#proshipping

[proshippers-against-censorship]

Hey. I hope I am not being a bother but I would like to ask you for advice since I am unsure and I dont really have any proship friends to ask.

The thing is that I am very certain about being proshipper myself and I do not feel any shame for it. However I am not so sure if I should put 'proship' in my bio. I am an artist and in my art I dont really focus on anything that could be labeled as proship so there should be no need but also I feel like an impostor among quite a number of 'proship DNI' people and like I am not 'living my truth' . Should I reveal my stance publically?

Let me start this off by saying that you will NEVER bother me by sending an ask in good faith. In fact, I encourage everyone to send good faith asks.

It is, 100%, up to you whether you want to label yourself or not. However, what you need to focus on is this.

Are you mentally prepared for the fact that you will likely be sent more hate by labelling yourself as proship?

If you're confident in your abilities to easily block out those who are unkind to you, then by all means, label yourself. But if you don't want to risk nasty folks in your inbox, it may be best to not.

[tamarahtalkstv]

Can You Imagine Thinking Of, Making, And Posting A Video Like This And Believing That Other People Need Help And Not You?

If you dislike certain fictional content, characters, or ships, then you don’t have to, but don’t make a video essentially telling people who like fiction and are AntiHarassment to get help.

There’s nothing to get help for unless someone can’t differentiate fiction from reality and condones it in real life.

As much as I want to make fun of this video, I also don’t because I actually feel really bad for the person behind it.

I don’t want to make massive assumptions, and I don’t think others should either, but I’m actually a bit concerned about them because no one makes a video with a fucking title or thumbnail like that if they’re okay.

Either something is wrong, they wanted to trend hop and clout chase on a popular topic right now, or both.

Fandoms and shipping going mainstream on YouTube was a terrible, terrible mistake.

[lizzie-queenofmeigas]

"Fictional cannibalism and murder is fine, but fictional consensual incest is wrong"

Excuse me, what?

[venolfy]

Look what I found. Another brainless anti. This make me wanna ship incest even more

[bird-machine]

i keep getting antis talk about how darkfiction in general is bad

they act like it's some kind of new phenomenon and should stop. do you even know what you're talking about.

there has been darkfiction since the very beginning of when stories were being created. take greek mythology for example, nothing about that is wholesome and if you read it while saying darkfiction is nasty you are a liar

[macaroni-and-beans]

"Proshipping is bad because it can trigger victims of CSA" is such a nonsensical argument. Yeah buddy, that's why we put a warning. Don't complain when we put a warning and you ignored it.

Similarly, content with flashing lights has a TW to avoid triggering epileptic people instead of ruining everyone else's fun.

[yeru211]

Awkward hug! 🐾💗

[fableandfandoms]

Does anyone just ever go into a fandom just to mess things up or make the antis leave?

Cause I feel like doing that, or we all just raid a fandom that's very anti us and we go nuts

[myfandomrealitea]

I am actually begging some people to just let some spaces exist untouched by real-world issues and horrors.

Like I've lost count of the amount of times peaceful game or fandom servers have been ruined by people stampeding in with political rants, bitching about world issues, demanding internal activism, demanding vent channels so they can whine about their shitty parents, ect.

Like. Respectfully. Not every single space has to be inclusive of and welcoming of outside topics. The real world sucks. We don't needed to be reminded of that absolutely everywhere.

[pro-sipper]

"i want more media with zero drama, no tension, and zero problematic characters and i am not joking"

Great! Here are my recommendations:

[proshippers-against-censorship]

Ya know.

Antis hate proshippers so much that I wonder if I could pull a like, 'buy my silence' kinda thing with em to afford the stilts I want.

$500 and you'll never hear of my existence again.

$50k and I'll delete my account.

[queenhelel]

I have seen anti-shippers on TikTok who promote the phrase, "Art should comfort the disturbed, and disturb the comfortable."

BUT THEN, they become diabolically upset when pro-shippers/com-shippers voice their opinions about reading fiction that help detangle the trauma they experienced (which btw, is also therapist-endorsed).

Like dawg- are you a hypocrite or a hypocrite?

[justafi5h]

petition to start calling antis "censorshippers"

[venolfy]

"They are fucking brothers/sisters/brother and sister!", "Yes, I respect, but they are brothers!!!", "They are family!", "Who ever ships them, they have brain damage".

So? Your reality is ruined? You're the one who has brain damage. You're the one who harassing people for shipping. You're the one who insulting them and blackmailing them for shipping incest or even not.

Really. What's wrong with these people today? Lately I starting searching Pinterest for any pins or Ideas, something funny. There's full of antis, not even on TikTok. EVERYWHERE.

If someone telling you to respect someone opinion and their taste, so why you writing "yes, but..." under person comment who changed "you" that about respect and letting ships others what the hell they wants?

[bird-machine]

being an anti must be so exhausting. why must you hold yourself back to be “morally correct”?

[xx-slug-xx]

Ao3 authors, please learn to not insult people and be “morally superior” in the tags

Instead of tagging “noncon is gross” or “not noncon because that’s problematic”, for example, just put “enthusiastic consent” or “consensual sex” in the tags. It makes things a whole lot easier for people to filter and know what’s going on.

I really don’t care that you think noncon fics are bad or whatever, I (and many others) will be more likely to read your fic about two boys who are deeply in love if you aren’t an ass about your morals in fiction :/