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Hey @Enby-I-barely-looked-at-them, you blocked me from replying to your Gofundme post, and that’s kind of weird, but here we go!

You say there was a “mutually agreed upon” restraining order, but that’s not how DVPOs work. A Domestic Violence Protection Order is court-issued after evidence is presented—usually by a survivor seeking safety. It’s not a handshake deal or a mutual decision. It’s a legal response to harm.

If you did nothing wrong, why would a court restrict your contact with someone and their child? Why is that order in place? You’re asking the internet to side with you, but you’re not telling the full story. You’re leaving out what led to the order—what you were accused of—and that’s not a small omission.

Framing yourself as a victim while ignoring the person you harmed is manipulative. You talk about fairness, but where is that concern when it comes to their safety and peace?

You also call yourself a “dedicated dad,” but what exactly have you done in that role lately? Have you provided support—financial, emotional, or otherwise—in the last several months? Or is this dedication only showing up now that you want sympathy online?

You don’t get to twist the facts to look more palatable online while someone else is living with the aftermath of your actions. Survivors deserve protection, not public smear campaigns dressed up as crowdfunding posts.