arquaticdreamer
arquaticdreamer
ArquaticDreamer
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🫧 He/Him 🫧 High Support Needs 🫧 FND & ME/CFS 🫧 Systeen 🫧 INFP-T 4x5 🫧 Full-Time AAC user 🫧 Multiply Disabled ♿️ 🫧 HoH 🫧 Borderline ID 🫧 Fully Nonspeaking Autist ♾️ 🫧 Polyfrag C-DID 🫧 SFW agere blog 🫧 please read pinned
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Let's include traumatized mentally disabled and developmentally disabled autistic regressors with incontinence issues. They are valid you are not broken or wrong
no agere is impure. this includes:
involuntary regression
tantrum filled regression
symptomatic regression
people who regress to older ages than “normal”
poc regressors
queer regressors
alterhuman regressors
autistic / mentally disabled regressors
physically disabled regressors
alterhuman regressors whose alterhumanity doesnt go away when regressed
regressors who dont have titles on their regresson
non themed regression
hypersexual regressors
animalistic age regression
regressors who hate regression / are negatively impacted by it
regressors who dont have gear nor desire it
age stunted regressors
autistic regressors who have sensory issues with common things in the community
i love you and i see you. you are just as important in this community as everyone else. all regression is equal even if it is different for everyone. im sorry you have been labeled as less than, tainted or dirty. you are still valuable and valid. you should have a bigger space here.
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Arquatic Cloud here:
TW: Mentions of media abl//sm of disabled people, harmful rhetoric and ideologies in kids’ media
https://youtu.be/mdq__QGTMqk?si=_ApyE_QEBsf8z5eO I found this video essay and it perfectly explains and goes into detail briefly of the weird disabled representation of the Toy Story franchise. And I think it’s super worth looking into. Especially those of the autistic and nonspeaking community. There are no trigger warning slurs or cussing in this video for those who want a clean video. It’s incredibly in depth of a look at the Toy Story franchise on the controversial ideology of being “cured” or “fixed” of their disabilities.
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Thank you for posting this everyone needs to be talking about this more people need to be talking about this. As a higher support needs fully nonverbal autistic people need to know just how much actually autistic people are trying to erase HSN autistics who very much are not independent nor can some of us ever live independent lives or pay taxes or pay bills. I myself have my caregivers paying for everything financially I can't balance a check I can't drive a car I just don't have the motor skills to do that I can't even ride a bike on my own. Most of us nonspeakers/MSN-HSN will never be able to do these basic every day things. It's not second nature for us like it is for you who are LSN and speaking. It sucks but we don't deserve to have our lives or experiences erased or written over. We matter too!!! Please don't forget that we exist too.
Yes. Some autistic people can pay taxes, write poems, live an independent life, etc.
But some of us cant. Some of us, like me, cant live independently. Cant be without someone. Cant be a member of society without extreme accommodation and help.
I need help in everyday life. I have a caregiver for gods sake. I need help in everyday life and will never be independent. It’s frustrating to constantly get comments about how autistic people can live independently. Cause some of us cant, and that needs to be talked about. I get sores from not showering enough. I get sores from my wheelchair. I have cavities from not brushing my teeth enough.
Life with higher support needs shouldn’t be something that is ignored and not talked about. My caregiver helps me live life as independently as possible. Independence looks different for everyone. Our caregivers are an extension of ourselves. Our caregivers are important and should be recognized. Stop throwing us under the bus for your “salvation”
We are all at risk, and throwing higher support needs people under the bus will not benefit you. You’re ruining years of advocacy by your words and videos.
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Same fam and I am proud that I never will
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Istg if I hear one more parent or person online calling the parents/caregivers of their autistic child angels or literal angels from heaven I'm gonna scream! Yes there are moments where my caregiver looks visibly exhausted. But it doenst help knowing our landlady telling my caregiver "omg God bless you i couldn't do the work you do" like damn I'm just trying to live my life. I get it I'm annoying when I have screaming meltdowns but I'm also annoyed by them as well for having them having full blown screaming meltdowns is exhausting for the person having it too not just the caregiver/parent. Parents and caregivers for doing the basic bare minimum and sticking with their kids caring for them full time are still not angels from heaven. I hate the idea of someone telling my caregiver out in public "Oh god bless you" and other bulls**t like even as someone who believes in God i wouldn't do that to another disabled family
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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calico critters sunny castle nursery! 🍼🎀
apologies for being so inactive lately.. i’ve been busy but here’s a new post for everypony!
i’m vry grateful my dad still buys me these, lov my dad :3
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Calico Critters - Sunny Castle Nursery 🩷
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Sylvanian families / Calico critters moodboard
NSFW DNI
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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little sea explorer 🐚🌊
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Smol Thoughts...
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smol dreams are the bestest.
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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i love playing with toys 🧸💗
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Being a kid at an aquarium
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Calling clown fish Nemos
Divider made by me
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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Cloud loves loves loves Calico Critters miniatures!!!!! So precious and great for age regressing play times.
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arquaticdreamer · 1 month ago
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This is so real istg it’s so annoying and infuriating when people do this crap…like don’t hug the f**king wall!!! Just politely move out of the way. I hate when they put their hands up too!!! So annoying!!! It’s not the end of the world if a wheelchair user comes to pass you by. We’re humans too.
If I see one more abled person HUG THE FUCKING WALL. While I roll past in my wheelchair and act like they’re getting pushed against it. I will FUCKING lose it!!
Don’t hug the wall people. I’m not gonna run you over. There is no need for you to hug the wall with your hands up.
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arquaticdreamer · 2 months ago
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Welp…it was nice being here while it lasted. F*** greedy CEOs..making the internet so inaccessible for literally everyone.
Remember when I told ya'll last month to be ready to start looking for a Discord alternative?
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Yeah things aren't looking good for discord.
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