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belliameedacci · 4 years ago

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North Node in the houses of Composite Chart🌌💖

Hello my dears! I hope you are all doing wonderfully today! In today's post I will give my opinion in the North Node's placement in the composite, some things that I have noticed and relationship dynamics! I hope you enjoy it!

🌌North Node in the 1st house. “Meant to find yourself with them”. There is an incredible quality in this relationship, and it is the fact that both will always allow the other to show themselves as they are, without prejudice, without criticism. There is an ability to motivate the other to be the best version of themselves, there is a strong and passionate feeling to always see in that person the ideal partner. Both feel strongly similar to the other and coexistence can be very easy. Both of you will play a crucial and important role in each other's lives and will be more than happy to spend many years alongside each other. A fun, enthusiastic partner who makes both of you feel emotionally full. It seems that they have found the perfect partner. A relationship that is destined to become a part of you, a relationship that will mark your life forever. Endowed with fun and genuine feelings, the natives will spend a lot of time together, even before formalizing. This placement tells us about a sincere fascination for the body, the mentality and the whole of the couple, a desire that they always be true to themselves when they are with us and vice versa.

🌌North Node in the 2nd house. “Meant to comfort each other, meant to stay in your life”. They are characterized by being a stable couple, somewhat reserved and extremely romantic. It does not matter if it is the twentieth date, it will always feel like the first, both parts are constant and will always try to make the relationship calm, loving and peaceful. The relationship becomes a relaxation zone for both natives, seeing it as something that brings peace in case of having a stressful day. Love becomes the most valuable investment for both, an investment of money, love, mutual support and wholesome. This placement indicates a lot of stability and the ability to keep everything under control in case problems arise. The natives become each other's life companions, advisers, and the pillar of the other. Both parties can find in the other the security that they may have lacked in other relationships (not only of a romantic nature), and they can feel that they are finally appreciated and valued for who they are, for what they achieve, for their goals and for what they have.

🌌North Node in the 3rd house. “Meant to wander in your head, meant to be intrigued by each other”. These couples are particularly interesting, they can often think about each other, maybe too much, and they can always talk about each other. They are fascinated by the mentality and personality of the other and simply have one thing in mind and to know the other as much as possible. Being the house of "day to day", it talks about a need to see each other and talk constantly. This couple is extremely funny, witty, and wonderful in many ways. Communication is crucial for them, and they may be fascinated by their partner's voice and speech. They are destined to learn a lot from each other, to meet a lot of people through this relationship, and to have fun and get out of the routine. Natives can discover new interests after spending time with each other, they can generate a more concrete opinion on a particular topic and they can have constant debates among themselves. Both will feel curious about the other and will seek to understand each other perfectly. They are people with the same level of maturity and similar opinions, they may even share hobbies.

🌌North Node in the 4th house. “Meant to stay in your heart, meant to be significant”. This couple is truly tender, caring and very supportive with each other. Both people can feel a deep emotional union that makes them feel safe with the other, there is a natural need to protect and take care of the other constantly. This couple is characterized by being long-lasting, emotional and quite stable. They become confidants as there is a tremendous amount of understanding and trust between them. The simple idea of hugging, of holding hands and knowing that the next day they will see each other is something magnificent for both natives. Both natives can help each other to overcome possible traumas, fears or insecurities from childhood, or they can even help the other to overcome possible problems for opening up. Both help each other give themselves a break from the possible stress they may have from work or their day to day, they teach each other not to put aside their mental and emotional well-being for their work or the ambitions they may have. They teach themselves to be more gentle with themselves.

🌌North Node in the 5th house. “Meant to be your light, meant to bring you joy”. This placement is incredibly adorable, in many ways, the main thing is that they are their own motivators, both natives had, have and will have many happy memories. There is a playful, daring, fascinating, fun and passionate quality in this relationship, there is a desire to make each other happy, to have fun with each other, to admire the beauty of the couple and to bring joy and entertainment to the other. Both natives admire and appreciate each other deeply, in this relationship the one who predominates is and will always be the heart, both parties will be guided by what their heart dictates, and they will always try to show themselves strong before the other. I have noticed that with this placement it is very likely that both parties will learn about what the other is passionate about in order to better understand it and make their partner happy. Natives may discover new passions or hobbies while with this person or find what they will love to do. Both people can learn not to take things too seriously and can support each other in understanding that they don't need to be perfect and that they are valuable just the way they are.

🌌North Node in the 6th house. “Meant to support you no matter what, meant to love your habits.” A stable relationship, full of support, devotion and a lot of perseverance. Both people persevere for mutual wellbeing, they fight to help the other to carry that heaviness that day to day can bring. There is a desire to make the other feel better, to make them feel genuinely supported, appreciated and needed, both have the need to contribute something to their partner, to enter the less superficial side of love. They are not afraid to make sacrifices for the other person and are capable of putting aside the ego to watch over the hearts of their loved ones. Both value each other's efforts, both value each other's details no matter how small, and both are able to teach each other to see the inner strength that they individually possess. With a firm word, they will always try to keep their promises, especially the one regarding to be by each other's side when things aren’t going so well. They will love the idea of seeing their loved one doing the simplest things, such as sleeping, working, doing something they are passionate about, whatever it is, really. They will love the idea of protecting and caring for the physical, emotional and mental health of the other.

🌌North Node in the 7th house: “Meant to be by your side, meant to be your company”. It makes me think a lot about the song I was made for loving you. This placement expresses romanticism in its maximum splendor, the couple may want to get married or have a life together, in fact it may be an idea that they have had for a long time. Both will be very open with their intentions and will express without any problem the love they feel towards the other as time passes, since I have noticed that for some reason or another, they tend to hide what they feel at first. They usually take things slowly and on many occasions the love of this couple can be something traditional. There is a desire to remind each other daily of what you feel, to let them know how important it is to their life, and to tell them how fascinating they are. This placement makes the natives meet each other constantly, and even without really looking for it. Many "chance or accidental encounters'' are prone to this placement, there is usually a strangely matching atmosphere between the two. I have noticed that in many cases the attraction or liking between people with this placement tends to be reciprocal.

🌌North Node in the 8th house: “Meant to transform you deeply, meant to drive you crazy”. Many people are terrified by this North Node position, others are begging for it. It is a placement full of intensity and constant changes, so it is not recommended for people with trust issues or immature people. This couple changes each other in an intense way, it makes you face yourself, analyze your defects and virtues. There is a lethal attraction between the two, and the possibility of connecting intensely in the area emotionally. Both natives may feel that they found a person to trust fully, they feel that they found a unique person who makes them feel inexplicably intense things, a person who makes them explore the darker sides of themselves. The couple is characterized by being very close, supportive, reserved and loyal. The couple must have a lot of self-control in terms of their emotions, since they can react intensely to any misunderstanding, problem or argument they may have, maturity undoubtedly plays a crucial role in this relationship. Both tend to feel very intensely when they are with the other, be it happiness, excitement, anger or jealousy.

🌌North Node in the 9th house: “Meant to explore each corner of you, meant to give you new perspectives”. A relationship based on the exploration of oneself and the other person. This couple will undoubtedly have many moments of fun without losing that touch of maturity and growth. Both can be taught to see their own potential, new ideologies, and give each other different perspectives. It is a very good placement for people who long to travel with their partner, as it promises trips and adventures of all kinds together. This relationship will bring spiritual growth and philosophical development in both natives. I have noticed that this placement is somewhat common in long distance couples. It is worth mentioning that this is a mostly positive relationship that will bring great luck to both natives, they can be the other's lucky charm. In this relationship, both will be amazed by the depth of the other, by their way of thinking and they will be more than amazed by the way of being of the other. They will learn to take life lightly and learn that being happy, both by themselves and being together is what matters most.

🌌North Node in the 10th house: “Meant to admire you, meant to grow with you”. A couple made to be successful in whatever field they decide, since they will always motivate, support and encourage each other to give the best of themselves. A couple in which there is mutual admiration, a couple whose appreciation, love and devotion is quite visible to the public. It is very likely that through this relationship high rungs of success will be climbed by both natives, either through encouragement and words of affirmation or because the other person directly leads the other. Another classic placement in a power couple, this North Node overlay indicates that there can be a great improvement, either personal or professional, in both natives. Without a doubt, a quite serious and formal couple, whose love will be evident even to those who do not know them personally. It is characterized by being a couple with the potential to last for many years, a couple made up of independent individuals who are more than happy to integrate the other into their schedule and spend time with the other. A relationship that can be very successful and that can attract the envy of many people.

🌌North Node in the 11th house: “Meant to free you from yourself, meant to be your partner in crime”. They will be encouraged to leave that comfort zone behind to dare to go after what they want most. Both can change the ideologies of the other a lot, contribute interesting ideas or thoughts or simply have similar ideologies. In this relationship we see the fusion of two souls in search of freedom, authenticity and new emotions that they have never experienced before. A relationship full of acceptance, companionship, justice and eccentric affection. Both may feel that they finally found a person who is sincere, a person who respects and takes them seriously, but most importantly, they both feel that they finally found that person capable of fascinate them in every way and capable of inspiring them. Both are motivated to trust their intuition, trust in the potential and greatness of their ideas, dreams and ideals and teach each other that they do not need to fit in one place or with a certain group of people. Both are motivated to love each other as they are, and both are the other's breath of relief.

🌌North Node in the 12th house: “Meant to show you what you didn’t knew of yourself, meant to understand you”. A difficult to explain fascination that makes you feel like you've met them before, even if it's the first time you've seen them. An enormous desire in both of you to make your partner feel that they should never again be inhibited, that they should never again hide those sides of their personality that unconsciously fascinate you. They can dream a lot about each other, even before being a couple, they can feel what the other feels and can read the other's thoughts. This placement is not designed for everyone, since it is something without a doubt very intense. Both have trust in the other, and with this placement it is very likely that it will not be the first time that their souls meet. Capable of saying a lot with a simple glance, of catching your attention with a simple smile and racing your heart with just a touch. Feelings that seem serene if you look at them from a distance, but that are definitely felt intensely and become indescribable to the natives.

Things that I have noticed:

⭐More likely to be together for many years: In the 2nd house, 4th house, 6th house and 8th house.

⭐Hard to forget: In the 1st, in the 4th, in the 6th, in the 8th and in the 12th.

⭐Likely to always have a friendly approach to the other: 3rd house, 9th house, 11th house.

⭐Huge emotional impact: 1st house, 4th house, 8th house, 12th house.

⭐Playful essence: 3rd house, 5th house, 7th house, 9th house.

⭐Likely to love teasing: 3rd house, 5th house, 7th house, 7th house, 11th house.

⭐”I don’t get you, but I love you”: 5th house, 8th house, 11th house.

⭐Likely to feel what the other feel: 1st house, 4th house, 6th house, 8th house, 12th house.

⭐Likely to feel jealousy: 2nd house, 5th house, 8th house.

⭐Power couples: 1st house, 2nd house, 5th house, 8th house, 10th house.

⭐Friends to lovers: 3rd house, 6th house, 9th house, 11th house.

⭐Enemies to lovers: 1st house, 7th house, 8th house, 12th house.

⭐That creates the most beautiful couples: 1st house, 2nd house, 3rd house, 4th house, 5th house, 6th house, 7th house, 8th house, 9th house, 10th house, 11th house, 12th house and 12th house.

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belliameedacci · 5 years ago

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Mental Health Month Post!

Woot woot! It��s mental health month and I’m here to talk some seriousness about schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorder. Over the past year I have seen some troubling things. Not new things mind you but annoying all the same.

Schizophrenia DOES NOT equate to violence! Being schizophrenic does not make someone a violent person.

Being schizophrenic does not mean the person is hallucinating 100% of the time. God damn, if I had a dollar for every time some fuckhead said “were you really talking to so and so or were you hallucinating?” I’d be rich enough to afford my medication lmao (sad cries)

Another very annoying thing is being excluded from mental health help groups. Yes, this happens. You would think that a group advertising mental illness solidarity would be welcoming but no, even they are afraid of these illnesses and I’ve even been told “this group is for more NORMAL mental illnesses like anxiety and depression” (emphasis mine) like yeah great thanks for the stigma check. Don’t do that. Don’t stigmatize schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorder. It makes you an asshole.

Don’t use the word “schizophrenic” in place of the word “crazy.” Just don’t do it. It stigmatizes the illness which I’ve already covered but I’ll reiterate: It makes you an asshole. Anecdote time, someone posted a screenshot of an alarm app they use and noticed that one of the modes was labeled “schizophrenic” and they described the alarm as going off at odd intervals and getting louder with each alarm as they hit snooze. If you’re an app developer, don’t make schizophrenic a mode on your app when it has absolutely no relation to the illness.

Don’t suggest yoga to someone with schizophrenia or symptoms of schizophrenia. Don’t say “it’s about your mindset.” Don’t say “you don’t need medication.” Don’t think or call someone weak for being on medication. I know a lot of my fellow sz diagnoses will just roll their eyes and be like “yeah thanks” politely. But they’ll think you’re an asshole. They may even tell others that you’re an asshole. And they’d be right.

Now a part of this post for people with schizophrenia/schizoaffective disorder or people who think they may have schizophrenia/schizoaffective disorder.

Take. Your. Meds. Take your meds. Just do it. If you don’t like the medication you’re on keep trying to find the one that helps you function the best. In my experience, I compromised a little bit. I still have minor hallucinations but I can function, I’m not paranoid, I’m not delusional. Those were my more debilitating symptoms and I found a medication with minimal side effects that treats those more debilitating symptoms. If your medication treats your symptoms but makes you a zombie and unable to function, try something else but never give up. Never give up on trying to find a medication that helps you function.

If your doctor doesn’t listen to you, try to find a new doctor. Now I know this can be difficult. Literally every doctor in a 50 mile radius to me was not taking new patients. And yes I do mean literally because I called every. single. one. The only way I got to see a doctor was to go back to a doctor I had already seen years prior. So I get that it’s not easy. But a doctor who listens to you will benefit you so much.

Be your own advocate. Track your symptoms, track your side effects. I keep a log of things I want to bring up to my doctor. Keep a counter of how many times you experience a symptom or side effect, log how long an episode lasts if possible. Just take as many notes as you can about your mental health because when you talk to your doctor about it they will be more willing to listen to you and TRUST YOU. This is important because we’ve all been there when we really want to get off a medication or get on a specific one and they just don’t want to write you the prescription for whatever reason. If your doctor trusts that you will monitor your mental health they’ll trust your judgement more. And keeping logs and notes helps you remember certain things you want to talk about with your doctor.

Along with that. Do your research on medications. There’s a helpful website called drugs.com that will let you look at all the noted side effects of a medication so if you know you’re prone to a specific side effect you can weed out certain medications. It will also let you know drug interactions if you are on multiple medications. This will help your process of finding a good med mix move faster. And again, it shows your doctor that you’re taking an active role in your mental health. Which is always a good thing.

You are not god. You are not the center of the universe. You are not being followed by the CIA or the FBI or any government agency. You are not being followed by any agency or person or whatever at all. People cannot hear your thoughts. You are not a shaman. You are not a bridge to other realms. You are not a psychic. You are not telepathic.

Don’t fan the flames of other people’s delusions. If someone talks about a delusion they’re struggling with, do not feed into it. I see this so many times and it really pisses me off because people post about their delusions looking for HELP most of the time. They don’t need someone else coming in saying “yeah I truly believe we’re the chosen people because we can see blah blah blah and others can’t.” Don’t. If you’re gonna comment or tell someone something like that just don’t fucking do it. They don’t need that and truthfully neither do you. If they’re talking about it they are most likely looking for help and validation that it’s not real and they really don’t need someone telling them that it is.

If you are not diagnosed but you experience odd things that are happening, google it. One of the first signs that my illness was getting worse was not actually hallucinations but the delusions. I googled “I feel like people can hear my thoughts” and I got taken to a schizophrenia forum where they were talking about that. I googled “feeling really paranoid and anxious” and again more stuff on schizophrenia came up. I told my boyfriend about what I was thinking and feeling and he said “that’s not normal, that’s not healthy brain function you need to see a doctor.” So definitely try to find a doctor right away.

Okay I think that wraps this up. Thanks for reading!

#mental health #mental illness #schizophrenia #schizoaffective #schizoaffective disorder #mental health month #mhm20

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