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Is it necessary to come out? I did it because I needed support to defend my partner in court... I didn't get any help. On the positive side, I can be honest about where I'm going, with whom. I can make arrangements for person to come and have tea. I can comfortably keep masks, I don't have to explain everything, I can even have someone stay over. Is it difficult to practice at home? Yes. No noise. Every partner is commented by parents, pushed to fit certain criteria, as if a parent is choosing him. It ruins relationships. Everything is clear, there's no mystery. If it's hidden, there's a kind of romanticism of illegality. Some parents get children kicked out of the house , some are beaten. In my opinion, if you have your own place and can live without supervision from your parents, then you might not need to tell them. If there are still issues with the living situation and you need a solution for organizing meetings without lying, then it's worth considering this option. Some media i have: Instagram.com/andreythepup www.youtube.com/andreythepup

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Have you ever thought about why some people prefer dominance and submission games in their relationships? It turns out, it could be linked to childhood trauma. Here's how the experience from the book "The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog" can be adapted into a role-playing scenario.

Studies show that many people, when faced with aggressive situations that caused trauma, felt powerless and unable to control it. By repeating practices in BDSM, they can create scenarios where they can take control of the situation rather than feeling helpless, and most importantly, they can control it. When this is repeated many times, it no longer feels like a traumatic experience, but rather something the brain can understand.

This becomes a way for them to cope with and process traumas that have left a deep impact on their psyche. It helps the brain create a more "tolerable" pattern of stress that it can classify and control. Repeating this pattern is key to the ability to process traumatic memories.

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Human pup discovers the window

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Why do people like to embell buildings in marble or brick? I guess, it's about creating the illusion that the building is actually made of that material.

Greek temples were indeed constructed from solid marble blocks. For many years, it was a bright example.

But, building with solid marble blocks is expensive. People learned to mimic the appearance of a tectonic wall by using a thinner layer of facing material. Same with brick. Nowadays, modern insulation materials can create a facade that looks like brick but a wat more thick - a significant cost-saving measure.

Moreover, brick has limitations as a load-bearing material. Even in skyscrapers, brick is combined with steel to support the structure. In modern frame buildings, this thin layer of "brick" or other materials creates the illusion of a solid and robust exterior. However, upon closer inspection, it's just a decorative facade. Brick is no longer a strong foundation; it's merely a protective shell against the elements. Some media i have: Instagram.com/andreythepup www.youtube.com/andreythepup t.me/andreythepup_bot Feel free to remix.

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Grasshopper

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What to do in case of rape? I have experienced it before and it is a very painful experience. It is different from regular sex in that it is violent, unclean, and traumatic. I told my partner about it, but he didn't know what to do after it happened.

I don't have any self-defense skills. The idea is that if something goes wrong and you don't can't defend yourself , you can bang on the walls and radiators and cry "fire". This is better than being raped and it gets attention faster. You can also try to defecate; you will lose less dignity than if you are forcibly penetrated.

If you couldn't escape and you were forced to comply, it is better to tell someone, especially if it happened with your partner. If your partner was the one who was stuck in it, it is better to show them that he is now safe and offer support and to value him. Together, you can overcome the situation. Physical resistance is okay, but be careful, as you might be the one in trouble afterwards. What would you do? Some media i have: Instagram.com/andreythepup www.youtube.com/andreythepup Feel free to remix.

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The original idea was to project the Kintsugi to body, to show that my life is built through different circumstances, sometimes positive, sometimes negative, but by being built using broken pieces, it is still strong. But while editing, i got a mind, that it is how my mind works. At first i get a neutral idea. Somewhere inside it, i get a core for another idea, and it can be added as an extra branch. Then, when I'm too much with one area, i try to bypass them, by seeing another side of the matter. After all, all that gets some joining aspects (intersections). I have more at https://t.me/Andreythepup_bot (ask for a link to channel or cooperation) instagram: andreythepup

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Punctuality is very important to me. I have very little time in a week, and I consider every minute important. It's also important for me to feel prioritized, that I am important to the person, and they are willing to dedicate time to me, rather than getting caught up with a colleague. As someone who dreams of having a family, it's important to me that my partner has the skill of planning. Some media i have: Instagram.com/andreythepup www.youtube.com/andreythepup Feel free to remix.

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I have more at https://t.me/Andreythepup_bot (ask for a link) instagram: andreythepup