectual#whereas in my BATIM phase I was kind of trapped between all consuming interest#and a constant awareness of my own cringeness#and I still like j&h but at a certain point you exhaust the adaptations you can easily access#and therefore talk about#without circling back to the same points and ideas as before#and now I’ve tripped down the stairs straight back into my ‘shit that is poorly written by hacks 9/10’ bullshit#and it’s just like. man. can I be free.#can I escape#can I have interests that don’t make me seem like a weirdo#I think in that moment I did legitimately astral project back to one time when I was 12 and I was wearing a bendy shirt#and someone asked me what it was and I had to tell them#and then they and their friends all looking at me in like disapproval and amusement#and it embarrassed me so much I walked around holding my violin to my chest so no one could see the logo#and then never wore those shirts again unless I had a hoodie or a coat over them#also when I read the bendy books and people would ask me what they were#and I would have to relive that experience all over again#I was basically known as ‘the bendy girl’ for most of my secondary school years by both my bullies and my friends#even after I had started trying to distance myself from it#and now I’m at uni and everyone knows me as like. doctor who girl. and I’m like oh god It’s Happening Again.
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ive definitely talked about this story before but the one time i dated like just a regular cis girl i threw up on all three of our dates in a row. and then i broke up with her LOL OOPS SORRY
#i genuinely dont know what my problem was. i think it was a mixture of like#okay. this stories so convoluted but i did Not like this girl. i had a crush on our mutual friend who i was like. i dont know. we werent#fwb's but me and her would make out pretty regularly and she said i helped her realize she was trans and it was like a Thing but also she#scared the fuck out of me once because she was like LETS PUT A DEAD BIRD INFRONT OF (girl this stories about) FRONT DOOR#and i was like !?!?!?!? NO. WHAT THE FUCK?!#and she called me a pussy so i walked home. okay thats unrelated. anyways i did not like the cis girl she liked shame dawson and believed#ghosts were real and said my autism was probably caused by the fact that i had an oujia board (...a 2021 version from hasbo i bought at a#toy store. i was like dude shut up) but anyways she asked me out while she was my only ride out of town and i was scared she was going to#leave me there so i said yes. anyways. i threw up in her car on the way home LOL#AND EVERYONE HAD TO RIDE HOME IN MY PUKE. SOIRRY GUYS#and then we went to taco bell for a date and i had like some sort of weird neurological episode and projectile vomited in the bathroom for#an hour and fucking. someone who worked there asked me if i needed them to call 911 and the worker was A GUY WHO WAS BULLYING ME AT MY#FUCKING SCHOOL.AND I WAS LIKE NO I CANT FUCKING AFFORD AN AMBULENCE DO NOT CALL THEM#uhhhh and then on our third date it was at a round table and we were on a double date w our shared friends and eventually they pulled me#aside and were like dude i dont like the way she talks to you its really weird. and that was enough to make me barf in the bathroom and#immediately break up with her#ANYWAYS...#. JDSMGKJDSBHGMKDSJGHUFDOIJHU#I WAS DOING THAT FUCKING SOUTHPARK BIT FOR REAL
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Justin said I smell nice and I told him it was one of my wizard smells, and then we got silly with it because of course we did
#dnd#dungeons and dragons#dragonborn#druid#gnome#wizard#the zhartook quote is verbatim but I think my actual (initial) response was 'SURPRISE IDIOT IT'S ME >:)' skjhgjkdfg#this was in character in spirit of course but I'm allowed to editorialize my own blorbo bullying her friend#also for the record this isn't flirting on either end-- STRICTLY teasing on mel's part they have absolutely no interest in each other#he's A Kid and she sees him as A Kid but that just makes it funnier to give him a hard time about stuff like this gfkjhkfd#in other news this perfume is good for her but not quite perfect; I've been blending Sigil with Industrial Sabotage#which *I* like but it definitely IS like... Weirder. maybe less palatable lol#sigil is another 'wizardly incenses' type blend and sabotage smells like gunpowder and burnt wires#also yes of COURSE I found a website selling Weird Wizard Perfumes and bought a bunch of Weird Samples for my OCs lol#zhartook#my OCs#melliwyk#vale walkers#dungeons and doodles
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wild how parents and doctors cant catch autism in "girls" but every other child in school can
#my neurodivergency is how i made all my friends and bullies#like literally lol#the more i think about how i struggled in childhood the more ridiculous my mother's instant complete disbelief when i told her i think im#autistic feels#like cmon ma you were there when i was having meltdowns you watched me be a Very Weird Kid and struggle to make friends#autism#autistic#my nonsense
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We need to protect furries, especially kid and teen furries I am so fucking serious
#megan whines into the empty abyss of cyberspace#my volunteen is the brightest most vivacious kid you've ever met and she talks about the bullying she faces constantly#like it's just inevitable and no big deal#two of her friends have parents who've threatened to kick their kids out of the house for having homemade masks#AT FOURTEEN#fourteen years old and these kids have to hide from their parents#over what is essentially elaborate role-playing not even counting how many furries are queer and/or neurodivergent#it makes me sick how much hate people have for children with weird hobbies
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If that is what you got from me making a post where I joke about how actual society off of the Internet isn’t going to crucify me or harass me for enjoying something perceived weird, and thinking differently than the average person, all while staying in my own lane (and this isn’t even talking about me expressing that a lot of this is - probably - because of autism meaning my brain is LITERALLY WIRED DIFFERENTLY BUT THATS OKAY) I genuinely question your compassion for people who are different than you.
Like.
I honestly do worry how you handle meeting someone who’s just a bit different than you. You must be someone who immediately bullies someone you think is weird, even if they have done nothing to you except have fun.
#news flash! it’s okay to be weird!#it’s okay to enjoy weird shit!#and it doesn’t make you a ‘psycho’ or whatever!!#as someone raised with the family mantra of ‘let your freak flag fly’ I’ve always known it was okay to be the weird person#being weird makes you unique!!!#idk if anon can comprehend this but I actually have multiple friends who aren’t in fandom who LOVE hearing me update them about fandom#my sibling asks me constantly if there is new fandom drama#whenever I meet up with another friend one of the first things she asks me is what’s going on with Harry#I literally ranted to my husband’s best friend yesterday about fandom#and I have given (a requested) speech at a dnd game once to explain larrie#and even if none of those people believe it#or think it’s a little odd#they still enjoy my company#they still find me perfectly sane#because! being weird! isn’t a crime!#everyone would love much happier lives if we embraced our inner freak side#insert ‘don’t dream it be it’ from rocky horror picture show here#(okay actually people irl DO bully others for being weird and collectively as society we know THOSE are the bad people)#(but these anons don’t really understand nuance here)
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