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Ace culture is scrolling through Etsy for hours looking for the perfect black ring

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did someone ask for aroace loki? 

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Random Pride Asks

Is your family accepting?

What is your sexuality?

What is your gender identity?

Favorite color?

When did you find out your sexuality?

What do you wish you could tell your past self?

Have you changed labels since realizing you were LGBT?

How was your day?

Do you have any gay friends irl?

What’s your favorite hobby?

Who’s the best gay icon in your opinion?

Which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise?

Do you wish you could change any pride flags?

Are you openly out?

Are you comfortable with yourself?

Do you experience dysphoria?

Bottom, top, or verse?

(Lesbians) are you femme, butch, or neither? (Bi girls) Doe, tomcat, stag, or none of the above?

Do you bind?

Do you shave?

If you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be?

Are you in a relationship?

Describe your partner.

Have you ever dated anyone of the same gender?

Dated anyone of another gender?

Tell me a random fact about yourself!

Do you own any pride flags/merch?

Have you ever been to a pride parade?

Any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves?

Pineapple on pizza?

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We are unique

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57 and 28 for the ask thing!

57: Do you believe in ghosts?

Oh for sure. Over the summer I lived in a very haunted old inn and too many things happened for me to deny that ghosts exist. And maybe not the traditional ghosts but more so spirits?

28: Were you ever a boy/girl scout?

No thank goodness..... I would’ve hated that so much....

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73: Have you ever cried because you were so happy? (from the unique questions post)

Already answered this but,,,

Oh for sure. I am generally a really emotional person and there’s been a few times that I’ve cried with my friends from happiness for sure.

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18, 21, and 35?

18: What is your Song of the week?

Dear McCracken by Bug Hunter! My friend showed it to me and I’m in love.

21: Whats your least favorite movie?

Oo this is a hard one... I really love to hate Cats just cause it’s just really atrociously designed movie.

35: Best thing to eat for breakfast?

2 over medium eggs, hash browns, 2 pieces of toast, and turkey sausage.(basically an ihop breakfast)

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73 😊

73: Have you ever cried because you were so happy?

Oh for sure. I am generally a really emotional person and there’s been a few times that I’ve cried with my friends from happiness for sure.

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So I know you reblogged the “unique questions” thing way early in the month but... 7, 39, and 57

7: Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of a bees?

Big bear. I feel like the bees would hurt a lot more than the bear and I feel like I would either be able to fight the bear or it’d just kill me quicker so either way it’s better.

39: What is your Chinese astrological sign?

Dragon!!!

57: Do you believe in ghosts?

Oh for sure. Over the summer I lived in a very haunted old inn and too many things happened for me to deny that ghosts exist.

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for all the questioning folk out there!!

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I think I may have found the tumblr post you were asked about - the comic about the aromantic person who is in love with the idea of love. I reblogged the ask; if you can't find that, get in touch and I'll send you the link directly

I definitely forgot what comic I was asking about so if you still have the link that would be incredible if you sent it to me!

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So um can you be attracted to boys and be a cis female but like not really be attracted to them in a sexual way but maybe still want to be in a relationship with them or do i have to like girls to? Like how does t ha t work im a little confused i think im greysexual but im not sure.

You don’t have to be attracted to girls too if you’re greysexual. Greysexual just means that your sexual attraction fluctuated or is somewhere in between allosexual and asexual towards whatever genders you’re romantically attracted to.

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Hi! I recently realized that I'm demisexual (and maybe biromantic), but it's been hard to let myself use those terms. I've been in a relationship for 8 years now, and I thought not being attracted to anyone else was just part of being in love. Eventually I started thinking about how I never had crushes growing up when my friends always did, and how I still felt sexual urges, just not directed at anyone specific. Part of me still feels like I can't take on this identity because I've always identified as straight, and I'm in a heterosexual relationship, so it feels like the I can't be a part of the community or that there's not a place for me in it. I think maybe I would have understood myself better if I was aware of demisexuality when I was younger, and that maybe if I was out back then I would feel more connected to the community and my demisexuality.

Sorry for the long message just needed to rant! 💖

You can definitely use those labels even if you have identified as straight before. And I definitely know how it’s hard to identify as such when you appear to be in a “straight” relationship. But know that your relationship doesn’t invalidate who you are as a person.

I hope this help and always feel free to rant in my ask box anytime.

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I think I might be demiromantic? I already think/know im asexual, would it be alright to ask about that here?

I’m personally not Aro or demiromantic ( I think) but you can for sure ask and I’ll help to the best of my abilities!

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heyy. I was wondering how one can tell if they're gray ace/on the asexual spectrum. i've had crushes but it was more based on personality and i never felt aroused or attracted to them in a sexual way. ik when someone looks good, but thats as far as it goes. if i come across smut im not turned on much and lowkey cringe/feel nothing at all if i try to imagine that being me in that scenario. im a virgin but idk if that takes away validation since lots of people know before they experience.

From what you said, all of that lines up with being asexual. And if you feel like ace or another aspec term fits, you can definitely use it if it feels right, even if you haven’t had sex yet.

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Ok so if you don't really want the sexual part of a relationship just falling in love, would that be considered asexual? And if so which term would it be? Sorry if this is odd,thank you!

That’s pretty much exactly what asexuality is! Asexuality is not being sexually attracted to anyone. Not wanting to have sex may be a sign of you being sex repulsed or maybe sex neutral.

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Fact: Today (September 23rd) is bisexuality awareness day. Be aware of bisexuals. They are dangerous.