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Happiness Is one of the Best Revenge

Happiness is one of the best revenge there is. Happiness is a choice. Choosing to move forward with your life is a choice. We walk through life, unconsciously that sometimes people around you may try to tear you down, cause misery to your life without you fully realizing it. Put downs, back stabbings, people who try to belittle you, even. Verbal attacks, without you doing or saying anything to the other person. Do you think that person or persons would go out of their way to try and make you feel negatively, to want you to feel good about yourself? The answer to that is, "Absolutely, Not!". Whether their intention is based on jealousy, just dislike you, or hating on you to make themselves feel a little better. The person does not want you to be happy. So, choosing to be happy, and choosing to move forward with your life is one of the best revenge. 

There's always a choice. Remember that you are beautiful, and God loves you. Forget the negativity of infliction of anyone negative around you. Continue to be positive. Continue to strive on with your life. Eventually good things will happen, and know and believe that you deserve it.

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Stay Strong, Because You Are Worth It! =)

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Happy Easter!!! =)

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"Surround yourself with positive people. People who motivate and encourages you. People who inspires you to become better, and brings out the best in you."

Jennifer Lovering

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Happy New Year!!! 2014!!! =)

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Remembrance Day.

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Blessings in Life.

If you have...  Food in the refrigerator,  Clothes to wear, A place to live in,  Have clean water, and a bed to sleep in;  You are richer than 75% of the people in the world. If you have money in the bank,  Money in your wallet; and some change left over,  You are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthiest people. If you are alive with more health than illness;  You are more blessed than the millions of people who will not make it this week. If you are able to read this message;  You are more blessed than the 3 billions of people in this world who cannot read.

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Speak now, or forever hold your peace.

Interesting topic, not necessarily taking about a wedding here. "Speak now, or forever hold your peace", applies to the conflicts we have with others or a situation in life. Sometimes if you don't speak up, or speak your mind about something you don't like, you end up regretting it later. The what if's, the should'have, could've. The best thing to do is to not have regrets, by speaking up when confronted by something you don't like, or have a gut instinct that something isn't right. Trust your gut instincts, sometimes we all forget to do that. It's better to confront a situation sooner than later. Sooner would cause a whole lot less stress, than if you were to confront it after running away from it for so long, could often result in a heated, explosion type of temper, since you've held onto it for soo long. Silence doesn't solve problems, actions do, sometimes confronting the situation is the best thing, and often the right thing to do. 

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"There's no right or wrong way of doing something, when you are being true to yourself and following your heart."

Jennifer Lovering

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Give 100%

All you can do is give 100% (of the 50%) of what you can do in any form of relationship, whether it be a friend, close friend, partnership, and or significant other. You can't control what the other party wants, do, feel, reaction, etc, etc. All you can do is be the best you that you can be. It's either take it or leave it. As long as you know in your heart you did everything you could to make it work, and if it didn't, it's okay. If it wasn't reciprocated, you deserve better. And, it's okay to walk away. <3 ~ God Bless. XO ~

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Love and Lost

Not Talking about "Love-Love". I'm talking about any form of love, any form of some type of a relationship. A form of a relationship isn't always a form of a relationship between lovers, it could be a friend or a close friend. A form of a relationship is an association between two parties. I believe we all go through a form of a Heartbreak at one point or another. Whether it be emotional loss, financial loss, business loss, transaction loss, friendship loss, lover loss, etc, etc... But, that's the chance we need to take to find the good things that life has to offer; just like you need to learn to walk before you could learn to run. It's okay to go through these things. I personally have. But, you need to get through the Heartbreaks to get to the Heart Cakes. Love and Lost. Live life to it's fullest with no regrets. Often times, we regret things on some level, but, what you regret the most is not taking the chance to finding something out. Whether it be good or bad, at least you have an answer. Not having an answer is like someone who goes back on their words without saying anything. But, finding a true answer is one of the greatest things you can do for yourself. God Bless. ~

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Happy Lunar New Year!! XO.

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Safe Route or the Fun Route?

Good question. The tried and the tried, or the untested? Do you dare to find out? Sometimes learning from other people's mistakes can help you become better than finding out yourself. I'm a big believer in "Actions speaks louder.." When you're looking into investing your money, don't fall for things that seems, too good to be true. It most likely isn't true. But, at times you have to take your chances, and test the waters, to see if it is true. There's a saying, "Is the Grass Greener on the Other-side?" That phrase can apply to many things in all areas of life, not just romantically, as many may think when that comes to mind. Well, is it Greener on the other-side? As long as you have no regrets in your investments, then go ahead, GO for it. And, always do your research, before you jump into it. Don't be too upset, if it didn't go exactly as planned or wanted it to be. At least, you know how it turned out to be, instead of spending time wondering whether or not it could be true, or what could've been.

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Chocolates

Mmm..delicious, huh? Have foods ever called your name? Like Chocolates, junk foods, foods that you know are unhealthy? I have. Just don't overindulge. It's okay to have a few snacks or two, when it's calling your name. Or once in a while. A good workout habit is great to maintain. We all have metabolism. Know your metabolism. Some people have quicker metabolism. I do. Some have a lower metabolism. Either is okay. Depending on your weight-loss or maintenance goals. If you're craving for a snack. Wait 20-minutes, and ask yourself, "if you still want that snack?" Or replace a junk food snack with something healthy, like an apple or something. "An apple a day, keeps the doctors away". Like they say, "You are what you eat". Have you ever eaten something, and after you don't feel so good? That's the after effect of "You are what you eat". Or feel great after eating something. Pay attention to that, and of course stick to the "Feeling Great", effect. Stay Healthy. Live Longer. Keep Smiling. XD

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Happy New Year!

It's finally here! 2013! We've made it! Another year ahead, this is just the beginning. Whether it be Happiness, Love, Success, Money that you're looking for. Remember one step at a time, don't overwork yourself. Hopefully you'll find what your looking for in the new 2013! As I am. Creating more new memories, just one step at a time. What is it that you're looking for? Remember to keep active, stay healthy, working out is a great way to keep your mind in check. Don't be afraid to ask for help when you feel that you need help. Don't let your "pride" get the best of you. Keep your head up. Keep your dreams alive! XO - Jennifer Lovering

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WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER WHEN YOU ARE IN A BAD MOOD?

Running and workout, drink lots of water.