#we need to find one for the nonbinary

[ennieasys]

FOR THE GENDERFLUID

[ulteri0rm0tives]

It's every iteration.

It's every iteration of V that will always find Johnny. Every iteration of V that Johnny grows to care about. It's every iteration of each other, in every universe, that will always find each other. They'll always become inseparable, tied together in unfathomable ways. Ways they could never truly unravel from each other in the end, no matter the end.

They'll always be destined for one another. No matter what face is worn. No matter what universe. No matter what, they're always meant to be. No matter what, the stars will always align for them, just to come crashing down from the sky.

[inanimateinsanitywiki]

my collection of underappreciated characters that i need to see get focus in season four or else i will start sobbing uncontrollably

[orcelito]

I have the voice chat with my potential new dm in Soon (half an hour) and im a little nervous 😭😭😭

It's one thing to go into a shop and ask for games, then text a random person. But actually Talking with the random person... engaging in the quick-time event... we'll see how this goes 😭😭😭😭

[ourflagmeansworms]

one of the pettier things I sometimes remember about my ex is that they referred to their costume as a cowthey costume when the term cowpoke is right. And like cowpoke is such a vibe of a word how could I date some so uncultured didn’t know it

[savage-rhi]

Magneta

[dumbdomb]

It's me I'm the xxs sized toy

[ventbloglite]

I think we need to sit down and talk about malgendering.

Not misgendering, malgendering.

We all know what misgendering means. Misgendering is when a trans person (or to be honest, even a cis person) has their gender denied to them in some fashion by implying, suggesting or outright stating that their gender is actually Something Else and not the one they identify as.

e.g. A trans woman being told she cannot attend a certain class because it's 'just for women'.

Malgendering is when the trans persons gender is not questioned or denied and may even be affirmed - but only in a context in which it can be used against them in some fashion (to make judgements on them as a person, to exclude them from something, to incite bigotry towards them etc).

e.g. That same trans woman taking her shirt off on a hot day and being arrested for indecent exposure.

This is misgendering;- "You're not a woman, you're a man." This is malgendering;- "Trans women are women, so obviously they exist to serve men."* *obvs it is also transmisogyny and all malgendering is transphobia.

But what you don't want to hear is that malgendering is a form of transphobia mainly used against trans masculine people and nonbinary people.

Most people recognise malgendering when it's;

Using the term 'theyfab' to ridicule an agender person or making jokes about how an agender they/them user looks (to you) to be a completely cis woman.

But you need to look out for how;

Malgendering is treating trans men like their transition has turned them into women-hating predators because of your own predjudices towards men/trans man were always inherently women-hating predators because maleness is what makes you those things not your actual thoughts, words and actions.

Malgendering is not listening to how trans masc people are marginalised 'because men aren't oppressed though' as if that's not ignoring a huge part of their identity (the being trans part) and how that works.

Malgendering is telling trans men 'this is just what it's like to be a man, people treat you like shit and you have to take it or not transition'.

Malgendering is insisting that any trans man who calls any attention to the fact that he is indeed, trans, and has/had female anatomy and faces misogyny due to being raised and still perceived (by transphobes) as a woman is misgendering himself, all other trans men and 'weaponising his AFABness'

All of this is transphobia. All of this is bigotry. This kind of predjudice and bullying doesn't magically become 'OK' once you find the 'right' group to do it to. You either want to end bigotry and transphobia and identity-specific targetted hate or you want to perpetuate it. But you can't call yourself a trans ally, or escape the bigotry allegations whilst malgendering people. And no you're not being sneaky by slipping in your hateful predjudice comments and actions whilst validating their gender.

Malgendering is transphobia.

[telumendils]

something i find troubling about the assertion that transmascs are not as oppressed as transfems is how often i see it wielded like a thought-terminating cliché against transmascs just trying to figure out the best way to articulate their experiences.

like even assuming that this is true, and that transfems universally suffer more and worse than any transmasc, i don't understand the implication that this means transmasc suffering doesn't need or deserve to be talked about at all. or that transmasc stories aren't worth telling because their experiences don't matter as much.

in fact, i think it's odd and kind of cruel to tell any marginalized person that their abuse and oppression are not significant enough to matter, and to assume they have nothing valuable to add to the conversation unless they meet a certain suffering quota first. this is especially strange to me when it's thrown at transmascs making their own posts and discussing transphobia amongst themselves.

so while i believe it is definitely possible and necessary to explore this idea that transfems have it worse, i have grown quite leery of seeing it stated as a fact with the obvious and explicit intent of silencing transmascs. especially considering all the ways in which trans men and mascs have been and continue to be erased and silenced by the cishet patriarchy already.

idk. i just think there is room for everyone's story here, and if there isn't enough room then we should really make more instead of telling one group they need to make themselves smaller to accommodate the rest. we could pull up a few chairs for our sisters and brothers and nonbinary siblings. i believe we can and should make space for every voice to be heard, because no amount of suffering/oppression should be thought of as insignificant, or accepted as a foregone conclusion by a community built on the collective desire for mutual liberation.

but maybe that's just me.

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[isabelleadjani]

happy disability pride month please help my disabled ass survive

i’m a nonbinary lesbian autistic with adhd, ocd and cptsd as well as several chronic illnesses that cause severe disability and chronic pain. i also serve as the carer for my best friend who is largely bedbound because of undiagnosed physical disability as well as a psychotic illness.

as you might know, i’m in a really bad financial situation wherein i owe a shit ton in taxes somehow, while simultaneously being unemployed and not really even being able to afford rent as it is, and now we have to find a new place to live because our landlady has to move back to sweden to take care of her sick mother. i have effectively no safety net as i’m estranged from large parts of my family (see the previous mention of cptsd), and i’m doing all i can to stay afloat but pretty much everything feels like it’s constantly falling apart around me.

i’m trying to sell as many of my belongings as possible on different platforms to make some money but it’s just not feasible to source enough money fast enough that way, so if you have ANY to spare at all, please consider chipping in. if you’d like something in return for your contribution, i would love to make gif commissions, and you can dm me about that! i know there are so many who need help but if you can’t help materially, you can at least reblog this post. i’m so sorry to be asking again. i don’t have a concrete goal right now but i will set an initial one at 10,000 sek (about €900).

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[baphometsss]

Solas repeatedly explains that things are not so black and white and the fandom's response to the nature of his relationships with Mythal and Felassan etc are weirdly reminiscent of what he finds frustrating about modern Thedas.

He explains repeatedly that the distinction between spirit and demon is not that black and white, that there's always an element of choice involved. Likewise, he cannot be so easily defined as wisdom or pride. He is a mix of both and will lean into one or the other depending on how he is perceived. Over and over again he tries to make people see that it's our expectations that create the dynamics of our relationships and therefore how we perceive others. If we respect others in the way they would like to be respected, you can come closer to an authentic and equal partnership.

Likewise, he says that he is not defined by his body, a point Trick said came from their own thoughts around their gender and figuring out that they were nonbinary. Solas chose a male body, seemingly because he had to choose one, not necessarily because he felt like a man. In fact he repeatedly explains that he sees himself as a spirit i.e. genderless

The romance or friendship with the Inquisitor is special because it is the first time that he's branching out of his comfort zone of bonding like a spirit bonds (reflecting) and trying to bond like a person does instead (meeting them on their level, sharing his heart with them and being vulnerable). This is why one of my favourite lines from him is 'You are unique. In all Thedas I never expected to find someone who could draw my attention from the Fade. You have become important to me.' This is the first time he has fallen in love, the first time he has actually relished being a person and not a spirit, because he's able to be with Lavellan this way. He can't fall in love as a spirit as spirits don't bond that way, as is repeatedly stated throughout his story. I personally think the relationships he forged before Inquisition were all done using the attachment style of spirits, which is apparently quite abstract, and not as a man, which is more understandable to mortals and us, the player.

What's especially pertinent about this is that says this line right before he's about to abandon his plan to tear down the Veil by telling the Inquisitor the truth, a plan that symbolises his attachment to his spirit-self and the world he inadvertently destroyed. Once he does that, there's no coming back; likewise, once you take a body, you cannot go back. When you fall in love in a way that makes all the parts of you line up perfectly for the first time, you can't go back.

What is so beautiful to me about Solas's love story with Lavellan is that we witness Solas in a chrysalis state between spirithood and personhood, past and present (and future), on the precipice of metamorphosis. At the very moment he's about to take that final leap like The Fool his romance card is based on, he backs out, because of guilt, trauma, grief, duty and the rest.

Even with a befriended Inquisitor, he bonds with them on their level. He doesn't try to elevate them to his level; he comes to theirs. He is the opposite of Pride in their friendship, which is why he respects them. They allow him to be himself.

It's because of this change in nature that I think Solas and Lavellan's love story is so compelling--Solas's world quite literally changes when he falls in love, as he states multiple times, in various ways. I mean, look at the way he needs time to think about a potential relationship with Lavellan. He probably knows that it's a bad idea, but at this point he has no idea how much of a bad idea it is with respect to his plans because he has no idea that it will make him want to give it up. If he had, he never would've entertained the idea of a relationship. His romance card in Veilguard explains that he didn't know what it would mean to fall in love, because he's never actually been in love. He has loved countless friends and companions, like Mythal and Felassan, but he has not fallen for someone like he falls for a romanced Lavellan; Lavellan, who is deified like he was deified, who sees him for who he is (as much as they can) and doesn't shun him or punish him for not doing as he was told like a good lapdog.

Once again there's more of the irony that pervades Solas's story at every turn. It's in falling for a mortal that Solas becomes a more complete person, more of the man he says he is and not the god others have revered him as. That is the deepest change of all and the one that reflects his earlier statements on the delineation between spirit and demon not being so black and white, and involving a level of choice. Solas chooses to be more of a man in a similar way to how Cole chooses to become more human. He knows deep down that he's already in too deep to stop, and this is why, despite knowing he has a job to do and a duty to fulfil, he leaves clues for the Inquisition to follow him. Because he's already gone too far, and now he can't go back, and deep down he wants to be stopped, like Varric said. Solas, as a former spirit, doesn't simply feel love, he embodies it, and so he is helpless to that emotion. Of course he left clues.

Because that is what falling in love meant for Solas. It meant going into that chrysalis state and emerging as a totally new being with an experience that is quite far removed from his spirit self and all the limitations that come with that. Mythal and Felassan etc predate this experience, they're intrinsically tied to his nature as a spirit and then as a manifested spirit. While he loved them, that love was tangled up with a simpler nature, and the love he shares with Lavellan is coming from a totally new place. For that reason, the two can't really be compared.

[genderqueerdykes]

if you are a trans man or masc, masculine nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid or other gender non conforming identity, masc gay, a bear, a butch, stud, or boi, or other masculine queer person and don't feel welcome in any queer spaces, you're not alone.

the communities both irl and online have become EXTREMELY hostile toward mascs and men to the point of straight up excluding us and changing their wording to justify their violent exclusion. from renaming nonbinary spaces to "femme & them" and "she+" spaces, to telling men & mascs that they would "Scare" the women and "nonbinary" folks just by being there, as if masculinity and manhood are inherently traumatizing to be around.

masculine and male nonbinary folks have it so hard- most nonbinary spaces are almost definitely women's spaces who also conflate womanhood with nonbinaryhood, and often times just view nonbinary people as confused women. we are not inherently traumatizing to be around: masc enbies need places to go. we are still nonbinary and still trans and still queer for fucks' sake

nonbinary has never and will never mean femme or woman-adjacent inherently. nonbinary means what it means: people who don't or refuse to adhere to the gender binary, regardless of what side it is. masculinity is included in this, femininity is not the only way to be nonbinary.

masc queers do not have to bend over backwards to try to be more feminine and thus "less threatening" in order to have places to go. that's dysphoric and just inaccurate to a lot of queer folks' identity and presentation. it blows my mind because it makes no sense, anyway, even within the gay community, hypermasculinity has been present and even sought after by some people who find it very attractive, twunks, hunks, bears... but between the periods in queer history people started viewing masc gay leathermen and kinksters as the ones who were responsible for spreading AIDS and thus removing them from pride parades,

AND the lesbian separatism moment picking up to remove butches & male & masc lesbians from lesbian spaces identity, paving the way for modern rdical femniism, we've only entered a downhill landslide of hating men and mascs and ultimately trying to erase us from the queer community entirely.

the queer community is not the "women & femmes community". the queer experience is broad and vast, it includes a wide variety of masculine and male experiences, as well as genderfluid, multigender, completely ungendered and other gendered experiences. the lesbian, trans, bisexual, nonbinary, gay and general queer communities aren't the "safe place to hide from men & mascs community" like estranged rdfems and terfpilled trans folk like to tell you they are.

this is the QUEER community and it includes ALL forms of queerness, masc, femme, butch, male, neutral, bigender, neutral, and all. he/shes and he/hims and he/theys and he/its and so on are just as much of a part of this communities as she/hers and they/thems. you can't cast a blanket of "inherently abusive" over all men and mascs and one of "inherently abused/incapable of being abusive" over all women and femmes because that just traps you in a fantasy land that doesn't exist AND it prevents mascs and men from getting the help, resources and community they NEED.

men & mascs are hurt and abused by women & femmes every day and we refuse to speak about them because we live under a white cisheteronormal patriarchy and have complaints about how that functions. the complaints are legitimate but assuming that all men and mascs are oppressing all women and femmes and that women can never be oppressive is a false as hell narrative that actively damages people.

enough is enough. this mindset is hurting people. it's leaving masc and male queers to be estranged, harmed and even dead. i care about you if you're being affected by this mentality and these behaviors. you deserve community, safety, and a sense of belonging, you do belong, even if we struggle to form our own spaces due to unjust hatred. we will do our best to band together and keep each other safe. we must

[milkoomi]

⋆˚࿔ a new canvas means a new you 𝜗𝜚˚⋆

a mini series on the art of becoming a better you

chapter 1 | chapter 2 | chapter 3

chapter four — THE ART OF SELF RESPECT

when you live a life where you don’t respect yourself, your boundaries, your health, your mind, your emotions; just anything about you, you’ll end up living a life where you’re walked all over, where people take advantage of you, where you’ll find no successes or achievements— you live a life feeling lost and feeling empty, feeling like your mission in life is to be meaningless. we’re taught to respect others, but we’re never taught to respect ourselves. we, as individuals, need to have the highest level of respect for one person. that person being us.

ᥫ᭡. where to start

decenter men

i was talking about this the other night with my best friend, but way too many people (women, men, trans women/men, literally anyone) center their lives around men. the patriarchy has stolen so many people’s individuality, stripping them of finding their own personality, their own interests, opinions, hobbies, etc. and that is one of the main reasons people don’t have any self respect. decenter men.

a man should not, and never define who you are as a person. a man should never make you feel like you are undeserving of your own successes. a man should never make you feel any less than what you truly are! men should never be a source of validation for you as a person. it doesn’t matter if you’re a man yourself (cis or trans), it doesn’t matter if you’re a woman (cis or trans), and it doesn’t matter if you’re nonbinary/gender-nonconforming; you should never ever— and i mean ever— center your ideals, thoughts, opinions, hobbies, interests, and your entire self and life around a man.

too many people are so focused on men and what men think about them. and let me just give you some food for thought: when have you ever done something solely for yourself without the back thought of a man’s approval? i’ll admit, back in high school i spent all four years thinking about men and seeking validation from a man. from my freshman year all up until my senior year i was in back to back relationships because i couldn’t even fathom the thought of being without a man. and you know what that did for me? it made me miserable, it made me more insecure, and it made me put myself into situations that the person who i am now would be insanely repulsed by because what the fuck was i thinking? majority of my teenage years were spent centering my life around men, and i was miserable.

now, at my current age at this point in my life, i am so unbelievably lucky to be engaged to the man of my dreams, but! i remember when my partner and i first started dating, my therapist asked about 5-6 months into my relationship, “do you feel like you depend on him for your happiness?” and it made me think, “oh my god, what if i am? what if all the anxieties i have about my relationship are because i rely too much on him for my own happiness?” while my relationship with him is the healthiest, happiest, and most healing relationship i’ve ever been in, i had to learn to be okay with being by myself; with being in the company of my own, without him, because i can’t depend on him for company or happiness or peace— i have to depend on myself for those things, and he’s just my wonderful partner that i get to enjoy and experience life with. he’s not my entire life. he’s only a part of it.

you have to learn to be happy and to find peace with being by yourself. your whole life can’t be surrounding the idea of a man.

here are a couple posts that i’ve found to be really helpful with how to decenter men:

“decentering men and recentering yourself” by @honeytonedhottie

“how to decenter men” by @femmefatalevibe

stop seeking validation from others

not only do people seek validation from men, they seek validation from literally anyone. parents, teachers, bosses, friends, classmates, colleagues; people are looking from validation from all the wrong sources. you, yourself, should be the only person you seek validation from. you should be setting your own standard from yourself.

again, looking for validation from any outside source only makes you lose yourself more and more in the process. you forget all about what you want and need from yourself because you’re so focused on what other people need and want from you. validate yourself, affirm yourself, just be there for yourself. you don’t need anyone or anything else telling you that you’re doing something right. you’ll know what’s right for you because you should know yourself better than anyone else!

set boundaries

chapter three was all about learning how to say no and how to set boundaries, so i highly recommend going back to that chapter and reviewing it since i go more in-depth on that topic!

setting boundaries for yourself is one of the best things to do to regain your self respect. knowing what exactly you want from yourself and from others and setting that line will not only protect your happiness and peace, but it will also show an immense amount of respect that you have for yourself to others who may think that they don’t have to respect you.

ᥫ᭡. self respect as a whole

respecting yourself means respecting your peace, your privacy, your thoughts, your opinions, your emotions; you as a person. it protects you from things and people that could potentially harm you, whether it’s physically, mentally, emotionally, or spiritually.

protect your peace. protect your happiness. protect your mind and your body. when you disrespect yourself by partaking in an overuse of harmful substances, having unprotected sex with someone you don’t even have a genuine connection to, or accepting behaviors from someone who’s constantly hurting you or betraying your trust you become a doormat for people to walk all over you in life.

i have known too many people, myself included, who disrespected themselves and faced one too many hardships in life. it makes us miserable and that misery turns into so many mental health issues that can sometimes cause too much harm that it makes it 100 times more difficult to recover.

self respect doesn’t have to be hard. you can always start small by just taking care of yourself! this has been a recurring theme in this series, but here i am to say it again: prioritize yourself! respect that you have needs and wants and do things for yourself that make you feel good and that benefit you. self care is vital, and respecting the fact that your own health needs to be in check is a wonderful first step towards gaining more self respect.

you have to show up for yourself, you have to immerse yourself in activities/hobbies/media that’s actually good for you— not what you think is good for you, you have to be kind to yourself, and you have to love yourself, babes. seriously, self respect can be a really simple thing at the end of the day and it can come so easily to you if you just let it be. don’t make your life harder by disrespecting yourself.

ᥫ᭡. final notes

we’re nearing the end of this mini series! chapter five will be the final chapter! i’m so thankful that this series has been shown so much love so far and i hope that it’s been able to help you guys as much as it helped me! i know i’ve been writing all of these, but something about creating content like this really motivates me to keep moving forward with my own self improvement journey.

i hope you guys always know i’m with you every step of the way in this journey. you never have to walk it alone, trust me! i know i always talk about being there for yourself, but other people (who are genuinely worth it, of course) can be there for you too! we’ve all got the same goal: to better ourselves. it’s going to be a difficult and long journey, but we’ll make it together!

with lots of love, juno 🌷

[pinkpuppipawz]

Okay so, funny thought I just had. Imagine new assistant manager of Huntrix reader (preferably male or nonbinary 🙏) like reader is new and his job is to help bobby out n stuff- like reader had something... more spicy going on with one of the Saja Boys (lets just go with Baby Saja since i'm based fr) like idk a makeout session got leaked or smth- idk and Huntrix finds out . I'd just die to know their reactions i swear I imagine this so funny like- their manager just deadass with a demon 😭 Honestly I could see this also as a tactic of the demons just to get some possible useful information about the Girls- so they went for some unconventional methods lmao 😭

UNCONVENTIONAL METHODS

°ᡣ𐭩 . Baby x GN! Huntrix assistant manager! reader

CONTENTS ꒱ ➜ GN! Reader (no prns mentioned), steamy make out sesh, baby is a massive tease, baby is highkey a dom (you can’t change my mind), baby also gives reader hickeys, Abby filming you guys making out, Bobby being a dad

CREDITS ꒱ ➜ Saja Boys belong to KPOP Demon Hunters (Sony) on Netflix. Divider by @uzmacchiato

AUTHORS NOTE ꒱ ➜ thanks so much for the request! apologies if this took a while, have been procrastinating as usual. if you guys want a part 2 (smut) lemme know! (remember: requests are currently open, i accept fluff, hurt/comfort and smut)

the Saja Boys were scheming once again, they needed info on huntrix, something that would help break them apart so that gwi mas’ plan could occur without any interferences

whilst the boys were chatting up ideas on how to accomplish this, baby saja was scrolling through TikTok (he’s addicted to social media now)

suddenly, a devilish smirk spread across babys face, looking smug per usual. without saying anything, baby casually showed the boys a video of Huntrix’s new assistant manager

“I’d say we already have our target boys” Baby sang, swaying his phone around in the air

you had only been doing this new job for a week or so, so you were still figuring stuff out

Bobby was really helpful, claiming that you could ask him anything and if you ever needed assistance for something he’d be more than happy to help (even though you’re the assistant, and it’s your job)

in short, Bobby didn’t ask for much, he just needed extra help with social media management, event set ups and wardrobe changes along with a few other typical idol stuff

you had interacted with the girls a few times, they were always very nice! mira seemed a bit mean at first, but one day she gave you a bag of crisps when she heard your tummy grumble, claiming that she had more packets in the dressing room

Zoey was very chatty and extremely friendly, always asking you how you were, and giving small talk where possible, she would even help brush out your hair sometimes if she noticed it was a bit messy and unorganised

you hadn’t had many interactions with Rumi, mainly due to the fact that she was somewhat avoidant of people in general (you took note on how she has a different dressing room than the other 2), but the brief interactions you had with her were fairly pleasant, you can tell she’s a hard worker and has many walls up so you don’t say much to her

the girls have a signing event today, partially due to the sudden rise of the now trending boy band ‘saja boys’

the girls want to try and win back the fans in any way possible, as they’re afraid they’re losing the fans to the saja boys

the doors open, millions of fans queued up per usual, with the first few wearing sleeping bags, seemingly copying Miras stunt at the idol awards a few years ago

only for the so called ‘fans’ to turn out to be none other than the saja boys, the girls groaning in frustration, breaking their pens

Bobby asked for two tables, one for the saja boys the other for huntrix

you interfere, “why don’t the saja boys and huntrix sit together?”, you don’t want the girls losing half the fans, so why not join them together? what could go wrong?

answer: it can go wrong

one moment you’re rushing back and forth to grab snacks and water for the idols, the next thing you know you’ve been cornered by Baby

“oh hey, you looking for the bathroom? it’s just around the corner”, you explained, believing he was probably just lost

little did you know that was not the case at all

Baby stared, crossing his arms “you think you’re subtle don’t you?” he sighed out, his eyes rake you up and down, almost judgemental

you feel your heart pounding in your chest at his word choice, had he noticed when you looked at him when he smiled? did he notice the way your jaw slightly clenched when a fan touched his hand?

Baby simply smirks, slowly leaning into you. you failed to notice how his arms cage you in against the wall

his face is practically against yours now, his breath fanning against your face, you note how it smells like strawberry, probably from the lollipop he was sucking on earlier. speaking of which, you really want to suck his-

sweat started beading down your temple, seemingly in slow motion

Baby chuckled against your lips, his plump lips suddenly crashing onto yours

gasping in surprise, you stood there, frozen, trapped between Baby and the wall. is this a dream? this surely can’t be real, you’re probably just imaging things

you open your eyes. nope! not dreaming, this is 100% real, happening in real life, you’re not delusional

you decide ‘fuck it’ and kiss him back, pretty aggressively, he simply groans into your mouth in response

you gasp out at a sudden pinch on your lip, which were babys canines, allowing him to slip his tongue in your mouth

you whimper into his mouth, feeling his tongue rubbing against yours

his hands trailed down from the wall to your hips, gripping tightly as if you are a lifeline

suddenly without warning, Baby picked you up and pushed you against the wall, allowing him to engulf you even more

you can feel his body against yours, the slight muscles he has evident through his sweater he’s always wearing

you wrap your arms around his shoulders, dragging him into you, encouraging his behaviour

he groans in appreciation, fingers lightly tracing against your hips, causing a tingle to run down your spine, feeling yourself melting against him

what you fail to notice during this pleasurable experience, is the presence of the six packed pink haired saja boy filming you two from a distance with his phone, zooming in and making sure to get a proper look

Abby bit his lips to fight off a groan building up in his throat, Adam’s apple bobbing slightly at the action

suddenly Abby had a problem. he couldn’t ignore it so he finished recording, making sure to upload it to a new account onto every social media possible, and left to take care of his ‘problem’

Baby smirked against your lips, knowing that Abby had done what they agreed to

he broke off from your lips, causing a whine to bubble up in your throat, eyes pleading, begging for more

baby placed you back down onto the floor, keeping his hands on your hips to prevent you from falling onto your knees

he smirks, you could’ve sworn his eyes glowed yellow for a split second, but maybe that was your melted brain playing tricks on you

before leaving you to your own devices, baby practically latched onto your neck, biting and sucking the spot that was just about visible to the public

at this point you were shaking, flushed, hair a mess and feeling wobbly

baby detached himself from you, licking his lips in the process, your eyes watching his every step

suddenly, without a warning, casually as if nothing happened, baby simply walked off

you were aroused, flustered and confused

what just happened?

you brush yourself off, fixing your hair and your clothes, hoping that you seem normal enough and not ‘I just made out and now I’m a mess’

you walked back to the event, with all the fans now gone, the saja boys nowhere to be seen, and the girls staring at something on their phones in shock

curiosity got the better of you, walking up to the girls, you open your mouth, about to ask about what the fuss is all about

only to close your mouth, eyes wide

there, on the screen, you and Baby saja making out, very clearly, you notice in the corner of your eye that the video is trending at top 10

the girls, as if feeling your presence somehow, slowly look towards you, eyes wide as if they had seen their parents being killed

“y/n, what is THIS?” the girls yell in unison, voices overriding each other as they list reasons as to why this is a bad thing and what could happen to their reputation etc.

you didn’t hear a bit of it, too busy watching the screen replay you and Baby making out again and again

they all stop complaining suddenly, maybe this is a good thing?

nope, it’s not

because you completely forgot about one thing that was proof of your encounter with the youngest member of the saja boys, a hickey, really evident on your neck

the girls point at it, as if they were accusing it of all the evil in the world, before they started yelling again

“they are DEMONS y/n! don’t fall for their tricks!” Zoey yells, eyes on the verge of tears?

“I don’t know what you’re on about, they seem nice enough” you counter, arms across your chest, as if you were trying to hide the shame oozing off of you now that you realise what you have done

rumi simply sighed, as if she was an exhausted mother of a kid that misbehaves 24/7, “it’s ok! we can just tell people that the video is AI generated! it’s not that detailed anyways”

to be continued?……

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to engage with your addition in good faith I would just like to say that I did point out that there's no specific term for the oppression of Black men for this exact reason. As far as I understand it, which I admit may be limited (or biased by my whiteness), the reason there's no term analogous to misogynoir for Black men is precisely because there's no axis of oppression against men. Black men are absolutely oppressed & Black masculinity is absolutely stereotyped negatively but I've always understood that to not be a form of intersectional oppression (despite absolutey being an instance of anti-Blackness) precisely because anti-masculinity doesn't exist as a structural axis of oppression. These terms (like transmisogynoir, etc) exist to describe and interrogate the intersections between axes of systemic oppression so any such term incorporating anti-masculinity either A. fails to understand why these terms exist and misappropriates intersectional language or B. validates & relies on a belief in misandry as a real systemic axis of oppression. I'm not saying all this just to Disagree with you, I'd love to hear your thoughts because this ^ is just my own understanding of it and I've yet to hear it discussed in a way that actually negates any of it. Plus I am often wrong so I'd love to actually know why I'm wrong rather than just being told I am

I mean tbh this is exhausting to have to type out. You're wrong. There is a word equivalent. It's not mainstream as hell tho bc black communities don't talk like this with each other about opression, but it exist and is used. Sinple answer.

Not as simple answer:

We find all idenities, even the non opressed ones, to be part of the intersection. The intersection is not soley opressed idenities! Its about how any of you idebtities mix to shape your unique experience under a white supremacy led patriarcy.

That's what the og theory states pretty openly if you read it through a lense that doesnt start and end with "systemaic is the only ones that matter"

It cannot misuse these if the og theory ask to consider all parts, even the parts who are arguably not opressed, which it does.

For you? It's one post where you could be wrong.

For me it's been months of white users explaining how my opression works, misdefining the black theory around intersectionality, calling me names and slurs, and just gernally proving to me why transandrophobia as a word for me as a nonbinary poc is not only needed, but important.

My blogs brimming with talk about me and many other trans men of colors talks about our intersection and if the word is what stop you from exploring what we are actually saying , then it just really comes across as you never intendingbto listen anyway.

Black men use misandronoir (Spelling may vary based on circles) in irl spaces I attend and the black woman still use misgynoir and both have very good talks about what we can to structurally desmatle thebsystems that perpete that hate.

But that starts with whitenpeople believing what we say for even like, five minutes

Also:

Just because cis people don't have a word for something doesn't mean trans people can't make their own. Cis people aren't the default experience and we need to stop defining our existence around their rules if we ever want out of cishet patrarcy standards