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i propose that instead of pride month, we have queer year (queer people are treated like actual people all year long)
edit: @ilackhumanqualities wins best addition to this post

#queer#pride month#pride#asexual#aromantic#aroace#agender#aspec#acespec#arospec#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtplus#lgbt+#lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#transgender#nonbinary#genderfluid#genderqueer#intersex#aplatonic#gay#lesbian#bisexual#pansexual#multigender#i don’t usually tag things with 40 billion tags#i started quizzing myself on how many i could name but so many got deleted bc of tag limit#described
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LGBTQ+ folk what was your gender/sexuality pipeline?
#For me it was#Cis AroAce -> Cis Biromantic Ace -> Cis Bisexual -> Questioning Bisexual -> Genderfluid Bisexual#Technically still Aspec as I'm Placiosexual as well but people get too confused when I try to explain that#Idk in general my sexuality is really all over the place so its hard to completely set one label for it#also currently wondering if I might be Demiromantic#lgbtq community#lgbtqia#queer#transgender#transfem#transmasc#genderfluid#gender#genderqueer#nonbinary#bisexual#gay#lgbt#questioning#asexual#aroace#aspec#aromantic#demisexual#lesbian
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Happy pride month to those who stay closeted out of fear of rejection from friends and family.
Happy pride month to those who have tried to come out but had people flat out deny their queerness and not respect their identity.
#lgbtq#lgbtq rights#lgbtq pride#lgbtq community#pride month#gay#gay pride#trans#trans rights#trans pride#transgender#trans man#transmasc#nonbinary#genderfluid#aromantic#asexual#aroace#aroallo#aspec#arospec
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now that my post about breaking down one's idea of what a woman looks like has circulated for a while (thank you all), i'm now going to make this post, as i do not want people to derail that specific conversation, nor this one.
we also must break down our idea of what a man looks, acts, sounds, behaves, and presents like.
men are not cis, het, allosexual or highly sexual beings, tall, muscular, strong, hairy, deep voiced, broad chested/shouldered, emotionless, mean, aggressive, unemotional, uncaring, distant, cold, stoic, heartless, standoffish, bread winners, bad/absent fathers, macho, obligated to work despite disabilities, or obligated to be "the man of the house."
men are people. first and foremost.
men are allowed to express just like anyone else. men do not have to be pillars of their communities. no obligation. men are allowed to be disabled, tired, weak, emotional, caring, compassionate, asexual, aromantic, friendly, warm, in need of support, neurodivergent, mentally ill, chronically ill,and have personality disorders. men have their own struggles and we have to stop telling them to "suck it up" and "move on" and "pull yourself up by your boot straps".
we are forcing men to do this: this is a cage of our own design.
once we dismantle this idea of how a man "should" be, once more: we will move past radfeminism, patriarchy, trans/androphobia, and fostering a culture where this is an acceptable way to treat men. it's not. we must allow men to be diverse. we must allow men to be who they are on the inside
#lgbtqia#lgbtq#lgbt#queer#trans#transgender#gay#transmasculine#transmasc#trans man#trans men#nonbinary#non binary#ftm#genderqueer#genderfluid#multigender#bigender#enby#queer men#queer men of color#bisexual men#gay men#gay man#bisexual man#trans guy#aromantic#asexual#aspec#aspectrum
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if people don't support ALL LGBTQIA+ they're a shame to the community
#LGBTQIA+#LGBTQ+#lesbian#gay#bisexual#trans#queer#intersex#ace#asexual#aro#aromantic#aspec#aspectrum#graysexual#grayromantic#biromantic#bigender#agender#nonbinary#enby#genderfluid#polysexual#polyromantic#pan#pansexual#panromantic#demigirl#demiboy#bi
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Shout-out to all my sad gays.
Shout-out to every lesbian not from Lesbos.
Shout-out to all my bi's who are just one person.
Shout-out to all my pans who prefer to hit people with pots.
Shout-out to all my polys who are one sided.
Shout-out to all my average omnis.
Shout-out to all my aros who can barely use a nerf gun, let alone a bow.
Shout-out to all my aces who aren't athletic.
Shout-out to all my trans folk who need to get something off their chest (or don't, shout-out to y'all too).
Shout-out to all my grays who are multicolored.
Shout-out to all my demis that are whole.
Shout out to all my aspecs that are part of absolutely nothing.
Shout-out out to all my unlabeled folks who are limited by their lack of motivation.
Shout-out to all my apls with food allergies.
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Shout-out to all my heteros that are carbon copies of another hetero.
Shout-out to all my cats.
(edit) So, this ended up way more popular than I anticipated. So, here's a few more, and they're all equally bad, as you'd expect.
Shout-out to all my xenos that're native to their countries.
Shout-out to all my cis comrades that are a part of the opposition.
Shout-out to all the external Indigiqueers (this only makes sense if you know the etymology for indigenous that's my bad)
And of course,
#guys this isn't even funny how is this my most popular post 😭#this is so bad im sorry#lgbtqia#gay#lesbian#bisexual#bi#pansexual#pan#polysexual#poly#omnisexual#gender fluid#omni#aromantic#asexual#aroace#transgender#graysexual#grayromantic#demisexual#demiromantic#aspec#unlabled pride#aplatonic#nonbinary#straight ally#xenogender#two spirit
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“Black queer solidarity” banners made by me. for black people only, cred not needed. xx
(Don’t reblog with “I’m white, but…” because frankly, I do not gaf!)
#aro#aromantic#aroallo#alloace#aroace#aspec#lesbian#gay#bisexual#pansexual#trans#nonbinary#genderqueer#genderfluid#queer#lgbt#black lgbt#black queer#lgbt banner#use only if black#not black aro culture#black culture#black community#black is beautiful#black tumblr
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Happy Pride Month to people who regret coming out for any reason.
Happy Pride Month to all who misjudged what the people around them supported and came out, only to find out what their family or friends truly thought.
Happy Pride Month to people who never plan to come out to their family or friends.
Happy Pride Month to Transgender and Non-binary people who can't transition for their own safety.
Happy Pride Month to the Transgender and Non-binary people who detransitioned for their own safety.
Happy Pride Month to queer children and teens who are trying their hardest to survive, bigoted family knowing of their queerness or not.
Happy Pride Month to people who's queerness was denied in every possible way when they came out.
Happy Pride Month to people who's queerness is treated as a joke, not real, or "invalid."
Happy Pride Month to everyone with misfortune.
#.⎯♗·】#pride month#lgbtq+#lgbtq community#lgbt pride#lgbtq#lgbtqia#gay#lesbian#bisexual#transgender#asexual#aromantic#aroace#nonbinary#multigender#pansexual#happy pride#queer#queer community#queer inclusion#aspec#transsexual#sapphic#achillean#mogai#queer inclusivity
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Reblog to join the transfem cuddle pile :3
Transmascs gays lesbians aros aces and aplatonics are also welcome as long as you’re not cishetallo :3
Oop also Intersex fellas may join
If you fall under the umbrella of “one of them queers” you may join
#trans#transgender#transmasc#transfem#gay#lesbian#aro#ace#aromantic#asexual#aspec#arospec#nonbinary#enby#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtqia#pride#aroace#aplatonic
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happy pride. i better not be seeing *that* one particular meme this fucking year. i need yall to be normal about transhets, enbyhets, straight intersex folks, heteroromantic gays/lesbians/mspecs, homoromantic straights and straight aspecs this year. /srs
(Image ID: An edited image featuring three pikachus holding either strop signs or rainbow flags and floating text. Part of this meme has been edited out in black with white text added. The text reads “it’s "june” which mean it’s Time for a reminder that the original version of this meme is incredibly aphobic and ignores the existence of trans and nonbinary people too. Straight aspecs, straight trans folks, straight intersex folks, straight nonbinary folks and heteroromantic gays/lesbians/mspecs exist as well and are still queer. Queer =/= nonstraight. Happy Pride Month yall!“. There is also an arrow and black text which reads "And vice versa!”. End ID)
(PS: Exclusionists will be blocked on sight, so don't bother).
#lgbtq community#transgender#intersex#nonbinary#mspec#aspec#transhet#queerhet#lgbtqia#mogai#gayhet#straightbian#split attraction model
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Cishet =/= not queer. Conformant is the word you are looking for.
The opposite of queer is conformant. We are so sick of people saying "cishet" when they mean conformant.
A person could be...
-Intersex and cishet.
-Transcis/Cistrans/Trisgender and hetero (ie; some intersex people, some multigender people, etc.)
-Cishet and genderqueer.
-A-spec (anae-spec, afam-spec, apl-spec, asen-spec, ace-spec, aro-spec, aroace-spec, etc) and cishet.
-Cis and heteroflexible.
-Cishet and objectum.
-Cishet and auto-spec.
-Cishet with nontraditional attraction (queerplatonic, alterous, waveric, etc.)
There are many other examples, but you get the point! You can be cis and het while also being queer!
#lgbtqia#lgbt#lgbtq#queer#lgbt pride#intersex#mogai#nonbinary#transgender#genderqueer#aspec#acespec#arospec#aplspec#afamspec#anaespec#aroacespec#asenspec#objectum#hereroflexible#autospec#queerplatonic#alterous#waveric#cistrans#trisgender
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People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea that you can only have one partner
People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea of the gender binary.
People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea of the sex binary.
People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea that everyone feels some sort of attraction.
People will say they support queer people yet perpetuate the idea that you have to be a certain age to be trans.
You can’t do shit like this and still support queer people. You either support all of us, or you support none of us.
#polyamourous#non monogomous#non bianry#genderqueer#intersex#queer#queer community#lgbt#lgbtq#lgbtia#lgbtqia+#lgbt+#pride#lgbtqia pride#aroace#aro#ace#aspec#polyamory#polyamarous#transgender#trans gender#transmasc#transfem#non binary#nonbinary#enby#I’ll as more examples as I think of them
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I just told someone I identify as queer and they got all pissy at me and said, “no, you’re just gay.”
First off, who does this person think they are trying to tell me what my sexuality is and how i should identify myself? The nerve. (Im aroace, not gay)
Secondly, people who erase the term queer are also erasing All the other LGBTQIA+ labels like asexuals, aromantics, bisexuals, pansexuals, intersex, agender, nonbinary, and trans, etc.
*side note- if someone doesn’t feel comfortable using the word queer, that’s fine (if they don’t like the word, then they don’t have to use it, but to tell someone else not to use it at all even to identify themselves is peek wacko behavior) and if they don’t want to be identified as queer, that’s fine too, but I draw the line when someone disrespects somebody else’s identity. If a person is bothered because someone identifies as queer, that’s their problem, not to mention queerphobic. Also, trying to erase an entire word from existence is ridiculous.
#queer#queer community#asexuality#asexual#lgbtqia+#lgbtqia community#bisexuality#pansexual#transgender#nonbinary#agender#lgbtqia#lgbtqia+ community#aroace#aspec#acespec#aromantic
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Freindly reminder that you can't hate men without being queerphobic. You can't think men are inherently more dangerous, violent or sexual, or any of the other things people say about men without being inherently queerphobic.
You can't think these things about men without branding mlm as outsiders who will always be unwholesome and dangerous without women to "civilize" them.
You can't think these things about men without thinking of wlw who are more masculine as being inherently lesser for being like men.
You can't think these things about men without making most transfems seem suspect for having masculine traits, or forcing trans women to prove themselves female enough to be valid.
You can't think these things about men without telling transmascs that they are inherently degrading themselves by transitioning, or forcing them to deny their transition to be supported.
You can't think these things about men without basically calling all enbies female, and then calling all masc enbies dangerous.
You can't think these things about men without easing aspec men and/or calling their identities into question.
You can't think these things about men without basically telling intersex people they don't exist, and making intersex women feel lesser for having male traits.
If you hate men you will hate every letter in the LGBTQIA for having traits in common with men. Feminism that views men as the enemy will inevitably be Feminism only for cishet women.
#196#my thougts#queer rights#queer theory#feminism#mysandry#queer#lgbt#asexual#ace#aspec#enby#non binary#nonbinary#bisexaul#transmasc#transfem#trans#transgender#trans rights#transgirl#intersex#bi#mlm#wlw#gay#lesbian
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Straight and cisgender people, have you ever had to Google if you’d get arrested at your vacation destination?
If we got to choose our sexuality or gender, we wouldn’t choose to be put in jail, or even GET KILLED.
So many of us are closeted from fear of losing our homes, family, friends, jobs, sometimes even lives.
We don’t get to be who we actually are in over 70 different countries.
We don’t want to turn your cishet kids queer, we want your queer kids to be alive.
If love is illegal, so will our silence
Edit: whatever you do, don’t look at the comments, transphobe had a hissy fit over queer people
#lgbtq#lgbt#nonbinary#trans#queer#enby#transgender#trans masc#transmasc#transfem#transgirl#trans boy#gay#lesbian#love is love#pansexual#bisexual#omnisexual#acespec#arospec#aspec#asexual#aromantic#aroace#Tried to do as many Lgbt tags that I could think of kinda late at night
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i want to see more asexual, aromantic & aspectrum representation this year during pride month 2024. we've been made to feel like we're not queer at all, and when we are seen as queer, we are pushed to the VERY bottom of the priority list, seen as not as queer as others, or not a priority because we do not suffer from any kind of oppression.
i want to break the silence on this matter this year. even if an aspectrum person isn't affected by any sort of societal oppression, they still deserve to have a space to talk about how they experience their identity. having a complicated relationship or no relationship at all with romantic feelings and relationships in a society that guilt trips people into developing romantic relationships starting in their teens is not in line with our societal view of what is "normal" and "correct". constantly being told that you "haven't found the right one" is harassment.
Not experiencing sexual attraction, refusing to have sex, or having a complicated relationship with sexual feelings is 100% queer and outside of the norm in a sex-obsessed society that guilt and mocks people for not having experienced it, and at the worst of time, forces it on people, telling them that they'll have a changed opinion of they just experienced it for themselves. being guilted or forced into interacting with sexual media or having friends try to force you into sleeping with someone is harassment and assault.
having a complicated relationship with gender that results in someone feeling agender, whether they have no gender at all, or have a gender that feels partially agender and partially another gender often results in someone being told they're confused, or have no idea what they're talking about. many people refuse to acknowledge someone who totally lacks a gender identity, or identifies with gender neutrality.
aplatonic people are frequently told they are losers, or just have anxiety or are experiencing their feelings due to depression or something similar. aplatonic people are told they do not understand their own feelings, when it is a very valid experience to not experience platonic feelings or have a very complicated relationship with them that leads one to feel happier not engaging in those relationships.
these are very real issues aspectrum people face. even if an aspec person doesn't face these problems, they are still queer. they are still aromantic, asexual, agender, aplatonic, or some other like of aspec. you don't get to tell them how they experience their identity, and you don't get to tell them they're not queer or don't experience hardships and denial of their identity. i want to see more people talking about and accepting these identities in 2024. no more pushing aspectrum people to the back, we are here in the front with everyone else, shouting alongside you. we all deserve to be heard- including asexuals, aromantics, agender people, aplatonic people and other aspectrum folks. we are all shouting for our rights together. let's shout for each other, too.
#lgbtqia#lgbtq#lgbtqi#lgbtqa#asexual#aspectrum#aromantic#aspec#aromantic spectrum#aro spec#ace spectrum#ace spec#aplatonic#agender#transgender#trans#non binary#nonbinary#ace#aro#grey aroace#grey aromantic#grey ace#grey asexual#demisexual#demiromantic#cupioromantic#cupiosexual#quoisexual#quoiromantic
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