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this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.

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Isn’t it great they’re both definitely alive and thriving in their retirement

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A totally adorable Face Journey ™ while listening to a ~*co-worker*~ talk. [x]

Bonus

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Not me at work, trying desperately not to start crying at It's A Small World song.

I want to go to Disney. A day at Magic Kingdom would be great.

I don't think he'd go with me, even if I paid for everything.

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Me and my grandson 👬 about to drop him off at his first day of school 📝(I know he looks 25, it’s complicated.) Didn’t think I’d ever have grandchildren cause my son is gay 👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏳️‍🌈 but it ended up working out🎉🙏🙏🙏

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I knew Cas saying goodbye was gonna be brutal. But god damn.

I love Jack, but in general I’m not a huge fan of 14 and 15.

As much as I love this show. They really dragged it out a little too long. I stopped watching the first time around after the Amara season.

I miss Crowley.

I already miss Cas.

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But I'm a Cheerleader (1999) dir. Jamie Babbit

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just thinking about things

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angel grace should have been able to cure demons and demon blood should have been able to corrupt angels and this would have made demon dean arc even sexier

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Sometimes I think I hate the SPN finale and then I remember that Jensen initially fucking hated it so much that they got Eric Kripke to gaslight him into thinking it was good. Only for him to immediately go off and create/produce/act in a spinoff series after the show ended all so he could fix the shitty writing. No one hates the SPN finale like Jensen Ackles hates the SPN finale.

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when you remember they went to the HOT TOPICAL !!!!!! THEY WENT TO THE MALL !!!! THEY WERE SHOPPING TOGETHER FOR HOURS !!! THEY DEFINITELY ATE AT THE FOOD COURT !!!! IT WAS LITERALLY A DATE !!! A MALL DATE !!!! GREW UP IN THE 80s AND 90s DEAN WINCHESTER TOOK HIS ANGEL ON A MALL DATE BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT ALL THE COOL KIDS DID AND HE NEVER GOT TO !!!! THEY CAME BACK AND DEAN’S HAND WAS ON CAS’S SHOULDER 

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Dean doesn’t believe in a damn thing AND THEN THE CAMERA CUTS DIRECTLY TO CAS RETURNING TO EARTH

Oh faithless man! You’re about to believe all over again!

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You’re telling me that Dean’s grief and anger over Cas being gone, is what Jack used to wake him up in the Empty.

Not opening a rift again for Mary…

Cas…

Lmao that is the gayest thing I’ve ever heard.

But it’s totally heterosexual bro love tho 🫠 ok bud.

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with his arm around dean.

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I’m sorry. Lucifer takes possession of the President.

Lmao.

This show is so unserious and I love it so much.

I love that there are episodes that are new to me still… I forgot the wonder at the ridiculous unfolding that’s new.

Also I love Rowena and Crowley.

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