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[agape-sys]

[agape-sys]

happy pride month to all plurals - be as queer as you can be! kiss your in-sys partners and out-sys partners! trans your gender! homo your sexuality!

shoutout to every single queer being ever, you're so awesome and deserve the world.

[agape-sys]

I got banned from an LGBTQ+ crisis holine for being pro-endogenic today.

yes, really. I got hired on as a support councilor, and made my introduction as a diagnosised DID system that is happy to help out with plurality related conflicts regardless of their system's origin. The owner of the hotline knew nothing of the discourse up until this point.

multiple anti-endo systems bombarded their DMs, calling me ableist and said people like "me" were ruining the community. I provided my sources. despite the owner agreeing with me in the end, they couldn't keep me as a councilor OR LET ME USE THE HOTLINE because my opinions built on inclusiveness made the other systems uncomfortable.

[agape-sys]

You Are Plural!

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You Are Plural!

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[agape-sys]

i love you systems who are disordered i love you systems who are traumagenic i love you systems who are traumaendo i love you systems who are endogenic i love you systems who are spiritual

i love you systems who have no headspace i love you systems who have a blurry/wavering headspace i love you systems who have a fluctuating headspace i love you systems who have a small headspace i love you systems who have a medium headspace i love you systems who have a big headspace i love you systems who have a gigantic headspace

i love you systems with neurodivergence i love you systems with cluster a disorders i love you systems with cluster b disorders i love you systems with cluster c disorders i love you systems with physical disorders i love you systems with mental disorders i love you systems with temporary disorders i love you systems with permanent disorders i love you systems with no disorders i love you systems with one disorder i love you systems with multiple disorders i love you systems with tons of disorders

i love you systems who have no headmates yet i love you systems who have little headmates i love you systems who have average amount of headmates i love you systems who have a big amount of headmates i love you systems who have a massive amount of headmates i love you systems who have infinite headmates

i love you systems who are stereotypical i love you systems who are your average every day person i love you systems who are fakeclaimed i love you systems who aren't fakeclaimed i love you systems who are posted to reddit threads i love you systems who aren't out as a system yet

i love you systems.

[agape-sys]

✨️✨️✨️i dearly hope you have a fantastic day, the nontraumagenic headmate reading this ✨️✨️✨️

[agape-sys]

It's THIS simple:

[agape-sys]

dont let anyone tell you in-sys relationships aren’t real or valid, the butterflies i get in my stomach thinking about my headmate is insane.

[agape-sys]

hey reminder that switching looks different for everyone, and you have zero fucking right to tell people that they're making their system up for their switches looking differently to yours.

some people zone out and stare into the void.

some people have the head drop

some people have barely noticeable switches

some people have switches that takes ages

most people have a mix of switches.

you have zero right to tell them they're "switching incorrectly." wtf even is that.

[agape-sys]

🍓 - Two of us speak japanese, but they bodily of course can't spell anything

🍒 - Idk, maybe smash bros melee opening's theme because how much different we're from eachother

🍊 - Most of us wearing in some way classical clothes but flowerboy is the only one who's wearing streetwear(also merlyn who's wearing dresses, she's the only female sysmate)

🥭 - Me 100%

🍍 - flowerboy or albert. also me sometimes, hehe x)

🍋 - igor is the only one who's christian(protestant)

🍏 - voi/void for albert and she/her for merlyn(god damn, my girl is so lonely😭)

🥝 - flowerboy for being generally naughty, harmful and benjamin for his past as persecutor

🍇 - most of us are quite skilled(I don't want to talk a lot about our lore inside of paracosm)

🫐 - most of us are fictive-heavy preveras, two of us are monsters(sourced from deltarune), also one is shapeshifter

❤️ - I don't know, most of us don't have common interests

🧡 - Yes, we do celebrate the holidays inside of paracosm where's the rest of our close circle

💛 - A bit troubled family

💚 - Listen to your sysmates, not to others, communication is a key

💙 - Maybe a deer, intelligence and purity

💜 - Sadly no, because we're endo and I'm the only one in the system who speaks ukrainian

- Answered, Pavlo

System Ask Game

You All Seemed To Enjoy Our Last Ask Game,So Here's Another One! Feel Free To Ask Us These Questions As Well!

🍓 - Do You Have Any Headmates That Speak A Langauge Other Than What The Body Would Normally Speak?

🍒 - If Your System Had A Theme Song,What Would It Be?

🍊 - Is There Anyone In Your System That Has A Wildly Different Clothing Preference Than Everyone Else?

��� - Who Is The Worst With Money?

🍍 - Who In Your System Is The Most Chaotic?

🍋 - Does Anyone Is Your System Practice A Religion Different From Others In The System?

🍏 - What Is The Most Unique Pronoun Set Someone In Your System Uses?

🥝 - Who In Your System Has A Flair For The Dramatic?

🍇 - Is There Anyone In Your System Who Is Particularly Skilled In Something Others Are Not?

🫐 - Is There Any Type Of Headmate That Your System Is Particularly Heavy On? (Introjects,Non-human,Etc)

❤️ - Does Anyone In Your System Have An Interest Or Favorite Thing That Everyone Else Hates?

🧡 - Does Your System Celebrate Holidays Amongst Yourselves? (Buying Eachother Gifts For Christmas,Etc)

💛 - If You Had To Describe Your System In One Word,What Would It Be?

💚 - What Is One Piece Of Advice You Would Give To Someone Just Discovering Their System?

💙 - If You Were To Choose An Animal To Represent Your System,What Would It Be?

💜 - Are You Open About Being A System Outside Of Online Spaces?

[agape-sys]

Let’s have some positivity for the systems who don’t fit the strict medical/nonmedical binary! Shoutout to the systems with complex origins and/or disordered status!

Shoutout to the endogenic or spiritual systems with CDDs and/or (C)PTSD!

Shoutout to the traumagenic-spec systems who split/formed to deal with the adversity they faced but never fufilled the disordered requirements for CDDs and/or (C)PTSD!

Shoutout to the systems of all origins in late stage CDD and/or (C)PTSD recovery, or those who are fully recovered!

Shoutout to the systems of all origins who “just” have DPDR!

Shoutout to the traumagenic systems that split/formed later in life!

Shoutout to the systems who voluntarily split/formed to deal with adversity!

Shoutout to the disordered median systems of all origins who aren’t multiple enough to fulfill the requirements for a CDD!

Shoutout to the systems who don’t know their origins, find their origins irrelevant, or reject origin labels altogether!

Shoutout to the semi-disordered systems!

Shoutout to ALL traumagenic-spec and endogenic, created, spiritual, and/or nontraumagenic-spec systems!

And shoutout to every other system that cannot fit neatly into the two boxes this community has created!

Yall are amazing and valid, and you don’t need to give up any aspect of your identity, regardless of what anyone else says. I wish there were more recognition and acceptance of you in this community…

[agape-sys]

I'm getting real tired of "pro-endos" who are selective in their definition of endogenics. either you accept all of us or you don't, pick a damn lane....

[agape-sys]

Anti-endos: Why do pro-endos support endogenic systems? They're harming all of us!

Also Anti-endos : Pro-endos are probably just endogenic systems pretending to have CDDs, no person with a CDD will support them!

Yea I wonder why, y'all love to exclude and fakeclaim people for not agreeing with your hate takes toward a group that is literally in the same boat with you, fascists hate all of us, stop being a hater!

[agape-sys]

anti-endos 👏 do not 👏 own 👏 the rights 👏 to 👏 plurality 👏

[agape-sys]

🌌List of Ways to Spend Time with Your In-system Partner in the Exoworld🌌

Journaling Together(sending letters to another, conversation, love notes, feelings)

Listening to Music together

Watching movies or shows together and talking to another about it

Gaming together, maybe spectate another or make decisions together

Going on walks or exploring nature together

Cooking and baking together

Working out together, maybe one will possess the body while the other helps encourage

Drawing or writing together

Getting a physical representation of your relationship, like a ring

Meditating together

Divination together(tarot)

Letting your partner make decisions for or with you

Planning and doing a Morning or Night ritual together, like helping another get dressed or brush their teeth

Self care time together

Eating together

Clean and organize together

Shopping together

driving together

reading together

show/save images and memes your partner might enjoy

"Texting" another throughout the day (using simplyplural chat or pluralkit discord)

Mental check-ins, if you have fronted and haven't spoken to your partner, just call them up and ask them how they're doing

Encourage another throughout the day

Help another with homework or work(If one is tired, maybe take over for them, or help guide them through studying or not getting distracted)

[agape-sys]

I love you irl conversations about plurality

I love you respectful curious singlets/questioning systems

I love you normalizing plurality

[agape-sys]

That moment when you feel to plural to be a singlet but too singlet to be plural